michaelwilli:
Just accept that he is right and don't bastardize what he said because of ur mistakes

Oponu, is what you are!

I plan on using sky purple mixed with pineapple yellow with just a touch of muddy green.

maxysmith:
He should come and remove my white gown on my wedding day

so u are not a virgin??

To me everything said here is a personal decision, a choice that no one should question another be it man or woman.
I for one never disrespect nor have the intention to look down on a lady or a guy who has been dis-virgin for unknown reasons cause for me that isn't enough to discern some one's destiny.
For the fact that I am a virgin does not mean I have a choice that my woman MUST be as I am.
Mine opinion anyway.

what happens to the non virgin groom? guess he should use pink....
mtchew
stupid post

Benita27:
Correct girl...

Reno with his mysogynistic point of view. So much is expected of women, while less is expected of men.

Both brideandgroom who have tasted the forbidden fruit should wear red on their wedding day.

Both bride and groom of this generation are not loyal.

So many funny comments, and as expected from the ladies....... They ought to defend themselves I'm not gonna judge any1 after all it takes 2 to Tango, But I do know that whether the women folk like it or not they are not the primary choice makers, na man go marry you no be the other way round. Virginity is not overhyped nor is it a useless talk. It's, in fact, the way it is supposed to be when you marry a virgin lady it gives an extra boost to the man and the home spiritually and physically, I don't expect the kids to understand me hopefully, they are still in bed.

All this religious people who refuse to put thorough thinking into what they write. Have you considered the age most people used to get married when virginity was in vogue? Not just for the women but for the men. The average age for men was 21 while women was 18 and this is across all societies from Africa to Europe to Asia to Australia. That arrangement was close to the natural biological clock. And sexual triggers were basically none existent in society then.

Today people get married late- average 28 for women, 30 for guys in a global society awash and charged with sexuality. Ask the Muslims and Christians how they've fared holding up as virgins. That will give you a peek into reality. Not this pseudo spiritual moral idealism being preached in the name of virginity.

Fuckaholics won't agree with this post.

This generation is finished. Many of those insulting the man are even the more churchy people who are very more religious when it comes to money, superstition etc but on morality, they discard their religious rules. It is hypocrisy

You go to mosque or church on Sunday, sing, dance and clap. Update your IG or Facebook page with statuses such as: God lover, Jesus bae, God's favorite gal, my case is different etc, yet you reject his moral standards.

If you think virginity is over rated, check your brain. Even the occultic kingdom, dark forces recognize the purity of virginity. There is the spiritual side of it. That is why they prefer virgin blood for pure sacrifice. If the dark world recognizes that, how much more of the God who is the law giver that want us to stay from sex outside marriage.


Many of these non virgins have spirit lovers both male and females.


Even our pagan forefathers marry as virgins. Sex outside marriage was a taboo. We don't need religion to know these things are wrong.


Lastly, there is a big difference between a brand new car and a tokunbo even if the tokunbo has a better color or appears to be expensive.

pocohantas:


Some of them are so selfish. They want virgins, they want submissive wives, she has to be sexy so they don't cheat, she has to do this, she will do that. All this in exchange for some dangling phallic shaped object. May I not end up with a selfish misogynist.

The thing pain you.

na today?
Even the street olosho with a trending sex tape will wear white to her wedding day .
Ain't deceiving anybody but herself and her husband. They sure as hell ain't deceiving God or the people who came to chop free Rice.

What/who is a virgin?

pocohantas:
They should both be the first to see each other's panties. I don't see why an adventurous guy, who can be identified by over 100 ladies with his prick picture alone,should have the privilege of being the first to see a virgin's panties. Only a tear rubber guy deserves such honour. They have both abstained and appreciate the sacrifices involved. Not a case of one person seeing the other as a 'trophy'.

You don't automatically deserve a 'virtuous' woman just because you're a man, but because you are truly deserving of her or the woman thinks you are deserving of her.

