I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years two weeks ago, but we still live in the same apartment, sleep on the same bed but we don't touch each other, I still cook and we eat together, we're working on becoming a good friends, I feel a big relieve broken up with him, I broke up with him bcoz, he doesn't make me feel the real me, the little exes I had are better than him, he always makes me remember my past relationships, he never bought me anything on Valentine's, birthday's or any celebration, I was the one who had bought him gold necklace, and other things in the past, I stop buying him things when I sees that he's not reciprocating it, I went to my closet two weeks ago, all the clothes, watches, shoes that I have from seven years ago till date are bought by me, he's not that romantic either, he want me to get pregnant first before we get married. God used me to make him what he is today, he wasn't working when I met him, but today he can buy anything he wants, with his money, I thank God for that. its good I experienced this bad apple for me to appreciate the good ones. I know my next will be my husband, I know if I sacrifice what I sacrificed to a good man, everything will be perfect...., I don't know how to tell his mom, his mom called me yesterday that I refused to come visiting, she loves me, but I love my life more

DiamonJ:
I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years two weeks ago, but we still live in the same apartment, sleep on the same bed but we don't touch each other, I still cook and we eat together, we're working on becoming a good friends, I feel a big relieve broken up with him, I broke up with him bcoz, he doesn't make me feel the real me, the little exes I had are better than him, he always makes me remember my past relationships, he never bought me anything on Valentine's, birthday's or any celebration, I was the one who had bought him gold necklace, and other things in the past, I stop buying him things when I sees that he's not reciprocating it, I went to my closet two weeks ago, all the clothes, watches, shoes that I have from seven years ago till date are bought by me, he's not that romantic either, he want me to get pregnant first before we get married. God used me to make him what he is today, he wasn't working when I met him, but today he can buy anything he wants, with his money, I thank God for that. its good I experienced this bad apple for me to appreciate the good ones. I know my next will be my husband, I know if I sacrifice what I sacrificed to a good man, everything will be perfect...., I don't know how to tell his mom, his mom called me yesterday that I refused to come visiting, she loves me, but I love my life more

Ok

I Never Hear Thing Kind Thing Before

Just Imagine That You Had Done All These For Me... My Dear! Your Life Will Never Remain Same

DeadRat:
I Never Hear Thing Kind Thing Before

maybe bcoz we're used to seeing each other every day, we are trying to get over each other, marrying him will not bring the best in me

You are simply deceiving yourself; you just need a window period to be a hoe, flirt with other guys...while still keeping this poor boy as an unfortunate rebound.

In civilised climes, you two can opt for an open relationship rather than this nonsense.

It's either you've totally effeminated that man or he just enjoys being cuckolded.

I weep for the sissy men of this new generation.

DiamonJ:
maybe bcoz we're used to seeing each other every day, we are trying to get over each other, marrying him will not bring the best in me

if You Truely Did All That For Him And He hasnt Done Any For You,please Run Away. Dont Even Stay In Same House Again... There Are Chances You Might Start The Relationship Again

NwaAmaikpe:


You are simply deceiving yourself; you just need a window period to be a hoe, flirt with other guys...while still keeping this poor boy as an unfortunate rebound.

In civilised climes, you two can opt for an open relationship rather than this nonsense.

It's either you've totally effeminated that man or he just enjoys being cuckolded.

I weep for the sissy men of this new generation.

Can Anything Good Come Out Of You Mister Man... Ogini ne mme ishi gi... Or ewegi oburu

What's the age difference. U sleep in the same bed, how long has this been.

,i think both of u still really love ur selfs,broken up but "still leaving under d same roof" and even sleeping on d same bed,eat d same meal cooked by u my dear let go off pride and teach him things u miss from ur past relationship let ur past be ur past i bet u if u live him my dear it wont be easy

it's a gud tin u realised he is nt worthy of u bt stl living wt hm is a no no. Both hm and d apartment hv become exes 2 u so pack out and move on. I dnt no y any sane man wl wnt a lady 2 get pregnant b4 paying her price, as if dat wsnt enoff, he has bin stingy for 7years,babe u tried shaaaa, dump hm and his apartment asap

Seven years and he didn't buy anything
And he wasn't romantic either??

So you just dey manage the relationship like that
I'm not understanding oh!!

That you chose to spend your money on him at your own free will is no guarantee that you guys would end up marrying each other.


Lets always remember thisss..

NwaAmaikpe:


You are simply deceiving yourself; you just need a window period to be a hoe, flirt with other guys...while still keeping this poor boy as an unfortunate rebound.

In civilised climes, you two can opt for an open relationship rather than this nonsense.

