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I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by MiracleOparah(m): 10:48am On Oct 20, 2017 |
I had to share this story here after I read it on [url]naijasinglegirl.com[/url] View my bloghttps://thisguyscorner.com I was just healing from a bad breakup and the loss of my job but a friend invited me to her birthday bash and I saw it as a way to socialize and forget my sorrow.I was all bubbly as I got to the venue at Victoria island and I was very relaxed and enjoying the party when I had to use the restroom.I excused myself and rushed off.On my way back I walked into this very fine young man who stopped me and told me of how he has watching me from a corner of the restaurant and has been praying I have a reason to be alone so he can talk to me.I just love his charisma and scent so much that I can’t explain how we started talking immediately like old friends until the ringing of my phone reminded me of the gathering I needed to get back to but we exchanged numbers and started talking almost immediately on whatsapp. The party train moved to a club where it got all groovy and almost everyone was on the dance floor but I sat in a corner and was busy chatting with my new friend(Ola).It all looked like a dream when a guy we came with tapped me and told me that my friend has left told him to drop me off in her hotel room that she will call me. I wonder why she could not inform me when she was leaving and why ask a complete stranger to drop me off.I was so angry but I kept my cool and told me not to bother that I can take care of myself.I took a walk outside the club to try see if I can sight a cab when my new friends call came him and he asked why I have not replied his last message so I told him all that happened and how angry I was he told me to just stay where I am that he will be there in a jiffy. I didn’t even care that I just met him with how security conscious I have always thought I was. Ola picked me up to his hotel room and gave me his shirt to wear and we talked late into the night until we were ready to sleep and he took the couch while I took the bed and I felt so blown away I woke up to breakfast which he ordered and we bought ate. Ola told me he has never had a best friend but he thinks I am going to be his first. I was just nodding like a mumu and smiling to all he was saying that morning.I told him I needed to leave and he gave me his jalabia to wear and off we were to my one room self contain apartment in surulere. Ola is in his late 30s,Single,Tall,Dark,Averagely Handsome,Top executive of a telecommunication giant,Lagos based,Only child and his parents are late,only few extended relatives he calls family. Early morning conversations,late nights calls,dinner dates,lunch deliveries,beach nights… I never asked him if he was seeing anyone because I felt there is no traces of that and I don’t want to seem pushy or desperate so I keep enjoying the flow and he keeps telling me he is mine forever. We talked about so many things like our dreams and aspirations and goals. Ola started spoiling me with gifts and money and even introducing me to his friends and colleagues. I broke up with my ex boyfriend because he wanted the cookie and I wasn’t ready to give up my virginity even though I did not plan keeping it till marriage,I only wanted to give it to someone who really deserves it.Ola was giving me all I wanted emotionally and it feels so natural that all I can call it is true love.So, one Friday night at his place I decided to go further by giving him the cookie he was so gently and loving that I was not tensed not until he met the barrier and looked up to me in the most loving way and told me that I am his most valuable treasure and with that he rammed to me and I felt a sharp pain which turned to pleasure as he kept on making sweet love to me. He finished and got up to clean up when he saw a stained bedsheet and he immediately kneeled beside me and asked to confirm If what he was seeing was what he thinks it is. I nodded and he started talking of how surprised he was.He bathed me and changed the bedsheet while he laid me down and I slept off happy and satisfied. Ola started showing me more and more of love and affections and he got me a brand new Toyota Venza and 5million naira to kickstart my business idea that I always told him about all just to mark our 2months anniversary,it felt too good to be true and I kept thinking it was a dream. Due to the sudden change in my lifestyle,finances and all I had no choice but to tell my mum about him. She insisted on meeting him and it was until he answered all her questions till she was satisfied that she gave her approval of the relationship and thanked him for all he has been doing for me.With my hair and beauty place/spa,nice apartment on the island and a car yet Ola keeps spoiling me with vacations and cash into my account and my family and friends kept wondering how God changed my story.Only very few people were aware of my relationship with Ola because I have always been an extreme introvert and he was also one so except for outdoor appearances no one knew much about us. 6months into our relationship,Ola told me he needed to be in the US for work and we spent the whole week going on dates every night and all and he transferred 1m into my account to cover my expenses until he his back and he is meant to spend 2weeks.I followed him to the airport and he promised it won’t be more than 2weeks cos the highest we have done without seeing each other is 1week so it was a big deal to us.He chatted me up on whatsapp when he arrived his destination and promised to keep in touch. I didn’t hear from him for the next 48hours,no calls and his whatsapp messages were not delivering and I was so worried but I promised myself to go talk to someone at his workplace if he doesn’t talk to me after one more day.Few hours later he called,told me he was sorry for our inability to communicate and that we need to talk,he went on about how I am the best thing that has happened to him his whole life after his ‘kids’.To say I was shocked about the word ‘kids’ was an understatement,I was practically frozen.He kept blabbing about how he never expected to meet someone like me and that he has always done one night stands to keep body and soul together but everything suddenly became different with me that he promised himself to keep me no matter the condition.He has been married for 7years and his wife is a Nigerian but has always been based in the US and only visited Nigeria once a year while he visits like every 3-4times in a year. He has 2kids aged 6 and 3 and now his wife has been alerted by someone in Nigeria about me and now she wants him to end it with me or hand him a divorce and he never see his kids again.I could not utter a word throughout the phone call and all I kept doing was shedding silent tears,he pressed forward to let me know that he will never break my heart so he wants me to work with him on a plan.He wants me to talk to him wife and tell her he has explained everything to me and that he broke up with me and I also understand his reason so I am letting him go and ending my relationship with him and never contact him ever again and he will also promise his wife to carry out her threat if she finds out he ever goes back to me. He says we will not communicate or see for 3months just for the wife to be sure and the he will relocate me to Ogun state where his wife knows almost no one and we can continue our relationship.I hanged up the call and kept wondering why he did this to me,the