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Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Nobody: 1:28pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Shey its you people that are looking for God fearing lady na, that's how one fine guy said he won't date me cos I don't attend church ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by luckydion(m): 1:34pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: why don't you attend any church? Of all What God has done for you.... what you have seen and what you are yet to see, is it that you still not convinced about the coming of Jesus Christ... You ought to be an ambassador for Christ... Pls.. see to this, and choose a church among the numerous churches... serve God with the whole of your heart and your life will not remain this same... 1 Like |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Nobody: 1:38pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
And who told you I don't believe in God, Hahahahah, lots of people think church attendance is what will take people to heaven ,no bro, what's important in this life is 1)peace with your self 2) peace with the creator 3) peace with your neighbor but we focus on the number 2 and skip numbers 1 and 3 This is why we have so many churches yet evil and iniquities abound. We are not even at peace with our selves not to talk of being at peace with the world luckydion: 8 Likes |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by charlsecy(m): 1:46pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
colins100:You can discover a person prays from 12am to 3am, and then from 5am during dating? |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by oliray1: 1:55pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Please pray, it works. Pray to God to open her eyes. Don't argue with her it would make things more difficult |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by ReneeNuttall(f): 2:00pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Taiwo20(m): 2:04pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
looks like a case that needs psychological attention |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by chieni(f): 2:16pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
God help us with this Christian race, different doctrines. even the Bible says vegence is mine, no one is saying don't pray for against your enemies, but not to the extent of saying they should die. we are even an enemy to God sometimes due to our attitude to him, but he forgives Us. prayer shouldn't be to an extent that you are disturbing the next person with it. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by salt1: 2:24pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
adetayo234: Lol! Good luck |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Nobody: 2:30pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
solozo72: She might even end up killing the husband while he's asleep. I pity the OP. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by mechanics(m): 2:39pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Don't loose hope God will change her life. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by mechanics(m): 2:40pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Memories12411:not good for you to judge others, if you know what they are preaching in a church does not conform to the Bible standard you quit. it's left for others to follow suit. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Eaugusta(f): 2:53pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Brothers and sisters before you marry pls be very sure you are compatible with your partner. My one cent OP I think she needs counselling, pls get her a good counsellor |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by camaraderi(m): 2:53pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
fowlyansh181: Why have so many rooms when you can only sleep in one room, Some people don't want to be rich but comfortable. Acquiring wealth is sometimes a disease. The good news is that the OP realizes that his wife is sick and just like some folks pointed out, speak to her parent and if it persists, abeg move out of the house and if she is smart she will come to her senses but if not try to forget her. She is a religious fanatic and not a christian. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by fowlyansh181(m): 3:03pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
camaraderi:he wouldn't need to move out of the house if he had so many rooms like I said earlier , he would have moved to another room and ignore her. And when I said having a bigger house , I didn't mean he should build a big house or anything, I meant something bigger than a one room apartment as he said .. 1 Like |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by VULCAN(m): 3:13pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
I felt the same way, I suspect he is a teenager Newboss: |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Duru009(m): 3:18pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Are u saying u haven't touch ur wife for six months now! |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by lonelydude: 3:38pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
This part of your story is too vague to agree with you that your home is collapsing. There is surely more to this. However, I would like to remind you that the family that PRAYS TOGETHER STAYS TOGETHER. Also, CAN TWO WORK TOGETHER EXCEPT THEY AGREE? Your wife's prayer style should NEVER BE a reason for any collapse in your home. My Recommendation: 1. Keep talking to her about it. Study the scriptures together and you show her the part where it was said that her prayer style is not appropriate for God's children. 2. Keep praying for her SECRETLY so that God can give her understanding on the appropriate prayer styles. 3. Don't let her prayer style interfere with your role as a Husband and Father. 4. Be patient. Marriage is for better, for worse forever but if you apply the above three, everything will be fine. Remember you are the Captain of your family (ship). If you allow your anger to get the best of you and walk away, the (family) ship will capsize drowning your wife and daughter. Of Course, you'll definitely regret this and give account to God for the family he gave you. MY RECOMMENDATIONS ARE BASED ON THE BIT YOU HAVE TOLD US. Your family is blessed. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by luckydion(m): 3:46pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: dear.... really, but church plays apart but not all.... however u hav to identify with one.... is very important for life worthy of living... |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by redsun(m): 3:49pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
