Please to the ladies i need help urgently,i got married to my wife last three months and since then uptil these moment she has not been able to conceive and it's really getting me worried.I have tried to track her ovulation period bt all to no avail because her circle has been irregular?pls what do i do? She has started menstruating today 25/10/2017 pls forgive my typin skills and help me.

My dear I understand you are anxiouse and cant wait to be a father, but I think its rather too early to start complain about childlessness.

you and your wife should visit the hospital for check up, eat good food, relax and be happy. baby will come at the right time.

Just 3 months and you're running from pillar to post

kingjooo:
Please to the ladies i need help urgently,i got married to my wife last three months and since then uptil these moment she has not been able to conceive and it's really getting me worried.

I have tried to track her ovulation period bt all to no avail because her circle has been irregular?pls what do i do? She has started menstruating today 25/10/2017 pls forgive my typin skills and help me.

Oh God, a whole 3 months??!

I feel for you. My heart bleeds

May the God who answered these childless couples answer you today! Amen!!

https://www.nairaland.com/2092870/meet-nigerian-woman-married-43

https://www.nairaland.com/3737494/nigerian-couple-welcome-baby-after

https://www.nairaland.com/3809686/nigerian-woman-gives-birth-6

kingjooo:
Please to the ladies i need help urgently,i got married to my wife last three months and since then uptil these moment she has not been able to conceive and it's really getting me worried.I have tried to track her ovulation period bt all to no avail because her circle has been irregular?pls what do i do? She has started menstruating today 25/10/2017 pls forgive my typin skills and help me.

this goes to show why you got married at the first place, it was all to make babies, you are a typical example of men who will make babies outside their matrimonial home, just because your wife can't give birth. 3 months is just too soon for you to be bring your wife issue to the public.

kingjooo:
Please to the ladies i need help urgently,i got married to my wife last three months and since then uptil these moment she has not been able to conceive and it's really getting me worried.I have tried to track her ovulation period bt all to no avail because her circle has been irregular?pls what do i do? She has started menstruating today 25/10/2017 pls forgive my typin skills and help me.

read this info carefully.
TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN
GOOD LUCK!
Most girls don't understand this because of much heavy grammar used to teach it, and we don't listen to our body too. I read, I started listening to my body for signs and I arrived at the simple analysis/steps........
MENSTRUAL PERIOD:The time blood flows out of your private area, when you use pad.
MENSTRUAL CYCLE: Days it takes to see another blood in the month. If you last saw your period in June 11th and it started again on July 10th 2017, then you have 30days cycle (count from 11 June to 10 July).
NOTE: It is erroneous to believe its 28days cycle, different women have different cycles ranging from 21-35 days.
OVULATION PERIOD: This is time to get pregnant without stress. This is 2 weeks after your period or 2 weeks before the next period.
Here's a simple way to calculate your ovulation (unsafe) period.
1. From the first day you see the blood of your period.
2. Pick up a calendar and count 15 days including the first day of the blood stain.
3. Mark the 15th day with a pen.
4. Mark 3 days before the 15th day, and mark 3 days after the 15th day.
6. You will notice you have 7 days marked.
These 7 days are your ovulation/fertile days also known as unsafe period.
That is if you have sex on any of these days, then you have 98% chances of being pregnant.
7. Do this every month diligently
EVERY OTHER DAY IS YOUR SAFE PERIOD.
For example:
1. If your period is 11th July, 2017,
2. 15 days after the first day of the blood stain will be on 25th of this July too (2weeks after) counting from 11th.
3. 15th day is on the 25th July 2017.
4. 3days before the 15th day is 22, 23, 24.
5. 3days after 25th July 2017 is 26,27,28.
6. 22-28th July (7days) is when you are ovulating. It is your fertile period.
**Don't forget that the 7 days is a reminder that sperm stays in the female body for about 7 days. Any sexual contact in between ovulation period will form something that has ears, eyes, etc.
ALSO......
If you want a baby girl, have
sex between 3 days before ovulation (22- 24th) 2017.
For a baby boy on the main ovulation day and 3 days after 25th.
...........
MAJOR SIGNS THAT YOUR OVULATION HAS BEGAN...
You don't need a doctor, just relax. After 2 weeks you may feel the following:
1. Headache.
2. High body temperature.
3. Dizziness (feeling of tiredness and sleepiness).
4. Breast tenderness/ size increases just like when you are menstruating.
5. Increased sex drive.
6. Light cramps or pain on one side of the pelvis.
7. Abdominal bloating.
8. Heightened sense of smell, taste or vision (you eat more).
9. Vagina mucus becomes slippery (if you notice, put it in between fingers...it stretches like thick catarrh or snail mucus...colorless like egg white.
...........
N/B: The instance here is for ladies with 30 days cycle. And someone who saw her period in July 2017. If yours is 28, then it's 14 days and not 15 days.
**
If you have headache without a cause, check back to when your period started. You can drink both malt and peak milk....don't run to the pharmacist always on issues that can be naturally handled, because drugs are not always good on girls. Or you can take only paracetamol.
MEN, read and educate your wives and sisters, most don't know this.