man I love,the one I gave my virginity to,the one I see as my last bus stop,the one I have planned our wedding in my head,my knight in shinning amour.why will Ola ever hurt me this bad,I lag in my bed crying for 6hours straight and trying to figure out the signs I ignored but there was none.No ring,no pictures,no strange calls,no reason to make me even snoop on his phone,no sign of anything in his house,I even had to use his laptop for a night and still I came across nothing.He has never been a social media person so there is no Facebook or Instagram to check just LinkedIn and WhatsApp.Pictures on his phone are mostly beautiful vacation destinations and luxury things he has his eyes on and very few pictures of him and few of his friends.How come I never saw any sign?How possible ![]() My phone started ringing again and picked up and he was the one calling again to tell me to pls just do what he asks of me and then we can talk when he is back.I was too speechless to say anything so I just dropped the call and continue crying until my big sister called and told me she is at my gate…oops!I hurriedly washed off my face and tried my best to look normal but I broke down immediately I let her in and she comforted me for so long before I could share my pain with her and she told me everything will be fine.My sister made sure I packed my bag and followed her in the evening when she was going to her house so I won’t be alone and brooding.3days later,Ola has blocked me on whatsapp since we last talked,blocked my number,and was practically not in contAct with me that was when even though it was hard I made up my mind to let go and try and live and also been with my sister who won’t let me think for even 5minutes and also takes me around to everywhere she goes to I had no choice but to start been happy even though I cry myself to sleep every night.i focused more on my business and even though I was hurt by all he did,I consoled my by been grateful for how he changed my life for good even though all I wanted was true love. One week later,I woke up feeling all sad that I resumed my crying and decided not to step up that day until I heard my doorbell ring and I opened up to find Ola at my door.I wanted to shut the door on his face but he kissed me and carried me to my bed and all I did was cry while he bleeped me.The sex was over and the feeling of nothingness I felt afterward make me believe that all I had for him that I called love is just lust and it has all vanished.Fresh tears kept coming cos I can’t even understand why I will allow this man touch me again after how much he hurt me.He told me stories of how he missed me so much but couldn’t contact me because of all he was going through over there and how he has settled his all and accepted his wife’s terms all for the sake of his kids and how he still won’t ever let me go bla bla bla but I still knew deep inside me that it is over.He promised to come take me out for dinner and he left.I sent him a lengthy text of how much I appreciate all he has done for me and all but how we just have to put an end to all he thinks we have,I explained to him that the fact that he wants to keep is kids shows that he loves his family and fears his wife and I will just be an evil person to still be the one making his attention divided.I told him of how he lived well without me for 2weeks while I was all heartbroken,sick and sad and that this means I am just a toy he can do without and how all he has done for me while we dated was enough compensation for whatever he took me through so I forgive him. I blocked his number afterward and he didn’t try to see me or talk to me so I guess I was just as unimportant to him as I think until I got an alert of 3million from him after few days and I didn’t even say thank you or acknowledged it.I sold my business and I went on a vacation to Dubai for 2weeks to clear my head,I got back,relocated to Ibadan,and started my new business.I am living a contented life and waiting for my very own Prince Charming who will be mine and mine alone.Yet I still feel hurt when I remember but I still do believe Ola was an angel sent to make my life better even though relationship has never been meant to be.Now I am smarter,wiser,better and more committed to my relationship with God. P.S I am friends with Ola now and we talk/chat once in a blue moon. ANONYMOUS |
Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by stigmond(m): 10:48am On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Homeboiy: 10:49am On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by ossaichika(m): 10:55am On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by rerhji(m): 10:56am On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Berrymoss(f): 11:02am On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Blackhawk01: 11:19am On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Dasherz(f): 11:50am On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Nobody: 11:59am On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by MiracleOparah(m): 12:55pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Blackhawk01: 1:28pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Nobody: 1:30pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Dasherz(f): 1:32pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Blackhawk01: 2:04pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Dasherz(f): 2:10pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Nobody: 2:21pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Nobody: 2:23pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Dasherz(f): 2:23pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
thepussyhunter:Lol You know what I'm doing and I will continue till I find her ![]() or I'll stop if you Just give me a hint of who she is. . |
Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Dasherz(f): 2:25pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Nobody: 2:36pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Divay22(f): 2:38pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Homeboiy:It's worth reading... I read it from NSG blog not quite long. |
Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Homeboiy: 2:39pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Dasherz(f): 2:40pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
thepussyhunter:Hmm So P And D are out and on a B then I'm real close? come on show some love here na ... I sight an L too then E .. Just pic one letter so I can be real close |
Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Divay22(f): 2:42pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Homeboiy:Lol.. Alright.. Hoping you win. |
Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Homeboiy: 2:43pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Nobody: 2:53pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Dasherz: would an "M" solve the mystery ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Nobody: 3:00pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Dasherz:Lol.. just continue oo and goodluck |
Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Divay22(f): 3:01pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Homeboiy:Don't worry, you will. |
Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Charleschidera(m): 3:16pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Can Someone pls summarize this for me? |
Re: I Was His Sidechick But He Was My Angel by Akious2k2(m): 9:42pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Summarize in 1 paragraph, please |
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