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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Chukwudi4naija(m): 8:28am On Oct 26, 2017 |
trojan84:Intelligent and dumb at the same time? Ok. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pocohantas(f): 8:28am On Oct 26, 2017 |
YelloweWest: Well said. Compatibility is subjective, it means different things to all of us. They know these things, but they don't just want to see a woman having a choice on men. If the topic was the reverse, women won't be this bothered. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Respect55(m): 8:29am On Oct 26, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Dnt narrow your argument down to me bro. We are debating on graduates and non graduates in general, not me |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by tosyne2much(m): 8:31am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Dasherz:God bless you. Like I used to tell people that being educated goes beyond having a certificate. It has to do with how you think, morals, your approach to matters, how to proffer solution to problems and your manner of talking I know some people who open their mouths to talk exactly like bush people yet educated and you will marvel at how they managed to obtain their certificates. Real education is meant to sharpen your mind and views 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Denko2721987(m): 8:32am On Oct 26, 2017 |
MaritzaNL: English woman.. I hope u are aware we arent english and even though english seems to be our national lingua franca, dont forget we all have our unique language which gives us our unique identity.. People from Germany are called Germanx because they speak German.. People from France are called the French because they speak French.. People from Japan are called Japs because they speak Japanese and so on.. These countries dont speak english and Nigeria with all our borrowed, refined, polished and expressive english which we now seem to speak more than the English but which we mostly use realistically to deceive and profile ourselves socially wouldnt come anywhere close to the developmental strides/conquests attained by these non-english speaking countries who have a unique common language, makes them unique and gives them a collective identity.. But can u say so for Nigerians No.. Can you now see why we dont even have a common or collective identity by which we are bounded by as Nigerians like a common language which in my own opinion is one of the major banes blighting this country which is why i am a strong advocate for we as a nation if we still agree to remain one, to develop or adopt a brand new common Nigerian or 'Naija' language which isnt english but which can easily be spoken and understood by every nigerian like pidgin because we have so many cultural, religious and social inferiority complexes destroying this country.. That said, i think we all have personal preferences influenced by many factors so i see no wrong if a woman has an above normal preference or knack for 'impecable oratory skills' as a quality that attrats her to the opposite sex.. For me, it could be clealiness and character and so on.. As they say, different strokes for different folks.. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by YelloweWest: 8:38am On Oct 26, 2017 |
grossintel:The lack of happiness in my sister's marriage is simply because she and her husband don't reason alike. Her views are more enlightened and civil, influenced largely by her education. His are more archaic and obsolete. Due to the lack of exposure that comes with education. He feels he can treat his wife any way he pleases. He is even of the view that he can kill her because he paid her bride price! To him she has no basic human rights! Now if he married an illiterate she could tolerate such because she knows no better. But for a well read woman it's unimaginable. This is the point am stressing. I've witnessed it first hand. AN EDUCATED WOMAN AND AN UNEDUCATED MAN IS A BAD MIX! Except he was the same exposure through reading and experience but for one reason or the other could not get a degree. For example. My husband and I were in uni together. We both studied law. I've since gone to law sch and become a lawyer but my hus has been unable to go due to business. However he has read all the law school courses. He also worked in the court for 10years after his waec. He is by far more experienced than me in law processes but is not a lawyer. In this instance he has been educated by his experience and exposure. We reason alike and share the same views. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by coolh3ad(m): 8:40am On Oct 26, 2017 |
MaritzaNL: Thinking level........For real.. hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by tosyne2much(m): 8:41am On Oct 26, 2017 |
akinwumiedward:Sorry for everything you've gone through bro. It's circumstances that decide the height one will attain in this life and the fact someone is not privileged to be educated does not make them less of a person. It shouldn't give people the chance to look down on them just that we are in a society where discrimination and oppression thrive Person wey dey wear boutique go discriminate against those wey dey wear okrika Person wey get AC for him car go discriminate against person wey no get Person wey go Covenant university to discriminate against person wey go LAUTECH Person wey get big joystick go discriminate against person wey get short joystick That's just the kind of society we find ourselves bro 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by 1bunne4lif(m): 8:41am On Oct 26, 2017 |
MaritzaNL:ok |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by donnaD(f): 8:52am On Oct 26, 2017 |
who certificate helpas far as he is hard working,humble,knows his self worth and has great dreams and aspirations with a gud vocation and knows how to xpress himself am already on the alter with him.how many of our graduates are working?smh a graduate who will not be able to take care of me and our kids is that one a man?? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by talk2percy(m): 8:55am On Oct 26, 2017 |
