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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Nobody: 8:08am On Oct 22, 2017
My dear sister I was about to say the same thing. Maybe it wasn't the Sade that infected him with the virus in the first place.
Benita27:
Is HIV contacted only true sex?. Do you know that sharing needles at the saloon, you risk contacting the virus 'cause you barely know whose head it was used on.
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Officialkenshin(m): 8:18am On Oct 22, 2017
hanassholesolo:



But the guy is only going after girls with BF cheesy cheesy
Tade is going to get you ma dude

God forbid!
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by gozzlin: 8:19am On Oct 22, 2017
Officialkenshin:
Thank God. I now have only one gf o. I nor they wahala.

Nigga, you're actually missing the point. The fact that you have only one girlfriend is irrelevant. The question is, is she faithful as well or she loves to hop on different dicks? Because if your supposed girlfriend is the promiscuous type, then you're in for it.

Problem is, girls are good at pretending. It takes a sharp guy to catch a cheating girl.

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Nobody: 8:31am On Oct 22, 2017
charlito94:
I don't believe this poo y because
U t be in NDA and hv a 3 days pass and at the same time hv time to Bleep around
Secondly u can't be in NDA if ur hiv positive
Thirdly the guy in question is n expelled NDA students
Fourthly u can't have an Hiv test and it will reflect positive within a short period of time
I would advice if u feel ur story is true abt d hiv try another hospital
As talking out of experience
guy read well, the OP wasn't talking abt the NDA guy, the NDA guy was just a reference...this is entirely a different story. Go thru it again

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Officialkenshin(m): 8:35am On Oct 22, 2017
gozzlin:


Nigga, you're actually missing the point. The fact that you have only one girlfriend is irrelevant. The question is, is she faithful as well or she loves to hop on different dicks? Because if your supposed girlfriend is the promiscuous type, then you're in for it.

Problem is, girls are good at pretending. It takes a sharp guy to catch a cheating girl.


Nah she is not. Hopefully.
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by gozzlin: 8:37am On Oct 22, 2017
Officialkenshin:


Nah she is not. Hopefully.
Okay.
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Nobody: 9:15am On Oct 22, 2017
Girls sha, in this age of STDs , Ebola and some fycked up infections. To be with a girl is like trusting your life to a quake doctor.
If the girl want to fyck around she for just break up with the guy, instead she fycked his life and now he's fycking other people's lives. Smh the daughters of eve never change. I need a mami water girlfriend.

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by hanassholesolo: 9:18am On Oct 22, 2017
Officialkenshin:


God forbid!

grin grin grin grin
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Nobody: 9:33am On Oct 22, 2017
folashade96:
We need more topics like this. I have been having a really bad day and it's good to take my mind off things talking about the stuff that interests me

Shade.. Is this you?
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Nobody: 9:37am On Oct 22, 2017
Benita27:
Op, you're insane. So the guy felt like beating the girl to pulp while you advised him to halt his beating plan, and alternatively sleeps with her sister and friends. Now, after doing all these and spreading the virus to more people, whether innocent or not; are they even?. Has all the pains of knowing you're HIV positive gone away? Or has the virus itself disappeared?. Instead of him to go get counselling and being placed on retroviral drugs that may increase his life span, he's foolishly spreading the virus to others. When he becomes sober and his conscious starts pricking him, guilt would kill him faster than the virus and you that thinks you told him to do the best thing would look despicable before his eyes. It's a matter of time.

Correct!
Spreading the disease around intentionally is a crime.
I hope the dude is arrested and locked up forever.

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Nobody: 9:40am On Oct 22, 2017
pedrilo:
This is why I dread relationships n sex. They both have the possibility of ruining ones' life

The air you breathe in has the possibility of ruining your life.

