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Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by Martin0(m): 10:49am On Oct 21, 2017 |
shaybebaby: 1 Like |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by WebSurfer(m): 11:02am On Oct 21, 2017 |
shaybebaby: Let me give you another example, after dating this last one for over 6 months, she just came to realisation that im just few months older than her and she cant end up with me.. saying its not about me but her self esteem in the future aand all that bullshit.. Not that shes just finding out that now Since everyone decided to be childish, i did something i would never do before (collected back my iphone 7 plus) cos i felt used 2 Likes |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by shaybebaby(f): 12:16pm On Oct 21, 2017 |
WebSurfer:Lol@bolded. But you should be grateful, she didn't waste your time for too long. Anyways, that's her idiocy showing right there. I certainly wouldn't want to be with someone who reasons that way so yeah, it's better they excuse themselves. Seems like you seek someone is who is open minded and flexible in their thinking. It's going to be a bit more difficult in the nigerian environment to find girls like that. It's through no fault of theirs though, it's the pressures put on them by the society with you menfolk not excluded from culpability. I remember a guy posting on here that he likes older gals and he was laughed at. The norm in naij is older guy, younger girl. It takes a certain resilience to be able to ignore what people consider as conventional. She, quite rightly for the environment is worried about if she can withstand possible future jabs(women generally age faster than men bullshit and all that). Also worried about if you may cave in to the same pressures to conform(finding a younger counterpart). You may say foreign girls are different but that is because the society here generally doesn't give a Bleep. No one bats an eyelid. So people are generally free to make their choices without fear of censure. Put a foreign girl in Nigeria and watch her succumb to the same pressures. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by WebSurfer(m): 12:57pm On Oct 21, 2017 |
shaybebaby:She said so but I gave her guarantee I'm not one of those Infact I only just found out last week my dad and mum were mates before she passed on.. they didn't have any such issues or ever had any relationship outside marriage but that wasn't enough.. I guess it's just an excuse after all the guarantee I gave.. I tire mehnn 2 Likes |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by rabazamba: 1:04pm On Oct 21, 2017 |
WebSurfer: I swear I dey feel your pain.. 1 Like |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by rabazamba: 1:07pm On Oct 21, 2017 |
shaybebaby: |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by WebSurfer(m): 1:10pm On Oct 21, 2017 |
rabazamba:Thanks bro.. it is well |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by robotix: 2:20pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
WebSurfer:i am going to create a thread because of you and will address issues... You can always comment on it if you wish. |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by Safiaa(f): 2:31pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
WebSurfer:What happened? I'm curious. |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by WebSurfer(m): 11:50pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
robotix:Ok bro..let me know when you do |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by WebSurfer(m): 11:51pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Safiaa: Very long story dear |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by WebSurfer(m): 11:56pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
robotix:You won't believe this same girl is coming back saying she missed me, the sex and all that.. Actually, she called, came around at afternoon, stayed till this evening, said she wanted to spend the night (I couldn't deny her that) so she went and returned.. You wouldn't believe that I actually noticed this girl had about 30k on her account but yet acting like she's not having money.. I saw her balance on the phone I collected from her which I am using now as her email is logged in on it.. I'm just waiting for her to mention anything about needing money for something |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by Safiaa(f): 12:15am On Oct 26, 2017 |
WebSurfer:Alright. No problem |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by robotix: 6:22am On Oct 27, 2017 |
WebSurfer:you are not their father and so stop. |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by mctowel01: 3:25am On Oct 29, 2017 |
WebSurfer:Hey bro... read the advise from robotix. i guess its whats needed. Sometimes after looking at the wasted time and resources, you tell yourself to fck it and face your career full time.. its hard, man, but its neccessary. Sent you a pm btw |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by mctowel01: 3:28am On Oct 29, 2017 |
WebSurfer:Lol .... Epic |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by WebSurfer(m): 9:22am On Oct 29, 2017 |
mctowel01:Oh yea thanks .. my pm email don't work |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by robotix: 10:20am On Oct 29, 2017 |
WebSurfer:You should change it. Just create a new email via gmail, sync to your android phone for easy access. when done, click on your profile here and have it changed. |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by WebSurfer(m): 10:22am On Oct 29, 2017 |
robotix:ok |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by robotix: 7:27pm On Nov 08, 2017 |
WebSurfer:this one just reminded me of an ex I dated. |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by robotix: 7:31pm On Nov 08, 2017 |
WebSurfer:I once dig a girl and found out she was planning marriage with another guy... Though she denied it for some reasons but me no take her serious again. |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by robotix: 7:33pm On Nov 08, 2017 |
WebSurfer:Jesus christi Are you motherfucking kidding Moi? Sang! |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by robotix: 7:48pm On Nov 08, 2017 |
shaybebaby: My advice should be ignored and yours accepted right? Who the hell are you to make opinions on a man's experience? I just had to calm down and not let past experiences ruin my relationship with most of you, otherwise, if I had my way, it is best I don't even get married cos most of you are dumb, silly, self centered and selfish. 1 Like |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 8:23pm On Nov 08, 2017 |
Here we go again. When a woman declares that she wants to be independent, y'all descend on her and tag her a "bitter, depressed feminist" but then you'll be the same ones to complain about women who depend too much on you! You can't eat your cake and have it. Make a choice (rolls eyes) |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by laliga01: 8:44pm On Nov 08, 2017 |
Divay22: So why you never marry? Are you not part of the Nigerian girls OP is talking about. 1 Like |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by Divay22(f): 8:55pm On Nov 08, 2017 |
laliga01:I'm not done adding values to myself. I'm a Nigeria girl but not part of the ones OP is talking about.. Good night |
Re: I Give Up On Nigerian Girls by laliga01: 10:08pm On Nov 08, 2017 |
Divay22: Lolx..why you de shake na. Unto this small ginger I put for ya body. |
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