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| Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by Bester44(m): 11:40pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
I dey my lane managing my life and this girl approached me. She said she likes the way I speak. I collected her number and we became friends. Now she asked what I do for a living. I replied saying of what use will that be to her. One cannot do menial jobs in peace again. I'm set to start a Masters program next year. She knows I don't depend on any parent o. 2 Likes |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by Nobody: 12:17am On Oct 23, 2017 |
Obviously you aren't happy with your job But you should tell her Reckon she'll piss right off if the jobs a shitter |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by consultancy: 1:29am On Oct 23, 2017 |
yea thats what they always do as the leeches they are. she needs to know in time if u are a good source of income to her, so as not to waste time with u before realizing she has not hit gold mine. hungry girls everywhere (I'm no chauvinist) 6 Likes |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by duerap: 2:15pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
Help her out please; buy a shovel for her. It'll help her dig some gold you know. |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by Nobody: 2:22pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
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| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by Bester44(m): 2:46pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
duerap: She is in her 30s and a church person. I'm older than her o. Is this the time to be asking for means of livelihood before starting a relationship with a crush? |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by myke92(m): 2:54pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
Bester44: Crush?.. U sounding like u gonna be doing her a favor if u start a relationship with her. Anyways, it's non of my business, if there's Gold, then it will definitely be dug. 1 Like |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by Bester44(m): 3:00pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
myke92: Yes. It's a favour. She's pretty but long overdue for marriage. My academic pursuits is the reason why I'm not dating. I will flaunt my abstinence any day. |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by LordKO(m): 3:11pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
@OP I see no evil in her said act. She can only be considered evil if she capitalizes on your sincere answer - assuming that you're well-to-do and confided same to her - to practice opportunism around you afterwards. 2 Likes |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by Hectarus(m): 5:32pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
Same question was asked in similar circumstances years ago.. I couldn't even remember what I said.. whether completing a Masters degree or building my CV quietly by "I am volunteering at so so and so place". Well that was the last of our conversation. The last time we saw, she alighted a sedan while she turned, shocked and surprised, she asked.."how was work?" masking a flurry of awe.....she was still single. 1 Like |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by rawpadgin(m): 6:03pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
Seriously  Cuz she asked what u do for a living she's now a gold digger SMH |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by Nobody: 6:04pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
There is nothing wrong asking u what you do for a living. If at her age, 30+ and she's dating a guy, whom she cannot ascertain what he does for a living? Then she's a big foolll. Knowing the kind of job u have at hand is not a crime. Assuming the crush progresses to bf level, then her father ask her about who is she dating and what does he do for a living? Because trust me, all fathers ask. Such questions. That's even one of the five first question, a father will ask a suitor or a bf following his daughter and if you can clarify yourself and explain what you do in simple terms, then sorry will be your next name. If you don't date her, she won't die and she will still marry someone who understands where she's coming from. Life is just simple. 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by Nobody: 6:08pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
rawpadgin: You can imagine o And the op is way older than her. If she's 30+, he should be either late 30s or even 40s. But he simply cannot define what's he's doing for a living. Such mentality is the height of irresponsibility. I pity the woman who ends up marrying him. He has already failed himself, with such mentality. Smhhh 1 Like |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by rawpadgin(m): 6:14pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
alexialin:honestly, b4 i venture into any relationship i most know what my prospective companion does for a living What if she is a juju priestess This op surprise me i swear |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by Nobody: 6:17pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
rawpadgin: I wonder o He surprise me too.  |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by Nobody: 6:18pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
I don't understand the op. Is the problem that she asked or her age? It's an honest question, how does asking make one a gold-digger? |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by Bester44(m): 8:49pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
alexialin: We are not dating. She approached me in the church on Sunday, though I was drawn to her before. I spoke to her on Monday showing the hints that I like her. Having been told by someone of my Masters program I'm to start next year, should asking for means of livelihood be her question this early? I have dated gold-diggers all my life and I'm now kind of becoming angry whenever I sense it in any woman. See chat below. That line "sleeping and waking" got me angry. I sustained backbone injury on Sunday morning and I still went out to work on Sunday evening because I hate spending from what I'm saving as I have a certain amount of money I must save per day. |
| Re: Someone In Her 30s Asking A Suitor For Means Of Livelihood by Bester44(m): 8:57pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
Dimples129: She asked the 2nd day we became friends and we are not dating. The way she asked pissed me off. See the screenshot above. |
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