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by chigoizie7(m): 9:44am On Oct 22, 2017
Too bad. The deed is already done. I can't do anything about it. Sorry.
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Charmerbeautylooks(f): 9:46am On Oct 22, 2017
How are u sure u are d only boyfriend she has,, cos I made my boyfriend believe am his only girlfriend grin tongue cheesy
Officialkenshin:
Thank God. I now have only one gf o. I nor they wahala.

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Nobody: 9:46am On Oct 22, 2017
Can someone answer me why people in relationships don't use condom am curious

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by ivolt: 9:49am On Oct 22, 2017
Benita27:
Is HIV contacted only true sex?. Do you know that sharing needles at the saloon, you risk contacting the virus 'cause you barely know whose head it was used on.

This is a sermon on the mount.
More than 90% of HIV infections are transmitted through sex,
the other percentage is shared by children born with HIV , blood transfusion
and the rest.

With educated adults, the chance of contracting HIV through non-sexual
means becomes slimer.

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Nobody: 9:50am On Oct 22, 2017
dareenglish:
I am writing this in reaction after reading about the NDA guy who found out his girl was cheating after smelling condom on her.

A few months ago, my friend Tade(not real name ),called me , it was late a night and he was hysterical over the phone, I didn’t understand what he was saying at all, he ended by saying he was coming over. So how gets here and am surprised because this guy would never leave his house after 8:30pm. He just blurted out to me that he was HIV positive., that “she “ gave it to him, I was already giving him the usual distance one gives to a diseased animal. I thought my guy don go play away match. But then he said its shade oh, I found it hard to believe him.i mean I know the girl{she’s the standard to which I hold all girls to, if a girl can beat that she’s fucking awesome.}

Tade narrated how he started feeling pains while urinating, so he want to the hospital and the doc started asking him if he was having sex regularly, he said yes and, long story short he had gonorrhea and chlamydia. The also asked him to go for an AIDS test which he did and behold POSITIVE. He had never cheated on his girl in the 6 years the dated, even the first 3 that she denied him sex claiming virgin, tho she was actually a virgin when he finally enter the place. The have marriage plans together, they share atm cards, they are basically married in all sense but the word.

When he got back, he confronted his girl and of course she denied, then the test results came out except anything to do with aids.

She started to tell him about one guy she visited, that it was only a few times the had sex, she later told him that a friend of hers she visited, Tade lost it here, he wanted to kill her, beat her, he didn’t wait to hear the rest and that’s y he came to my place so as not to do anything he will regret to shade.

I remember him crying saying again and again” she has killed me, after all the love, 7 years, she literary killed me,” he even laughed then cried again. I dint cheat on her once in 7 years, do you know how hard that is, even when a friend brought it I didn’t Bleep.

Tade started saying how he should have killed her there and then, that he wants to hurt her bad, I calmed him down, told him to chill, that there r worst things to do to a girl.

It took a while but I told him we will deal with her so I put down a plan for him to forget hitting or beating her and just destroy her life, sleep with her friends and her little sister p.s the sister has a boyfriend too. Now this sobered him up, he said he was going to hunt any lady that had a boyfriend he will Bleep her and share the “blessing “his girl gave him. Tade is not a ja boy{bad ladies guy} so I didn’t see his good chances of success with this. But his body count these days is mad, he hits girls with b.f without condoms, others he takes it off when the girl is enjoying the shit.

He also nailed the little sister VERY WELL. I have pics sef.
And shade probably does know shes a carrier, I doubt she did an hiv test.

Anyways to guys out there be careful, I have begged tade to stop but his vendetta is crazy, he nails upto 3 different girls a week, including married women and especially girls with boyfriends. He sends me pics sometimes.

Guys if your not sure of the girl ditch her oh, condom dey burst anytime. There’s a nairalander who found out the hard way.

Girls who cheat around are probably distributing “blessings”

I feel bad for not advising Tade to just beat shade to a pulp now the matter has become something else.
Girls be faithful, this might just save your life oh, guys don’t humor bitches, dispose of her, you might think you are slaying a slay queen, it might just be you humping a bad of diseases.


