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Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Akinniyi10: 10:46pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:My brother Pls don't be deceived and come to think of it if the lady ask u to pray and fast about the situation. You must ask urself some important question. Is the lady herself spiritual or marriage issue made her to see fasting and prayer as an antidote to tie u down and making u believe she got a revelation from God.. ......... Don't be deceived my brother on this issue, she has made up her mind you God cannot change it. That is why it is wise not to invest heavily on any lady that u are not married to. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Rohzay(m): 10:47pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
I have been in dis situation,it hurts n I nearly died bt hey, bro I got ova,.....let her go,it hurts bt let her go,i repeat let her go! if it finaly didnt work out for u2,u wil b blamed for life,just let her go,... u make feel lyk dyin,bet me u wont die...no woman is worth dyin for.....u may cry for weeks n months bt at d end u wil b fine I swear it hpend to me,i was saved by grace,... let her go, and alwys do woteva makes u hpy, be it, music,sports,hangin out wt frnds,clubbin.....i bet u,wt time u wil b ok,ur own no evn worse,bro I had chest pain til today coz of her,bt I am sure u wil b fine,,,dt forget u Must get a beta girl,N u wil settle down in peace no hurry in life.....be a man!B strong next tym dnt luv wt all d heart,like I said bro u wil b ok soonest I bet u 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Maduawuchukwu(m): 10:51pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
ezenwajosh: Sorry Nwanne. It's just that all my men for malay na that lane dem dey run. |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Flaghouse1: 10:54pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia: First of all you need to use "pure water" to wash your face to clear that love for your eyes, Let me share a story ( real) I once dated a lady ,very beautiful to the extent that the dad likes me that when I visit the house the mother will always ask me questions if I have seen the lady ,I will just st pretend like say I don't know what she is talking about ,the mother will send the junior ones to call her she will just come to,the sitting room and we go dey pretend for each other,she later messed up ,just something similar to your case ,I was really pained because it was my first and true love ,also an introvert like you, I just had to bone and leave area as guy never hold pepper, fast forward 4-5 years later that was how she came to my office and my oga saw her with me and was surprised that I had such a beautiful babe, she came to me to continue the relationship and I told her that it can't work as I will not be able to tell the current babe to leave because of her. It was later I did some investigation and discovered that the mother and father was really eager for her to get married and were like asking her about me and was desperate to win me back. Young man I prophesy into your life , that this is just a small disappointment in your life that will eventually open bigger and better financial breakthrough and opportunities for you very soon. My candid advise let her go, though it's painful but I assure you will never regret the decision ! 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by ariklawani(f): 10:56pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Some pple didn't do summary in school.couldn't finish the long story. biko let her go since u not ready,woman time dey quick expire |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Spectre007: 10:57pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Menzy86:you're strong oo,u passed thru all these nd still maintained ur sanity.... nd ur still friends with the girl.all the memories u both shared,hope u hv found another girl? |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Philosophia: 10:58pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Wow! Thanks for all the love and advice. Thank you lalasticlala. I am glad I brought this here. Thank you too to my good friend who asked me to bring it here. You don't want me to name you, so I won't. I have learnt so much because I decided to share tonight. I feel much better. Before logging in now, I just called her to say goodnight in my usual way. I asked how she was and she said fine and returned the question. I said I was "just there". She asked why and I told her that her decision got me into a bad place. She then asked "My decision is a good one now, not so?". I told her that I am not sure it is a good decision. Her tone changed and she told me that it was not my place to be sure about her decision. She said it was her decision to make and she was sure about it. I got a bit angry, but I calmed myself and told her as I usually do that I love her. She said a simple ok and goodnight. If not for the advice I have gotten here, I would have gone on to ask her why she is acting the way she is. But I did not, I just goodnight and hung up. It is clear to me now what you guys have been saying. I know her to be quite stubborn but this time around, something more is giving her impetus. I will study all your advice and create a good path to exit as gracefully as I can. Thank you all. It is well. 13 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 10:59pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Augustap: How you take know? You dom see Raging Lion before ? 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 10:59pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Danladi7:Na d only sensible post wey I see be this. Obviously, when thing get bad for the so man she wants to marry, she will say her family wants her to divorce. Useless girl that wants to marry to escape poverty. When the marriage fails tomorrow, they will say marriage was not meant to be or that it didn't just work. When it is obvious she went in there for her selfish reasons. See why marriages fail in Nigeria. She has tried albeit. Point is she should work on herself. My advice for OP is to leave her and move on, prolly she is the ill luck! 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 10:59pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Flaghouse1: Pure Water? Really? |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Augustap(f): 11:00pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
