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Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Halo22: 9:38pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
If I had never been in ur situation, I would have called u stupid names. But guy, don't get yourself troubled. Just give her some time, then return to her to find out if she z still on her stand. My own was that after all stories she told me, she quickly made a U-turn before another lady takes over. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by chillychill(f): 9:38pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
fuckpro:always talking out of point am tired of all dis Nairaland talkatives jare 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by madridguy(m): 9:38pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
What exactly did Sai Baba collected from you? Keneking: 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 9:39pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia: It's not late, first I would like to help you out in your financial aspect, not asking you for money, I would like to give you something to use and watch your financial life turn around within a week, what I will give you will attract all kinds of women to you you can get a new better one if you choose, will also attract your current GF back to you. It's for both love and business prosperity. When you confirm it. You can come thank me later with something nice. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 9:40pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
I brought our time to read your writeup and I will advise you to allow her be. That girl is a distraction to you and without her, I see you becoming focused on your life. She loves you yes, but she already has an alternative and that's a good thing for you at this time if your life. If you plan to move up in life, forget love and women for now. Love is a good thing but at this stage of your life, it's a destiny killer. 6 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by lereinter(m): 9:40pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
oga be a man, the girl didn't do anything wrong there are many reasons a girl leave a guy this just one as the gal claimed go for another 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by cescky(m): 9:40pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia: Guy, I perfectly get what your going through... because I went through similar stuff. I'll summeriise, and be brief...yes your in pain now..but this pain will do two things to you, depending on you, if you stay positive, be God dependent you will meet a better person...or let it depress you and soak you in negativity which will drag you years back in terms of finance, etc. But your thinking won't affect bher plans or her intended marriage so you'll only be killing yourself. Talking frm experience, years from now you will see her and laugh over the matter...she may not laugh though because evidently she loves you...but girls marry for many reasons love is not in the top of their list.so she may most likely suffer in this new relationship because, she's spent more time with you and is marrying the other. Guy for society...she may suffer or not but she will put up a front like shes happy Move on bro, girls are hard hearted... both chuch and non church girls ..they don't marry for love Don't depress your self with some one who eloped, because things went bad financially, get busy and get your mind occupied, you'll laugh over the matter with time...she will probably cry over bthe matter with time...she eneterd a spiritual concept with a physical idea.. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by jdluv(f): 9:42pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
jdluv:she wantto have then fix date for introduction make It distant. During this period she will come backto her sense. If she hasnt fall finish forthe new person. You can thankme later |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Only1mi(f): 9:42pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia: You'll have to get over it, the first time usually hurts the most. If she doesn't want to be with you, the sooner you let her go, the quicker you'll get over the heartbreak. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Kabvert(m): 9:42pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:Bro, i understand ya emotion and i know how you feel. One thing i want ye to know is that the girl's love for you has fade away. She's leaving ye not because she needs to marry but because she has gotten a side guy unscrewing her brain with some tame. If truly she loves you and want to get marry at instant,then why can't she encourage you to get little money to just do low key wedding. A lady loves is being determine and measure at this point you are. To cut it short my lovely brother, ask her if you can get marry with the way you are now,just the blessing from both parent and move together. If she insist, then leave her and let her do her wish,it may be difficult but with time,you will get yaself back. But i promise you something she will regret her action except if you are not ready to marry her 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 9:43pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
l didn't read your write up bro... but ll advice u let that girl do what she wants... " if u love someone, set them free! if they return then they are for u and if they don't then it was never destined to be" ( que Sera Sera)... move on 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Menzy86(m): 9:43pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:bro calm down. I dated a girl for three and a half years, showed her to all my family and all that and she still went ahead and cheated with a little undergrad guy. She is married now and we even still spoke today. Women these days live only for the present. The moment u understand this, nothin will ever surprise u. U will heal. Just stay calm. 9 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by HolyTitus(m): 9:43pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Baba, go jhor! Na today ?? Let her go please herself. |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Stevengerd(m): 9:44pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Wetin deh do me now, woh e pass heart break... jah put a smile on my face 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by fuckpro: 9:44pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
chillychill:...u need to be intelligent while reading my post you depict a northerner and child marriage is common there,hence your acclamation of three years! get it! ...and am no talkative am sure you mistook me for someone else 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by birdsview(m): 9:44pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Safe journey to her..we have seen this happen many times.. forget her bro...she is already gone..forget that lame excuse..."boo you are not ready...my folks are pressuring me and this guy is ready to marry...I love boo but I can't go against the wishes of my people...bla bla bla....same old story bro 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Kingdolo(m): 9:46pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
