Divay22:

We know a pained fellow when we see one, and i can say you're one of them.
Op you're just so unfortunate when it comes to love ,but that doesn't mean every woman is like your ex..
I'll tell you, you don't know the slightest thing about a woman, don't come here with your pained and unrealistic fact..

[b][/b]Hook up, have sex and move to another,[b][/b]can you just hear yourself talk.
So that's how you'll keep hooking up and having sex till you contact all the diseases and the awaiting ones not yet known, because that's the way to be a Man...
If you were to be my bother, I'll be so disgusted to call you one and even associate with you...


You're hurt and you need help Asap.

The truth is bitter ... but the OP wasn't referring to u nah chenzen

chenzen:
The truth is bitter ... but the OP wasn't referring to u nah

Guy see us see trouble oh

PureWaterNylon:
ok So You Wanna Hook up With As Many Girls As Possible... Would You Like Your Girlfriend To Hook Up With As many Guys As Possible Oh! I Forgot... You Are The Owner Of The Write-Up Up There... Enjoy Yourself

He just said you don't need to be in a relationship, so how does the girlfriend issue come into this again? It's just a narrative of his findings and it's not necessary to agree with him completely or otherwise.

plavic:
WHO KNOWS THE TORTURE WOMEN HAVE DISHED OUT TO THIS POOR FELLOW.... WELL........BETTER SAFE THAN SORRY. All women are not the same. Don't draw conclusions based on a handfull of bitter experiences in the hands of the gold digging boorish ones. ASK GOD TO HEAL YOUR HEART if you are a christian.

all women are not sesame but all of em' wants same thing !!! money and then cucumber!!!

Daejoyoung:

He just said you don't need to be in a relationship, so how does the girlfriend issue come into this again? It's just a narrative of his findings and it's not necessary to agree with him completely or otherwise.

People can't see things from an abstract position and then divide themselves from it. That's why people are bullied to be in silence thesedays. People hate it when others have an opinion. They rather have people give opinions that supports their views or shut up permanently. How can a literary piece be elevated to a personal bias. We all should tolerate people when they have views that re different from ours, right or wrong. Simple

pocohantas:


Some of them can't seem to have a stand.
There was this thread the OP's girlfriend wanted him to call so many times a day, they were shouting how women too love attention.

They are here singing a different song now, don't give a woman attention...they don't like nice guys... blabla.

Which kind confusion be this?
Nice guys are marrying every weekend

Their confusion is legendary . With these ones, there would be nothing good to write about Naija men because they don't even know what they want and they are quick to scream "women don't know what they want"... Told one of them what I want yesterday and he just went on about how it's gonna be painful and all because it's different from what he expects women to want.

Tell em biko

KevinDein:
Any thread that aims at liberating men from the manipulative grip of women is invaded by the ladies; a desperate attempt in their part to derail it. That way men get to stay docile, ignorant and at their mercy (if they have any)

Boohoo. Message is passed and well received.

God bless the internet

lol...very very true....exactly what was on my mind

Blackhawk01:


Their confusion is legendary . With these ones, there would be nothing good to write about Naija men because they don't even know what they want and they are quick to scream "women don't know what they want"... Told one of them what I want yesterday and he just went on about how it's gonna be painful and all because it's different from what he expects women to want.

Tell em biko

Why you carry this matter for head?

A brother can not give his other brothers tips again ?

You take things too seriously, there's some honest truth in what the oP mentioned, like it or not, even so, it's a literary piece based on facts gathering, it's not a fact, and not all ladies fall into this category.


Have our ears become so tensed that we hate to hear -ve things about our peers for whatever reasons?


Chill, leave the messenger, focus on the message black hawkie.


You didn't answer my question, why would you not be enough for me, explain

KreativGenius:



Why you carry this matter for head?

A brother can not give his other brothers tips again ?

You take things too seriously, there's some honest truth in what the oP mentioned, like it or not, even so, it's a literary piece based on facts gathering, it's not a fact, and not all ladies fall into this category.


