Horlufemi:
Love knows no tribe nor stereotype.

fvck parental blessings. I will run away and may my bride and they won't hear from us ever again.

Bunch of racists and tribalists. People like them have no space in my family.

Nword22:


Which muslim? Are you drunk, nothing like Muslim Igbo.

tossie101:


If e pain u go and die.
U people are too tribalist and dirty.
Same way u dnt allow ur daughters marry igbo same way i wont marrt a Yoruba.

BE U THE LAST MAN ON EARTH.

Adebowale89:
Nigerian parent with their mentality but if we bring oyinbo wife/husband they we welcome it warmly even if they are old


my dad always state this fact, if u like marry Hausa, igede, Igbo, efik or nupe but at least she must possessed a degree in a tertiary institution

I know it will definitely be the mother that will oppose it, men hardly have problem when it comes to marriage. my Mom once oppose to getting married to Igbo but when she meet my girl and having close relation, she agreed and fall in love with her


for the fact that some Yoruba has done sth wrong to u, doesn't mean they're all bad and samething as Igbo. different people with different character&different
background


I wish nairaland will have a "love" button to click when you see comments as sweet as this

op, am sure the both awaiting bride and groom didn't have any close relations with the parent before proposing a marriage. in a inter tribal marriage, longtime close relation is important to the parents of both parties

tommynico:
Ondo state yorubas are more liberal than those of osun, oyo and oguns......they even encourage such inter-tribal marriages between themselves and other tribes especially igbos, edos, but not with Hausa and fulanis, if you try ahm, na your own wahala be that.

thunderbabs:


Who tell u da one...IBO Alfa dey

blackbeau1:
they'll forgive you, yes but they'll never forgive your partner . They'll always accuse him or her of influencing you to do the wrong thing

Nword22:


That one na guy man jare

tommynico:

You sound illogical and foolish at thesame time, is it only one family that there is in Yoruba land, some families as we both have it on both sides are lacking intelligence and reasoning when it comes to matters such as this. A family might reject the proposed partner of their wards the same way some family would gladly accept the proposed partner of their children not minding which part of the world they come from.

tossie101:


My dear asin ee..
this is a story for another day.
U have said it all.
Cant marry outside my tribe biko.
In situations like this.
The ladiea suffers d most.

Nazeren:
Tribe matters to me. Can never marry an igbo shiit.

tossie101:


If e pain u go and die.
U people are too tribalist and dirty.
Same way u dnt allow ur daughters marry igbo same way i wont marrt a Yoruba.

BE U THE LAST MAN ON EARTH.

Slymonster:


Smh..Are you aware you can marry from the same tribe and still not feel welcome by the man's family,infact this days it's very common.
Having that mentality you just point out and feel life is a bed of rose with the same tribe, instead of a family that respect you and fun to be with..Your in for a very big problem.

tosyne2much:
If her family members are against it, just try your best to erase any stereotypical belief they hold against your tribe but if things remain the same, kindly go for another lady to save yourself from family wahala

tossie101:


U are the foolish one here.. by trying to make my choice for me.
As there are yorubas girls who dont like marrying igbo also igbo girls who dont like marrying yorub men..I AM ONE OF THEM and its my choice due to some reasons and experiences.

So Whats ur concern

tosyne2much:
I still don't understand why A GROWN UP MAN will give his family members the chance to sit down to decide or discredit whom he should marry or what tribe he should marry, on the ground of stereotypes and tribalism . It's nauseating I must say

tossie101:


Yes u are right.. but there are higher chances to face that ordeal in intertribal marrial marriage.
I have seen many,i have also indirecty experinced it (my brother).
That was the hieght of it becoz we nearly lost him due to heartbreak..ts a long story shaa.

But left for me, everybody should stick to his/het own trible.
Its even somewhere in the bible.
U know?

tossie101:


Yes u are right.. but there are higher chances to face that ordeal in intertribal marrial marriage.
I have seen many,i have also indirecty experinced it (my brother).
That was the hieght of it becoz we nearly lost him due to heartbreak..ts a long story shaa.

But left for me, everybody should stick to his/het own trible.
Its even somewhere in the bible.
U know?

tommynico:


With all due respect to your person, where in the bible? And that it happened to your brother doesn't mean it would happen to you....but it's ya choice.

Nazeren:


Haha yoruba girls aren't dirty. But better than igbo girls who are known to be sluts.

bigpicture001:
don't help convincingly them for any reason..tribe matters..if sh goes ahead...she would most likely regret it..no p may arise from the guy himself..but know it that in africa..we marry the family, not just the partner..and moreover...get it strait into your head...YORUBA'S DONT LIKE iGBOS..period..!!!!

coluka:


Who doesn't know that you people are the dirtiest and most promiscuous girls in the country? When it has almost become a tradition in Yoruba land for your girls to give birth to bastards in their father's house. You rarely find any family in Yoruba land that doesn't have a girl who was impregnated outside wedlock. The married ones are not any better, sleeping around with other lovers like dogs on heat. Useless people. Who will even think of marrying disgusting things like you? You're free to Go and meet your fellow irresponsible Yoruba men

tommynico:

Igbos are more tribalistic than yorubas because it is easier for an igbo man to marry a Yoruba lady than it is for a Yoruba man to marry an igbo lady.....the reason why I quoted you was because you raised yourself as if you are more intelligent and better than those beautiful igbo ladies that have found a home with a Yoruba man.....change your mentality please.

tossie101:


Lol are u kidding me... pls tell urself the truth.

I neva rememberd saying im more beautiful or intelligent .

tommynico:


With all due respect to your person, where in the bible? And that it happened to your brother doesn't mean it would happen to you....but it's ya choice.