Evaberry:
Men are beasts!!!

and some foolish ones will still come and say

maybe she insulted her husband or was running her mouth.


Bunch of predators

chill sis, don't be too emotional when things like this happen though am not saying he's right but I stopped been emotional about cases like this the day I heard my neighbors wife insulting d ever gentle pastor. d girl said words that could make d man hang himself even me Dat I was just hearing those words was boiling because d words don too much. d most exasperating thing is that d woman cried for more than five hours after d man was forced to beat her, when people came to settle d issue u have to hear how d girl was forming victim n majority of the people there blamed d man. so in cases like this I believe to every action there's an equal n opposite reaction

majekdom2:
even if she is about to kill you. Make una reason befor posting now. Tho this beating is clear hatred!!

you reason that way because of your upbringing and the society you grew up. In a civilised Society you don't beat a woman period
.

Thank you jaaare. Marriage is all about love. If you love your man for better for worse, then don't run your mouth at every provocation and men don't either

Tamass:
Usually, when I read tales of domestic violence, especially when i see a woman battered and bruised, i am quick to feel pity for her, and by default blame the man for being an 'animal'. I hate wife beaters with all my heart. But today's experience actually changed my view.

It started around 7a.m this sunday morning. My neighbor whose flat directly faces mine was washing his vehicle outside. I have never known him to be a violent man. He and his wife always argue and quarrel, but it has never been in the open. Just raised voices and exchanging unkind words. His wife walked in through the gate leading to the compound. As soon as she saw her husband, she started screaming, 'dirty man' 'pig' and some other obscenity in their local dialect. He was scolding the man for not wearing a slippers outdoors. He walking on water barefooted. The man told her to keep quiet and get him a slippers to put on. She continued on top of her voice. She insulted daylight out of the man. There was nothing this woman did not say, from the size of the man's joystick to the number of minutes he stays in the bedroom. Out of anger, the man poured the remaining water he was using to wash the car on her. She ran at him and gripped him by the collar almost choking him. At that point, myself and other neighbors who have been watching ran out to put an end to the fracas before it got out of hand. It took alot of pleading before she eventually let go and went inside. The man just stood there, i could tell that he was really embarrassed by the things his wife said. We advised him to be a man 'you know say na so women be na'.

Not up to 10 minutes later, the man started banging on the door to the house. His wife refused to let him in. She insisted that he must go and wash his feet thoroughly before entering the house, but there was no water outside anymore. The man shouted at her to bring water for him to wash up, but she kept insisting that there would have been water if he hadn't poured it on her. A shouting match ensued again, this woman continued her verbal assault. At about an hour later, when it was time to go to church, she came out all dressed, not knowing that her husband was around the corner. He came from nowhere and landed a slap on her cheeks. She swung her bag at him, and a piece of metal from the bag cut his Jaw. This man descended on his wife with series of slaps. She fought back violently. All the while i was observing through my window. She dipped her hand into the man's eye, and punched him several times. The man seemed to lose it completely and aimed a blow directly at her jaw. The woman screamed, next thing i saw was blood oozing out of her mouth. I ran out of my own apartment to calm things down. Behold she had lost two teeth. When we all came to separate them, the woman started wailing uncontrollably, saying that her husband has killed her. With the blood in her mouth and everything nobody even spared a thought for the man. I could see finger nail marks all over his face. His jaw was a bit swollen too.

I personally drove the woman to a nearby health center so they could clean her up. As we entered, we were greeted with questions 'wetin happen?' 'na accident'? She started crying and narrating how her husband wanted to kill her this morning because she insisted that 'he must wash his dirty legs before entering the house'. The Nurses there started berating men in general, with each person narrating different experiences of domestic violence they had encountered. They were all full of sympathy for her. It was the general assumption that the she married a devil as husband. I just sat there listening to them demonizing men and wondering. The husband even called me while at the health center to know if it was serious. He sounded really worried. He wanted to drive down to meet us. I just discouraged him from coming, because his wife has already made him out to be a devil here
Whenever the story of domestic violence is told, it is only narrated from the woman's perspective. We often see her in tears, with bruises all over. She plays the victim, because she is the one that usually ends up with bruises, even if she may have delivered the first punch. We hardly hear the man's side of the story, we don't perceive his emotion, he hardly has any physical scars from the encounter, so we assume he wasn't hurt. He is always the violent one, because he won't let you know that a woman's words broke him, he won't gather a crowd a to tell his story.

I'm totally against domestic violence, whether physical or verbal. I believe two people who claim to love each other should be able to settle issues amicably with resorting to abusive language and physical confrontation. If your differences are irreconcilable, then end the damn marriage and let everyone go in peace. I think the real beast is the man that will descend on a woman at the smallest provocation. But as a woman, If you instigate a physical confrontation, either by words or action, make sure you win the fight that ensues.

Next time i read or hear about domestic violence, with a picture of a battered and bruised woman, i won't jump into the 'Men are beasts' wagon, not untill i know the full story.
Copied.

Afonja men handiwork

[quote author=grayht post=61396327][/quote]
Lmao....Na so... She don forget sey she get papa..