I read stories like this sometimes and wonder what's wrong with some guys . You are not ready to settle down and she wants to ,just let her go ,it ain't easy but you have to. Stay focused on your hussle. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by teemy(m): 9:47pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia: There is a part of love that works selflessly. If you believe your partner has a chance of a better life if she move on with someone else and you try to keep her against her will, in years to come if you guys still remain on the same financial scale, she would detest you as the one she sacrificed a lot for and all for naught. If you guys are true friends, wishing her the best will be what you should aim before and wherever you are, she would always appreciate you for this. Better to part as friends with you letting her know that her happiness is top rankling in your heart than your self love. You will be fine dear. A good thing you realized where you went wrong concerning finances and that different seasons come to man in his lifetime. Now, work on your earning ability and do well for yourself as well. Once again, you will be fine. Wishing you well - Teemy 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by chillychill(f): 9:47pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
fuckpro:I wish u aren't a talkative... 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by teflonjake(m): 9:47pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia: OGBENI be a man and move on. If you like, stay sad from now till next year, the yam is already burnt. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by TechPanda(m): 9:49pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Danladi7: @ Your First 2 Sentence, Who Told You That? |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by yorlq94: 9:49pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Brother fact is bitter,can't swallow it easily,to me love is an ancient word that's we generation of today borrowed it to blackmail ourselves so to achieve our marital aim,so guy be a man and decide to make it in life,if she decide she want to go then makeup your mind and let her blame herself and her family for leaving you,SO BE A MAN 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Memyselfu2009(m): 9:49pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Honestly is not easy.. But you have to be financially stable first.. Let her go if she cant wait. You would fine another girl. Think about it would you allow your sister get married to a man like you. Baba hustle first 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by luwabrooklyn(m): 9:50pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:kilode why all this emotions just tripple ur hustle annd see d girl turn to ur guardian angel |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 9:51pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
so sorry bro but my advice dough its hard but u can get tru it...............move on |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Naxtrad(m): 9:51pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Headlesschicken:Good One man |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Mrnairalandd: 9:52pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Learn from my story @Op I was in the same mess like your situation few years ago, i loved the lady with everything in me. I did everything in my dream and reality to make things happen but all failed Family was putting pressure on her to marry cos age wasn’t on her side We did everything together, we played like siblings, we laughed and played like kids I swear, if you see us in store or public gathering, you ll be jealous of how wonderful and beautiful our relationship was We were in love. In my mind, she was already my wife But my pocket was saying otherwise To cut the long story short, the fate that is about to befall you became my reality. I cried like a baby I cried, cried and cried Friends and foes couldn’t believe a lady could turn me to what i became; a useless being. Fast forward to three months after she left, unknown to me that God has a better plan for me, i began to use the time i used to waste with her for something more productive. All the little Money i used to spend was going to my saving Account and i began to think more of success in life. I devoted my time to become a successful man in life. As at the time she left, i hardly had #2,000 in my Account. Guess what, within a year she left, i bought my first little investment with #1.2 million and quickly bought more business acquisitions with little money i have for future investment... Today, i stayed away from relationships completely cos i realise it is waste of time and energy. I am pleased to inform you that i am in a better position today and thank God for her departure from my life. Please, pick a lesson from my story and use your time judiciously towards productivity than a relationship that ll probably keep you and your future generation in penury. Go and conquer the world. 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by asawanathegreat(m): 9:53pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Don't kill ur self for dis there are many fishes in d river for u. |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by fuckpro: 9:54pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
chillychill:...its actually a good thing a whole career can be built on it,its called mass communication and you could be the nation mouth piece 'mass disinformation ' but no am not a talkative actually the antithesis of one in real life 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Riqueleme(m): 9:56pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:Well, I will keep on saying dis bro "So far Satan fit betrayed God So what about we" humans " Life per head bro! U ve learnt ya lesson bro "Never in ya humble life seek for joy or happiness from any fucking body" U better clean ya face...u better think about ya life....cos life is shit and shit can come any fucking time..... She didn't receive any feed back from her prayer Na lie,why is it dat,it was now she is praying about dis issue,why not back den, Oga na excuse Let her go! #ciao 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by chiraqDemon(m): 9:56pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
So she will now marry another guy she dies not love just because she has to settle down. Marriage is not by force. I know of a friend's aunt that never married but she is more successful than a lot of ppl even going on to become a big woman in one of the states in naija. Now when she goes off and marries the other guy she will still come back to op to satisfy her love and it will lead to cheating. Naija sha. Op sha I understand ur situation but I don't have advice as I'm way too inexperienced for this 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Ronneby: 9:57pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
I cant remember when last I logged into naira land but I usually view peoples post and comment. What strikes me about your post is that I went through a sort of similar experience in the past and I seem to know how you are feeling right now. Feeling of rejection sort of? What I did in my own case was to detach myself from the relationship I can assure you it wasn't easy but I promised myself one thing and which is that I will strive to be successful in life that years after when the girls family members or the girl herself see me or come across me they will know they made a wrong choice by letting go of me. That was the push for me which propelled me to achieve greater heights through legal means . Though it might initially look like things are not working out for you initially but I can assure you that if you put your heart to it with determination and trusting God, you will surely get there. |
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