Have our ears become so tensed that we hate to hear -ve things about our peers for whatever reasons?


Chill, leave the messenger, focus on the message black hawkie.


You didn't answer my question, why would you not be enough for me, explain

Sweeri, learn to reply your mentions only, your mentions.

I think it's all about how you study her,,my lady likes too much attention/care..... infact..I wonder the kinda person she is....I tried your approach of not giving her much attention... and Fvck!! she cheated on me...then I understood there's no manual in handling a relationship... just let the river flow to wherever it's going...

Blackhawk01:


Sweeri, learn to reply your mentions only, your mentions.

That's hypocritical. You quoted my comments several times, and i wasn't discussing with you. Last time i checked it's an open forum, and no one should e dissuaded from quoting anyone, anyone that doesn't want to be quoted shouldn't post comments. Simple

Ladies are trying to bully guys into silence,this is so so wrong. Once the males make any points, it's a squabble. Damn this crap

If you hate the oP's comments, create a counter thread, if you're exempted from the folks he mentioned, make your comment, the needless attacks of guys/men is petty, too petty

This one don fall into slay mama hand and them don show am pepper..lol

TSOM:
[s] The original poster sure raised valid points but sweeping generalizations which do not hold true in all situations.[/b]
Let's localize it to Nairaland:

Have you ever wondered why the Mr. Nice Guys of the Romance and Family Sections are treated only as platonic friendly acquaintances who can be insulted by the female Nairalanders they accost while the supposed egomaniacal, overly-blunt snubs get females crushing on them?


I'd even be more blunt: Have you ever wondered why Lézz, Cöogar or dudes with their e-personas get their way more easily with female Nairalanders while the Mr. Nice Guys like Dîngbang/Cutehectôr who asslick and show way too much attention to these same females are taken for granted?

Two nights ago, a certain Edimolu and Lezz/BadBradley brawled 'cause Lézz the 'bad, blunt Casanova' had Lâla247 mention him as her crush while she ignores Edîmolu (Mr. Nice Guy) who has been stalking and paying her compliments on even thread.


Personally, even in romantic relationships, I never show any female too much attention. You'd never predict when next I would call or how regularly it would be. I'd never abandon my weekend plans just so you'd fulfil yours.

Every time I call, you'd have to call back and if you don't , forget about it.

Whenever we spend time together, you'd drop your phone and turn off your internet connection as I would mine so we concentrate on us and our relationship. Some weak-balled males would let a girl take them for granted by talking to her while she's replying to random men on Messenger or WhatsApp.

There are a thousand things guys like me do which gives us the advantage over Mr. Nice Guys. Keep a woman second-guessing too. When a random girl compliments your looks or strokes your full beard in her presence, don't be scared to revel in the compliment in your girlfriend's presence.


Then again, I don't cheat but girlfriend would keep second-guessing that 'cause, for some reason, women always come closer. She knows there are a thousand women I could start something with if she doesn't stay inline. Advantages of being a wordsmith/smooth talker.

Cheating is a no-no all the same and nothing would replace having your woman draw invincible patterns on your chest, stroking the hair on it while you both discuss and argue about everything and sweet nothings. Nothing beats being in a relationship.

Go only for the rare girls[/s]

Okay

XML33:
Discard all the conventional crap society has fed you about women. Ignore the relationship garbage you see on mainstream TV. And most importantly, disregard anything women say themselves. In fact, never you listen to what a woman says when she describes the kind of man she wants and how she wants to be treated. It's all hogwash..

This thread is amoral so anyone who has problems with posts that don't fit into the whole religious & moral nonsense should please exit the thread.

Guys stop wasting your time being in relationships with women. It's a complete waste of time. Let's be honest. What do you derive from the relationship that you can't get if you weren't committed to her? Nothing. Being in a committed relationship puts you in a precarious position and it kills her attraction towards you. There are two kinds of men women crave. The provider and the guy she would willingly give her body to fucckk. Women feel attraction towards the later and would do anything to please him, but just use the former as a source of financial or emotional security. You can be the later without being in a relationship. In fact you can be this guy to lots of women. Women are liars and what they say is usually not true. You can doubt this statement at your own peril. Women are instinctual creatures and they are controlled by their primal feminine instincts. A woman can articulate her needs perfectly, but her behavior and actions would vary.