It's either you've totally effeminated that man or he just enjoys being cuckolded.

I weep for the sissy men of this new generation.

you most be a stupid and senseless man, I have been with this guy for 7 years, I gave him money to established his business, what does it takes to appreciate a woman who has been there for you, when u had nothing? plz get ur brain checked

The guy really nid the baby Badly buh u aint giving it to him...
He feels lyk letting you go buh his guilty conscience aint gonna free him for wasting 7years of an innocent lady....

u guyz nid to see a Doc. ASAP...

Kaxmytex:
The guy really nid the baby Badly buh u aint giving it to him...
He feels lyk letting you go buh his guilty conscience aint gonna free him for wasting 7years of an innocent lady....

u guyz nid to see a Doc. ASAP...

marriage is not everything, if you are buying little things and making a woman who stood by u happy, I will be happy to have as many babies as he want, make ur woman happy first and see if he will not give u the world

deafeyez:
What's the age difference. U sleep in the same bed, how long has this been.

I'm 36 and he's 40

You are tired of the relationship buh that 7years still dey ring for your head....

the question popping up in ur brain is...

What if i date another guy and situation never change?
Where do i start from after 7years

You are thinking the guy will chase you out one day which might not happen

DiamonJ:
maybe bcoz we're used to seeing each other every day, we are trying to get over each other, marrying him will not bring the best in me

But why are you guys still living together.. I dnt get it.

LifeofAirforce:
That you chose to spend your money on him at your own free will is no guarantee that you guys would end up marrying each other.


Lets always remember thisss..

u are very right, not all relationships lead to marriage, I'm even happy his doing well, that I didn't left him bcoz he has nothing, I left him after God has used me to make him what he is today

laliga01:


But why are you guys still living together.. I dnt get it.

the apartment is mine, I broke up with him doesn't mean I should throw his belongings out, he needs to settle down and get his place

DiamonJ:
the apartment is mine, I broke up with him doesn't mean I should throw his belongings out, he needs to settle down and get his place

eiyah

Kaxmytex:
You are tired of the relationship buh that 7years still dey ring for your head....

the question popping up in ur brain is...

What if i date another guy and situation never change?
Where do i start from after 7years

You are thinking the guy will chase you out one day which might not happen

I don't think there will be any relationship that will be worst than this for me, I have had 3 relationships before him, and I must tell you that this is the worst relationship I ever been into

From all u said. D only reason u are breaking up with him is because he dosn't buy u things. I swear that's d only reason u were able to give. Let me tel u. I as a person do not intend to buy any gal friend a damn gift. It's just a matter of volition. I know I can buy d world for my wife(when I get married). So u better don't labour in vain. This one u say d guy is now financially alright. Later u people will say it's only Bleep boys that are coming yr way. After breaking up with responsible guys over little issue

The guy still geh mind dey chaow your food. Sha no poison the niggie...

raylord:
From all u said. D only reason u are breaking up with him is because he dosn't buy u things. I swear that's d only reason u were able to give. Let me tel u. I as a person do not intend to buy any gal friend a damn gift. It's just a matter of volition. I know I can buy d world for my wife(when I get married). So u better don't labour in vain. This one u say d guy is now financially alright. Later u people will say it's only Bleep boys that are coming yr way. After breaking up with responsible guys over little issue

what makes him a responsible guy? by not appreciating my effort in the relationship, I cook, I wash his wears, I stood by him when he had nothing, I established him with my hard earned money, if am not good enough to be his wife by now after 7years, I don't think I will be good enough again, so the earlier I go look for that person who will love me for the real me, and smbody who wants me to get pregnant first before he marry me, I'm not desperate for a husband, when the right person comes, I don't think I will stress myself before everything clicks

7 yrs and 2 weeks hmmm. This sounds like an igbo film

solbinho:
The guy still geh mind dey chaow your food. Sha no poison the niggie...

I'm not his creator, so I can't kill him, he knows am a very nice person. it's just that he doesn't deserve my love, I gave him time more than he deserves

raylord:
From all u said. D only reason u are breaking up with him is because he dosn't buy u things. I swear that's d only reason u were able to give. Let me tel u. I as a person do not intend to buy any gal friend a damn gift. It's just a matter of volition. I know I can buy d world for my wife(when I get married). So u better don't labour in vain. This one u say d guy is now financially alright. Later u people will say it's only Bleep boys that are coming yr way. After breaking up with responsible guys over little issue

God bless u bro! because he has given u any gift, u wanna quit. Hw wil u expect me to buy u gift. who are you Gf, Not wife.

I just deh vex for you ..