alexialin:









Hehehehehehehehe
Serious? That's nice of u

But anything for my sis, is a pleasure.

Treat her like a Queen o.

And I trust she will do same

So lemme take my leave and allow the love birds some quality time to relate & associate.

My job is done.

U ain't taking any leave madam until u attend to my case as well.... Lol

Chascop:


alexialin , for distance purpose. Firstly, I need someone who stays in the US or has plans to stay but I think this is becoming a big issue because it's really not working for me the way I wanted it.

I stated this requirement because I don't really like distant relationship. it's kinda boring and untrusted but if I still find someone who really knows the meaning of love and marriage, then I'll have no other option than moving towards knowing such person so well.

I'm fair and tall, so I need someone like that too but must not be fat. Just normal anyways.


Benin, calabar, akwa ibom ladies, NO NO.. make una no near abeg

You are looking for someone that stays in US? issorite.. hope u are in US too or is it the normal green card hustle?

This marriage issue is becoming serious oooo......Thought its only ladies that are going through this

amazingspiderma:
Some people want bad girls for friendship and good girls for marriage.

I think that is wrong.
Go into friendship with a kind of girl that has your future partners attributes, qualities you value whether she is a bad or good girl, so that marriage wouldn't look like heading south when you have been travelling north.
That's where the stress tension and fear comes from.
Like a stranger and a new road.

That's reality, and that's the first thing you need to know.

This thread has turned into sumthin else...

Disneylady:
This marriage issue is becoming serious oooo......Thought its only ladies that are going through this

Yes nau, too much mediocre females... Can't even keep a decent conversation for ten minutes, so why won't the guys be bothered...

Why wil you insult even if u married at 18 dat doesnt make ur life worthwhile .Havin 6 kids is not the problem ,training them IS.

Why wil you insult him, even if u married at 18, dat doesnt make ur life worthwhile .Havin 6 kids is not the problem ,training them IS.

Ishilove:

You're not average. Dude, you're short and VERY skinny. You are pinchomish.

No offense, it's just an observation

Abeg Ishi, 'pinchomish' na real word? You're an old soul indeed. I've heard this word only from my mom, though hers is 'pinchomic', and she uses it to describe someone who retains seemingly the same exact looks through years or even decades.

supersystemsnig:



There are but the bad luck is, one sees some specs in traffic, odd periods one can't do anything about, the feeling makes a guy cringe...

I know that feeling, I saw someone few days ago, before I got to the nearest U-turn and back, madam has disappeared.
I go out, attend some church programs am not invited, even see movies on a solo, hoping to meet that someone that rekindles my splinter... Life is hard

We shall conquer last last

nwolisar:

I know that feeling, I saw someone few days ago, before I got to the nearest U-turn and back, madam has disappeared.
I go out, attend some church programs am not invited, even see movies on a solo, hoping to meet that someone that rekindles my splinter... Life is hard

We shall conquer last last

Too many average female ladies around.. Intelligence is zero

Tell you what, i can help out, if you're in Lag come to the Island...Single females are high on the island...

NickD:

Your comment got me cracking up..a few weeks bk there was a lady I was asking out...we've been fwb for sometime and I started falling in love..she rejected me. What was her reason? Her dad won't let her marry a catholic... why? because he was a catholic and left the church... he left cause he said we worship idols unto genuflecting at images in church. That Catholics will go to hell. I was dumbfounded....I begin ask myself was the catholic church not the first church instituted by Christ. Abi pentecostal God and Catholic God are they two different ppl.

Don't mind them. Whether they like it or not, there are two churches in the world, Catholic church and others. Pentecostals are good at discriminating Catholics, well we are used to it.

Disneylady:
This marriage issue is becoming serious oooo......Thought its only ladies that are going through this

Is it not thesame sun that shine on both sexes

It's not easy at all o

ramzythecoder:


Thanks for the advice .
The thing is Deeper Life is a good Church, but some of our women don't dress well and they are dirty. So the point is that picking a woman from that church is NO.

u are very silly to say that. I doubt if u are a real member. U're 35 yet u talk like a child. Just say u don't go along with the tenets of the church in terms of dressing & stop coming here to spew trash.
P.S in as much as i don't buy the dressings too, i know there are pretty & decent ones among them.

sisisioge:



Whew! At least you sorta understand. We need that switch that lights up like a bulb, those arms that promise protection, the eyes that reassure, the voice that soothes, the ambiance that is peaceful...that person you just feel totally at home with even under oshodi bridge. Home is where the heart is

I so much appreciate how loaded you are up there, if having you to myself will cost a fortune, I wouldn't mind....

supersystemsnig:


Yes nau, too much mediocre females... Can't even keep a decent conversation for ten minutes, so why won't the guys be bothered...

Nah I disagree.....its like compatibility is the problem. Meeting the right person

There must be ladies with peculiar problems in your church, use one of your softwares to find out the best of them all,..... it is done!

nwolisar:

Is it not thesame sun that shine on both sexes
It's not easy at all o

My dear, its worrisome

Disneylady:

Nah I disagree.....its like compatibility is the problem. Meeting the right person

When people can't expressively communicate, how can they be known, let alone actuate compatibility?

