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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
pocohantas:hmmm are u really sure there are ladies who would refuse such power and wealth? There many illiterate chiefs over here..many of them are married to educated ladies.being a lady that is educated is a big plus for them for they will pamper u with expensive gifts.u will have ur own flat and a car and if need be a driver will be assigned to .but one thing about them sha is that they tend to have many wives.so u will have to contend with dat.and as for the traditional beads that is a must. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by BluntBoy(m): 7:58pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Rubbiish: You don't understand. An SSCE holder and a Harvard drop-out don't have a degree. The only difference is the level of education. And that is what I am emphasizing. Victor Moses does not have a degree but there is the possibility that he speaks a better English than some of our English graduates. There is also the possibility that he has a better understanding of sports injuries than our physiotherapists. It all boils down to his exposure which in itself is education. George Bernard Shaw was a famous writer who even won a Nobel Prize in literature. Bernard Shaw had no degree because he saw university education as a waste of time. Shaw educated himself. He had no degree but he was more enlightened than many of our professors of sociology or literature. Abraham Lincoln was a lawyer who trained himself by reading books. He didn't cram for the sake of getting the coveted degree. 17 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Lalas247(f): 8:01pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Rubbiish(m): 8:11pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
BluntBoy:I perfectly understand your point sir I am talking about the exposure, regardless of paper. The little time they gonna spend before the drop out is gonna impart alot to them If i work with juilus berger for four months & mr B works for baba latti bricklayer for four months, i dont think we both will have same level of exposure...Hope my analogy paints a clearer picture of my point.... 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by BluntBoy(m): 8:24pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Rubbiish: We are saying the same thing. We are both placing much emphasis on education at the expense of degrees. My comment was originally directed at Pocohantas. Pocohantas originally said she couldn't marry a man without a degree only for her to take offense when it appeared that someone compared an SSCE holder to a Harvard drop-out. I don't see why she should point this out when she had already said a no to the idea. What is the difference between an SSCE holder and a Harvard drop-out? Are both of them not people without degrees? 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Rubbiish:They most definitely will, lol. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by shinarlaura(f): 8:33pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
BluntBoy: Lol... come let me teach u french Just joking |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Pat081: 8:34pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Hmmmmm cum c lies, ladies and lie re like 5 &6 |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by BluntBoy(m): 8:38pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
shinarlaura:Don't joke o. . I want to learn French. Can we fix a date? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pocohantas(f): 8:43pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Rubbiish: Some people have brought in wealth, some have brought in tech experts. Zuckerberg, Steve and Gates all dropped out of Harvard, does he know what it takes to get into Harvard? How many SSCE holders in Nigerian can get into Harvard. These guys have lots of skills and relevant certifications [which I consider equal to degrees]...how many SSCE holders in Nigeria have that? If they want to compare, compare the average SSCE holder and degree holder in Nigeria. Putting a Harvard drop-out and IT expert on the same educational level with a NIGERIAN SSCE holder doesn't make sense to me. The average Nigerian SSCE holder who doesn't further, didn't do so by choice but by circumstance. Comparing them to people who made it into Harvard and willingly dropped out ,all to make a point is highly offensive. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Lanceslot(m): 8:54pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Peachess:U go tey for ur papa house. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by okeyfermod(m): 8:57pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Rubbiish:And if the parents are uneducated? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 9:01pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
pocohantas:Whenever they are calling uneducated people, they rush to call Mark Zukerberg, not knowing that he is not in the same level with Nigerian ssce holder. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Rubbiish(m): 9:02pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
okeyfermod:Na those ones get wahala pass. After spending their hard earned money to see u through school, unless no be them train u for school.. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by shinarlaura(f): 9:07pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
BluntBoy: It would have been very easy if i was in Naija. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by crixuss(m): 9:11pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
pocohantas: How about a tech expert in Nigeria with an SSCE degree? I know some of them. Would you also discriminate against them when choosing a partner? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by BluntBoy(m): 9:12pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
shinarlaura:Yes, that's true. Have a nice night and stay blessed. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pocohantas(f): 9:18pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
crixuss: Why do you discriminate against obese women? Why are you not dating a crippled,blind or deaf lady? Why are you not dating that girl in the slum somewhere in Lagos? Are there no intelligent SSCE holders among this group of women? Choice right? Yea, that's the same reason I won't date an 'SSCE holder'. You know few of them. I dated a tech expert for years and if there is one thing I know, majority of them have their degrees before going for relevant certifications. Can we really say a tech expert with all his certifications doesn't have a 'degree'? No, we can't. Why the focus on tech experts? What if he isn't a tech expert? How many percent of SSCE holders who didn't further are tech experts? Stop focusing on the exceptions, rather than the rule. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by crixuss(m): 9:19pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
