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Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by adetayo234: 12:10pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
prestigiouslady: You should start believing in casting and binding Ó. You forgot the story of Daniel, whose blessing was delayed by prince of Persia? Wasn't the ways of Daniel pleasing to the Lord? Do you know how many years poor Daniel had to pray before the blessing came? Maybe his prayers would have been answered earlier if he had casted and binded. Please wake up from your spiritual immaturity and knowledge -deficiency; start casting and binding today! |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by prestigiouslady: 12:18pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
adetayo234: That I don't believe in casting and binding, or in speaking in tongues doesn't make less of a Christian and doesn't make spiritually immature. And to correct you, I ain't knowledge deficient. I know what I believe and I hold on steadfastly to it and it has helped and brought me thus far. She knows what works for her, but it will be unfair if she uses her own prayers to disturb another's peace of mind To each his own. Thank you. 7 Likes |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by salt1: 12:19pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
adetayo234: What a weird understanding of Scripture! You paint God as one puny idol whom you have to command and arm twist into answering your prayers. How about prayers being answered in God's own good time and in keeping with HIS plan for each individual life? 4 Likes |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by adetayo234: 12:19pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
prestigiouslady: Still, the kingdom of God suffers violence, and the violent takes it by force. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Chigorkizz(m): 12:27pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
This Is Strong O. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by carsy(f): 12:28pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
bender: she shd pray nd neglect her marriage? haba.. she's being too spiritual. too much of evrytng isn't good. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by thunderbabs: 12:31pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Yoruba's will call ur type of wife "iyawo Oran" 1 Like |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by prestigiouslady: 12:34pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
adetayo234:Violence in form of noise and disturbance ![]() violence at the detriment of her own home and making the spouse irritated? 4 Likes |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by adetayo234: 12:35pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
salt1: Check Isaiah 45:11, where God said we should command him. Do you remember a scripture that said "every tongue that rise in judgement against me, I shall condemn?" That should tell you that the Kingdom of God suffers violence and you need to be violent to take it. Buroda, please let your understanding and mindset about God be guided by the scriptures and not by what you think with your human reasoning |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by rekeson: 12:37pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Your marital problem require an Orthodox but very practical solution. Here is what you do, before bedtime, engage her in vigorous love making. As in serve it to her so had that she will be totally gassed out. Then allow her to sleep. Trust me bro, she will only move her body when it is morning. That is how I handle troublesome babes. I believe this solution will definitely work for you. Thank me later.... 3 Likes |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by colins100: 12:40pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
my question to u sir is Didn't u knw all these befor you married her,i mean her kind of prayer,her core belives,were u not fully aware,was u marriage arranged,y are u complaining now wen ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by adetayo234: 12:40pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
prestigiouslady: I'm not referring to the post. I'm referring to your understanding about casting and binding. You need to cast and bind for sure, but that doesn't mean you should disturb everybody with your prayers. Prayers should be communication between you and your creator. It's all about wisdom. 1 Like |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by fowlyansh181(m): 12:42pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
wrongchoice:i am not saying you are poor OP, or mean it as an insult or anything, but poverty or atleast not having enough is what's affecting this marriage. If the house was big enough there wouldn't be a need for all this nor you even noticing how she prays , neither would she disturb your peace , also you would work and be so busy you hardly even have time for her shenanigans. If she had quite a lot on her plate to handle and not just being a private school teacher , she would have been exposed to realize some of her actions are quite childish. I am not saying what she is doing is right at all neither am I cursing you out or saying you are poor . But I do know for a fact , talking and talking would change nothing as maybe she has less activities to occupy her time and neither are you firm to make her understand she is being crazy .. if that's all she does and she doesn't take her madness outside then I would advice just ignore her and tolerate her . Na she go tire .. or best get a divorce .. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by prestigiouslady: 12:44pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
adetayo234: If my own form of communicating with my father is through my silent ways, good. Everyone knows how he deals with his own God Peace |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by adetayo234: 12:46pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
prestigiouslady: It's like you were too emotionally blinded to read and understand what I wrote, right? |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Kaslyni: 12:46pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
adetayo234:Ahahahaa... I like you my friend! 1 Like |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by YelloweWest: 12:46pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
