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Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Ditala(m): 10:10pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Gone were the days, when men were MEN!!! The private part that one can never endure to see even in the night, talk less of day time, will never..I repeat..will never ever be a problem to me through out my life. Bros, pls lock her away and throw the key straight into the Pacific Ocean 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by cococandy(f): 10:11pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
pocohantas:Exactly. Many people don’t understand that putting pressure on young girls to get married at a young age has ripple effects. The Genevieve they are yabbing today, they don’t know if she’s still single because she spent her 20s in a long relationship with someone hoping it would lead to marriage . 6 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Brugo(m): 10:12pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Mr Philosophia. What a name! What will pain me is if you go and beg this girl not to leave you. If you try it, I might "swear" for you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, she is selfish and wants to dump you, etc. Mr man, let her go. This is one painful situation many guys have endured. The earlier you forget her, the better. Move on. In fact don't just move on, move AHEAD. You are not the first man to face this situation and you won't be the last. Many powerful men have had difficulty persuading women to marry them. One of such was Prime minister Churchill. Just plunge yourself into productive stuff. 4 Likes
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Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by bayocanny: 10:12pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
pocohantas:Lol, bitter truth. So you mean for every married couples there's a heartbroken man/lady crying out his/her hear out. Tell me more please |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by akaahs(m): 10:12pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:Just hope u are posting this from ur heart nd not pretending. Pls do everything within ur power to channel ya energy towards a meaningful venture instead of crying nd wincing like a small baby over woman matter. Be strong bro u ll be just fine trust me, o was there. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by TiffanyDavies(f): 10:15pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
First of all, I would like to say that those who opined that he shouldn't have spent money on this girl seem to have omitted the part where he said that they had been pooling resources as a couple. I particulary detest guys who see themselves as being too smart to spend on the girls they are with. They end up being the fools in the long run. Now, back to the issue at hand. If the girl wants to get married, please let her be if you aren't ready. This thing called emotion is like disco lights. The very fact that you are in love with her today, doesn't mean you would eventually feel the same tomorrow. If you can't strike now by getting married to her while the iron of love is still hot , let her go. One thing I have come to realize is that only about 10% of women actually get married to men of their dreams. When women get to a particular age, they have to settle for whoever meets certain criteria, and is ready when they are. True, she may be passionately head over heels in love with you, but she wants a family and kids too. Unfortunately, you aren't ready. If you really want to, all these excuses about money wont even come in at all. There are so many young men who get married with family support. Some later turned out well. A very good example is the Mount Zion Movies guy. You have two options- ask her to marry you so you don't lose her or forget her. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by ofalu047(m): 10:16pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
cococandy: Thanks! My sister. nasoo dem dey ask person. I was with her before she got into the university. I stood by her thru all ds period. I was alrdy working and all dt. She slowed me down actaully! The 6 yrs was for her maturity, her family approval and all dt shit. It is a vry long story, but l av tried to highlight d few points. I had all it took to get married. To Mr OP, fast forward to ds moment, l have seen growth in my life in a short time l had not seen in 6 yrs. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Mrnairalandd: 10:16pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Ronneby: This is the spirit, i honestly think that men should subjected to this sort of experience cos it propelled you to achieve and become successful in life. The moment you get over it, your life usually take a new turn to a better tomorrow. It’s a good thing for a smart man... 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Maduawuchukwu(m): 10:17pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
ezenwajosh: So na drug pushing go help him finance? 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by cococandy(f): 10:18pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
cruchenutii:Who told you feminism has anything against people being nice to each other? 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by jonadaft: 10:18pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:Fück you 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by cococandy(f): 10:19pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Okay ofalu047: 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by donnaD(f): 10:19pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:in every tin give thanks to God.God knows the best,there is way that seemth rite unto a man but the end is destruction. bros it's well 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by ofalu047(m): 10:19pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Jonathan: Bros pls can you justify this? |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by ayoncox: 10:20pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
The girl is telling you to cry to God for a change. Fast and pray as you told her then fix a time to get married to her. In my opinion it is more about you having a profitable living and second raising a family |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by tellwisdom: 10:21pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
You no get money, u dey love...not even all these stupiiddd Nigerian gurls...foolish boi 6 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by mhizsuzzy(f): 10:23pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia: Ehyaa don't worry ooh Come and cry on my shoulders ooh, is empty Take handkerchief......... ngwa wipe ur face oooh 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by oebson(m): 10:23pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
