chiraqDemon:

Bro it's why u are a man, women were built to talk, as a man u just ignore them. A man that beats up a woman for talking too much lacks self control and definitely should forsake his "man" title. On the other hand, if she had slapped him first I would support the man for retaliating, but I certainly wouldn't support him doing it in front of his kids, and I certainly don't support him beating her up and even going as far as drawing blood.

The man went too far in this circumstance. Both parties in a relationship should exercise self control in words and in deed. Women can talk no mean say there shouldn't be caution. Most times words have a very damaging effects on whom it's being addressed to. Words could lead to low self esteem, frustration, lack of confidence. There are better ways of handling a nagging woman, beating no be solution because the woman would always gain the sympathy of the public.

SAMBARRY:
how come when mobile police men provoke or talk to men anyhow driving on the way,they respect themselves despite the insults but in their own house they cannot even control themselves not even in the presence of the kids

I don't know what to say

Only God knows how many women going through this kind of pain but couldn't talk or doesn't have who to talk to

you slapped back??
you are a bastard

spokesboy:

Instead of you talkatives to talk about the evil spirits residing in you that causes your man to batter you, you are here talking about men. I pity you that your eyes of the spirit is blind. Mtcheeew

Tonto D and friends. The devil wanted to deal with the woman, hence she disrespected her husband... A nagging woman is the worst nightmare any man can have.

biacan:

Don't start what you can't finish boy

Bring ur head na, if i no go give u beta knock,ur brain go hibernate

Nedsnow:
Before you guys judge the man, please don't forget your drama Queen Tonto Dike that acted her own, made sure the public consume it, support her and also made them hate her husband.
According to her story, this is probably the first time they are having an issue like this. Why am i thinking there is a lot more to this than what we all just read.

Am not supporting domestic violence but a guy that has never ever beaten you before can not just start doing that infront of your kids and also on a Sunday. Something big is involved.

yeah right.The something big is the house help he's most likely screwing

Martin0:


Hahahahahahah I think these men should be checked..
They may be mentally ill no one knows..

Seriously ill

biacan:
Any man that tries this with me......should just get ready for what's to come his way

Madam the madam! Awon eyan Holyfield! You'll cook him menses abi and added with otumokpoand later earned the title widow! Pray for a God fearing and lovely husband and you too don't let your mouth ruin you

I don't give a bleep about what the hell happened!! Rule No 1: Never hit your woman. Rule No 2: Never hit women

The woman slapped the man first from experience though

biacan:
Any man that tries this with me......should just get ready for what's to come his way

u forgot that dead men don't count, sister, pray not for such thing to come thy way because u might not be alive to .........

Nedsnow:
Before you guys judge the man, please don't forget your drama Queen Tonto Dike that acted her own, made sure the public consume it, support her and also made them hate her husband.
According to her story, this is probably the first time they are having an issue like this. Why am i thinking there is a lot more to this than what we all just read.

Am not supporting domestic violence but a guy that has never ever beaten you before can not just start doing that infront of your kids and also on a Sunday. Something big is involved.

You're smart!

ssogundele:

Madam the madam! Awon eyan Holyfield! You'll cook him menses abi and added with otumokpoand later earned the title widow! Pray for a God fearing and lovely husband and you too don't let your mouth ruin you

woman beater spotted

atayad oooo

Ericaikince:
Even the president is less concerned about this.. What do u expect me to do??

Raising her voice in argument and slapping him back in the presence of the kids led him to do this. A wise woman knows when to speak and when to be quiet to her hubby. Men are naturally egocentric, what she did was to hurt his ego before his kids which made him apparently lost it. Women need to understand their limitations and embrace their femininty while using it to their own advantage in influencing the behavior of the man. Don't try to be his equal because despite what society wants you to believe, we are not the same. This is what our mothers understood hence a high rate of success in marriages.

No b person wey motor kill dem cram plate number o.... Leave his house for peace to reign at least for now.... Abusive marriages upandan... We women need to learn to control our tongue...

BeeBeeOoh:
u forgot that dead men don't count, sister, pray not for such thing to come thy way because u might not be alive to .........

Stop quoting me

greatnaija01:
heheheheehe when they say people should not RUSH into marriage but rather look very well before they leap into it. yet many will say NOT TIME....

The point here is not about rushing into marriage but it's about an evil act...Most married couples have argument but resolves it right away.Theres no marraige without an argument.I always advice married couples to try as much as possible to settle any argument in sunrise before sunset..Fighting your wife isnt a way to make her learn Infact fighting her will make her vulnerable..

In situations like this,I do recommend anger management class for couples like this..

