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If My Boyfriend Doesn’t Beat Me A Day, I Will Be So Sick / Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? / I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back (2) (3) (4)
I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by hergists(f): 7:10am On Oct 21, 2017 |
I have been feeling very bad for my attitude especially the recent one that led to this post. Please don’t bash me. Read this with an open mind. I’m a lady and this is my confession. I am really regretting my past deeds . I pushed him to the wall. He loved me but I paid him back with pains. I know what it means for one party to be conscious of their words while the other isn’t always like that. I am really regretting my actions right now. I shouted at him. I hurt him badly. I made him feel worthless. I wronged him. I frustrated him so much that he can no longer tolerate me again. Please, how can I get him back ? I miss him so much. I miss the real him. I miss hid jovial part. I miss his childish ways of life. The way touches me and make me feel loved even when we aren’t together in the same place. I am fond of being with him. I am so fond of playing with him. I don’t want to miss those naughty plays with him. I’ll go crazy if he leaves me for a moment. I am so used to opening up to him. I am so used to being naked with him. He’s my best friend. My companion. My father. My brother. My son. My play mate. My touch mate. My cute mate. I miss the jovial acts in him. Ever since this incidence started, he has refused to take me back as a friend . He no longer call me in the morning. He no longer call me pet names. I am now like a total stranger to him. He isn’t close to me again. He now sees me as a monster. Please how can I bring him closer to me? I went to the extreme of taking actions that has landed me into trouble. Yes. He explained his reasons for not coming home. I know that it’s because of his state of finances and all. But it’s still not easy being without someone you cherish so much and have lived with. I am so into him. Yes, when it all happened, I didn’t take things easy with him. I said hurtful words to him. It doesn’t mean that I am not a wife material. I am. It’s just that my weakness is my cross. And I know that he has tolerated me a lot. I am not stubborn. I am not mad. I am not violent. I have learnt a lot. I have learnt my lesson. Please don’t hurt me the more. I am sick. I can’t walk well. I am short of blood. Because each time I stand or walk, I feel like I’m just going to fall soon. I am really sorry. Please. My head is aching. My tummy is hurting. I am feeling pain all over. I feel that I am just about to lose him. Yes my mouth got me into trouble. And I know that. He brought our mothers into this very matter. That means it has really gone beyond his power. Please cover my weakness. I can’t afford to do the things we usually do together. I want him. And I need him so badly. If he leaves me or distance himself from me, I might do something silly to myself. I don’t want to be called his ex. I have been called someone else’s ex. I do not want to be called his. I want him because he’s the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh. I take away every form of pride and arrogance. Please accept my apology. My heart is bleeding. My heart is crying day by day. I have been advised by my mother never to be rude to a man again most especially to him. I am becoming lean because I have no appetite. I have lost my appetite for food. Okay. Let’s assume that he wants me to pay seriously for my deeds, but he shouldn’t go too far on me. I am losing hope already. I am weary already. Everyday I wake up, I feel like I am dreaming. I am so lonely. I can’t work this journey all alone. I wish him the very best. I never wish to see him go through pain. Yes! I overreacted. But I am promising him that it will never happen again. I still feel pains all over my body. I am not saying he’s the cause. Please don’t get me wrong. He has done nothing. I just need him to show me love. I wake up every day still thinking that I’m dreaming. I have really learnt a lot from him. He really built me to be an independent woman. My mother loves him. My father is not excluded. My siblings are also involved. They are all looking forward to the day he will put that ring on my finger. He changed a lot of things in me. He changed my life completely. Each time I think of him, my heart beats wrongly. I am dying. I am about to do something terrible to myself. I can’t love any other person like him. He made me a full grown woman. I’m looking womanly right now. If he leaves me now, I’m going to miss him so much. His face. His sweet hands. Please come back to me love. I love you so much. He gives me food when I am hungry. He clothes me whenever am naked. Whenever am sick, he gives me the best care. Whenever I am so occupied with house chores, he gives me an helping hand. With him, I’m just a girl that needs to be loved. I love him so much. Please accept me back as your sister and as your better half. Source: http://hergists.com/my-man-is-tired-of-my-attitude/ 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Nobody: 7:19am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Touching. |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Nobody: 7:21am On Oct 21, 2017 |
good love poem!! where can i buy dat love poem book op ![]() 22 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Nobody: 7:32am On Oct 21, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:this is cruel ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by banjicom(m): 7:33am On Oct 21, 2017 |
![]() oya let us sing for you: london bridge is falling down falling downn x2 my dear lady ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by luminouz(m): 7:33am On Oct 21, 2017 |
So u have this in mind n yet ur mouth got u into trouble!!!! I don't know why some women just take their men for granted!!!! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by IneedSugarMumy1(m): 7:42am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Wetin this 1 de write self ![]() Who are you missing ? Hope its not buhari 2 Likes |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Nobody: 7:48am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Op, when i was reading your epistle, i was wanting to get more hints on what you did, but all i was read looks eulogy for guy. buh i have a suggestion, if you had begged him severally and he refused, sister he doesn't love u. take heart and move on with ur life, there is someone who can please you like he did. he is not the only apple on the tree dear. a guy who is adamant to forgive a fellow being, is more likely to be deserted, why? he could cause u pain when u truely trust him. as in in the unforgiving part. humans are not perfect! sis take heart! and move on. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Burger01(m): 7:48am On Oct 21, 2017 |
You don't know what you have until it's gone. As you lay your bed na so you go lie on it. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Mccallistas(m): 7:50am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Send this to him 2 Likes |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by jashar(f): 7:51am On Oct 21, 2017 |
What is wrong with this one? ![]() |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Mccallistas(m): 7:52am On Oct 21, 2017 |