If you are in a relationship with a girl who claims she loves you because you care about her and take care of her needs, my guy you are being lied to. This same girl probably has other guys who she secretly texts and craves to be with. You stop being attractive to a woman once you assume the role of a provider. Even if a woman really loves you and commits to you, she is eventually going to stop being attracted to you because she would get bored of you faster than you'll get bored of her. That's just the way women are.

Instead of being in a long term relationship with one girl and wasting your life, meet various random women and do what you'd have done with your girlfriend with them. Whether it's sex or having a good time with no commitment at all. There are over 3 billion women in the world. It's stupidity to blindly commit to just one girl who would lose interest in you once you begin displaying commitment and showering her with attention.

Never take a woman seriously. She isn't worth it. No matter how attractive you think she looks. Treat women as if they are nothing and they'll crave you more. This is a fact. The less attention you pay to women the more they respect and desire you. The more care you show to them the more they disrespect you and lose attraction towards you. Just hook up, have sex and move on to the next. This is how to be a man. Don't commit to a single woman. You'll regret it.

very very correct

KreativGenius:


Guy see us see trouble oh

e be like say these ladies dey smoke buscuit

Leave women alone. I don't see why people care about second-class citizens. You'd wonder if they are mad or something. You can't be giving this guidelines if you're thinking about fending for your family as well developing yourselves.

Don't get me wrong. Everything was spot on. All lines were laced with truth. But have you seen Europeans give a f##k about third world nations? Mbanu!

I'm not even gay. I'm straight to the bone. But I don't give a sh!t about women...I can't mix with anything that has a trait of instability. And I know it would increase my image in their sight...because they crave what they can't have. But still I don't care.

Chase dreams. Pursue goals. Work diligently. Build an empire. And I am not talking to guys alone...this message is going out to the few ladies out there who live for themselves, not for men. Newton, Einstein, Alex the Great, Hitler, Luther king, George Washington etc......We can't still be hero-worshipping these "mens" in the 21st century. We should be outdoing them by now.

In conclusion, forget the girls. There are more important things to do in a lifetime.

XML33:
Discard all the conventional crap society has fed you about women. Ignore the relationship garbage you see on mainstream TV. And most importantly, disregard anything women say themselves. In fact, never you listen to what a woman says when she describes the kind of man she wants and how she wants to be treated. It's all hogwash..

This thread is amoral so anyone who has problems with posts that don't fit into the whole religious & moral nonsense should please exit the thread.

Guys stop wasting your time being in relationships with women. It's a complete waste of time. Let's be honest. What do you derive from the relationship that you can't get if you weren't committed to her? Nothing. Being in a committed relationship puts you in a precarious position and it kills her attraction towards you. There are two kinds of men women crave. The provider and the guy she would willingly give her body to fucckk. Women feel attraction towards the later and would do anything to please him, but just use the former as a source of financial or emotional security. You can be the later without being in a relationship. In fact you can be this guy to lots of women. Women are liars and what they say is usually not true. You can doubt this statement at your own peril. Women are instinctual creatures and they are controlled by their primal feminine instincts. A woman can articulate her needs perfectly, but her behavior and actions would vary.

If you are in a relationship with a girl who claims she loves you because you care about her and take care of her needs, my guy you are being lied to. This same girl probably has other guys who she secretly texts and craves to be with. You stop being attractive to a woman once you assume the role of a provider. Even if a woman really loves you and commits to you, she is eventually going to stop being attracted to you because she would get bored of you faster than you'll get bored of her. That's just the way women are.

Instead of being in a long term relationship with one girl and wasting your life, meet various random women and do what you'd have done with your girlfriend with them. Whether it's sex or having a good time with no commitment at all. There are over 3 billion women in the world. It's stupidity to blindly commit to just one girl who would lose interest in you once you begin displaying commitment and showering her with attention.

