make una help me judge this mata abeg.

I met this girl 3 days ago through her uncle who is close to me. He told me that he will like me to be close to her as the family wants her to settle down soon. I started laughing when he said that but he said he was serious I should give d girl a trial.

I later met with her parents that same day, we went out for some drinks together with her uncle, she chop full roasted catfish, dilute am with juice.

she keeps telling me how she likes d way i dress, how handsome i am,how neat I was, how good I smell, I also complimented her.

It got late and she wanted to spend d night in my place but I objected and told her that it will be better she sleeps in her uncles place, since she can't go home that late.
She thanked me for making her day, that it has been long she had such a nice time and I dropped them off.

Fast forward today, she called and I went to see her in her mother's shop, we had some drinks,she chop full vegetable chicken, we talked and d rest.

She told me she was not happy I didn't allow her spend d night in my place d last time we met and I told her not to worry that we will spend d night 2gether she agreed.

I took her to an expensive cool hotel, cos Power supply in my area not reliable my gen also decides to misbehave.
When we got to the room she immediately undressed and lay on d bed, we kissed passionately, for long and all, she even allowed me to remove her pant which was d only thing I removed oo, she was d one dat undressed herself oo, then suddenly she stood up, started saying that i should stop she was going home, she only followed me here to make me happy, she never expected what I wanted to do from me, that I can go and look for another girl that will sleep with me in d room since I have d money, that is what desperate men like me do, that because I have money I think I can have my way with her?

I became confused, I told her not to worry cos I won't touch her again if its a problem she should just sleep and go home in d morning. She refused and started insulting me that she rather sleep outside than to sleep with an animal like me and left the room n it was already late. I later learnt she called a cab to come and pick her.

I've never seen this kind of witchcraft my entire life.

Hehehe

Lmao... Either ways, she's still a cheap slut

Wait for the "she only took her cloths off because of the heat, you didn't have to take advantage of her" Crew to come and real with you. Lol

She's a lunatic. u lucky say she no bite your ear ...better run as far away as ur legs would take u

she preferred ur house instead of hotel!

If this story is true, then you did nothing wrong.. It was obvious she wants it. She is just pretending and want you to feel guilty. Or she planed everything just to get rid of you.

Old trick some foolish girls use. She want make you use the heat of the passion (you must have been turned on na), beg and tell her "no that's not what I want from you, I'm for real, in fact I want to marry you". It's believed that men can don promise anything when they are aroused.



You sef get mind o, judging from what you wrote, if I'm a guy I will be scared of sleeping with her, because it seems the whole family is desperate for her to get married. I will see it as a way of trapping me.

shortgun:
make una help me judge this mata abeg.

I met this girl 3 days ago through her uncle who is close to me. He told me that he will like me to be close to her as the family wants her to settle down soon. I started laughing when he said that but he said he was serious I should give d girl a trial.

I later met with her parents that same day, we went out for some drinks together with her uncle, she chop full roasted catfish, dilute am with juice.

she keeps telling me how she likes d way i dress, how handsome i am,how neat I was, how good I smell, I also complimented her.

It got late and she wanted to spend d night in my place but I objected and told her that it will be better she sleeps in her uncles place, since she can't go home that late.
She thanked me for making her day, that it has been long she had such a nice time and I dropped them off.

Fast forward today, she called and I went to see her in her mother's shop, we had some drinks,she chop full vegetable chicken, we talked and d rest.

She told me she was not happy I didn't allow her spend d night in my place d last time we met and I told her not to worry that we will spend d night 2gether she agreed.

I took her to an expensive cool hotel, cos Power supply in my area not reliable my gen also decides to misbehave.
When we got to the room she immediately undressed and lay on d bed, we kissed passionately, for long and all, she even allowed me to remove her pant which was d only thing I removed oo, she was d one dat undressed herself oo, then suddenly she stood up, started saying that i should stop she was going home, she only followed me here to make me happy, she never expected what I wanted to do from me, that I can go and look for another girl that will sleep with me in d room since I have d money, that is what desperate men like me do, that because I have money I think I can have my way with her?

I became confused, I told her not to worry cos I won't touch her again if its a problem she should just sleep and go home in d morning. She refused and started insulting me that she rather sleep outside than to sleep with an animal like me and left the room n it was already late. I later learnt she called a cab to come and pick her.

I've never seen this kind of witchcraft my entire life.

She get spirit husband bro. Na that shit they make her do like that.

The Girl is confused

Chommieblaq:


Old trick some foolish girls use. She want make you use the heat of the passion (you must have been turned on na), beg and tell her "no that's not what I want from you, I'm for real, in fact I want to marry you". It's believed that men can don promise anything when they are aroused.



