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Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 6:47pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
missyadorable:And you know this how?? My dear not all men have that tendency as you have come to unequivocally accept. There are actual men who have self control and there have been a great deal of men who have be sexually molested too, by your gender of course. 6 Likes |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by phiszo(m): 6:55pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
missyadorable:You're a fool 6 Likes |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by rufychuks: 6:55pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
The only women to have commented here actually see nothing wrong with this! Real double standards. 7 Likes |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 6:56pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Every Tom, Dick & Harry always have one or two childhood molestation story to tell. Then it was just women, is now norm among men. |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 6:56pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
biacan:To tie you down make my dog rape you dey hungry me 3 Likes |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 6:58pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
kay29000:yes! It was Rape! You should have reported it. And see how people and police would have laughed at you |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by klebson(m): 6:59pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: Lol..... Badt guy 1 Like |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by lenghtinny(m): 7:00pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
ivolt:The reason they hide is because of the attitude of the general public towards these kind of incidents, in other words stigmatization... Imagine you going to the police station to report this offence, what do you think will be the reaction of the average policemen at the counter will be? I remember earlier this year, two girls raped a boy in South Africa and recorded it on video. People were mocking the poor boy while others wished they were in his shoes (even on Nairaland). Anytime male rape cases happens in Zimbabwe, you see males asking how much is the ticket to Zimbabwe. This is due to the fact the society has painted sex as a big favor from the female folks to the male folks. So technically, A female cannot rape you according to them but when it comes to females, they start screaming consent. Rape is generally viewed as forceful sex by a male against a female victim. So it's kind of awkward seeing a female rapist against a male victim. Trust me the kind of stigmatization a male victim suffers is way more than that of a female victim. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by kay29000(m): 7:01pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
gypsey: Exactly! Police would have chased me out of their station with laughter. 1 Like |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by seangy4konji: 7:02pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Maybe this one has brain damage. I have been praying to God to give e a powerful woman to rape me no condom and establish my life properly. Spat from d sex,she wants to sponsor me and I will say no I have malaria?gid forbid. Please I need a rich woman and a load to set up something. Available to travel. Sa. London. Abuja. Ibadan Lagos and environs. Ready to die on your toto. Please Dm me. |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 7:03pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
kay29000:but if it was the other way round? 2 Likes |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by kay29000(m): 7:05pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
gypsey: I would have been locked up. 1 Like |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by chiamaka4g: 7:07pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Female rapist. May it be a free world when you get raped. Anumanu biacan: 1 Like |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Hades2016(m): 7:08pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
biacan:If a male guy comes into your room and UnCloth himself , will you call that taking you serious or trying to rape you ? Pls answer my 1 question ok |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by seangy4konji: 7:09pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Are you just knowing that most women are bastards and selfish. Quick to in their mouth and insult your ego,if u touch them,they scream weak man.they always want to eat the thigh of the chicken in the pot and give you bone.they will collect your sperm and energy and collect money again for it. The only way to live long is to eat with long spoon and don't give too bleeps or respect for them.espcially the few that deserves it. Some are carig. Very few. rufychuks: 2 Likes |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 7:09pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
missyadorable:i have never read anything so ignorant and stupid as this. so if your 16 years old brother comes home from school and tell you that his female teacher raped you will just laugh and say to him " that's what you wanted you should be happy " . You are ignorant! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by castrol180(m): 7:11pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
biacan: Your opinion has not been good since I have been viewing your comments. Very bad for a lady 2 Likes |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 7:14pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Lekwe ihe mna cho |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 7:14pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
kay29000:And that's the unfair and misogynistic world a man have to live in. Apparently we enjoy been raped because that's what we like. 1 Like |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by kay29000(m): 7:16pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
gypsey: Lol! |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 7:24pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
biacan: Those women must have been desperate ..I really don't see anything in him to attract a girl.. Ma just saying my two cents am sure we all have different tastes but as for me I don't see what s in him ..those women. Must really have been desperate |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by ivolt: 7:26pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
lenghtinny:The world is not perfect and anybody who wishes to make it right will have to pay the price. There is, unfortunately, a price to pay for change(in this case stigmatization). I have never come across a story where change was effected without sacrifice. The average policeman will probably laugh you off as being unserious, but it is your determination that can alter their perception. When you saw such heartless comments, did you make any attempt to correct the ignorant dolts making it? What many people who averse to such reactions do is ignore the comments while others vow to retaliate if such happens to a female in the future. Neither of such approaches work, the effective way to combat such is outright condemnation. Remember, there is nobody whose name is "society", whatever attitude that is prevalent in a society must be benefiting most people in such environment, it is up to the few to point out the absurdities of such acts
It doesn't matter what kind of stigmatization a victim will face, I bet the first female rape reporter faced a substantial stigma(they still do). If it continues to be swept under the carpet, nothing will change. Even this guy who refuses to name the aggressor is part of the problem because when she reads this story and realised she was the one, the message she will get is that she can continue her harassment and no man will have the courage to name her. Rights are not given freely, they are forcefully snatched. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by GODWIN78(m): 7:31pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
what you try to avoid, always stare you at the face why, |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Originalsly: 7:35pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Men are from Mars ...Women are from Venus.... a man is not suppose to be complaining about such stuff. When it comes to having sex...man is naturally the agressive one.... the predator... loves to chase and conquer.... while women love to be chased. This is like the prey throwing itself at the predator... the sheep throwing itself at the lion...and the lion is complaining . If he is not in the mood or whatever.... as a man he should know how to back her off.... end of story. Sissy. |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Uchefame(m): 7:35pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
How did you load the card? |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Sierusvirus(m): 7:38pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
missyadorable:That means a woman complaining about molestation is a scum and a stupid woman because that's what she has being looking forward to have. Think before you type please. 1 Like |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Ritajovy(f): 7:39pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
I have been hearing of feminist. Another term might just be springing up #masculinist! We should all be masculinist (in chimamanda's voice). Una no go kill me! |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by henrycantona(m): 7:42pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
chai wen person like me they look for who go rape me I pray the day wey pucci go fall on me |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by boujeeassnigga(m): 7:42pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Seriously who's this? |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by boujeeassnigga(m): 7:45pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
kay29000:you still had some more juice left in you? Ma nigga 2 Likes |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Talkwell: 7:45pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
#MensRightMatters This guy needs to give a TedTalk ASAP |
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by pedrilo: 7:47pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
biacan:because of this u have said, a man is coming to take u serious by raping u, this will happen wen u dnt expect it. |
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