Three months and you are panicking already?
You better keep calm and enjoy you marriage and home. Pregnancy will come while you are both at it.
Worry alone can make things worse.

Ishilove:

Oh God, a whole 3 months??!

I feel for you. My heart bleeds

May the God who answered the 16 years childless couple answer you today! Amen!!

Hian! Oga Biko take am easy.


Medically, a normal couple has a whole year to actively baby dance before crying foul if baby doesn't appear. Three months is a short time daddy. In fact, no doctor will pay you any attention yet.

However, if you really want to increase your chances, both of you should embrace healthy living- food, exercise and lifestyle. You could also Google ovulation calculator online(in case you haven't been getting it right) and try to plan the Do well.

All in all, relax...you babies will come in torrents. Try to enjoy each other as much as possible before they start showing their pretty faces

madridguy:
Just 3 months and you're running from pillar to post

My brother the thing tire me ooo
If this one con reach six years nko...him go hang himself...lol

Even a year he will cut the wife head.

Rubbiish:

My brother the thing tire me ooo
If this one con reach six years nko...him go hang himself...lol

Just 3 months?

Bruuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhh take a sit please!!

Pls guys don't blame me,she confess 2 me after our marriage that she has done abortion before for her ex.

kingjooo:
Pls guys don't blame me,she confess 2 me after our marriage that she has done abortion before for her ex.

Relax,the babies will come.make love with the aim of satisfying yourselves and not of making babies.you wont even know when it will enter,besides her body is getting used to your sperm and for some it little time.
Happy married and pls remove what she told you from your mind.

with such state of mind, no wonder you will never get your wife pregnant....see how this small issue is bothering you. what about enjoying life as a married couple? what about caring and cherish that person, and making sure she is comfortable around you. no wonder she cant conceive when there is a man who is hell bent on getting her pregnant, by fire or by force!

Please type ovulation calculator on google and use it to track your wife's ovulation. We r in digital age now every thing has become easy online

kingjooo:
Please to the ladies i need help urgently,i got married to my wife last three months and since then uptil these moment she has not been able to conceive and it's really getting me worried.I have tried to track her ovulation period bt all to no avail because her circle has been irregular?pls what do i do? She has started menstruating today 25/10/2017 pls forgive my typin skills and help me.

Best reply here by onlyhandsome202 >> https://www.nairaland.com/4138554/needed-urgently-nairaland-ladies-only#61769967
Just know your wife most fertile days there's no big deal to it. U guys havent been timing it well I guess

Ishilove:

Oh God, a whole 3 months??!

