Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Greystone: 9:52am On Nov 02, 2017 |
kelvinUchiha: Hi Nairalanders,
I just packed into a new house last month and things have been moving really fast for me. So much stress and I had spent a lot of money furnishing my apartment and moving stuffs. So, two weeks ago my neighbour came to my house to greet me(as new neigbour things) I was very excited because she was beautiful and around my age bracket. I told her to come in, this was around 11:00 am i offered her a drink and we were talking about so many things.
I found out she was just my type of girl quiet and intelligent. We talked about the previous tenants and she told me my house was fine. I was happy, I said finally all the stress from packing was worth it. She left by 6:45 pm that day. The next day, I saw her spreading clothes outside so I approached her, we greeted and she asked me if I've eaten. I said no so she said she cooked spaghetti and she would bring for me. She arrived with the food, I thought to myself this must be a wife material o. We were both eating till she said let her feed me. Like play like play I'd feed her and she'd feed me. Before I said Jack Robinson we were already kissing and smooching.
I wasn't with my condom and I wasn't prepared but I felt this girl was a nice and innocent girl. She probably just likes me. So I gently removed her clothes like a gentle man and we had sex. I swore to myself I won't release early or get tired so at least she would feel me and come back for more. We enjoyed ourselves, we were happy and I know she enjoyed it as well, she held my hand and we were stack naked gisting for about 20 minutes staring at each others eyes.
So eventually she went home.
After three days, I went to ease myself only to see white pus from my penis that morning. I was so surprised. My heart started beating and I rushed to my phone I googled it and I got things like UTI, gonorrhea, staph, HIV. I was really scared. I called her, she came and she was normal. I didn't tell her about it. I just wanted to find out if she purposely gave it to me but she seemed like she didn't know. I travelled home to see my mum. I went for test spent about 3k for urethral swab, blood test and urine analysis.
It came back positive for Staphylococcus. I was so annoyed at myself for not using a condom the same time relieved that it was negative for HIV. I spent a total of 9k on drugs and injection and I came back home. Mind you, I bought two packs of condom in case.
I like this girl and she likes me but I wasted one week treating the staph without telling her and if I tell her now she would see me as a bad person and I don't know how she would react if I tell her she gave it to me. I'm really confused because I don't want to lose the relationship. My mind is telling me not to tell her and continue using condom( she's very sweet) but I love her and I don't want it to be harmful to her but she may decide not to give me sex again. I'm worried.
Please for matured minds okay. Its really important, life is at stake. Thanks.
Sorry to break it to u but a few days after unprotected sex is too soon to know whether u got HIV from her or not. U hav to wait a full three months to do the test which is after the window period. Your very first time with her and u didn't use condom? U get mind oh... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by bummyla(m): 9:53am On Nov 02, 2017 |
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Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Nobody: 9:54am On Nov 02, 2017 |
OP if you fall sick with serious flu or develop strange skin rashes within the next two weeks then congratulations you have HIV ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) See im mouth like I was relieved to be HIV negative. How can an adult that is so careless with sex not know that three days is too early for accurate HIV results? 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by MrCuteking(m): 9:56am On Nov 02, 2017 |
phlame:
Oga go for HIV test after 3months as its too early to get actual results This one will scare the shit out of the guy. He came to seek for solution but his problem has aggravated. He has to live for another three months of fear, hoping that he has no disease. It’s a pity. I can relate with him though, it’s not that easy to avoid free sex, only real men can avoid it at that instance 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Mrkumareze(m): 9:59am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Oboi never jubilate over your HIV result. It takes months to be detected. Always avoid such a free sex or use condom . Life is too precious to be wasted cos of a few minutes fun. Meanwhile tell her of it, support her financially to get the staph off. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by StNoni: 10:00am On Nov 02, 2017 |
AryaSand:
Your story is hilarious. so so hilarious i couldnt stop laughing 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Nobody: 10:02am On Nov 02, 2017 |
kelvinUchiha: Hi Nairalanders,
I just packed into a new house last month and things have been moving really fast for me. So much stress and I had spent a lot of money furnishing my apartment and moving stuffs. So, two weeks ago my neighbour came to my house to greet me(as new neigbour things) I was very excited because she was beautiful and around my age bracket. I told her to come in, this was around 11:00 am i offered her a drink and we were talking about so many things.