Never take a woman seriously. She isn't worth it. No matter how attractive you think she looks. Treat women as if they are nothing and they'll crave you more. This is a fact. The less attention you pay to women the more they respect and desire you. The more care you show to them the more they disrespect you and lose attraction towards you. Just hook up, have sex and move on to the next. This is how to be a man. Don't commit to a single woman. You'll regret it.

very very correct op. the only thing that can make any sane man deviate from this is societal pressure and religion.

alexis007:
Leave women alone. I don't see why people care about second-class citizens. You'd wonder if they are mad or something. You can't be giving this guidelines if you're thinking about fending for your family as well developing yourselves.

Don't get me wrong. Everything was spot on. All lines were laced with truth. But have you seen Europeans give a f##k about third world nations? Mbanu!

I'm not even gay. I'm straight to the bone. But I don't give a sh!t about women...I can't mix with anything that has a trait of instability. And I know it would increase my image in their sight...because they crave what they can't have. But still I don't care.

Chase dreams. Pursue goals. Work diligently. Build an empire. And I am talking to guys alone...this message is going out to the few ladies out there who live for themselves, not for men. Newton, Einstein, Alex the Great, Hitler, Luther king, George Washington etc......We can't still be hero-worshipping these "mens" in the 21st century. We should be outdoing them by now.

In conclusion, forget the girls. There are more important things to do in a lifetime.

Now, this is something.


Lol @ . But I don't give a sh!t about women...I can't mix with anything that has a trait of instability.


Smh @ In conclusion, forget the girls. There are more important things to do in a lifetime.


You're badder than the oP


Men need women

Women need men


It's just about playing the game the right way is the reason the oP made this post

KreativGenius:


That's hypocritical. You quoted my comments several times, and i wasn't discussing with you. Last time i checked it's an open forum, and no one should e dissuaded from quoting anyone, anyone that doesn't want to be quoted shouldn't post comments. Simple

True that! It's fine but I'd appreciate if you only reply mentions I direct at you, don't worry, you shouldn't expect anything short of that from me too.

TSOM:
The original poster sure raised valid points but sweeping generalizations which do not hold true in all situations.
Let's localize it to Nairaland:

Have you ever wondered why the Mr. Nice Guys of the Romance and Family Sections are treated only as platonic friendly acquaintances who can be insulted by the female Nairalanders they accost while the supposed egomaniacal, overly-blunt snubs get females crushing on them?


I'd even be more blunt: Have you ever wondered why Lézz, Cöogar or dudes with their e-personas get their way more easily with female Nairalanders while the Mr. Nice Guys like Dîngbang/Cutehectôr who asslick and show way too much attention to these same females are taken for granted?

Two nights ago, a certain Edimolu and Lezz/BadBradley brawled 'cause Lézz the 'bad, blunt Casanova' had Lâla247 mention him as her crush while she ignores Edîmolu (Mr. Nice Guy) who has been stalking and paying her compliments on even thread.


Personally, even in romantic relationships, I never show any female too much attention. You'd never predict when next I would call or how regularly it would be. I'd never abandon my weekend plans just so you'd fulfil yours.

Every time I call, you'd have to call back and if you don't , forget about it.

Whenever we spend time together, you'd drop your phone and turn off your internet connection as I would mine so we concentrate on us and our relationship. Some weak-balled males would let a girl take them for granted by talking to her while she's replying to random men on Messenger or WhatsApp.

There are a thousand things guys like me do which gives us the advantage over Mr. Nice Guys. Keep a woman second-guessing too. When a random girl compliments your looks or strokes your full beard in her presence, don't be scared to revel in the compliment in your girlfriend's presence.


Then again, I don't cheat but girlfriend would keep second-guessing that 'cause, for some reason, women always come closer. She knows there are a thousand women I could start something with if she doesn't stay inline. Advantages of being a wordsmith/smooth talker.