I feel for you. My heart bleeds

May the God who answered these childless couples answer you today! Amen!!

https://www.nairaland.com/2092870/meet-nigerian-woman-married-43

https://www.nairaland.com/3737494/nigerian-couple-welcome-baby-after

https://www.nairaland.com/3809686/nigerian-woman-gives-birth-6

How old is he shd be the question. Why marry when one is too young to handle life. God i pity his wife. If in one year she doesn't have a baby this boy will leave.

kingjooo:
Please to the ladies i need help urgently,i got married to my wife last three months and since then uptil these moment she has not been able to conceive and it's really getting me worried.I have tried to track her ovulation period bt all to no avail because her circle has been irregular?pls what do i do? She has started menstruating today 25/10/2017 pls forgive my typin skills and help me.

No vex o, But, are you sure you can get a woman pregnant? In all your gallivanting years, has any girl ever come to you saying, 'I have missed my period?, and are you 100% sure you got her pregnant? How many times have you sponsored an abortion?

Do you know why i'm asking you this? It's because you seem like some boy who will give that innocent girl serious heat while you could be the problem.

Check yourself.

LadySarah:


Relax,the babies will come.make love with the aim of satisfying yourselves and not of making babies.you wont even know when it will enter,besides her body is getting used to your sperm and for some it little time.
Happy married and pls remove what she told you from your mind.

He should remove it?

The lady clearly deceived him cos she desperately wanted to get married.

701ecilana:

No vex o, But, are you sure you can get a woman pregnant? In all your gallivanting years, has any girl ever come to you saying, 'I have missed my period?, and are you 100% sure you got her pregnant? How many times have you sponsored an abortion?

Do you know why i'm asking you this? It's because you seem like some boy who will give that innocent girl serious heat while you could be the problem.

Check yourself.

Nice one.... the no one reason for marriage should be companionship.... but the OP is worried after 3months....give your wife breathing space abeg..

You sound to me like a man who will go outside to test his fertility if the wife doesn't conceive on time.
Your wife told you she aborted cos she trusted you, now you want to use it against her?? little wonder some ladies will carry secrets like abortion to.the grave..

Love your wife, make love because you want each other,because you adore and cherish her body no bang because you want kids...if you put too much pressure on her,believe me babies won't come

Only 3 months and you are shaking like a Jellyfish?

Talkwell:


He should remove it?

The lady clearly deceived him cos she desperately wanted to get married.

sorryooo,i didnt know i didnt talk well.pls let them divorce so everybody can go their ways.thanks

So you don dey fuck_ abi?

701ecilana:

How old is he shd be the question. Why marry when one is too young to handle life. God i pity his wife. If in one year she doesn't have a baby this boy will leave.

I year sef is too long

kingjooo:
Please to the ladies i need help urgently,i got married to my wife last three months and since then uptil these moment she has not been able to conceive and it's really getting me worried.I have tried to track her ovulation period bt all to no avail because her circle has been irregular?pls what do i do? She has started menstruating today 25/10/2017 pls forgive my typin skills and help me.

it's just 3 months man, pls chill. Ugh!

kingjooo:
Pls guys don't blame me,she confess 2 me after our marriage that she has done abortion before for her ex.

Three months wow! That is such a long time! You should take her to the river for prayers.

Bros cool down. 3 months is relatively too short a time to start getting worried I know their is this gnawing feeling at the corner of your heart telling you something is wrong but a couple can only start to refer to the infertility cloak after one year.
Talk to a Gynaecologist in a general hospital.he will place your wife under certain examination/test

Hormonal assay( 4 or 5 channel)
Occluded (blocked) fallopian tubes
Endometriosis
Inability to ovulate
High prolactin
Pcos(polycystic ovarian cyst)

While you should go for
Semen analysis ( first stage)
Results from all this can pinpoint the fault and determine treatment course.
Like I said, it is only after a year that one can start mentioning infertility.both of you should relax and just enjoy sex babies will come natural.
Note.. Don't patronize those local herbal people o

Three months and you already worried, carrying calculator to track ovulation?

Your current state of mind alone is enough to kill your spermatozoa.

Oga chillax and enjoy kpekus first.

ifyalways:
Three months and you already worried, carrying calculator to track ovulation?

Your current state of mind alone is enough to kill your spermatozoa.

Oga chillax and enjoy kpekus first.

You ehn