I found out she was just my type of girl quiet and intelligent. We talked about the previous tenants and she told me my house was fine. I was happy, I said finally all the stress from packing was worth it. She left by 6:45 pm that day. The next day, I saw her spreading clothes outside so I approached her, we greeted and she asked me if I've eaten. I said no so she said she cooked spaghetti and she would bring for me. She arrived with the food, I thought to myself this must be a wife material o. We were both eating till she said let her feed me. Like play like play I'd feed her and she'd feed me. Before I said Jack Robinson we were already kissing and smooching.
I wasn't with my condom and I wasn't prepared but I felt this girl was a nice and innocent girl. She probably just likes me. So I gently removed her clothes like a gentle man and we had sex. I swore to myself I won't release early or get tired so at least she would feel me and come back for more. We enjoyed ourselves, we were happy and I know she enjoyed it as well, she held my hand and we were stack naked gisting for about 20 minutes staring at each others eyes.
So eventually she went home.
After three days, I went to ease myself only to see white pus from my penis that morning. I was so surprised. My heart started beating and I rushed to my phone I googled it and I got things like UTI, gonorrhea, staph, HIV. I was really scared. I called her, she came and she was normal. I didn't tell her about it. I just wanted to find out if she purposely gave it to me but she seemed like she didn't know. I travelled home to see my mum. I went for test spent about 3k for urethral swab, blood test and urine analysis.
It came back positive for Staphylococcus. I was so annoyed at myself for not using a condom the same time relieved that it was negative for HIV. I spent a total of 9k on drugs and injection and I came back home. Mind you, I bought two packs of condom in case.
I like this girl and she likes me but I wasted one week treating the staph without telling her and if I tell her now she would see me as a bad person and I don't know how she would react if I tell her she gave it to me. I'm really confused because I don't want to lose the relationship. My mind is telling me not to tell her and continue using condom( she's very sweet) but I love her and I don't want it to be harmful to her but she may decide not to give me sex again. I'm worried.
Please for matured minds okay. Its really important, life is at stake. Thanks.
Ur bothered about only staph? U must be an aspiring idiotic² individual. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by olafotad: 10:03am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Next tym think abt safety first |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Welcomme: 10:05am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Are u sure it is staph? I doubt. That symptoms are not for staph but for Gono. Na wetin u like go kill u. U better go back for HIV and Gono test. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by tosyne2much(m): 10:06am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Humility017:
that guy is really starved.... and when you tell him to get married nah....he will raise eyebrow.. at least in marriage...he can sure enjoy it from dusk to town....at least 2 days a week. Na yeye guy ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Critiker: 10:11am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Tell her to go for urinary test. she will discover it herself. then, give her money to buy the drugs that comes out with the test. |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by AMA2301(m): 10:11am On Nov 02, 2017 |
You see free pussy you no remember swimming trunk...na so you go take carry 6+2 (Aids). Just talk to her like an adult. Even if she doesn't give you sex again, it will be in record that you saved her. Also make sure you give her some cash (same moment you let the cat out of the bag) for her treatment. 08172299354 |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Lexusgs430: 10:18am On Nov 02, 2017 |
kelvinUchiha: Hi Nairalanders,
I just packed into a new house last month and things have been moving really fast for me. So much stress and I had spent a lot of money furnishing my apartment and moving stuffs. So, two weeks ago my neighbour came to my house to greet me(as new neigbour things) I was very excited because she was beautiful and around my age bracket. I told her to come in, this was around 11:00 am i offered her a drink and we were talking about so many things.
I found out she was just my type of girl quiet and intelligent. We talked about the previous tenants and she told me my house was fine. I was happy, I said finally all the stress from packing was worth it. She left by 6:45 pm that day. The next day, I saw her spreading clothes outside so I approached her, we greeted and she asked me if I've eaten. I said no so she said she cooked spaghetti and she would bring for me. She arrived with the food, I thought to myself this must be a wife material o. We were both eating till she said let her feed me. Like play like play I'd feed her and she'd feed me. Before I said Jack Robinson we were already kissing and smooching.
I wasn't with my condom and I wasn't prepared but I felt this girl was a nice and innocent girl. She probably just likes me. So I gently removed her clothes like a gentle man and we had sex. I swore to myself I won't release early or get tired so at least she would feel me and come back for more. We enjoyed ourselves, we were happy and I know she enjoyed it as well, she held my hand and we were stack naked gisting for about 20 minutes staring at each others eyes.
So eventually she went home.
