Gofwane:
you need advice? How is their problem your concern? No, what you need is mind your business

Bless you bro.

MyNewJackeT:


yeah that plate of hot pepper soup, but I still remember him in his glory days, and it seems quite a lot has changed.

or this could be his best days apart from the other days being days of vanity.

but no one has talked about the wife's act of shame towards the husband.

Bro husband and wife matter e hard to put mouth. We no know whether the woman don buy, na the man no wear.
If he looks happy, let them be.

The level of your relationship with the wife should determine where you should advise her or just mind your own business

Kobicove:
The level of your relationship with the wife should determine where you should advise her or just mind your own business

that's true

gist4real:


Bro husband and wife matter e hard to put mouth. We no know whether the woman don buy, na the man no wear.
If he looks happy, let them be.

she no buy anything

seriously

ashjay001:



Most wives are like that!? They only notice during courtship or earlier in d marriage!?

Most wives aren't like that because they want their husbands to continue to look good for them.

You can't blame the wife. The problem is that the husband got comfortable in the marriage and let himself go.
If it were me I would buy him clothing everytime I shopped for the kids and I.

khiaa:



Most wives aren't like that because they want their husbands to continue to look good for them.

You can't blame the wife. The problem is that the husband got comfortable in the marriage and let himself go.
If it were me I would buy him clothing everytime I shopped for the kids and I.

If it were u n hopefully, pepper rest!?


By most, I mean not all, but likely 85%+!

ashjay001:





If it were u n hopefully, pepper rest!?


By most, I mean not all, but likely 85%+!

Ok but I don't understand your pepper rest comment, explain it to me.

Maybe the guy dey wear the rags cos na wetin im wife want.u know wen a man don marry and he still dey dress good and look good im wife go start vex cos she no go want other ladies to dey look at her husband.so in other to appease and make im wife dey at ease he needs to wear rags.marriage life can be funny sometimes sha.

khiaa:



Ok but I don't understand your pepper rest comment, explain it to me.

The op says d hubby wasnt financially bouyant. Pepper=kudi=owo=ego

nosiebaba:
There must be a problem if a man's wife cannot even notice that he is looking haggard o

some wives prefer it dat way

Tatafo!!!!!!! Mind your business

MyNewJackeT:
I knew this man back when I was in secondary School. he was the talk of the street, had so many girlfriends he is well educated too.

everything was working for him as a single guy back then.

fast forward to now, this guy got married with kids and has a not too reasonable job, but can still keep food on the table but the problem I have is that he isn't properly dressed, he has even paid for his wife's higher education too.

with all the money this man has been making, you see nothing in him, but his kids are looking good and wife too.

my problem is that, is it a hard thing for the wife to remove a little money out of her allowance and buy some shirts and good shoes for this man, I know this man can be worked up and forget about doing most of those things due to the family constantly on his mind.

but why is the woman not even caring about the husband, I've noticed something of recent, they don't go to occasions together, makes me think that she's kind of ashamed of the husband.

should i Even talk to her, as in give her advice, I don't like what she's doing.

The last time I ask my grandma the secret of her logivity, she told me that she learnt to mind her business, I suggest you do the same!

khiaa:



Ok but I don't understand your pepper rest comment, explain it to me.

pepper rest= if u had enough financial pepper. We nickname money as pepper in Nigeria. Its a popular slang.u get pepper?(money)

lefulefu:
some wives prefer it dat way

guy you are not serious

MyNewJackeT:


guy you are not serious

i am serious oo
dont u know if d husband starts looking clean and well dressed the slayqueens will start eyeing him

lefulefu:
pepper rest= if u had enough financial pepper. We nickname money as pepper in Nigeria. Its a popular slang.u get pepper?(money)

Okay thanks. How are you doing?

ashjay001:


The op says d hubby wasnt financially bouyant. Pepper=kudi=owo=ego

Okay Thanks.

khiaa:


Okay thanks. How are you doing?

oh i am fine..and u?

seriously speaking.