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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by UfuomaUN(m): 11:44pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
HRHQueenPhil: I had this mentality couple of years ago when I was in my final year, still relishing the thought of brandishing my high GPA in the eyes of anyone that bothered to give me audience. Today I'm in the Engineering industry, learning from people who had less formal education than I did but ironically are more sound technically and way successful than I could ever imagine. And guess what? Most of them from what I've learnt personally have affected society more than our so called first class students- the pride of tertiary education. and I could go on and on...but in simple University education is shit.... especially in Nigeria So pls, University education is over rated 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by stellarsfinest: 11:44pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
We are shapened by our society and its really a tough job to fight the mentality. If i was a girl i would consider a guy with no degree in a western country (after sampling his intellectual capability tho) But in nigeria, its a tough job to make it without without degree 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by khalhokage(m): 11:45pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
pocohantas: My dear anybody smart enough can get programming certification, people get those in computer schools, you're right though the OP specified SSCE. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Acidosis(m): 11:45pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
I don't judge or rate people based on their level of classroom education. Some YouTube Channels are way better than an entire public university in Nigeria. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Dasherz(f): 11:46pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
dasherz: the only education I consider good enough for an individual is the basic education and high school education which gives you a general view of life tertiary education is meant to sharpen your skill in any career choice you wish to get involved in but it in no way makes you intelligent ... Yes I am in a tertiary institution cos I chose to be an Engineer and I can only be a professional in that field when I an tutored by other professionals in the said field ... Tertiary education doesn't make you any better than a well informed non graduate out there who is well informed and vexed in what he does the only difference is that you have a degree and he doesn't |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by SEXONLY: 11:46pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
You're partially right. Meanwhile, can we be friends? phintohlar: |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Abiolaseyi(m): 11:49pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
phintohlar:interesting, what many have forgotten is the fact that schooling is different from education. Majority of Nigeria graduate doesn't even use their mind. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 11:50pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
pryme:its now very common.there are many graduates who can't even spell their names.i think the trend is persisting because many people who have never being in the four corners of a classroom now buy fake Bsc certificates under the mango tree.its now a thriving business in some institutions.u got the money and the syndicate hands u your fake certificate.naija we hail thee. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Dasherz(f): 11:50pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
dasherz: the only education I consider good enough for an individual is the basic education and high school education which gives you a general view of life tertiary education is meant to sharpen your skill in any career choice you wish to get involved in but it in no way makes you intelligent ... Yes I am in a tertiary institution cos I chose to be an Engineer and I can only be a professional in that field when I an tutored by other professionals in the said field ... Tertiary education doesn't make you any better than a well informed non graduate out there who is well informed and vexed in what he does the only difference is that you have a degree and he doesn't |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pocohantas(f): 11:52pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
khalhokage: Let's leave semantics and be sincere with ourselves. Most people don't just stop at SSCE in Nigeria and go digging for every available knowledge like Gates and Zuckerberg did. The average Nigerian isn't that thirsty for knowledge. A Nigerian that stops at SSCE is either one rebellious child or due to lack of funds. The next step is to learn business, not build Facebook or Microsoft. I never said drop outs are not enlightened anyway. I just love enlightened professionals, my choice. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by inotice: 11:54pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
forget all these online gimmicks and false claims,A man with just PrimarySix cert. that is hardworking in this era of Nigeria and knows his way around women,will not only be marriageable but will have options to choose from. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by mixter(m): 11:54pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Peachess:Savagery. No chill you have Peachess |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Chikwado1991(m): 11:55pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
HRHQueenPhil:after now you go say no man wan Marry you |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by mixter(m): 11:56pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Dasherz:Word. Well spoken. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by mixter(m): 11:59pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
[quote author=pocohantas post=61732769]NO. Not just having the degree, but being grounded in his field...academically. Please, nobody should come here to form holier than thou and smh for Nigerians. We all have something that attracts us to the opposite sex, love isn't blind after all. That's why some guys won't marry that hardworking girl selling fish in the market, you'll prefer the hardworking banker. For some, it's religious inclination, some educational, physical, financial, cultural...etc. It doesn't make you better than them, you also saw something in your own partner that they probably won't care about, because it's not something that ticks the box for them. Except you can marry that uneducated, timid, disabled [I mean no offence to this group], and not too good looking male/female, don't just try to form better than others. We all have our choices, If you're not condescending about it...no probz.[/quote Akonuche dey your head. Well said. Different strokes for different folks. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by leoblacky: 12:00am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Wise up degree did not detamine someone's happiness OK and many okada riders are degree holders.nonchench. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Dasherz(f): 12:02am On Oct 26, 2017 |
