bigtt76:
I won't say more... fighting a mad man would make me look like one! I pray you get a daughter so you can advise her on getting abortions. Nansense

blah blah blah bye, run along

Gofwane:
don't mind the mofos attacking the op

selflessmaya:


stfu, u can dish it, but u sure cant take it. so far there is no link to a successful abortion to life-long depression and i have done multiple comprehensive study on depression and the factors that can trigger it, take it how u want. almost every woman who has had a safe abortion is glad that she did, the ones who have regrets are mostly the ones who got botched cos they got unsafe abortions which is why i placed a lot of emphasis on safe abortions. abortion is not swallowing postinor, postinor can only work before implantation phase, abortion is taking Mifepristone and Misoprostol pills and wait for your period to start, u're probably ancient so when u hear abortion u think of the emotionally scarring process women endured in the early to late 2000s where hangers where used on them, that is illegal and can cause the physical and psychological damage u speak of. in 2017, there are pills designed to block the production of progesterone and in a matter of 1 hr, the pregnancy ends, a pill she can take and put on sanitary pad and just have another menses and it's over.
if she's ripe for abortion at 16, she's ripe for marriage and motherhood u say? it's so hard to insult u cos u insult yourself too much already. an abortion takes 2 pills & 30mins... pregnancy and motherhood takes the rest of her life. dont be silly! mrs idiot

nigeriancritic1:

I have a 16 year old daughter and i know how much of tactical talking i do to remind her that useless boy like you are everywhere without future and i showed her examples of futures. Do you have a kid yet? Come learn. Idiot!

selflessmaya:


blah blah blah bye, run along

pochellas:
pls free the girl, though she is small I think she can cope.by the way am new here any welcome? pls free the girl, though she is small I think she can cope.by the way am new here any welcome?

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

nigeriancritic1:

I have a 16 year old daughter and i know how much of tactical talking i do to remind her that useless boy like you are everywhere without future and i showed her examples of futures. Do you have a kid yet? Come learn. Idiot!

bigtt76:
You must be mad! She has every right to her body and how she wants it to be used forget the age. What is your business in a 16 year old marrying 27 years old? 11years difference? Would you accept for a 27 year old girl to marry a 38 year old man? Still 11 years difference!

God is wonderful and every Knowing that is why he made pregnancy at any age possible, don't try to play God! You don't know her destiny.

It is people like you who have cajoled a lot of women into remaining unmarried past their prime. Idiot

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

QueenOfNepal:
Give the boy some slack, he is 22 in the street, hustling to better his life then come back to change the fortune of his family.


He needs to be encouraged and also solutions should be provided for his present situation which can derail his vision. Stop adding fuel to his misery.




Skipuru: There are some things we can't change when it happens, we need to take time and think of what's the best for ourselves. Your sister made a mistake and i will advise you to use the carrot and stick approach. You need to know if the goathead that impregnated her has the mental and financial capacity to take care of your sister.



Using the carrot and Stick approach for your sister means that you will have to show your sister that you will be there for her and you will give your moral support to her through this trying times so she shouldn't panic and make rash decisions like following the goathead that impregnated her cos her family rejected her.
The Stick approach implies that you need to be a Man and make sure the Goathead doesn't abscond from his responsibility and that your sister doesn't continue seeing him if he refuses to take responsibility.

Tell the goathead that i said he is a pedophile and can be jailed for having carnal knowledge of an underage girl.



Be strong

Skipuru:
. Just go with your advice because if I should follow the way you're talking Na to enter ph go mess her up.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

TimeMod3:
I witnessed an abortion in less than 3 hours without going under the knife, I was shocked. This is 2017 & science has really made a lot of things a lot easier.

Skipuru:


I choose to be on the street after my secondary school because of my family now look at the way the bastard brought Shame to me.

Skipuru:


No I should be carrying her on my back.
I dey Lagos dey hustle mean while they are living comfortably at ph.

nigeriancritic1:

I have a 16 year old daughter and i know how much of tactical talking i do to remind her that useless boy like you are everywhere without future and i showed her examples of futures. Do you have a kid yet? Come learn. Idiot!

YelloweWest:
I can't thank God enough for saving me from this.
At 16 I was sexually active unfortunately...

Ok. Let her give birth but don't force her to marry the guy.

Be the way that guy should be in jail!

selflessmaya:


i followed my angolan friend to the clinic in early last yr to get an abortion, i followed her for emotional support, to hold her shoulder and walk her to the cab when she was done and cook for her in her apartment etc. this was not in nigeria and i'm f too btw so it's not my bby, we got there, they gave her a pill and asked us to wait in a room till her period starts and it started in exactly 17 minutes, then they said we could leave but she needed to return after 2 wks for ultrasound to be sure. we didnt even go home direct, we bought coffee and sat at the park till we got too cold cos it was spring and went home, there was no need for my support, she was fine as hell and so joyous, you'll think she won cash. i have experienced more inconvenience at the dentist than the 30-something minutes we spent in that hospital, u guessed right, she has zero regrets!

i've come to realize that nigerians know nothing about abortions besides what they saw in those 1998 nollywood films or what their pastor told them or what they've heard from those who went to quacks. just one pill and her menses will start. technology and medicine is too advanced to allow certain inconvenience. if OP can give her just one pill in the next 20 minutes, this nightmare would be over. no pains, no nothing. ppl are here preaching sh!t. to get this pill OP just needs to find an understanding nurse or midwife or gynecologist or pharmacist, they all have it. the same way birth control produces hormones that cant allow pregnancy to occur, abortion pills are merely inhibitors that halt the production of progesterone in the body. the emotional relief this single procedure can produce is what a person will have to see to believe, the same way u see the joy in a woman who wanted a baby and just gave birth, u will also see the pure joy of a woman who doesn't want a baby and now knows she wont be forced into having one. in 2017, an abortion is very worth it in my opinion.

Skipuru:
. I left them since 2014 now I'm going crazy. I want to poison her self.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

nigeriancritic1:

With technology like phone you dont need to be in ph. Since you know this is a possibility you should have warned her regularly through calls on why she should keep her thighs together. You are not worthy of a big brother.