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You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by valkaka(m): 4:20pm On Oct 28, 2017
Okay, ladies. Be honest, how many times have you found yourself asking the man you’re dating to call you?Have you had to suggest that a man calls you even if he won’t be seeing you that particular day?Well, if you’ve found yourself telling the man your dating to call you, let it be the last time!
The truth is, if you have to tell a man to call you, one, he’s not thinking about you; two, you’re not a priority to him; and three, he might not actually like you.
Maybe you had a bunch of dates that you thought were great while he felt that the dates were mediocre.
Ultimately, if you continue trying to force a relationship with a man that barely shows you any interest, you may actually end up in a relationship with this man, but you certainly won’t be happy in it.
If a man can’t even put in effort to call you regularly, do you honestly believe that he will put effort into other aspects of your relationship?
In the end, you’ll be the one with feelings of resentment and hurt. Honestly, you can find any man to take you for granted and not put effort into dating you or having a good relationship with you.
So, why not try something different? If you’ve been doing the same things over and over again in your dating life and you haven’t gotten the results that you want, then step out of your comfort zone and try something new.

For example:

1. Stop trying to force men to call you.

2. Don’t call a man too much.This way you can actually see whether he would even call you and how frequently.

3. Stop wasting time on men that don’t give or show you much attention.Know the difference between a man lusting after you and a man having a genuine interest in getting to know who you are!

4. Continue putting yourself out there and date new people.

5. Stop waiting for the phone to ring, make plans and live your life!!!
Give it a try!

Re: You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by Nobody: 4:32pm On Oct 28, 2017
4. Continue putting yourself out there and date new people.

Cc iamJ grin
Re: You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by theGigolo: 4:53pm On Oct 28, 2017
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Re: You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by Greene66: 5:09pm On Oct 28, 2017
So a man must call everyday or every minute? What if he is in an awkward situation?? Or even an emergency?? Or he just got sacked and needs to sour alone?? Can't the lady call too? Is this post real?

It's men like yourself that make ladies special. Me I call when I want..it doesn't mean I don't care about my partner. After all, na even d one way call pass na dem dey break heart.

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Re: You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by Dasherz(f): 5:25pm On Oct 28, 2017
well for me .. we don't have issues with phone calls if I feel like talking to him I call him .. in fact it's a mutual call thing not designated for one person
Re: You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by QueenSekxy(f): 5:27pm On Oct 28, 2017
but it's not a must to have a boyfriend you know undecided

staying single will save you all these stress.

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Re: You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:39pm On Oct 28, 2017
Greene66:


So a man must call everyday or every minute? What if he is in an awkward situation?? Or even an emergency?? Or he just got sacked and needs to sour alone?? Can't the lady call too? Is this post real?

It's men like yourself that make ladies special. Me I call when I want..it doesn't mean I don't care about my partner. After all, na even d one way call pass na dem dey break heart.
. My brother thank you. This is to tell you how some people thinks. He forgot that relationship is all about making sacrifices from both parties. Anyways that's how far his mentality can go.
Re: You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by iamJ(m): 7:38pm On Oct 28, 2017
IamKashyBaby:


Cc iamJ grin
this mention angry

I will bite u at the right places oooo kiss
Re: You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by Olasco93: 8:54pm On Oct 28, 2017
Women don't reason Logically, but Emotionally. By the time a man press a woman's emotional and sensual button, whatever her Mum, Dad and Pastor say concerning the dude won't make any sense to her.
Women don't mean what they say, and they don't say what they mean
Re: You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by Greene66: 10:49pm On Oct 28, 2017
Olasco93:
Women don't reason Logically, but Emotionally. By the time a man press a woman's emotional and sensual button, whatever her Mum, Dad and Pastor say concerning the dude won't make any sense to her.
Women don't mean what they say, and they don't say what they mean

Not all women.

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Re: You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by coolh3ad(m): 11:09pm On Oct 28, 2017
QueenSekxy:
but it's not a must to have a boyfriend you know undecided


staying single will save you all these stress.


Are you single ma'am??
Re: You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by valkaka(m): 2:41am On Oct 29, 2017
QueenSekxy:
but it's not a must to have a boyfriend you know undecided


staying single will save you all these stress.


so literally you are single then?
Re: You Shouldn’t Have To Tell Him To Call You! by Heloct(f): 3:46am On Oct 29, 2017
Good advice though.

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