Adventurous guys will marry adventurous girls. Experienced guys for experienced ladies. These set have realised sex is an act, and they need not be married to enjoy it. Nature is balanced that way...

love this.

#IWillMarryAVirginBride

That's all...

No compromise.

I always say that men should marry their speck. If you're a wild adventurous guy who loves to have sex, marry a woman of your type. Vice versa.

Theres too much emphasis on the woman, and it's terrible. In the long run it doesn't work out, because there's no balance. A man who is wild and adventurous will pressure himself to marry a virgin, strictly based on public opinion. Most times it doesn't work out, they're sexually incompatible. Be the person you want to attract. Let the emphasis be on both genders. Shikenah.

pocohantas:
They should both be the first to see each other's panties. I don't see why an adventurous guy, who can be identified by over 100 ladies with his prick picture alone,should have the privilege of being the first to see a virgin's panties. Only a tear rubber guy deserves such honour. They have both abstained and appreciate the sacrifices involved. Not a case of one person seeing the other as a 'trophy'.

You don't automatically deserve a 'virtuous' woman just because you're a man, but because you are truly deserving of her or the woman thinks you are deserving of her.

Adventurous guys will marry adventurous girls. Experienced guys for experienced ladies. These set have realised sex is an act, and they need not be married to enjoy it. Nature is balanced that way...

That is his own point of view which I think it's very correct, I have seen many innocent men who got married to runs girls knowingly and unknowgly,life is funny sometimes

mazinoweb:
Fuckaholics won't agree with this post.

This generation is finished. Many of those insulting the man are even the more churchy people who are very more religious when it comes to money, superstition etc but on morality, they discard their religious rules. It is hypocrisy

You go to mosque or church on Sunday, sing, dance and clap. Update your IG or Facebook page with statuses such as: God lover, Jesus bae, God's favorite gal, my case is different etc, yet you reject his moral standards.

If you think virginity is over rated, check your brain. Even the occultic kingdom, dark forces recognize the purity of virginity. There is the spiritual side of it. That is why they prefer virgin blood for pure sacrifice. If the dark world recognizes that, how much more of the God who is the law giver that want us to stay from sex outside marriage.


Many of these non virgins have spirit lovers both male and females.


Even our pagan forefathers marry as virgins. Sex outside marriage was a taboo. We don't need religion to know these things are wrong.


Lastly, there is a big difference between a brand new car and a tokunbo even if the tokunbo has a better color or appears to be expensive.

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Mujtahida:
All this religious people who refuse to put thorough thinking into what they write. Have you considered the age most people used to get married when virginity was in vogue? Not just for the women but for the men. The average age for men was 21 while women was 18 and this is across all societies from Africa to Europe to Asia to Australia. That arrangement was close to the natural biological clock. And sexual triggers were basically none existent in society then.

Today people get married late- average 28 for women, 30 for guys in a global society awash and charged with sexuality. Ask the Muslims and Christians how they've fared holding up as virgins. That will give you a peek into reality. Not this pseudo spiritual moral idealism being preached in the name of virginity.

Bros wetin you dey talk? There are 33 year old virgin, 28 year old virgin those ones carry two heads or them no see temptations? All these it's out of selfishness and self gratification plus total disregard for whom they eventually want to settle with.

I had a chat with a girl who got deflowered by a dude who wanted to marry her. This one no want leave am but the babe wasn't ready for marriage as she claimed. I will not argue about whether 23/24 is not ready for marriage. She is around her mid twenties now and she is still not ready for marriage. Question is, if you know you ain't ready for marriage why Bleep a dude for a whole two goddamn years? What's more insulting is when you see such women parading and calling out men as dogs and lacking in self control and nigerianising everything when not one single one of them cheated on her or refused to marry her. Even i as i dey so, i cannot initiate a romance with a female i am not sure of marrying, not to mention demanding for her nude pics. This isn't about religious connotations as i have had this same notion as far back as i began dating. It's all about respect and sanctity that should be maintained after all the society we keep condemning is you and I.

