Kobicove:
Truly women get away with a lot of things under the guise of being "the weaker sex"

sarutobie:

You see the hypocrisy of the female folk? That is why I take whatever they say with a pinch of salt..and even when they cry foul,every wise male should..

biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him serious

for those of you quoting me........... we in a free world democracy for that matter........ if you don't like what I said kindly move out from this thread

Loyalblak007:
I thought these things happen in movies alone

shaklisco:
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sarutobie:

You see the hypocrisy of the female folk? That is why I take whatever they say with a pinch of salt..and even when they cry foul,every wise male should..

biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him seriously

Xteljay:

society do not pay attention to the sexual harrasment of men because they are known to have more strength than a lady. Just imagine urself tellin ur friend u were raped by a lady what will they do to u

RisMas:
Then, You should show her the power of your prick na

XYZo:

They will laugh at u and call u a weak man

And they will always attack u with that when u are all in gatherings

missyadorable:
How can a man complain about being offered sex?
something they always want
something they do every possible thing to have?

A man complaining of molestation with sex is a mad man.....

Period

missyadorable:
How can a man complain about being offered sex?
something they always want
something they do every possible thing to have?

A man complaining of molestation with sex is a mad man.....

Period

SmartyPants:
If he was serious he should have called the police/hotel security for the so-called fan...

Anyway we males should not expect women to fight for us as we do for them.

ivolt:
I hate this kind of sissies.
You were sexually-harrassed, you kept mute and did nothing about
it so the stupid woman can be called out and sanctioned.

Even when you decided to share your story, you couldn't name the offender
but you kept harping on about double standards.

Are your audience supposed to be able to read your mind?

RisMas:
Then, You should show her the power of your prick na

supersystemsnig:
Must people talk...? Suddenly everyone wants to talk

kay29000:
Of course there will always be double standards. I remember a couple of years ago, I was in my room, nursing a hangover from the night before, and my friend's female friend came into the room. I opened my eyes and was shocked to see her standing there. I had seen her for the first time a few hours before then when my friend asked me to help her turn on the TV/DSTV in the parlor as he was leaving the flat.

So, there she was in my room, asking me if I am okay and all that. I told her I had a little too much to drink last night and needed to sleep it off, then she asked if she could lie down beside me on the bed. I thought I wasn't hearing well, but I sha nodded. She lay down beside me, and I turned around to continue my sleep. A few minutes later, she tapped me, I turned around, and she slowly kissed me. I didn't want to embarrass her, so I played along...long story short, we had sex.

If it was the other way around, the female in the equation would have shouted rape. Because, really, that was like rape to me.

NwaAmaikpe:


Onyeka Nwelue : "A Powerful Lady Asked Me For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan and I refused"

Me :

MarieSucre:


sarutobie

dainformant

vcente

Here is one of your fellow men, we are not the enemy. Men need to sit and have a reorientation on what male sexuality really means to them. This is just the first page o. Just imagine other comments on other pages.

My heart goes out to all the male victims of sexual harassment and rape. Together to fight this till the end.

MarieSucre:


He took the first step. He spoke out. What you're doing is tantamount to silencing him. Let him talk. Let him open the discussion on men being victims of sexual assault.

biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him serious

for those of you quoting me........... we in a free world democracy for that matter........ if you don't like what I said kindly move out from this thread

MarieSucre:


We should all fight for each other, afterall I also have a brother, an uncle, male cousins and male friends, and you all are important to me.

ivolt:


He did nothing but engage in mass incrimination.
Who is the powerful lady?

Society doesn't move forward through discussion but through action.

SmartyPants:


Nice sentiments. Unfortunately you are in the minority.

I don't really mind the fact that women stick up for each other given that as a group women have been oppressed for so long. What irks me is when men say things like "it is impossible for a man to be raped". When male members of society make statements like these, you realize that the male is actually completely vulnerable particularly in very cultural patriarchal societies like ours.

sarutobie:

Point made mariesucre...men have done a lot in corrupting the earth..no sense of right and wrong anymore..utter lack of morality on the part of many men.

MarieSucre:


Yes trust me, men have a lot of work to do among themselves. Let me give you a quick example if I may.

There was a time women would not leave their matrimonial homes even under sever abuse, girls would never talk about rape because of the shame of being seen as "spoiled", we women had to first shut down the regressive voices in our communities, the women who would advice other women to endure abuse or women who would slut shame women, after we were able to suppress this did we now face the problem outwards effectively.

Men need to do this work. There are a lot of men out there that are physically, mentally and sexually abused. Please do not shut them up. let them have a safe arena to speak. Please forget how this particular man put it, just take the message in it.

MarieSucre:


That is not true, men have also done a lot of good, and there is still a lot of right in the world, op's post has shown us that.

Men have been socialised into reacting a certain way to certain issues, same with women, and if the learnt it, then they can unlearn it. The silence around male sexual assault victims must end. No more!

MarieSucre:


sarutobie

dainformant

vcente

Here is one of your fellow men, we are not the enemy. Men need to sit and have a reorientation on what male sexuality really means to them. This is just the first page o. Just imagine other comments on other pages.

My heart goes out to all the male victims of sexual harassment and rape. Together to fight this till the end.

MarieSucre:


sarutobie

dainformant

vcente

Here is one of your fellow men, we are not the enemy. Men need to sit and have a reorientation on what male sexuality really means to them. This is just the first page o. Just imagine other comments on other pages.

My heart goes out to all the male victims of sexual harassment and rape. Together to fight this till the end.

vcente:
my dear, I don't see women as the enemy.I just don't like double standards. Rape is rape, whether it happened to male or female. But the criminal law in Nigeria has no provision for the male scenario.

SmartyPants:

I hear you sis.