mechanics: It is too much mosquito bites that troubles Nigeria. Acute malaria retards the brain for real. 2 Likes |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Nobody: 4:14pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
luckydion:that's what you were made to believe, I don't share that same line of thought, have a nice day |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Skmoda360(m): 4:35pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
madgoat:are you an enemy or are you pained? |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by valentineuwakwe(m): 4:47pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
na wa oooo....so sure say ur wife no be mammy water? |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by shadeyinka(m): 5:07pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
wrongchoice:You did not make a wrong choice! You were attracted to here spirituality when you started dating her. You didn't know the extent of her deepness. Nevertheless, yours is a minor problem. Many men on hearing this would wish they can exchange their wives with you. The major problem in any marriage has to do with TRUST and CREDIBILITY issues. Since that's not your problem, you can easily solve it. The first question is WHY is your wife like this? She is fighting a spiritual battle for which there seems to be no immediate solution in sight (she could be suffering attacks at night). WHAT should you do? Since you can't pray like her, try to Understand her and buy an ear muffler to drown out her travailing prayers. OR join her fight her battles: two shall chase 10,000. Would you destroy your marriage because of your wives excessive prayers? Yes!, she needs education to know that our enemies are not flesh and blood. Show her by the scriptures that we are to pray "for" and not "against" our physical enemies. But we are allowed tobpray dangerous prayers against demons and other malevolent spiritual entities. A good Marriage is about having a good shock absorber. Work on yours in this case |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by adorablevincy: 5:13pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Please I don't know you Mr. poster, but I want to beg you for one thing. Could you please quit this topic here and if it's a true life situation send me an e-mail and I will give you my contact for a private counselling free of charge. You and your wife need just a few things. You don't need to loose your marriage because of a praying wife. Many desire one but don't have. Send me an email here vmaxipro@gmail.com let's take it from there. Bless you. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by bhfroyale(f): 5:15pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
wrongchoice: Try spending more time with her. How about more pampering.. like human hair (http://www.bhfroyalehair.com.ng) every now and then? Hope these helps. #pity! |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by SURElee(f): 5:55pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Abeg drive that woman commot for house for 1 month back to her father's house. How can she be praying death, accident upon people related or closely related to you? She probably needs a change of job, that private teaching job isn't exerting her enough. Which person working a stressful and demanding job will be doing all those negative prayers. Guy, set your home in order jare. How can you be sleeping in the sitting room and for what? And just imagine, a husband has been sleeping in sitting room for months now and it hasn't occurred to the wife, something is wrong till the day she finally pushes him to the waiting arms of a another female outside and she/all others will blame the external woman. Some women use their own hand hands to spoil their own garri. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by mechanics(m): 6:09pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
redsun:it's well my brother. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by phiszo(m): 6:22pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
wrongchoice:Please take her to a psychiatrist. VERY IMPORTANT. Before it get worse. #talking from experience. |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Jay1988: 9:15pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
kenzindax: what do u want to hear ?? haaan haaan !! |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by prestigiouslady: 9:47pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
nikky2012: Wow...so sorry for your loss... some women just frustrate their husbands and kids in the name of religion. Most people forget that prayer without work is DOD...work on the marriage and pray along |
Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by gemale(m): 11:59pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
bender:You read that she prays for calamity to befall people & you encourage it even though it's contrary to ephesians 6:12? She curses & you encourage it? Is it that Jesus didn't tell us to love our enemies, do good to those that hate us, bless those that curse us & pray for our persecutors? Or wasn't it Jesus who asked God to forgive His murderers on the cross? Wasn't it Stephen whose last words was a prayer for God not to lay his blood on the charge of his murderers? Hmmm!! The Christianity we practice nowadays is something that doesn't seem so Christlike. Please let her direct her prayers on how to die to flesh & be transformed to the image of Christ. Also if she feels led to pray overnight she shouldn't keep her husband awake. It's called selflessness & consideration. 1 Like |
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