cruchenutii:Hahahahahahaha....you never see where woman dey craze b4, if you don see u go know say raging lion na understatement |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:01pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Rokia2:it's not about movies. The girl is non better. The mistake many ladies make is they see the man as the "ultimate provider" without wanting to work on themselves to be self sufficient. What are we marrying for? Survival or to complement the other person? Why do we marry? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:02pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
sayhi2certified: My location is Delta. Sapele, you can come whenever you want it. |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:02pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
sben2308:No mind them. Confused beings. They are all around. I have one like that too. No focus. Always looking here and there. They can't work on themselves. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:03pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Tbillz:exactly, go to court and marry. Abi 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:03pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
sben2308:No mind them. Confused beings. They are all around. I have one like that too. No focus. Always looking here and there. They can't work on themselves. |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Flaghouse1: 11:04pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia: That is the spirit- you win some ,you loose some Adopt this candor and you will see that more unpalatable news like this will not shake you, be the man you are expected to be |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by NigelCundy: 11:05pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:happy for you bro |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by kushme: 11:05pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Whenever I hear people shouting double your hustle for a situation like this, I just shake my pric.k... My present mindset would never double any hustle for the sake of marriage or just to protect a relationshit. The power of the pvssy is so strong to some men and that's all they live for. 9 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by mbahdi(m): 11:13pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia:same here bro.just take hrt n move on wt ur life |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:15pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
jdluv:how can on tell she is not being deceived. The problem with many single Nigerian ladies is " they don't want to experience life". They do not want to take the uncomfortable situation as one for them. They think life will always be rossy. Why do we marry? What do we want in an individual? Do we get what we want in an individual when we marry just anyone? These are few questions we need to ask ourselves. Do we wish to be happy in our marriage? I have seen people life get miserable after marriage. I have seen a guy's life turned to misery after marriage. One came lamenting on NL. Marry a compliment not an escapee or a pressuree or a liability! 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:17pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Halo22:lols, threats but it may not be, she was smart to see who really loves her truly. The problem with young ladies is they feel because they got good behaviour or are beautiful, a man will always love them. They need to understand men 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Luckygurl(f): 11:20pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia: To help yourself better, withdraw gradually from her. You still have feelings for her and they'll continue to grow if you keep on fueling and feeding it. Channel that energy into something else and be productive. You'll be glad you did few years from now My prayers are with you, it's well even in the well. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:21pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
cescky:what's a sick society we live in. What's the essence when we are not happy within. I have had senior males friends that were f*cking their married Exs. What's the essence? Why can't we marry for love and happiness? Must we do photoshoot and spend millions on marriage. We can't we live an easy life in Nigeria? OP, can get married but he is planning one big wedding I would think! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by MISTAICEY02288(m): 11:23pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
sben2308: You've spoken well. I like that part where you said "You're priceless to someone who knows your worth" That part speaks volume |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:25pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
teemy:good there is a clear difference between " I Want to go and I want to stay". But why is the I want to go always about marriage. This is the problem I have with many of our Nigerian single ladies. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by pocohantas(f): 11:26pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Gerrard59: Now they're here to sing how girls are wicked, tomorrow they'll create another thread bashing single ladies. Yet some of them have been dating one girl for 5yrs. How many ladies marry their first love? They end up dating these guys for years, till they fall for pressure and hook the next available groom. Like I said, it's a vicious cycle. cococandy: They don't know. Some ladies don't care anymore, there is no pleasing men and the society. They do what works for them. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:28pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
If you are financially unstable, don't go Into marriage. |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:35pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
shadeyinka:depends on the family. Some families no just get joy. I will make a thread on that shortly |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:35pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
ofalu047:6 years too much now haba!! |
Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by Nobody: 11:38pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Augustap:Thank you. She is a disaster waiting to happen to the next man |
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