After three days, I went to ease myself only to see white pus from my penis that morning. I was so surprised. My heart started beating and I rushed to my phone I googled it and I got things like UTI, gonorrhea, staph, HIV. I was really scared. I called her, she came and she was normal. I didn't tell her about it. I just wanted to find out if she purposely gave it to me but she seemed like she didn't know. I travelled home to see my mum. I went for test spent about 3k for urethral swab, blood test and urine analysis.
It came back positive for Staphylococcus. I was so annoyed at myself for not using a condom the same time relieved that it was negative for HIV. I spent a total of 9k on drugs and injection and I came back home. Mind you, I bought two packs of condom in case.
I like this girl and she likes me but I wasted one week treating the staph without telling her and if I tell her now she would see me as a bad person and I don't know how she would react if I tell her she gave it to me. I'm really confused because I don't want to lose the relationship. My mind is telling me not to tell her and continue using condom( she's very sweet) but I love her and I don't want it to be harmful to her but she may decide not to give me sex again. I'm worried.
Please for matured minds okay. Its really important, life is at stake. Thanks.
Very simple....... Tell her how much you love her and for both of you to feel sexually comfortable with each other, it's ideal both of you run a sexual health check...... I told you it was simple...... |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by senny4ril2424(m): 10:21am On Nov 02, 2017 |
[quote author=MrCuteking post=61996996] This one will scare the shit out of the guy. He came to seek for solution but his problem has aggravated. He has to live for another three months of fear, hoping that he has no disease. It’s a pity. lol funny die, d guy go be like if he had known ni, he kuku not come to nairaland to seek advice |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Nobody: 10:21am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Awoof dey purge belle....Free pussy + no condom = HIV after three months, your eyes go soon clear. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Lomprico2: 10:22am On Nov 02, 2017 |
kelvinUchiha: Hi Nairalanders,
I just packed into a new house last month and things have been moving really fast for me. So much stress and I had spent a lot of money furnishing my apartment and moving stuffs. So, two weeks ago my neighbour came to my house to greet me(as new neigbour things) I was very excited because she was beautiful and around my age bracket. I told her to come in, this was around 11:00 am i offered her a drink and we were talking about so many things.
I found out she was just my type of girl quiet and intelligent. We talked about the previous tenants and she told me my house was fine. I was happy, I said finally all the stress from packing was worth it. She left by 6:45 pm that day. The next day, I saw her spreading clothes outside so I approached her, we greeted and she asked me if I've eaten. I said no so she said she cooked spaghetti and she would bring for me. She arrived with the food, I thought to myself this must be a wife material o. We were both eating till she said let her feed me. Like play like play I'd feed her and she'd feed me. Before I said Jack Robinson we were already kissing and smooching.
I wasn't with my condom and I wasn't prepared but I felt this girl was a nice and innocent girl. She probably just likes me. So I gently removed her clothes like a gentle man and we had sex. I swore to myself I won't release early or get tired so at least she would feel me and come back for more. We enjoyed ourselves, we were happy and I know she enjoyed it as well, she held my hand and we were stack naked gisting for about 20 minutes staring at each others eyes.
So eventually she went home.
After three days, I went to ease myself only to see white pus from my penis that morning. I was so surprised. My heart started beating and I rushed to my phone I googled it and I got things like UTI, gonorrhea, staph, HIV. I was really scared. I called her, she came and she was normal. I didn't tell her about it. I just wanted to find out if she purposely gave it to me but she seemed like she didn't know. I travelled home to see my mum. I went for test spent about 3k for urethral swab, blood test and urine analysis.
It came back positive for Staphylococcus. I was so annoyed at myself for not using a condom the same time relieved that it was negative for HIV. I spent a total of 9k on drugs and injection and I came back home. Mind you, I bought two packs of condom in case.
I like this girl and she likes me but I wasted one week treating the staph without telling her and if I tell her now she would see me as a bad person and I don't know how she would react if I tell her she gave it to me. I'm really confused because I don't want to lose the relationship. My mind is telling me not to tell her and continue using condom( she's very sweet) but I love her and I don't want it to be harmful to her but she may decide not to give me sex again. I'm worried.
Please for matured minds okay. Its really important, life is at stake. Thanks.
You dont love her! You just love the free sex and u r scared of loosing the sex if u tell her. If u really love her, you will tell her and encourage her to go for treatment. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by bayocanny: 10:25am On Nov 02, 2017 |
MISTAICEY02288: You just moved into a new apartment amd already started misbehaving. For you to have gotten that gurl cheaply speaks a lot about her. SHE IS A LovePeddler! And atenuje no gree you rest too. Na ya joystick you dey use think no be your sense.
