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Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Threebear(m): 5:44am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Dimples129:Can't believe a woman vomited this jargon. 9 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Acidosis(m): 5:47am On Nov 05, 2017 |
This is what happens when you take advice from Nairaland resident feminists. Trust me, 95% of married men have at one point or the other cheated on their wives (note s.ex isn't the only form of cheating). Any married man that has never cheated on her wife should come out and quote me. You will be making a grave mistake if you continue to take advice from people who do the exact opposite of what they say on Nairaland. How many of them have divorced their husbands? How many of them starve their husbands with sex for a whole year? Stop taking advice from the wrong sets of people. If you can't find a good mentor, follow your freaking mind and live with the consequences. I'm not for cheating in relationships or marriage, giving one's partner STD as well is criminal and evil. However, your approach was wrong. You can never win a cheating or randy man by denying him sex. It is like denying your child food because he stole your neighbor's food. 2 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by olabisimichael: 5:51am On Nov 05, 2017 |
After. 1 year of not sleeping with your husband! One thing going through his mind is that you are equally cheating with someone else! The year long punishment is not advisable! If anybody tells you that your cheating husband does it because he has fell out of love for you! The person is lying! Men cheat due to many reasons but not because they don't love their wives! Women cheat with who they love! If you aren't sleeping with your husband during the 1 year punishment! You are you sharing your sex life with? Do you kill the sex life because your husband deserved punishment thereby you sex starving yourself? Your resort to punishment or depriving your man of sex was commendable though it should timed and both of you should talk and work on regaining the drive in the marriage! Madam! Go back to your man, in my view, he is a dead man living with a wife capable of poisoning him anytime! If I were him, I will leave the house before I am dispatch to the grave quickly! When women hate, they hate to the extreme! When they love! They love same way! A cheating wife can kill her husband, kill her children and do all manners stupid things to express their love but nobody can tell a cheating man to kill his children! Please Madam! Try and get people intervene in the yearlong punishment! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by ireneidiva(f): 5:53am On Nov 05, 2017 |
EVILFOREST:You are now speculating. 5 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Airforce1(m): 5:56am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Benita27: @desreek9 Please never ever take this advice from these bittered woman I quoted . It's obvious this woman is a jezebel like someone rightly said on this thread. Smh Highly disappointed at your bitterness towards men, Benita . You must be a divorcee. Op I know your husband misbehaved, but please you've punished him enough . Forgive and forget please. I'm sure he wouldn't go back to his irresponsible ways . God bless your marriage. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by junnaiskye(f): 6:00am On Nov 05, 2017 |
All male chauvinist who are persecuting her should put themselves in her shoes. How would u feel if a woman you loved enough to marry, a woman you trusted, a woman you started a family with, cheats on you, contacts an STD, comes home and transmits it to you. You'd throw her out right? Do you guys even know the emotional trauma in this? She's obviously hurting but she's also scared for her life. The man isn't even remorseful. If he were, he would have been trying to get her back. You guys should cut her some slack. It's high time women are taught to also think of themselves and not behave like a sheepie. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by khalhokage(m): 6:06am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Madam, leave that marriage if you're strong enough to do that, don't risk your life for society and what people may think. Someone said divorce is not an option because you have kids, but I don't think they considered what would happen to those kids if both their parents are infected with HIV. Protect yourself and your kids madam. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by YelloweWest: 6:09am On Nov 05, 2017 |
dingbang:It is the husband that spoiled the marriage o 5 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by YelloweWest: 6:12am On Nov 05, 2017 |
tayo60:What if it's not worth it... 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 6:13am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Ask yourself, are you ready to quit the marriage?, cos the center can't hold for long, You can't continue to be on the fence. For the past one year I can assure you he has been getting it outside, so he is not borthered. I suggest first you get a dild0, and start taking care of your kids and yourself. And lest I forget, your husband is not remourseful, he is only scared of embarrassment not the deed, take note Condoms seems to be the only way here, which is what you should have suggested earlier, but it's never too late desreek9: |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by IYIMAN: 6:14am On Nov 05, 2017 |
EVILFOREST: Don't know why I'm thinking same way. The guilt of the husband actually cheating may have made him accept responsibility for the wife's "STD". Not all std are STD, it may just be a general urogenital infection caused by different thing, including poor vulva hygiene. Poor toilet habit etc. Do we blame STD for Virgins who have foul smelling secretions with severe itching (from candidiasis) They should go for tests and continue afresh. Whatever it is, if he's repentant, forgive him , hope he'll truly change. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Tundeiab(m): 6:16am On Nov 05, 2017 |
desreek9: WOMEN OF NOW ADAYS. SOLOMON HAD 700 WIVES AND 300 CONCUBINES, DID YOU HEAR ANY ONE OF THEM COMPLAIN? HE SAID HE WAS SORRY, SO WHAT ELSE DO YOU WANT? |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by YelloweWest: 6:17am On Nov 05, 2017 |
The slavery of an African woman called marriage All those men here talking shìt would u remain with a woman who gave u an std?? Op follow your heart and use it head. If i were u I'll put the well being of my kids first. If u don't need him for ur kids well being especially financially u can call it quits. Cos truth be told he will continue to cheat. He isn't even remorseful.... chai. We women suffer too much. 6 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Tundeiab(m): 6:18am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Dunkofia20:NA MAI GUARD YOU BE? LOL |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by YelloweWest: 6:22am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Tundeiab:Well we are not in the days of king Solomon. If u want that type of marriage u can get it for yourself. Did and any of king Solomon's wives or concubines build house for him? Did he vow to be faithful to any of them? 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by godofuck231: 6:25am On Nov 05, 2017 |