Okay fine, even as you not in ready for marriage in your mid twenties you still had more than the first body count that deflowered you. So point is, the sex was just an act to you, it really doesn't hold weight.

Thing is, a virgin will be miles ahead in terms of character all things being equal than a non virgin. Reminds me of this babe who had gaggled and swallowed various dicks which is as a result of the bad influence of her first love who pawned her out as a LovePeddler but still she witheld her virginity. I remember asking her if she had come across a large dick that seemed difficult for her to swallow. She refused to answer that question. Saying, answering it will mean she is a LovePeddler and i smiled. Can you see the difference between a virgin and non- virgin?

The one who had had 'experiences' was busy telling me how she preferred a fatter dick than a long dick amd the length of dick she has humped without any inhibition. Fact is, the moments woman starts having various sexual partners she gradually loses inhibition and her oxytocin level will start to depelete. If you notice very well, such women start to casualize the experiences and you start hearing i never loved any of them. Since she got over the first, she can as well get over anybody else.

mazinoweb:
Fuckaholics won't agree with this post.

This generation is finished. Many of those insulting the man are even the more churchy people who are very more religious when it comes to money, superstition etc but on morality, they discard their religious rules. It is hypocrisy

You go to mosque or church on Sunday, sing, dance and clap. Update your IG or Facebook page with statuses such as: God lover, Jesus bae, God's favorite gal, my case is different etc, yet you reject his moral standards.

If you think virginity is over rated, check your brain. Even the occultic kingdom, dark forces recognize the purity of virginity. There is the spiritual side of it. That is why they prefer virgin blood for pure sacrifice. If the dark world recognizes that, how much more of the God who is the law giver that want us to stay from sex outside marriage.


Many of these non virgins have spirit lovers both male and females.


Even our pagan forefathers marry as virgins. Sex outside marriage was a taboo. We don't need religion to know these things are wrong.


Lastly, there is a big difference between a brand new car and a tokunbo even if the tokunbo has a better color or appears to be expensive.

Lol. Many of my fellow sisters with borehole will be shouting Olowogbogboro

Who cares if bitches put on a white gown. They are bitches anyway and we fuçk them all the way.

Lalas247:
And what’s the value of virginity an educated man talking like an illiterate ...


Making ladies feel that’s all they have to offer a man VIRGINITY
And after the whole passa you guys still cheat
So if what value is it ?
Value to the man ?

If ladies want to keep virginity should be personal choice or religious one , they are keeping it to please men .... really

We don't want fairly used or badly used products

pocohantas:


Some of them are so selfish. They want virgins, they want submissive wives, she has to be sexy so they don't cheat, she has to do this, she will do that. All this in exchange for some dangling phallic shaped object. May I not end up with a selfish misogynist.

Swear on your two boobs you're a virgin.

EWAagoyin:
I was once thinking like Reno... Before now I always thought virginity is the best thing a woman can offer a man.. I was a conc team virgin... God so good I met this girl , she was a virgin..I was the first to poop her cherry.. I told God I've found my wife.. my soul mate ..my Angel and everything... But along the line... I have no peace with her..the relationship was filled with lies, deceit, betrayal... alot of flights... No peace of mind at all... She even started insulting me....I was abused emotionally... Thank God its over now ... Now my views about female have changed. All I want in a woman now is peace of mind and honesty... Virginity to me now is overrated in fact I don't want to date virgin's anymore..this is my personal life experience...so I disagree with Reno on this one .

mumu! Now you can go date her again. after all she isn't a virgin anymore so she is now better fit for you. Stop thinking with your anus. Does the fact that she has now been disflowered make her a better wife material for the next guy who may date her?

Not only does she not have a good character as you claim, she is even now also a "fairly used", and that is if you used her 'fairly' and not 'heavily'.

You lack common sense. Your 'disvirgining' her has only reduced her value for the next fellow who take her in. You couldn't even invest in her character wise but enjoyed popping her cherry. God go judge you!

Lalas247:
And what’s the value of virginity an educated man talking like an illiterate ...