You are equally complicit in this evil act, if not, you would have reported him to the police or expose him so that the numbers of infected people doesn't rise.
Shade gave him HIV, but why destroy innocent lives in the process, I hope your friend dies this weekend, so that potential victims may be safe from him.

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by dirtyhokage(m): 9:51am On Oct 22, 2017
Op you are a wicked person,infact you are evil...tell that your friend that he is a demon and he'll awaits him....i don't know you but right now devil is better dan you and that your hopeless evil hearted friend

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by ivolt: 9:52am On Oct 22, 2017
@OP what an evil advice you gave to your "friend"!
Spreading HIV is the height of wickedness.

While your "friend" is busy spreading HIV, his viral
load is increasing and by the time he sobered up to
get counseled and treated, it might have progressed to AIDS.

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Tecno66: 9:53am On Oct 22, 2017
dareenglish:
I am writing this in reaction after reading about the NDA guy who found out his girl was cheating after smelling condom on her.

A few months ago, my friend Tade(not real name ),called me , it was late a night and he was hysterical over the phone, I didn’t understand what he was saying at all, he ended by saying he was coming over. So how gets here and am surprised because this guy would never leave his house after 8:30pm. He just blurted out to me that he was HIV positive., that “she “ gave it to him, I was already giving him the usual distance one gives to a diseased animal. I thought my guy don go play away match. But then he said its shade oh, I found it hard to believe him.i mean I know the girl{she’s the standard to which I hold all girls to, if a girl can beat that she’s fucking awesome.}

Tade narrated how he started feeling pains while urinating, so he want to the hospital and the doc started asking him if he was having sex regularly, he said yes and, long story short he had gonorrhea and chlamydia. The also asked him to go for an AIDS test which he did and behold POSITIVE. He had never cheated on his girl in the 6 years the dated, even the first 3 that she denied him sex claiming virgin, tho she was actually a virgin when he finally enter the place. The have marriage plans together, they share atm cards, they are basically married in all sense but the word.

When he got back, he confronted his girl and of course she denied, then the test results came out except anything to do with aids.

She started to tell him about one guy she visited, that it was only a few times the had sex, she later told him that a friend of hers she visited, Tade lost it here, he wanted to kill her, beat her, he didn’t wait to hear the rest and that’s y he came to my place so as not to do anything he will regret to shade.

I remember him crying saying again and again” she has killed me, after all the love, 7 years, she literary killed me,” he even laughed then cried again. I dint cheat on her once in 7 years, do you know how hard that is, even when a friend brought it I didn’t Bleep.

Tade started saying how he should have killed her there and then, that he wants to hurt her bad, I calmed him down, told him to chill, that there r worst things to do to a girl.

It took a while but I told him we will deal with her so I put down a plan for him to forget hitting or beating her and just destroy her life, sleep with her friends and her little sister p.s the sister has a boyfriend too. Now this sobered him up, he said he was going to hunt any lady that had a boyfriend he will Bleep her and share the “blessing “his girl gave him. Tade is not a ja boy{bad ladies guy} so I didn’t see his good chances of success with this. But his body count these days is mad, he hits girls with b.f without condoms, others he takes it off when the girl is enjoying the shit.

He also nailed the little sister VERY WELL. I have pics sef.
And shade probably does know shes a carrier, I doubt she did an hiv test.

Anyways to guys out there be careful, I have begged tade to stop but his vendetta is crazy, he nails upto 3 different girls a week, including married women and especially girls with boyfriends. He sends me pics sometimes.

Guys if your not sure of the girl ditch her oh, condom dey burst anytime. There’s a nairalander who found out the hard way.