To have a happy marriage,always pray to God daily to give you a happy home...(A HAPPY WIFE IS A HAPPY HOME)

As much as i do not subscribe to fights of any sort in both in relationship or marriage,the story is one sided....Lets wait until we hear the guy's side of the story...
Both tore each odas clothes and assaulted each other...hence i can conclude both were "wrestle-mania champions" before they got married...
Waiting for the other side of the story!!

joeeee240:


THE BLOOD I DON'T THINK HE PLANNED ON DOING THAT. AS YOU CAN SEE HE STOPPED WHEN HIS KIDS DREW ATTENTION TO IT

He didn't intend to do it?

u can imagine the level of beating that led to the blood right, first of all he didn't have to use ice block to hit her, that's like hitting her with stone and to me if u hit someone with stone I would think ur trying to murder the person.

If we are to totally believe her account, he went up and then came back to continue the assault, even when she tried to get away from the situation. I can safely say this man had intention of murdering her.

Tbh I don't care, even if she had slapped him first and he had to retaliate, a slap or two would have done the job, if he beats his wife like this, what would stop him from doing same to his kids. To me women are as fragile as kids and u cannot touch them the same way u would hit a fellow man in a brawl. The man is totally wrong and should spend time in jail for this, his marriage should be dissolved and the children should be taken from him and put in the custody of the wife and a restraining order should filed to protect the woman and kids. Fvcking animal.

powerfulengine:



he tore your cloth and his too....abi you tear his own clothes too......

me sef confuse...
I read that and knew it was a fight, unlike the explanation that started it.

Maddict:
whatever the other angle might have been, no man in his right senses should ever do this to his wife, so you keep quiet.

We need the two sides b4 we can talk,it's not by first to take picture and post on FB ,that we'll determine WTF happened.

chiraqDemon:

[s]He didn't intend to do it?

u can imagine the level of beating that led to the blood right, first of all he didn't have to use ice block to hit her, that's like hitting her with stone and to me if u hit someone with stone I would think ur trying to murder the person.

If we are to totally believe her account, he went up and then came back to continue the assault, even when she tried to get away from the situation. I can safely say this man had intention of murdering her.

Tbh I don't care, even if she had slapped him first and he had to retaliate, a slap or two would have done the job, if he beats his wife like this, what would stop him from doing same to his kids. To me women are as fragile as kids and u cannot touch them the same way u would hit a fellow man in a brawl. The man is totally wrong and should spend time in jail for this, his marriage should be dissolved and the children should be taken from him and put in the custody of the wife and a restraining order should filed to protect the woman and kids. Fvcking animal.[/s]

TRASH. YOU CANNOT PROVE INTENT WITH THIS WRITE UP

AfonjaConehead:


i think the woman is the fool for living with such a monster..wtf,cant she bloody survive on her own?!
Is she waiting to leave that monster in a body bag?
As for that nigggah monster,hes damm lucky that woman doesnt seem to have mean brothers. Damm,just look @tha,blood of the woman he once proffessed love for,mum of his kids!
I hate this.

This is the first time someone on nairaland has said this

Thank you for this,she had the effrontery to say that it wasn't the first time they've exchanged slaps ,meanwhile she's still married.

I hate women that depend on men,cos that's the plausible reason why she's still married.

EternalTruths:
Some men are fools.

Only weak men beat batter their wives.


That same idiot will keep quiet when a fellow man like him challenges him.


Useless man.

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masinga07:
Don't wait till he kill you madam. How can a man be whoozing his wife slaps in front of their kids. Oga o

True talk bob marley

biacan:
Any man that tries this with me......should just get ready for what's to come his way

Even me....ur special babe

omoiyalayi:


I don't know what to say

Only God knows how many women going through this kind of pain but couldn't talk or doesn't have who to talk to

the truth is that dv didn't just start in our generation.it has been going on for a long time as far back as the period of our great grandma's and grandma's but they've been enduring years of abuse because they didn't have anywhere to go but now we're in the information age or jet age where women can speak up and about it which is making the men uncomfortable and edgy.They expect women to accept being trampled upon because their father trampled upon their mothers and the mothers accepted it not knowing that things aren't the same again for the modern woman.

LUCKIE2014:
Raising her voice in argument and slapping him back in the presence of the kids led him to do this. A wise woman knows when to speak and when to be quiet to her hubby. Men are naturally egocentric, what she did was to hurt his ego before his kids which made him apparently lost it. Women need to understand their limitations and embrace their femininty while using it to their own advantage in influencing the behavior of the man. Don't try to be his equal because despite what society wants you to believe, we are not the same. This is what our mothers understood hence a high rate of success in marriages.

You went to a good school. Nice and coherent write up

Augustap:
Seriously ill

Just imagine person go just dey beat woman again hmmm na wa ooo

biacan:
Any man that tries this with me......should just get ready for what's to come his way

c'mon shut up! Gini ka iga eme?

Martin0:


Just imagine person go just dey beat woman again hmmm na wa ooo

Those kind guys no dey whisper talk more of shout for public. Them go just form dumb outside.