Congratulations, this is just the beginning. Na HIV remain. Ozuo! Bro, how far na. How your side? |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by prince2pac(m): 10:25am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Benita27: If you don't tell her 'cause you think she'd react negatively and you keep using condom 'cause you can't loose a pussy offered on a platter of gold, what would happen the day the rubber tears?. I guess you'd spend another 9k to get it treated again.
Tell her in a manner that shows you care. If possible, give her 10k to go get it treated since you like her enough to continue the relationship. You re there jorr |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Tonymario58: 10:25am On Nov 02, 2017 |
laribari:
This your story sounds like a play becos a lot of people just come here and cook of lies, wasting people's time.
The only thing I want to remind you is that you shouldn't think you are free from that Staph oo. Several medical report says injections don't cure things like that but manages the problem (damage control). If you enter big local buses for Lagos sef, dem go educate you well well.
If you also Google it, you'd see there is no straight cure for staph which can pose long term danger to your liver cos it graduates to hepatitis B if it stays a very long time in your body. You can confirm from google.
Staph they say is very very very stubborn to treat. How many very did I mention?
https://www.nairaland.com/202772/does-it-really-mean-there?
Worry about your health rather than sex or the lady who is obviously already infected too. If this story is true, then what makes you think she doesn't know she has staph? Infects show up fast in ladies than men who can have it for months or years without knowing.
You're not correct |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by bayocanny: 10:26am On Nov 02, 2017 |
illitrate: had a similar issue in dubai. I met this ghana babe with a very huge nyash and collected her number. As a sharp warri guy I invited her right away the next day and she obliged. We at my place, we had drinks and smooched but she refused me touching her, saying the thing was too big. Two days after she came again, this time with a durex lube. Omg she removed it and dropped right in front of me, saying it has to be well lubbed or it could injure her. As a sharp warri guy I started lubbing right away without condom and before u say jack I was pumping that big nyash. I noticed too much white milky stuff on my john thomas but thought she was just feeling me. In less than 5 minutes she push me off that she had cum. She said it that she has used me. She is unable to continue after ejaculation is usually too sensitive.
I left her with a hard on. Usuaully I sing a worship song to enable my john thomas sleep, orI imagine my mama die so the same trick helped calm the situation.
Two days later I started noticing some akamu on my john Thomas, omo I rushed to my india doctor and told him the whole truth as it happend. He laid me down naked, It was so shameful that an indian nurse wearing gloves held my john thomas upright while the doctor was chuking some sharp stuff in it. it was so painful but suddenly my brain told me it was a woman holding the JT and it jumped up. The nurse left the JT and disappeared. The Doctor pushed something that looked like a finger in my anus and u needed to see the akamu that came out of my JT.
I was diagnosed of acute gono. Thanks God I came early. I was given augmentin 625mg and in two days I was ok.
I called this babe and told her to come with me to my doctor that it was toilet infection. I said this to avoid shame. she refused and another day she came to me, reminding me to use a condom and we still did it .
My conclusion is that many girls are aware of their status but keep silent. either because of shame or wickedness.
Before you criticize my diction, look at my moniker. |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Otsam(m): 10:26am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Ifakiland:
Go for hiv test after 3 months...I hope u come out positive...idiot...how can u Bleep a hoe u just met without condom in dis time and life. He played smart at grabbing a free gift ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Here in burundi, we call those kind of girls, OXYGEN. |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Nobody: 10:26am On Nov 02, 2017 |
bayocanny:
This your story ehn...gimme dat ghana babe digits ma go greet am for weekend She dey for ghana now ooo.. chaiii boys nodey even fear gono again ooo |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by wtfCode: 10:27am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Benita27: If you don't tell her 'cause you think she'd react negatively and you keep using condom 'cause you can't loose a pussy offered on a platter of gold, what would happen the day the rubber tears?. I guess you'd spend another 9k to get it treated again.
Tell her in a manner that shows you care. If possible, give her 10k to go get it treated since you like her enough to continue the relationship. pls marry me! |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by abiodunab: 10:27am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Same way you told her you want her P.ssy |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by bayocanny: 10:33am On Nov 02, 2017 |
illitrate:
She dey for ghana now ooo.. chaiii boys nodey even fear gono again ooo
Lol, na joke I dey oo |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Youngzedd(m): 10:33am On Nov 02, 2017 |
kelvinUchiha: Hi Nairalanders,
I just packed into a new house last month and things have been moving really fast for me. So much stress and I had spent a lot of money furnishing my apartment and moving stuffs. So, two weeks ago my neighbour came to my house to greet me(as new neigbour things) I was very excited because she was beautiful and around my age bracket. I told her to come in, this was around 11:00 am i offered her a drink and we were talking about so many things.