chinedubrazil:Your head is paining you 2 Likes |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Nobody: 7:58am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Mccallistas: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Lalas247(f): 8:04am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Well happy you acknowledged u did wrong ... Dear there is nothing u can do! If he is no longer interested then please let him go .... you will hopefully find another If a man truly loves you ... some will even swallow their pride and take you back, the fact U’ve been begging and no response has told you your ans ! If it’s meant to be he will return .. Focus on improving yourself , work on loving yourself first! No person will take that lonely feeling away you have to be comfortable being by yourself for a little while ...... hence why you have attitude problem because you will keep having this issue till u fix it .... Cc mynd44 lalasticlala as guys any advice ? |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Mccallistas(m): 8:08am On Oct 21, 2017 |
chinedubrazil:Is not my problem, just concerned... |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Nobody: 8:13am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Nofavors I ain't still taking you back!!! You're a crackhead! ![]() |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Nobody: 8:14am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Mccallistas: concerned? lol buh you have to lay off me, that is my opinion and beside you don't have to tell me that my head is paining inorder to inform me that you are opposing. all you have to do, tell me where i am wrong. 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Bahddo(m): 8:15am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Why did she not send him the poem, instead of disturbing the world with it? If you can't tell us the offending words you told him, what's the use telling us about the aftermath? Beating around the bush in a million words, without really saying anything. ![]() Like anyone truly cares. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by VERDA: 8:16am On Oct 21, 2017 |
chinedubrazil: I disagree with you, the OP in her post implied he is the best thing that has ever happened to her and admitted her bad attitude pushed him away, love entails loving with ur whole being, ur heart as well as ur head, this means sometimes love means having the courage to walk away, ur not supposed to be killed by ur beloved lol , if she truly loves him, she will look inwards and be better for "herself" and loves sake,if this happens I am sure the guy will know and accept her back as opposed to wanting him back to fill the loneliness and the cycle of psychological abuse beginning after the initial make up euphoria fades. LOVE IS HAVING THE WILL TO NUTURE UR GROWTH AND THAT OF THE BELOVED. if ur love is not expressed in actions directed at nurturing the growth of who you claim to love,well..... it's not love. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Nobody: 8:21am On Oct 21, 2017 |
VERDA: huh? what if the guy refused to accept her back? that was the point where my post is inclining to. |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by dview001(m): 8:24am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Is she talking about Jesus? ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by oglalasioux(m): 8:33am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Good write up. If this is true then you should look for a new boyfriend; the type that slaps and talk their women down. That's the only man you can love and tolerate. This present guy is not your type. He's too much of a gentleman to be in your life. His fault though, not yours. We all have our tastes and preferences. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by tosyne2much(m): 8:36am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Pride, arrogance and inability to tame one's tongue are the worst trait a woman can ever possess. You can't be rude to someone that wants to wife you and expect him to continue with such a relationship. No man ever wants to bring chaos and catastrophe into his life. It's really a mystery that ladies crave caring and loving men but when they eventually find them they usually take them for granted. They only come back to their senses when they lose these men and they will start crying fowl This is a lesson to you. As you lay your bed, na so you go lie on top am 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Newboss(m): 8:57am On Oct 21, 2017 |
You mean you wasted my time this morning? You should have told us that this is a blog post. ![]() ![]() Blogger why? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Nobody: 9:02am On Oct 21, 2017 |
LadyGoddiva:I have my ass taken already by a sweeter girl ![]() |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by VERDA: 9:09am On Oct 21, 2017 |
chinedubrazil: Well.....i guess we will have to wait and see, although we may never find out, that not withstanding, we do not know what the guy has had to go through, people break up for many reasons, it does not mean they do not or never loved each other, sometimes people are not just compatible. |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by egopersonified(f): 9:11am On Oct 21, 2017 |
if you get back together and he is still broke, you would still frustrate him. My advice? Wait for him to get rich first before asking for another chance. In the meantime, get a hold of your emotions for Christ's sake. |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Prec1ous(m): 9:38am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Total nonsense... You are supposed to send or say all those to him and not US! you are not ready to get him back. |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by Vince09: 9:53am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Well.. . I didn't read much but hope she was talking bout Jesus 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by asjay(m): 10:33am On Oct 21, 2017 |
hergists:Lord take this one to you on time as the world would be a better place with one less of her kind. Thank you God for giving sense to the bro and for saving his life . Too many qualities in a man than his life to be cut short by this serpent/fool that can bridle her mouth. For this ,We Bless you Lord Aunty leave nairaland and go mountain go pray so that you won't use your mouth to destroy the next relationship ,hopefully u will find one or else Shiloh is ur case 2 Likes |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by asjay(m): 10:39am On Oct 21, 2017 |
chinedubrazil:Uncle go n marry her nah..she is a free agent now Sha don't bring the story here when she destroys ur little self esteem wey remain cos I go swear for you Cos I can c dat u r so compassionate , well u av never been in one before so u can type nonsense here. He has not even married her she has already frustrated his life with her attitude and mouth and u talking nonsense here. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage |
Re: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by nuelsam: 10:45am On Oct 21, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU: RETIREDMUMU: RETIREDMUMU:ur moniker says it all. |
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