tosyne2much:oya naw bros, check out this English from a graduate oh...There's are a lot of intelligence SSCE holder, but what I said is my preference. I can't (I wouldn't even do that ) |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by tosyne2much(m): 8:55am On Oct 26, 2017 |
sharpwriter:You're on point bro. This country is in dire need of enlightened and right thinking leaders not educated leaders. Look at how the country is in the state of obscurity despite the fact that most of our leaders are educated either through the back door or through the road right way. There are many advanced countries where the leaders are not as educated as ours yet they don't misbehave when in put in the position of power, they do not loot public fund, they are not selfish and self-centered because they have the love of the people at heart. Goodluck Jonathan is a PhD holder but what spectacular impact did he make during his tenure rather than loot the nation's fund and usher us into recession. Like I said earlier, we don't need graduates as leaders but loving, enlightened and right thinking people 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Halo22: 9:01am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Degree or no degree, a man with good character matters a lot. Though your degree may help you boast up ur ego, your attitude is a major determinant of your altitude. Nevertheless, it is to one according to his or her plan. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by donnaD(f): 9:03am On Oct 26, 2017 |
yeyerolling:My bro ur head is there.dont mind all these ladies forming Behind,who certificate help when u don't have god father. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by cupidhero(m): 9:03am On Oct 26, 2017 |
pocohantas: Degree from where? Schools where lecturers take bribe from students and give them a pass or what? A Degree doesn't equate intelligence. It seems you don't really know the people you are defending? The average girl go fall your hand. How many of your friends eventually lived up to their words by marrying a ''fair and rich'',''tall and handsome'' or ''educated and intelligent'' man? It takes a higher level of intelligence for a girl to say no to good money and sometimes good sex. Life ain't that fair and poverty is no joke. This is no country for dreamers. All this Victorian fairy tales inspired answers mean nothing in real life. That degree holder some of them dey wait for dey one site like dis dey carry cement or somewhere in Nigeria struggling. Sorry if i sounded too negative. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Oluwadare: 9:05am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Fantastic topic to debate upon. But no matter how hard one side try to buttress their point(s) against the other, they can never win this argument because it's a matter of choice, and so far we don't reason in the same way, our view towards objects, situations or issues will always be different. So many factors to consider when going into a marriage. And these factors are quite distinct from one individual to another. So I'd always respect any side anyone takes when it's come to a discussion like this. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by bukas15(m): 9:05am On Oct 26, 2017 |
MaritzaNL:is that how u talk to ur elders |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Mzperry(f): 9:07am On Oct 26, 2017 |
My husband is not a degree holder, I am and we are fine 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by tosyne2much(m): 9:07am On Oct 26, 2017 |
talk2percy: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 9:08am On Oct 26, 2017 |
bukas15:Lol.. maritzaNL come off as a dumbo. She's a Modafuckerly. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 9:12am On Oct 26, 2017 |
bukas15:what makes you my elder? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Youngzedd(m): 9:14am On Oct 26, 2017 |
HRHQueenPhil: I see you're mixing up schooling with education. It's well, even inside the well. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 9:15am On Oct 26, 2017 |
YelloweWest:Old hag, Ask your sister to sit down & be humble.. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by tosyne2much(m): 9:18am On Oct 26, 2017 |
lefulefu:Many of us are educated but we know deep down within ourselves that a well informed non degree holder is worth more than many Nigerian graduates. The reason why Obama, George Bush and other world leaders ruled their countries well was not because they are educated but because they are right thinking people. Make a juxtaposition between them and our leaders and spot the difference |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Youngzedd(m): 9:21am On Oct 26, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Weti PhD holders follow do |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by bukas15(m): 9:22am On Oct 26, 2017 |
MaritzaNL:cos am older than u. Bt u can prove me wrong by uploadin ur dp |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by BluntBoy(m): 9:25am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Imoksp: It's possible but this particular hotel is not in Lagos. I know he is a wealthy man and can have hotels in Lagos. He also has a sachet and bottled water company. His first son is a lawyer and a very good friend of mine. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by 989900: 9:26am On Oct 26, 2017 |
TimeMod3: The above comment is typical of a barbarian (degree holder or not). |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by mechanics(m): 9:27am On Oct 26, 2017 |
yeyerolling:hahahaha don't mind them. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Imoksp(m): 9:29am On Oct 26, 2017 |
BluntBoy:Ok. Not d same Alhaji then.tanx |
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pocohantas(f): 9:29am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Oluwadare: You are smart! You are civil! Educated or not! I appreciate that! We need more of your type in this section. With this your post alone, I will marry you even if you stopped after common entance!!! |
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