desreek9: You did right but holding it too long will ruin ur marriage, create a balance, at least he's learnt his lesson, of he repeats it again, sign a contract with gold circle or magnum, u can be an ambassador |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 6:27am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Please tell us how a man that comes home late probably after banging a strange lady in a hotel has learnt his lesson? Or you skipped that part where he comes home late? godofuck231: 5 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by godofuck231: 6:28am On Nov 05, 2017 |
desreek9: Mind you some stds come with pool contact and toilets. That y some men cup their genitals with their palm when in a toilet to protect the penis tip from touching the seat and bowl, the skin inside the tract can contact like a woman's body, and some women don't know this yet 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by MissJoy29(f): 6:33am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Geniro:You call a married man who isn't remorseful that he infected his wife who gave him 4 kids STDS and who still probably sleeps with his numerous chicks outside "balling?" Seriously!!!! . How did this generation of men get to this point of selfishness & despicable sense of reasoning? And you are even asking whose loss that is...Let me answer you that. If the woman dies from heartache or high blood pressure or one of the deadly diseases the man might be carrying around, do you think that shameless man can take care of those lovely kids? The woman knows this so....it's better to be safe than sorry. @ she will come begging & the man will deal with her. If you were the OP's husband & you have this mentality after everything you have done to her, then you are wicked & hopelessly irredeemable. So, after infecting her & not taking steps to treat your mess, you will still deal with her? Do you seriously think you can take this easy advice of yours if your wife infects you with STD and still has this sense of entitlement that you must forgive her immediately and continue the way things were otherwise she will "deal" with you? Please note, that the man owned up doesn't mean he's sober and remorseful. Remember the man ONLY confessed when she confronted him with her test result. She even asked him just few seconds before then & he denied. The randy man is not sorry he cheated. He's only sorry HE HAS BEEN FOUND OUT! So, just because the wife found out is not enough to keep him from continuing to cheat. And that's what the wife knows. PS: I like real men who own up to their mistakes no matter how hard it sounds. I keep telling people that my problem is not with cheating. My problem is the lies behind the cheating (the lies before, during and after). That's what will determine your fate with me 4 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Magnifico2000: 6:37am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Benita27: Hmmm... i wont believe this... Somebody will come up to counter this your statement now. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by correctguy101(m): 6:55am On Nov 05, 2017 |
PaperLace: This is fine advice. The OP is really in a tight position. As a guy, I personally don't and won't trust the husband not to cheat again. This situation will affect the OP's psychological drive to let the man touch her; fear and the likes. It's a real difficult position but as you advised, both should regularly go for check-up together and she should just forgive the kolo of a husband if she still wants to be with him. ( not just because he can't do anything). I just wish her well and pray never to be in her position |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by farellstone: 6:57am On Nov 05, 2017 |
mazimee:Well, the truth is, the husband won't show any sign of responsibility at this stage. Even if he does, it will just be a play to the gallery. She could have made a better decision at the inception of it (adultery saga). Not that I blame her, after all, she did what she thought was best at that point in time, perhaps, due to the disappointment. The problem now is, the man is far gone in the wild. Seriously, a whole year of no marital intercourse? For a man that was not even loyal when all the styles were being explored. That marriage needs prayer, and above all it needs love. 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Benekruku(m): 6:57am On Nov 05, 2017 |
A man she should have used for money rituals 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by ailenmen: 6:59am On Nov 05, 2017 |
What u have done it's right,but the length or time is too much.do u want to kill d man? Well all d same he had learnt his lesson.but since he promised he had changed u can give him d benefit of doubt and make sure he uses condom and let him do test as well amd follow him to be sure d test is from genuine sorce |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by adanny01(m): 7:06am On Nov 05, 2017 |
It's not the sex he had that is my problem, its the UNPROTECTED sex he had risking his wife in the process. He should have learnt his lesson but you made matters worst. Am sure by now he constantly gets sex outside so how would you rewrite tbe rules after he is used to what you allowed him to do. Your decision made matters worst. How long are you willing to continue like this? Have you prepared your mind never to have sex in the rest of your life? If you want sex, how will you get it? Outside your marriage like your husband? Do something now and save both yourselves the trouble. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Adaumunocha(f): 7:06am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Pangea:Happy to make sum1 laugh any day anytime. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by sinceraconcept(m): 7:06am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Rokia2:I'm a guy but I kind of support her on this. God has saved the woman from other STDs,she should just concentrate on her children. anybody that cheats once has a tendency of cheating some other times 2 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by amunkita(m): 7:08am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Most of you all advising the OP, she is on a right track ve failed to see ur parent once or even still cheat, yet they ve accomodated themselves. OP, u ve ur life to live, carry on with what rocks ur boat but know every decision we make ve its advantages nd disadvantages. The truth u already know, u both cant continue like this for the next 5yrs. Either u start cheating or he makes up his mind to get another woman into the house nd damn the consequencies..... Best of luck in ur decision. 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by xamuelotu(m): 7:09am On Nov 05, 2017 |
Jman06:u talk as if it easy to get a faithful man. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by thunderbabs: 7:09am On Nov 05, 2017 |
U don punish am reach na.....u wan over do am bah? Be preparing for the worst.... When shit happens, and as adults, we shld learn how to deal with issues nd move on.....not stand on ur point as a statue... All i see is a matter goin worse......when una no b bf nd gf If he give anoda woman belle na, u go com hia again abi.......... We will always v smtin to say sha, da one no b problem |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by godofuck231: 7:11am On Nov 05, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: If he is still unrepentant and keeps late, hotels and all, go see ur father and return his bride price, as has will now be free to him 1 Like |
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