Cheating is a no-no all the same and nothing would replace having your woman draw invincible patterns on your chest, stroking the hair on it while you both discuss and argue about everything and sweet nothings. Nothing beats being in a relationship.

Go only for the rare girls.

this is blunt truth..... peeps like jude and airforce who doesnt give a rat ass weda u pretty or not always have females wish thinking... theres this lefu guy... hes seen as the ladies man but that where it all ends..... overly too emotional with ladies is a terrible approach... ignoring a pretty guy when evry one wants her is a torment to her esp if you are not looking bad yourself.... NICE GUYS ALWAYS COME LAST.. EVEN WITH OTHER GUYS... they lose respect, they are taken for granted... i saw a thread where a student complained of people owing him yet he still lends money out... such a nice guy and loser ......








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tescoman90:

All I can say is that THE TRUTH IS BITTER

go And Tell It To Your Mother Na... You no Get Brain

Daejoyoung:

He just said you don't need to be in a relationship, so how does the girlfriend issue come into this again? It's just a narrative of his findings and it's not necessary to agree with him completely or otherwise.

so i guess you agree with him

Blackhawk01:


True that! It's fine but I'd appreciate if you only reply mentions I direct at you, don't worry, you shouldn't expect anything short of that from me too.

You're confused, you can't litigate mentions i quote. Oh no dear you can't. The same way you quoted my mention is how i'll quoted any mention i feel like. The last time i checked, it aint against the rules of the forum. So why are you worked up about mentions i quote, when i see myself quoted in proxy, is it then out of order to respond to such mention accordingly?

Blackhawk01:


Their confusion is legendary . With these ones, there would be nothing good to write about Naija men because they don't even know what they want and they are quick to scream "women don't know what they want"... Told one of them what I want yesterday and he just went on about how it's gonna be painful and all because it's different from what he expects women to want.

Tell em biko

LOL. I have come to realise they are just bunch of hypocitical, emotional men. Imagine a lady ceated this thread, we would have been reading..."olosho, feminist, man hater, wait until you waste your 20s and end up single at 40, feminist are bitter, single, frustrated women"...

The thread for done reach 33 pages, with their nonsense vulgar insult and bullying. See how chicks are taking it cool, making fun of the whole situation. These dudes can't take the reverse thread cool o... I told RaggedyAnn that the name for men who have strong opinions about women is realist

Another gender-warfare thread. Stuffs that shouldn't be taken seriously.


People have lost their sense of fun thesedays

KreativGenius:



You're confused, you can't litigate mentions i quote. Oh no dear you can't. The same way you quoted my mention is how i'll quoted any mention i feel like. The last time i checked, it aint against the rules of the forum. So why are you worked up about mentions i quote, when i see myself quoted in proxy, is it then out of order to respond to such mention accordingly?

You're the confused and irrational one, I just clearly stated what I want and you're here fuming... You either agree to my terms or MYFB!

tescoman90:

But you should also know that your dad was not the only one your mum bleeped b4 she settled down for marriage.

Oga, don't waste your quote on that dumbo. He's the most foolish niqur I've seen on NL.

Blackhawk01:


You're the confused and irrational one, I just clearly stated what I want and you're here fuming... You either agree to my terms or MYFB!

I don't repress women in anyway, we were both having fun, it was you who took things serious

My opinion on relationships has always been a single thing, everyone with what works for them, simple. The rest is a joke. Some want frequent calls, some don't, some want babes that pay attention, some needs space, it's about individual needs and wants. So coming for my head is what i don't understand. It ain't a gender issue, it's a personal thing. Stop coming for me like we have an issue btw us

I told you i was single, so don't spoil my market abeg you

PureWaterNylon:
go And Tell It To Your Mother Na... You no Get Brain

I am suspecting that your mom no F*CK before she born you....... Smh

Blackhawk01:


You're the confused and irrational one, I just clearly stated what I want and you're here fuming... You either agree to my terms or MYFB!

sorry to bother you action lady... but what does MYFB mean?








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