My brother, I've been in those shoes before. I dated mine for eight years, at a point she started showing the other side of her. I held on to her like she's my life, couldn't imagine losing her to another, and she took every advantage of my love to hot me mercilessly without remorse. We had dreams and aspirations for the futures, but trust our girls, they always have something up their sleeves. She cheated multiple times, out of ma unconditional love for her, I still held on to her. I knew this girl would leave me one day, but I couldn't bear the thought of moving on without her. She was literally the air that I breathed, until it happened over three years ago. She jilted me when I needed her most, at the lowest moment of my life, when I needed her moral support, love and care, claiming SHE'S NOT GETTING ANY YOUNGER, thinking she'll be getting married soon to a ready suitor. Little did I know she was seeing two other guys as well. To cut the long story short my guy, almost four years down the lane, my ex is yet to get a ring. Bottom line, although I went through hell then, I found the courage to move on and I'm better for it cus I learnt so many things from that mistake. Don't see her as you all in all. I know you must be thinking of the loss of investment on her, but let me assure you, this is gonna be the best that has ever happened to you. Just let her go, you'll be fine without her. You were living before you met her and you can still live better without her. The freedom and relief you will enjoy without her in your life is beyond imagination. Just make good use of your life, now that the distraction is about to kiss the door. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 10:27pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:lolz, it hurts cos it's your first time, now you've learnt a big lesson, don't do any stupid thing to yourself, cheer up, pick up yourself and move on, now you've understood better the way the games are being played hahaha, gone are days ladies wait on love, since 1960 they now go for the highest bidder, grow your bank account grow it very well and make it fat then go for any lady you want, you will see its gonna be easy, that's the only language they understand, mehn I've got a diva spying on my FB, see ya later. All the best. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by ASAMPETE1: 10:28pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Go after her sisters. Finish them all. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Rubbiish(m): 10:28pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Bibi294:We have all been through that shiit called love at some point in our lives...it isnt worth it... I know couple of years from now, op will curse himself for allowing emotion to rule him... 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Gerrard59(m): 10:30pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
pocohantas: I had to quote for the laughs. At bolded, I reason that if young women are not castigated or excessively pressured into getting married before a certain age. Most guys will marry their first love or loved partners. But then, nature has a way of paying someone for deeds done. You force ladies to marry before 28 like Emusimthy did months back, they retaliate by marrying the ready guy. OP's GF does not want to be seen as a leftover, "slay queen", standard looking kind of girl. Let her marry before she becomes 28 years old and have a thread created because of her spinsterhood. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Chukazu: 10:30pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia: She wants to get married in one year's time,why not begin to plan towards it? Just double your hustle? 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by talk2percy(m): 10:31pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Bro, I know how u are feeling, to an extent-believe me I do. Buh from what u said, u are not likely settling down anytime sooner, and she gave u a time frame when she's expected to settle down. For her to sound like this, and u have discovered that gross disconnection in the strong chemistry u guys once shared or still sharing as the case may be...she's seen someone she thinks she can settle down with, and her family seems to be in full support. If u can make it within the time she said, ok, hence u really love this girl buh if she's gon put u into undue pressure, please let her go...there's someone special out there that is deserving of u and that can take all the pressure for u and stick with u. It's not the end of the world..goodluck man! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by zoomman(m): 10:32pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:Suck it up bro...such is life....it will all end in praise...Never give up...your time to laugh and forget your past is on the way...cheer up. |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 10:33pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
i feel u bro.. women ar nt to be trusted a bit.. dts dere primary goal in life sha.. gettin married even if it means gettin married to the devil himself... Hustle hard.. nd collect anoda person serious babe to marry .. d circle co ntinue.. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 10:33pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
cococandy: Awwwww !!! Coming from you, this is so niccce. Infact I'm blushing |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 10:35pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Maduawuchukwu: And who said anything àbout pushing drugs....Ur brains processing unit is outdated 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by cococandy(f): 10:40pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
cruchenutii:. Because I’m allergic to BS doesn’t mean I’m not nice. This isn’t a rare occurrence. I’m always nice. Except when I’m expected to entertain BS. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by charlesklaus(m): 10:40pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:I was exactly in ur shoes during January, almost exactly same scenario and it was 3yrs also.. but here I am feeling more life, trust me time really heals almost everything.. my advice just learn to love you first! |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by sunboy(m): 10:41pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia: I feel your pain bro but you just have to let go. Double your hustle, a better match will show up. You will be fine in no time. Trust God, and believe in yourself. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by cococandy(f): 10:42pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Why date for 8 years? What was your plan? oebson: |
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