leoblacky: lwkmd ... nigga you ain't gat no chill left 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Michael004: 12:02am On Oct 26, 2017 |
pocohantas:I am not insulting you ma. I am telling you how dumb you sound. Read about Enzo Ferrari, Read about Phiona Mutesi. You will realise what I am saying about you. You said I am insulting you, did you see you just displayed what I am saying about you. I am sure you are still in school. I have passed through school and I have moved with people. Going to school does not make you an intelligent person. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Michael004: 12:03am On Oct 26, 2017 |
leoblacky:Tell them. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 12:07am On Oct 26, 2017 |
khalhokage:u comparing abroad with Nigeria where their education system is superb. Their high school in the US or what we call secondary school here is developed. Even bill gates that is a drop out u certainly can't compare him to a drop out here.look,when i was in 100 level in the university there was this advanced man offering GST with us.This man has 3 wives with six children and he has a very big gas station.he is a man who is well off as we heard and he was studying law.so no matter ur age or size...education is important.look at this country and see how e don retrogress.na course na illiterates wey dey handle the affairs of this country dats why the country dey backward.look at buhari that thinks that Germany is still called western Germany.illiteracy na disease abeg. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Michael004: 12:15am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Dasherz:Well said. When I was in school, I went for a month program at ajaokuta where they were installing gas turbine power plant. As an engineering student then, I mean mechanical. I humbled myself just for me to learn from the weathers working there. They didn't go to school o, but as someone that want to become welding inspector, I have to humble to learn from them. They have the skills and are intelligent in it. Why didn't I just jump into the work and start welding because I have been thought in book in school. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Revolva(m): 12:16am On Oct 26, 2017 |
HRHQueenPhil: see ur life what does certificate has to do concerning to be a good father that can provide for his children you think say na by masters shame on you |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Probz(m): 12:16am On Oct 26, 2017 |
[quote author=mixter post=61774102][/quote] Oh for f*ck’s sake. I need to tweak this my moniker if the alternative means I have to be notified every time someone says “probz.” |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Michael004: 12:16am On Oct 26, 2017 |
lefulefu:What of Thomas Edison. Abi you want to tell me Harvard has been in existence then? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 12:16am On Oct 26, 2017 |
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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 12:18am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Michael004:hope u do know in western nations apart from the regular schools they have what u call hometown schooling.do we have such in Nigeria? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pocohantas(f): 12:18am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Michael004: Intelligent man...good morning. I can't even remember saying I am intelligent, you sure you're not the dumb one. When are you changing the world with your 'intelligence'? You seem to know how to identify dumb people, like you some standard mixter: Thanks jare. Civil people that respect the opinion and choices of others. Not idiots throwing tantrums... so much for being enlightened. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by LionInBoxOffice(m): 12:18am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Some comments here are just hilarious.Marriage is much more than certificate. Marriage is about "COMPATIBLITY ". 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pocohantas(f): 12:20am On Oct 26, 2017 |
LionInBoxOffice: And isn't compatibility a product of 'compatible' interest? Can you be compatible with just anyone or you have things you look out for? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Konquest: 12:22am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Acidosis:^^^^^^^ You're absolutely correct! Larry King, the iconic Sonny Okosun, Patrick Doyle etc, are some of the millions of people who never had Uni degrees but carved a nitch for themselves as professionals in their fields of endeavors. Online education is also available for continuous education at no cost for the benefit of all via YouTube Education and more... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Dasherz(f): 12:23am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Michael004: and the funny thing is that what we kill ourselves to learn in classes only few of the pages are really applied in engineering ... most engineers have to undergo some training (most of the trainers are non graduates) to be well vexed with what they're to face in the industry |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pansophist(m): 12:24am On Oct 26, 2017 |
HRHQueenPhil: There is a difference between ''schooling'' and ''education''. What you actually meant is that you want a man that has passed through the walls of a university, not actually an educated man. Education has nothing to do with going to a university, schooling is merely complementary to education, not education in itself. In no acceptable measure will autodidacts be classified as uneducated, as many of them have changed the world with their ingenuity. Because someone didn't attend university doesn't mean they prohibit schooling, you are mixing different things together. If you knew the history of organized education, you would know that it is not okay to judge someone for not attending a university. The benchmark of being truly educated should be capped on illiteracy and individual capability, not by attending a conventional school that does more on surpressing student's creativity than actually enhancing it. |
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