Girls who cheat around are probably distributing “blessings”

I feel bad for not advising Tade to just beat shade to a pulp now the matter has become something else.
Girls be faithful, this might just save your life oh, guys don’t humor bitches, dispose of her, you might think you are slaying a slay queen, it might just be you humping a bad of diseases.
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by bettercreature(m): 9:54am On Oct 22, 2017
dirtyhokage:
Op you are a wicked person,infact you are evil...tell that your friend that he is a demon and he'll awaits him....i don't know you but right now devil is better dan you and that your hopeless evil hearted friend
The Op is the HIV positive Tade he was talking about,there is no Tade anywhere it's just sad he is spreading his misery,God will judge him accordingly

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by omoadeleye(m): 9:54am On Oct 22, 2017
May God damn you and that your friend...

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by SmartyPants(m): 9:54am On Oct 22, 2017
Benita27:
Is HIV contacted only true sex?. Do you know that sharing needles at the saloon, you risk contacting the virus 'cause you barely know whose head it was used on.

That's not a viable transmission route. Needles are not a problem as such

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by bonifieldstun(m): 9:55am On Oct 22, 2017
God!
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by ivolt: 9:55am On Oct 22, 2017
charlito94:
I don't believe this poo y because
U t be in NDA and hv a 3 days pass and at the same time hv time to Bleep around
Secondly u can't be in NDA if ur hiv positive
Thirdly the guy in question is n expelled NDA students
Fourthly u can't have an Hiv test and it will reflect positive within a short period of time
I would advice if u feel ur story is true abt d hiv try another hospital
As talking out of experience

Is HIV test conducted every month in NDA or it is done during
the screening process?
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by nanizle(m): 9:56am On Oct 22, 2017
I hope you two know that intentionally infecting another person with hiv is a serious crime. angry

Dude should take a chill pill... Hiv is not a death sentence and I hope he's on medication.

But to think he has the mind to willfully infect another person with hiv.... Without having second thoughts shows that your guy has really lost it.

I hope he gets caught and punished.

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by GetMeRight: 9:56am On Oct 22, 2017
Benita27:
Op, you're insane. So the guy felt like beating the girl to pulp while you advised him to halt his beating plan, and alternatively sleeps with her sister and friends. Now, after doing all these and spreading the virus to more people, whether innocent or not; are they even?. Has all the pains of knowing you're HIV positive gone away? Or has the virus itself disappeared?. Instead of him to go get counselling and being placed on retroviral drugs that may increase his life span, he's foolishly spreading the virus to others. When he becomes sober and his conscious starts pricking him, guilt would kill him faster than the virus and you that thinks you told him to do the best thing would look despicable before his eyes. It's a matter of time.
You saw the op fault everywhere but I saw none. OP created the impression that he stopped the guy from beating the girl to a pulp or killed her but in the true sense of it, he didn't. The guy restraint himself, left the girl in the house and later went to op.
The only thing op can do is to notify the authorities about the guy's reckless lifestyle, he needs to be put away where he will be getting the treatment and won't be able to destroy anymore lives.

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Nobody: 9:57am On Oct 22, 2017
Thank me and my man we are faithful to each other.

Anyways I wonder what some people see in cheating. I just wonder. undecided

Both couples be faithful or abstinence if u don't have a companion , and one will be safe.
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Apple2: 9:58am On Oct 22, 2017
OK finally I have cure for HIV. Pls bleep enough ladies or guys, don't be scared I de. Jus call me whenever you are positive, u won't die, amen
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by Nobody: 9:59am On Oct 22, 2017
HIV is a weak virus.

You can literally destroy that virus with your mind and clean out your entire system of the program.

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by officialmcfresh1(m): 10:00am On Oct 22, 2017
Will you be faithful to me cus I need a girl that can be faithful...
Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by elantraceey(f): 10:00am On Oct 22, 2017
Tell people to abstain from premarital sex, they wii not hear lipsrsealed

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Re: He Is Spreading HIV, Am I To Blame? by GetMeRight: 10:00am On Oct 22, 2017
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SmartyPants:


That's not a viable transmission route. Needles are not a problem as such

Said by who? You? Or medically authenticated? Show us prove, a link to buttress your opinion.

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