Making ladies feel that’s all they have to offer a man VIRGINITY
And after the whole passa you guys still cheat
So if what value is it ?
Value to the man ?

If ladies want to keep virginity should be personal choice or religious one , they are keeping it to please men .... really

It's rather a crime if an ukwu this big is a virgin. Lol

linked:
mumu! Now you can go date her again. after all she isn't a virgin anymore so she is now better fit for you. Stop thinking with your anus. Does the fact that she has now been disflowered make her a better wife material for the next guy who may date her?

Not only does she not have a good character as you claim, she is even now also a "fairly used", and that is if you used her 'fairly' and not 'heavily'.

You lack common sense. Your 'disvirgining' her has only reduced her value for the next fellow to take her in. You couldn't even invest in her character wise but enjoyed popping her cherry. God go judge you!

bro I understand you perfectly well... I tried investing in her character wise but she just doesn't want to change. God knows I tried my best

from most of the comments am seeing from ladies its a big pity....I doubt if virgins exist in Nigeria,what ladies of the old hold as their pride is now almost impossible to find in ladies of today... and before u come here and quote me...remember no one forced u to lose your virginity aunty... take responsibility and stop bin a clown joor...mitchewwwwww

mazinoweb

Many of these non virgins have spirit lovers both male and females.
.

Where else will it come from? Abi how virgin want take get spirit wife/husband?

Benita27:
Correct girl...

Reno with his mysogynistic point of view. So much is expected of women, while less is expected of men.

That's not him being misogynistic. Find a better word or rather learn to keep quiet.

Blackfyre:


Bros wetin you dey talk? There are 33 year old virgin, 28 year old virgin those ones carry two heads or them no see temptations? All these it's out of selfishness and self gratification plus total disregard for whom they eventually want to settle with.

I had a chat with a girl who got deflowered by a dude who wanted to marry her. This one no want leave am but the babe wasn't ready for marriage as she claimed. I will not argue about whether 23/24 is not ready for marriage. She is around her mid twenties now and she is still not ready for marriage. Question is, if you know you ain't ready for marriage why Bleep a dude for a whole two goddamn years? What's more insulting is when you see such women parading and calling out men as dogs and lacking in self control and nigerianising everything when not one single one of them cheated on her or refused to marry her. Even i as i dey so, i cannot initiate a romance with a female i am not sure of marrying, not to mention demanding for her nude pics. This isn't about religious connotations as i have had this same notion as far back as i began dating. It's all about respect and sanctity that should be maintained after all the society we keep condemning is you and I.

Okay fine, even as you not in ready for marriage in your mid twenties you still had more than the first body count that deflowered you. So point is, the sex was just an act to you, it really doesn't hold weight.

Thing is, a virgin will be miles ahead in terms of character all things being equal than a non virgin. Reminds me of this babe who had gaggled and swallowed various dicks which is as a result of the bad influence of her first love who pawned her out as a LovePeddler but still she witheld her virginity. I remember asking her if she had come across a large dick that seemed difficult for her to swallow. She refused to answer that question. Saying, answering it will mean she is a LovePeddler and i smiled. Can you see the difference between a virgin and non- virgin?

The one who had had 'experiences' was busy telling me how she preferred a fatter dick than a long dick amd the length of dick she has humped without any inhibition. Fact is, the moments woman starts having various sexual partners she gradually loses inhibition and her oxytocin level will start to depelete. If you notice very well, such women start to casualize the experiences and you start hearing i never loved any of them. Since she got over the first, she can as well get over anybody else.

At the end it boils down to this:you who say people should be virgins are you a virgin? Before you go aghast it was St Paul that asked : you who preach against stealing do you steal?

If you read me carefully I never condemned virginity. I only highlighted what to me is the reality. It's easy to marry as a virgin in a society where people marry on time and where sexuality is not hyped up. And it is difficult to marry as a virgin in a society where people marry late and where everything is sexualized.

As for the character of virgins compared to non virgins, all I see are human beings. Good, bad, beautiful, ugly can be found within humanity. Dazzol