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4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Nobody: 9:08pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
1) MARRIAGE The huge pressure on children (mainly females) to get married is really unnecessary. There are many factors to consider before getting ready for it. Maturity matters. The person concerned also has to be financially and psychologically ready as well. They should stop making marriage seem like the ultimate target. What if the person you are rushing him/her to get married to is violent, occultic and so on. Let them be. This way, we are able to avert the prevalence of broken homes |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Nobody: 9:17pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
2. THE ISSUE OF SEX Sex outside marriage is still viewed by some parents as taboo. There is this boiling temper or unfriendly countenance when they see us with the opposite sex. This shouldn't be so. In as much as it could be abused or it could lead to adverse consequences, matured minds can engage in it by playing safe. Sex Education is what they should be teaching their wards/children. Sex/Self Service is known to have many benefits like relieving stress, fighting insonmia, promoting some health conditions amongst other things. |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Nobody: 9:30pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
3. RELIGION My mum sometimes sees me amongst 'the condemned' because i seldomly go to church. There's too much ado about religion. People showing off with their faith, being too subjective to their spiritual leader, relating almost everything to the pre-destined will of God and so on. Not that I don't believe there's a supreme being out there, but our faith should be reflected more in our actions than words. |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by HeWrites(m): 9:32pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Nobody: 9:47pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
4) EDUCATION 'Education is the key.' This is always chanted to our ears by our parents. This is no longer tenable in Nigeria due to overpopulation, nepotism, corruption etc. Why struggle to squeeze out about 500,000 naira to take care of your tuition in higher institutions when your pay afterwords won't match that? Why not invest with what you have? university training doesn't define someone. Having a good secondary school training can suffice. I know of intelligent nairalanders here who only have an SSCE result 1 Like |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Nobody: 9:51pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
N.B: These are my personal opinions based on some experiences/observations. |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by LordIsaac(m): 10:00pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Anɗ completely ruin the nation! |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by NairalandCS(m): 5:39am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Education and Religion own weak me. Op oil dey your head.
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Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Divay22(f): 6:12am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Grandchildren |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Nobody: 8:39am On Oct 21, 2017 |
HeWrites:that number 2 caught your attention, right? |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Nobody: 11:49am On Oct 21, 2017 |
LordIsaac:how elucidate 1 Like |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Nobody: 1:34pm On Oct 21, 2017 |
NairalandCS:i'm not big-mouthed for nothing afterall |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Nobody: 5:31pm On Oct 21, 2017 |
Divay22:lol.. That is mothers normal demand |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Divay22(f): 5:38pm On Oct 21, 2017 |
bignoisemaker:Lol The distrub too dey much |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Nobody: 10:31am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Divay22:ayah. I would have loved to make you a baby mama to appease them but they might say it's abomination since i've not seen your people |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Divay22(f): 10:34am On Oct 25, 2017 |
frustratedrat:Baby mama I don't see myself belonging to that ministry..Never.. Appease who thou |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by ambrosini593(m): 10:35am On Oct 25, 2017 |
these are good things we desire in life. why complaining |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by skywalker240(m): 11:43am On Oct 25, 2017 |
1 & 4 Is So Overhyped. |
Re: 4 Things Our Parents Should Stop Stressing On by Nobody: 8:16pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Divay22:kk. On point |
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