pocohantas: How about a tech expert in Nigeria with an SSCE degree? I know some of them. Would you also discriminate against them when choosing a partner since they don't have a degree? How about University dropouts in Nigeria that made it into good schools but decided to drop out? Are they also among the category you can't marry? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by trojan84(m): 9:20pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
yeyerolling:U just gave the perfect reply. Thumbs up bro 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by trojan84(m): 9:30pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Rubbiish: Do u carry ur certificate about? If not, it doesn't show on the forehead that u didn't go to the university provided u are literate and well to do, dre won't b any questions asked trust me 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by trojan84(m): 9:35pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
pocohantas:... But u also mentioned few intelligent and wealthy degree owners, wat about the millions trekking with file but intelligent and dumb 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pocohantas(f): 9:36pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
MaritzaNL: The reason they are using Zuckerberg s example is because he is rich and successful. Whenever choices of women comes up, they are quick to start giving you rich examples of men who do not tick your boxes. Like it always has to be about money...mtcheeew! trojan84: It shouldn't be that difficult to read and understand. Read the first sentence, then read the last and answer your question yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by trojan84(m): 9:38pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Rubbiish:U knw this and u have been tackling those who said dey can marry a smart non degree holder |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by crixuss(m): 9:41pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
pocohantas: Stop painting flawed analogies. They make your argument very unconvincing. Discriminating against blind or cripple women when choosing a partner isn't the same as discriminating against people who don't have degrees. They aren't the same thing. My focus on tech experts is to illustrate to you how you are drawing a false equivalence between education and having a degree. A degree is merely a written statement that one has acquired knowledge or skill in a certain area. Now if one doesn't have that written statement, it doesn't mean he or she hasn't acquired such knowledge or skill. But your discrimination on the basis of having or not having a degree excludes people who might have education in a particular field, but without the written statement. Like there are lots of courses today that can be self thought. Take for instance a course like history. What's the difference between someone who decided to study history on his own and someone who spent four years in the university studying history? At the end of the day what matters is the knowledge gathered and the person's ability to retain that knowledge and apply it. You should understand that there are different categories of non degree holders just as there are different categories of degree holders. There are non degree holders who are inarticulate, uninformed and without any marketable skills, while there are those that are smart, informed and "educated in various marketable fields." But the problem is that you are painting them all with a single brush. You aren't even considering the SSCE holders who were smart enough to gain admission into good schools but dropped out along the way. You don't box everyone into the same category. 11 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by trojan84(m): 9:42pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
pocohantas:Hahahahahahahahah Babe just tell me am dull instead of tat long sentence. well, Zuckerberg is a popular figure that's y he is being used, u don't expect him to use his neighbour who is well to do without a degree, do u? No matter how well he tries to describe the person u won't know him cos he isnt famous but dat doesn't mean he can't afford a Bentley 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Peachess(f): 9:43pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Lanceslot:It's obvious you're among them, so I see the reason why you're so pained. Dude go and get an education, OK? It's my choice and you have no fucking right poking your nose in my affair. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by trojan84(m): 9:48pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
pocohantas:Stop making the mistake of "it is whr u went to that makes u o", its always about the individual... Ur teacher and environment only do a fraction 4u,u do the rest so it has always been about the individual. Have u ever wondered why no matter hw good a sch is, dre is always a dull person 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by crixuss(m): 9:48pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Peachess: Could you define what you mean by "an education," if you don't mind? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pocohantas(f): 9:53pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
crixuss: How are they different? They are all people lacking something that makes compatibility easier among partners. be it EDUCATIONAL, PHYSICAL, RELIGIOUS, CULTURAL, FINANCIAL...ETC!!! There is a reason you don't just walk on the streets and pick any girl, you have choices, that are somehow superficial... you look out for. Some people's own is degree, your own might be religion. CHOICE!!!!! It's not up to you to tell them theirs is flawed and yours isn't. Oga,nowhere in any of my post did I mention smartness or being informed as my reason. Please, don't implicate me. You should also consider there are various types of disabled people, just hook up with one and marry. Since you're so liberal and nice 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Peachess(f): 9:54pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
crixuss:You can ask Google if you don't mind |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Lanceslot(m): 9:54pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Peachess:Shiloh won't even solve your case when you are through searching for Mr. Bsc Graduate you this Miss educated illiterate. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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