Adaumunocha:
Yes we can be annoying when irritated but that's no justification for battery. Just look at d woman's face naw..

who irritates u people.

most of u are self centred and hardly sensitive to your man's ego

you will finish his carrier with your mouth and expect him to keep calm

a girl l know can nag for 40min but wont allow u to make a 2min statement

l learnt a guy had just engaged her last 2 month. l fear for that innocent guy

Na razak Wey pls for enyimba beat person like dis Dazz serious ooooooo... I jus weak? Na frustration jawe.. Money not comin like bfor.. Dose generation gave enyimba back to back ACL...

Rokia2:


So in the future if you have a disagreement with your husband he should beat the living day light out of you right?

Just listen to yourself. This coming from a woman is utterly disappointing.

Lol.. that lady is drunk

Unik3030:
chill sis, don't be too emotional when things like this happen though am not saying he's right but I stopped been emotional about cases like this the day I heard my neighbors wife insulting d ever gentle pastor. d girl said words that could make d man hang himself even me Dat I was just hearing those words was boiling because d words don too much. d most exasperating thing is that d woman cried for more than five hours after d man was forced to beat her, when people came to settle d issue u have to hear how d girl was forming victim n majority of the people there blamed d man. so in cases like this I believe to every action there's an equal n opposite reaction

Ever gentle pastor beat his wife?

lol. maybe he isn't ever gentle after all.

he should have walked out on her the moment she started running her mouth. I'm sure it wasn't the first time and may not be the last time she would run her mouth like that.

Marraige na by force?

Dasherz:

only a woman can bring out the beast in a man and tame it too .. married for 10 years and this is the first time this news is coming on net .. it is either she brought out the beast in him through her words or actions or the man is really a beast that just beats her for no reason

sometimes ladies gats learn how to massage a man's ego so you have him at the place you want him

I'm learning something today.

pweetiedee:


Ever gentle pastor beat his wife?

lol. maybe he isn't ever gentle after all.

he should have walked out on her the moment she started running her mouth. I'm sure it wasn't the first time and may not be the last time she would run her mouth like that.

Marraige na by force?

u can't understand since u were not dere, just pray u don't end up with frustrating partner. men go through domestic violence more than women but they learn to leave with it n it's only when they are pushed to d wall that they fight back but people don't always care what d man has been going through behind closed doors but once he hits her d whole world will start giving him names

Chubhie:

I'm learning something today.

what's that?

uzoormah:

No be una mouth

na God make us like that no be our fault

Blaqruby:
Guys, please take a chill pill. Don't ever judge a book by its cover. I live on the same street with these couple, I know this looks so bad for the guy who hits his wife but pls don't curse him. He was stupid for battering his lovely wife but .... I don't blame him. If u think he is wrong and stupid then I pray that u as a man, will be blessed with a wife like Bose and the femela prosecutor... May ur brother or male relatives or ur son be blessed with a woman like Bose as a wife.

Tell him I said he's a big idiotic wimp

pmc01:

Which una?
Women with their myopic generalization and unfounded conspiracy theories.


BTW, actress everywhere. Na so Nollywood wide reach?

untop this 1 blow na hin grammer full ground like this.. Issokay

Dasherz:

what's that?

The wisdom in your post.

holluwai:

Slow down

okay sir

Evaberry:
Men are beasts!!!

and some foolish ones will still come and say

maybe she insulted her husband or was running her mouth.


Bunch of predators

Including your father, brothers, uncles, grandpas and future husband right? Senseless comment I must say.

jdluv:
In the beginning it was not so.....What could have gone wrong with our marriage institutions. Where is the first love?

Dead

The best marriage is when the woman is dumb and the man is blind.

Too bad if not for infidelity

Some women can provoke and frustrate ubeven after patience.

No right thinking man will raise his hand to hit a woman she loved and fourrrrkkkkkkkkkk all d time

Mehn, this guy get iron hand o....but madam, wetin u do....?? Una own too much most times sef...

While women are what?

Evaberry:
Men are beasts!!!

and some foolish ones will still come and say

maybe she insulted her husband or was running her mouth.


Bunch of predators

bigtt76:
Thank you jaaare. Marriage is all about love. If you love your man for better for worse, then don't run your mouth at every provocation and men don't either

this guy died as a result of domestic violence. The wife stabbed him to death...u know no comment is heard when a beggar(men) dies, but the heavens themselves blaze forth over the death of a princess(women)

Evaberry:
Men are beasts!!!

and some foolish ones will still come and say

maybe she insulted her husband or was running her mouth.


Bunch of predators

fool u hv a fada will he just c ha and start beating ha ur type ah dah kinda girls dah men will be beating till u are old

Tamass:

Abeg which type your papa be?

You are not funny, so stop trying

mogboyelade:
Stupid man,you can not go and face may weather.

He's a footballer not a boxer. he can't fight may weather. maybe he should try Ibrahimovic

Macmoni:

fool u hv a fada will he just c ha and start beating ha ur type ah dah kinda girls dah men will be beating till u are old

This not a curse but a prayer. Your female children and sisters would receive a lot of beatings from their husbands.

Evaberry:
Men are beasts!!!

and some foolish ones will still come and say

maybe she insulted her husband or was running her mouth.


Bunch of predators

Remember to add *some* next time. Some men don't beat their wives..

dejavubobo1:

He's a footballer not a boxer. he can't fight may weather. maybe he should try Ibrahimovic

anybody that knows how to fight and beat someone to a pulp is automatically a boxer.

Evaberry:
Men are beasts!!!

and some foolish ones will still come and say

maybe she insulted her husband or was running her mouth.


Bunch of predators

If all men are beast that includes your father