I found out she was just my type of girl quiet and intelligent. We talked about the previous tenants and she told me my house was fine. I was happy, I said finally all the stress from packing was worth it. She left by 6:45 pm that day. The next day, I saw her spreading clothes outside so I approached her, we greeted and she asked me if I've eaten. I said no so she said she cooked spaghetti and she would bring for me. She arrived with the food, I thought to myself this must be a wife material o. We were both eating till she said let her feed me. Like play like play I'd feed her and she'd feed me. Before I said Jack Robinson we were already kissing and smooching.
I wasn't with my condom and I wasn't prepared but I felt this girl was a nice and innocent girl. She probably just likes me. So I gently removed her clothes like a gentle man and we had sex. I swore to myself I won't release early or get tired so at least she would feel me and come back for more. We enjoyed ourselves, we were happy and I know she enjoyed it as well, she held my hand and we were stack naked gisting for about 20 minutes staring at each others eyes.
So eventually she went home.
After three days, I went to ease myself only to see white pus from my penis that morning. I was so surprised. My heart started beating and I rushed to my phone I googled it and I got things like UTI, gonorrhea, staph, HIV. I was really scared. I called her, she came and she was normal. I didn't tell her about it. I just wanted to find out if she purposely gave it to me but she seemed like she didn't know. I travelled home to see my mum. I went for test spent about 3k for urethral swab, blood test and urine analysis.
It came back positive for Staphylococcus. I was so annoyed at myself for not using a condom the same time relieved that it was negative for HIV. I spent a total of 9k on drugs and injection and I came back home. Mind you, I bought two packs of condom in case.
I like this girl and she likes me but I wasted one week treating the staph without telling her and if I tell her now she would see me as a bad person and I don't know how she would react if I tell her she gave it to me. I'm really confused because I don't want to lose the relationship. My mind is telling me not to tell her and continue using condom( she's very sweet) but I love her and I don't want it to be harmful to her but she may decide not to give me sex again. I'm worried.
Please for matured minds okay. Its really important, life is at stake. Thanks.
Let it not come out from your mouth. Make her understand that you love her, take her to the hospital for STD/STI tests. The result of the tests will do the talking. Get your woman treated. Don't bring this to the public. |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Nobody: 10:34am On Nov 02, 2017 |
illitrate:
Before you criticize my diction, look at my moniker. So what abt your diction? It's cool na. But try to be always careful bro, the P won't run away |
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Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Nobody: 10:37am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Benita27: If you don't tell her 'cause you think she'd react negatively and you keep using condom 'cause you can't loose a pussy offered on a platter of gold, what would happen the day the rubber tears?. I guess you'd spend another 9k to get it treated again.
Tell her in a manner that shows you care. If possible, give her 10k to go get it treated since you like her enough to continue the relationship. Na my guy give am Staph ![](/faces/huh.png) make she go meet the man wey gi am the Staph make he treat her |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Otsam(m): 10:37am On Nov 02, 2017 |
U don't play smart when u see OXYGEN girls next time. Rather u play wise. They r free gift of nature. Some people have gotten their own share before u. Next time don't joke with ur boot when playing on a public pitch. |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by Ishilove: 10:40am On Nov 02, 2017 |
kelvinUchiha:
I like this girl and she likes me but I wasted one week treating the staph without telling her and if I tell her now she would see me as a bad person and I don't know how she would react if I tell her she gave it to me. I'm really confused because I don't want to lose the relationship. My mind is telling me not to tell her and continue using condom( she's very sweet) but I love her and I don't want it to be harmful to her but she may decide not to give me sex again. I'm worried.
Which relationship exactly? You fvcked once, she gave you STDs and you think you are in a 'relationship'? You are doing yourself, you are not doing me. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by tete7000(m): 10:41am On Nov 02, 2017 |
See mumu o, a girl you hardly know gave you free sex you jumped at it and then regretted you got an std. Why won't you, do you know how many people she has been giving free? How good it can be if people can just buy small sense, but they won't. Instead of the mumu guy to help her sex mate and then run for his life, he will rather keep quiet and follow the animal to slaughter's slab. Stupidity kills really well. 1 Like |