DiamonJ:
the apartment is mine, I broke up with him doesn't mean I should throw his belongings out, he needs to settle down and get his place

DiamonJ:
what makes him a responsible guy? by not appreciating my effort in the relationship, I cook, I wash his wears, I stood by him when he had nothing, I established him with my hard earned money, if am not good enough to be his wife by now after 7years, I don't think I will be good enough again, so the earlier I go look for that person who will love me for the real me, and smbody who wants me to get pregnant first before he marry me, I'm not desperate for a husband, when the right person comes, I don't think I will stress myself before everything clicks

DiamonJ:
I don't think there will be any relationship that will be worst than this for me, I have had 3 relationships before him, and I must tell you that this is the worst relationship I ever been into

nikkypearl:
eiyah

QueenSekxy:
I just deh vex for you ..

DiamonJ:
I'm 36 and he's 40

26Clueless:
Lol I pity u .... besides instead of breaking up with him why don't u jeez sit him down and have a decent conversation abuh d ongoing issue with u guys

Prognose:
You met him 'when he had nothing'

You have been feeding him, clothing him, and your provided a roof over his head. It is safe to say you have been fucking him as well. Its very possible you have done one or two abortions self.

My dear na wife you be already na, he don see you finish abi wetin you want again?

You have been living with a man not your husband for seven good years, what urge or urgency will he have to want to put the ring on it? You're always available, I'm sure you have practiced every sex style under the sun with him, what do you want to impress him with again? Why would he want to marry you, seriously? When you already provide every every for him, food, money, sex, etc.


This quarrel you are quarreling with him now is married people's quarrel in case you don't know.

"He's not romantic" , " he has never bought any clothes for me in seven years" . Did you ever give him the chance to struggle for himself and be a man?

You are the breadwinner in this relationship in case you don't know. The thing he is doing to you is what girls do to guys. Your money is for both of you while his money is for himself.

My advice to you. Buy an engagement ring and propose to the fellow! Am serious.


(If it was those days I would berate you for living with a man that isn't your husband. This is the consequence of doing such things, the man don see you finish now even if you drive him from the house he has enjoyed you very well and very unofficially. What elders see sitting down children of this generation cannot see standing up instead they call it old-fashioned morality. But its not those days. These days its "your life, your rules". )
Cheers.

Prognose:
You met him 'when he had nothing'

You have been feeding him, clothing him, and your provided a roof over his head. It is safe to say you have been fucking him as well. Its very possible you have done one or two abortions self.

My dear na wife you be already na, he don see you finish abi wetin you want again?

You have been living with a man not your husband for seven good years, what urge or urgency will he have to want to put the ring on it? You're always available, I'm sure you have practiced every sex style under the sun with him, what do you want to impress him with again? Why would he want to marry you, seriously? When you already provide every every for him, food, money, sex, etc.


This quarrel you are quarreling with him now is married people's quarrel in case you don't know.

"He's not romantic" , " he has never bought any clothes for me in seven years" . Did you ever give him the chance to struggle for himself and be a man?

You are the breadwinner in this relationship in case you don't know. The thing he is doing to you is what girls do to guys. Your money is for both of you while his money is for himself.

My advice to you. Buy an engagement ring and propose to the fellow! Am serious.


(If it was those days I would berate you for living with a man that isn't your husband. This is the consequence of doing such things, the man don see you finish now even if you drive him from the house he has enjoyed you very well and very unofficially. What elders see sitting down children of this generation cannot see standing up instead they call it old-fashioned morality. But its not those days. These days its "your life, your rules". )
Cheers.

coolestdude01:
Chai, you've said it all.

coolestdude01:
Jesu!! You're 36. He's probably scared u might have difficulty giving birth. Not saying this is a justification for his wanting to impregnate you before marrying you. He's also not likely to change in the aspect of showering u with gifts but the choice is yours to make to either accept him the way he is or move on. For all we know, he might even be gunning for a way younger lady to marry.

coolestdude01:
Jesu!! You're 36. He's probably scared u might have difficulty giving birth. Not saying this is a justification for his wanting to impregnate you before marrying you. He's also not likely to change in the aspect of showering u with gifts but the choice is yours to make to either accept him the way he is or move on. For all we know, he might even be gunning for a way younger lady to marry.

DiamonJ:
I don't care anymore, I'm pregnant for someone I met a month ago, I got what I haven't gotten from my ex in 5 mins, he doesn't know am pregnant, that was why I broke up with him, if he had been a good boyfriend, by now we should be taken care of at least 3 kids, I have no problem

Kkposky:
what Assurance do you have that your next relationship will be better than this one. My dear, you are not a saint. you have your flaws also. .. drop ur ego and make ur relationship work. Tell him what you want.. There's no perfect relationship.. All relationships are function of the effort we put in it. if u had played ur part well. the relationship would have been 50% perfect.

coolestdude01:
Are u kidding me? I wish you all the best. And i hope the new guy is worth it in the end.

DiamonJ:
I don't care anymore, I'm pregnant for someone I met a month ago, I got what I haven't gotten from my ex in 5 mins, he doesn't know am pregnant, that was why I broke up with him, if he had been a good boyfriend, by now we should be taken care of at least 3 kids, I have no problem

DiamonJ:
I have discussed that countless times, and I got tired, I hardly pray for him these days, I channels my prayers to people who makes me happy, how can I marry a man I can't pray for.

DiamonJ:
I don't care anymore, I'm pregnant for someone I met a month ago, I got what I haven't gotten from my ex in 5 mins, he doesn't know am pregnant, that was why I broke up with him, if he had been a good boyfriend, by now we should be taken care of at least 3 kids, I have no problem

Chommieblaq:
Some stories I read in nairaland just makes me laugh, more like comedyland.


You cheated on your relationship of 7 years, got pregnant and finally broke up with him.
Why in Heaven's name are you guys still living together?
Cheated and got preggy right under his nose , you don't even have regard for your so called new beau. In a relationship with him while you living with another, or he's not aware that you living with your ex?
Only God knows that kind of man that will be comfortable with his girlfriend longing with another man and doing "wifely" duties for that man too..

26Clueless:


Sis after dis confessions of yours I'm speechless.....let see how dis on fold

Chommieblaq:

Bits , you quoted the wrong person.

26Clueless:


Dan Allah no vex

DiamonJ:
I don't care anymore, I'm pregnant for someone I met a month ago, I got what I haven't gotten from my ex in 5 mins, he doesn't know am pregnant, that was why I broke up with him, if he had been a good boyfriend, by now we should be taken care of at least 3 kids, I have no problem

QueenSekxy:
I just deh vex for you ..

Chommieblaq:
Some stories I read in nairaland just makes me laugh, more like comedyland.


You cheated on your relationship of 7 years, got pregnant and finally broke up with him.
Why in Heaven's name are you guys still living together?
Cheated and got preggy right under his nose , you don't even have regard for your so called new beau. In a relationship with him while you living with another, or he's not aware that you living with your ex?
Only God knows that kind of man that will be comfortable with his girlfriend longing with another man and doing "wifely" duties for that man too..