It's so annoying when females can't interact, so so annoying... Having biological organs shouldn't be the quality alone that should attract suitors.... Ladies should do more than shake bum bum, shake yansh abeg... Many are not been approached cause the external self is horrible, too ordinary...If the external is in bad shape, then it's a reflection of the internal package...No one wants average anymore...Guys and ladies should develop themselves

ramzythecoder:


Thanks for the advice .
The thing is Deeper Life is a good Church, but some of our women don't dress well and they are dirty. So the point is that picking a woman from that church is NO.

hope u are not dirty too

yu ve job, money, 35yrs

then wetin happen

but if u pay me i will get wife for u

supersystemsnig:


Too many average female ladies around.. Intelligence is zero

Tell you what, i can help out, if you're in Lag come to the Island...Single females are high on the island...

Ohdear only if I were in Lag, am in Benin... There are quite a handful, but then you know how it is.
I used to have plenty boxes future Mrs ought to tick, but right now, the compromise is so high.

Muslim or Christian

Eleganza33:
haha watsapp? That numba isnt active at d moment. Ok u av nt tel me ur age nd oda tinx so dat i go knw weda u go match am

nwolisar:

Ohdear only if I were in Lag, am in Benin... There are quite a handful, but then you know how it is.
I used to have plenty boxes future Mrs ought to tick, but right now, the compromise is so high.

I have a chick in Benin on the forum nah... My sister...In fact i have two self... PM me your whatsapp contact, make i make the connection happen

pyyxxaro:
35 and still a virgin

Ogaaan oh

Naim be say ur sperm go thick pass agidi oh

why you wicked naw

supersystemsnig:



When people can't expressively communicate, how can they be known, let alone actuate compatibility?

It's so annoying when females can't interact, so so annoying... Having biological organs shouldn't be the quality alone that should attract suitors.... Ladies should do more than shake bum bum, shake yansh abeg... Many are not been approached cause the external self is horrible, too ordinary...If the external is in bad shape, then it's a reflection of the internal package...No one wants average anymore...Guys and ladies should develop themselves

Well you are right to some extent..... but do you know there are many ladies out there that posses all these characteristics; brilliance, neatness, beauty, charismatic and lots more that are still searching for the right guy while the dirty, unattractive ones are getting married? Maybe its luck!!!

Disneylady:

My dear, its worrisome

Are you telling me.... Everyday life takes a toll on someone.
Just yesterday we shouted "Happy New Year", and October has finished, and we're still on the search matter.

Disneylady:

Well you are right to some extent..... but do you know there are many ladies out there that posses all these characteristics; brilliance, neatness, beauty, charismatic and lots more that are still searching for the right guy while the dirty, unattractive ones are getting married? Maybe its luck!!!

I know..I said it earlier. There are pretty, intelligent chics, but they don't make themselves seen. I.e. Lifestyle, work to house for night.... Not every guy finds it easy to approach a lady under any kind of circumstance..I.e. if a brother is closing from work all stressed out, and that's the only time he can met a lady that makes herself only available during such time, it will be hard for a connection to be initiated...

People should make themselves more available..I also made this error. 10hours sitting in front of a PC...Fhuck it, changing this lifestyle abeg


Trust me, i tried unattractive ladies at some point back in the days, their baggage was just too unattractive for me....

He said the truth.

miib:

You are right my sister, It's really heck of a Herculean task!
Hope the right PM pops in someday!

The hustle is real... Keep it up!!!

princepet:
:36, working, economics graduates and a Christian.

hmmm

supersystemsnig:



I know..I said it earlier. There are pretty, intelligent chics, but they don't make themselves seen. I.e. Lifestyle, work to house for night.... Not every guy finds it easy to approach a lady under any kind of circumstance..I.e. if a brother is closing from work all stressed out, and that's the only time he can met a lady that makes herself only available during such time, it will be hard for a connection to be initiated...

People should make themselves more available..I also made this error. 10hours sitting in front of a PC...Fhuck it, changing this lifestyle abeg


Trust me, i tried unattractive ladies at some point back in the days, their baggage was just too unattractive for me....

Yes you are right bout availability. We are just too serious about work and other official things. I've been working since last Monday, especially whenever my mom is around, had to take a rest today, can't kill myself on work that five generations to come will do and do
@the unattractive ones, I will just lol

ramzythecoder:
Hello people,

I grew up in Deeper Life so while growing up we were taught that fornication is a sin, so i was always trying to avoid it as a plague, and decided not to have anything doing with female folks until i'm ready for marriage because it may lead to fornication. Hmm, now 35yrs old with a good job (Software Engineer) and no relationship, i'm always busy nowadays that i don't even have time to socialize. Please house, what strategy do you think can be applied towards getting a desired missing .

The kind of woman you desire I am sure is within you. Create a work life balance so that you can run a relationship and still work. Get a very understanding woman and let the relationship be a godly one. It's good that you're not fornicating cos fornication will only get you the wrong woman. Put it also in prayers and don't be in a hurry. It is well