You sef get mind o, judging from what you wrote, if I'm a guy I will be scared of sleeping with her, because it seems the whole family is desperate for her to get married. I will see it as a way of trapping me.

Hmm, true. I was even beginning to suspect that she might already be pregnant (probably by some low-life),the way she was forcing herself on him, looking to entangle the Op into the situation. But this one, of her running out and boarding a taxi to escape, after booking the hotel room (if it were his house she could claim she came to play ludo) and stripping ; this is new.

Cold feet?

Instead of Thanksgiving you are here complaining.

OP I salute your courage.... Best way to get back at her... Don't ever demand for sex.... She ll beg you for it ....hoe forming cheap stunt

Chommieblaq:


Old trick some foolish girls use. She want make you use the heat of the passion (you must have been turned on na), beg and tell her "no that's not what I want from you, I'm for real, in fact I want to marry you". It's believed that men can don promise anything when they are aroused.



You sef get mind o, judging from what you wrote, if I'm a guy I will be scared of sleeping with her, because it seems the whole family is desperate for her to get married. I will see it as a way of trapping me.

You typed that outta my fingers

But why am I thinking the Op's story is twisted?

Look no more for confused beings when u see a lady

hanassholesolo:
Wait for the "she only took her cloths off because of the heat, you didn't have to take advantage of her" Crew to come and real with you. Lol

I didn't take advantage of her na. she was the one dat undressed herself remain only pant.

blacq2009:
But why am I thinking the Op's story is twisted?

twisted how?
that's exactly what happened

Just be careful around her

Chommieblaq:


Old trick some foolish girls use. She want make you use the heat of the passion (you must have been turned on na), beg and tell her "no that's not what I want from you, I'm for real, in fact I want to marry you". It's believed that men can don promise anything when they are aroused.



You sef get mind o, judging from what you wrote, if I'm a guy I will be scared of sleeping with her, because it seems the whole family is desperate for her to get married. I will see it as a way of trapping me.

it won't work on me cos I am not sex starved, I was not desperate to lay her. she initiated d whole thing. Whatever was her plans failed terribly cos she will never see me again in this life and d next.

Divay22:
Just be careful around her

You still telling me to be around her?
Is dat how much u g
hate me.

shortgun:

You still telling me to be around her?
Is dat how much u g
hate me.

Lol
Hate you? For what na..
I thought you'll be considering getting married to her

HerXLNC:
OP I salute your courage.... Best way to get back at her... Don't ever demand for sex.... She ll beg you for it ....hoe forming cheap stunt

Thanks, but I don't want to have anything to do with her again.

SlayerTheKing:


She get spirit husband bro. Na that shit they make her do like that.

I think so too bro.

dairykidd:
She's a lunatic. u lucky say she no bite your ear ...better run as far away as ur legs would take u

I agree no sane person will behave d way she did.

Divay22:

Lol
Hate you? For what na..
I thought you'll be considering getting married to her

now it's confirmed that you hate me.
How can u tell me to marry a girl who is mentally not sound.
if na play stop am.

shortgun:

now it's confirmed that you hate me.
How can u tell me to marry a girl who is mentally not sound.
if na play stop am.

It's insane to play on a Monday morning
She just wants you to beg her, so you won't see her as cheap..
Let us know when the marriage day is coming up, we'll send delegates

Divay22:

It's insane to play on a Monday morning
She just wants you to beg her, so you won't see her as cheap..
Let us know when the marriage day is coming up, we'll send delegates

I am not marrying again, thank you ma.

Lol... stupid old trick, she thinks it'll make u so desperate to marry her, but seriously is she that old? Or ugly that her relatives are looking for any man to sha come and marry her, or it could be that she has a serious mental case, please op run, yes leave her and her relatives alone please, and don't listen to those who'll come and say, u tried to take advantage of her... Be wise o

lol,,please permit me to laugh some girls shaa,especially when you meet the desperate ones,you eyes go clear..

she's just wanted you to feel guilty of what you didn't do thereby trying to lure you into sleeping with her .


but you shaa get mind

Op there could be a lot of underlying issues.
First, She could have what we call a post traumatic disorder where every incidence of sexual intercourse seems like an hostile take over, in lay man terms like every one she thinks she loves just wanna have sex with her.
Secondly, it could also be because u guys barely know and it just hit, trust me she doesn't wanna be seen as cheap.

QueenSekxy:
lol,,please permit me to laugh some girls shaa,especially when you meet the desperate ones,you eyes go clear..

she's just wanted you to feel guilty of what you didn't do thereby trying to lure you into sleeping with her .


but you shaa get mind

Abeg let me join u and laugh. Hahahahaha.

I don't know why i find this story very funny...

But on a serious note, that girl have a problem