wrongchoice:Just when u think you've heard it all about marriage... Lol. Your matter pass me bros. But keep the stories coming. So others can learn. If what you are saying is true then the devil is using your wife not God. Prayer to God cannot scatter a marriage. 1 Like |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by eceemon(m): 12:46pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
My humble advice for you instead of you washing your cloths in the public... Seek for counselling from your Rev. Or pastor or wherever you worship, as well as sit down with this woman and have a real time for both parties to express their self freely with out misunderstanding each other, express what you feel is wrong... Also remind her of the sweet side of hers that made you fall in love and choose to spend the rest of your life with her... Also try politely teach her how to pray, watch whom she's associating with... Lastly, Seek advice from your papa,mama and pray... 1 Like |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by YelloweWest: 12:53pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Newboss:Yes he is for real!! When men cheat what advise do u guys give? Cool better. Dress better. Appreciate him. Love him etc... So guy show love to ur wife even when she may be wrong. After all she is praying for him! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by lastempero: 12:53pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
What I will tell you milght not go down well with you but I must say it.take her to psychiatric hospital. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by kendraloops: 12:59pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
You just described my MIL. Everyone was worried too till she was taken to a mental hospital and was diagnosed with some illness. She's been in drugs since then, though she's not perfect now but it's much more better than when it all started. hers was even worse than your wife's. so much wahala, I can't type all..... take her to a psychiatrist. she'll resist you strongly and fight with all her power, but just do it. don't involve anyone o especially her church people, that'll much worse. if she refuses to take her drugs, codedly slip them into a cup of tea for her. don't let her know o. but I must tell you, it's not easy at all. I dey salute my FIL. the man goes through a lot. please if you know you don't have the strength for it, find ya square root cos it's a really long journey. good luck brother. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Newboss(m): 1:01pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
YelloweWest:I hope you marry a man who is a chronic cheat so that you can apply what you outlined above to him |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by nikky2012(f): 1:03pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
My mum is a member of mfm, Who truly forget after prayer there is a marriage to care for , my mum frustrated my dad to his grave, the poor man died last week and she became a happy widow. Bros be wise n shine ur eyes 4 Likes |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by redsun(m): 1:04pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Was it an arranged marriage? Did your pastor impose her on you? You should have known what you are getting into,her mindset,during courtship. Birds of the same feathers flocks together. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by nikky2012(f): 1:06pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
My mum is a member of mfm, Who truly forget after prayer there is a marriage to care for , my mum frustrated my dad to his grave, the poor man died last week and she became a happy widow. Bros be wise n shine ur eyes.coz my dad once told me she needs to go for a brain test 1 Like |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by salt1: 1:06pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
adetayo234: Don't pick verses in isolation. No Scripture is of private interpretation. Every tongue that rises against you in judgment you shall condemn is the heritage of the servants of the Lord who are living to please Him, not those railing abuses at imaginary enemies. The kingdom of God is taken by violence: those who want it will pay ANY price, including martyrdom to attain it. If you continue with this casting and binding of imaginary enemies, you may end up a psychiatric case like op's wife. I'm taking time to write this, not so much for you whose pastor's interpretation of the Bible must be very rigid, but for some others who may benefit from a Christianity that is devoid of fanaticism and eccentricity 9 Likes |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by YelloweWest: 1:06pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Newboss:Hahahaha. I'm already married to a good man. ![]() Give it own advise for cheating husband and nagging wife. Stop wishing doom on others! |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by nikky2012(f): 1:07pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
My mum is a member of mfm, Who truly forget after prayer there is a marriage to care for , my mum frustrated my dad to his grave, the poor man died last week and she became a happy widow. Bros be wise n shine ur eyes.coz my dad once told me she needs to go for a brain test ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by luckydion(m): 1:07pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
GIVE ATTENTION TO YOUR WIFE AS HUSBAND AND STOP COMPLAINING... SHE HAS TO FIGHT WITH THE ONLY WEAPON SHE HAS.... SOMETHING LED TO THIS... IF NOTHING HAPPENED PRAYER POINTS WON'T BE SO.......... DUTY OF A HUSBAND 1 SEX 2. PROVIDER 3. ADVICE/CANCELLING (AS, HUSBAND, ADVOCATE, HER SPIRITUAL LEADER, PROTECTOR, TEACHER ETC) If u as husband fails in any of these then, your wife seeks help outside, which may share the love she has for you. many to talk about these but time is not a friend... best of luck 4. LEADER BOTH PHYSICAL AND SPIRITUAL (be your wife prayer warrior, boast her faith... let her have confidence in you, trust you) |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by adetayo234: 1:12pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
salt1: You are having very strong problem with simple understanding. The origin of this discuss is that you said humans can't command God, and I've given you Bible verses that showed God wants humans to command him. Please don't infect me with your spirit of confusion. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by luckydion(m): 1:16pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
adetayo234: ya... you can command God concerning His SOn.. and His word (Isa.45:11) |
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