KreativGenius:



100% on point @ a man that knows that he should hurt my feelings, one told me i'm too nice way too nice. It's the one that wounds them, bruise them, so they can feel pain, they like. I think the ecstasy they feel after the pain make them feel happier than been treated nicely, treating women nicely scratches the surface, it doesn't deep deep into their emotional reservoir, hence they will love a nice guy less. I learnt this the hard way. Also, guys shouldn't call all the time, or be in regular touch, they need some withdrawal and absence so they can wound internally to develop more love.


100% AGAIN @ no woman wants your love I repeat no woman wants your love... they're the ones to love ours is to make them love

They don't want men that fall for them, but they want men they can fall for. This is how it works bro, you're on point. I learnt this too in the hard way.


Na so @ when a lady says "I want a man that loves me "... what she means is "I want a man that tells me what I want to hear"

dview001:
imagine this last year..... there was this girl I dated "damilola" she came to my place we were gisting and teasing mathematically... then I went to pee, came and met her wif my phone going 2ru my msgs I told her to apologize she said no... then I told her dami pick your bag and leave, she said are you asking me to leave? I repeated "dami pick your bag and leave" she said "I will go oh " I left her went to my bed and lied down she repeated "David I will go oh" I said pls leave already, I could see the confusion on her face, she got angry nd left thinking I will run after her and beg (like some sissies do)but I didn't .... after 30mins she came back knelt down and apologize LOL... what am I saying "I kept my emotions in check " by emotions I mean anything like love,desperation, fear of loosing her.... when a lady notice she can't break your heart you become her zeus

kullozone:


Oga, don't waste your quote on that dumbo. He's the most foolish niqur I've seen on NL.

ReinaFarine:
OP and all the pained guys on this thread, please go ahead and live the lonely life of a fucktoy...
That means a boy toy thinking he's a fuckboy....

KreativGenius:



Now, this is something.


Lol @ . But I don't give a sh!t about women...I can't mix with anything that has a trait of instability.


Smh @ In conclusion, forget the girls. There are more important things to do in a lifetime.


You're badder than the oP


Men need women

Women need men


It's just about playing the game the right way is the reason the oP made this post

tescoman90:


I am suspecting that your mom no F*CK before she born you....... Smh

alexis007:
Which kind game? PS 5 abi PS 10?

Of course men need women and vice versa. But the way people do gender wars and blames these days...just imagine you're just flew into earth back from Mars some days only to be faced with threads themed "Men are scum" and "Women are bloody cheats". You'd think some gender Armageddon is going to happen very soon.

This is what I mean: The cure to Aids has not been found. Our country's resources are being looted by old men who should be in their graves. North Korea of yesterday is almost a nuclear state, meanwhile we have done little in science and technology. None of these gets mentioned. Every time na kitten and d!ck matter dey take center stage.

I for one person, have had a situation where a lady I loved started to act funny. Guess what? I thanked God and dumped her confused soul. My thanking God was because I'm now going to give 100% attention to those dreams I used to nurse before I met her. Not long after, she began to call, begging for a reconciliation. She even asked my friends to assist in her cause. But by then the boy is neck deep chasing his dreams and therefore can't hear her.

...And I will not stop till of them see the light of the day.

Mariinee:
But the OP is right... Right, Harddon?

pidgintutor:




this is blunt truth..... peeps like jude and airforce who doesnt give a rat ass weda u pretty or not always have females wish thinking... theres this lefu guy... hes seen as the ladies man but that where it all ends..... overly too emotional with ladies is a terrible approach... ignoring a pretty guy when evry one wants her is a torment to her esp if you are not looking bad yourself.... NICE GUYS ALWAYS COME LAST.. EVEN WITH OTHER GUYS... they lose respect, they are taken for granted... i saw a thread where a student complained of people owing him yet he still lends money out... such a nice guy and loser ....

pocohantas:


LOL. I have come to realise they are just bunch of hypocitical, emotional men. Imagine a lady ceated this thread, we would have been reading..."olosho, feminist, man hater, wait until you waste your 20s and end up single at 40, feminist are bitter, single, frustrated women"...

The thread for done reach 33 pages, with their nonsense vulgar insult and bullying. See how chicks are taking it cool, making fun of the whole situation. These dudes can't take the reverse thread cool o... I told RaggedyAnn that the name for men who have strong opinions about women is realist

TSOM:


Overly nice guys are always the losers even though they'd make better lovers.

Then again, most females want guys who are cold, insensitive snubs towards other women but would kiss her nape to pacify her when she's upset.

Again, have you ever wondered why guys on Facebook and Instagram who like, comment and repeatedly try to engage females on their picture updates are snubbed or laughed off while guys like me who never like or comment get our groove on with the same females via messages?

The only female pictures I've liked on social media in the last two years are my baby sister's yet I still hold engaging conversations and more via messages with females while the servile dimwits who belittle themselves asslicking the girls get ignored.


Most guys need to book a thousand sessions with conversational coaches to help them up their skills. The way they fool and belittle themselves on social media brings disgrace to menfolk.

Blackhawk01:


Exactly!

I don't even bother commenting on this kinda thread on a norms because I know they preach opposite of what they do most times, most of them don't even have gfs and the few ones that do are the "females" in the relationship. I honestly don't understand why guys would litter everywhere with their emotions, isn't that enough sign of being a Sissy? On the first page, the first girl to disagree was insulted and called names. Very childish, if you ask me.

TSOM:


Overly nice guys are always the losers even though they'd make better lovers.

Then again, most females want guys who are cold, insensitive snubs towards other women but would kiss her nape to pacify her when she's upset.

Again, have you ever wondered why guys on Facebook and Instagram who like, comment and repeatedly try to engage females on their picture updates are snubbed or laughed off while guys like me who never like or comment get our groove on with the same females via messages?

The only female pictures I've liked on social media in the last two years are my baby sister's yet I still hold engaging conversations and more via messages with females while the servile dimwits who belittle themselves asslicking the girls get ignored.


Most guys need to book a thousand sessions with conversational coaches to help them up their skills. The way they fool and belittle themselves on social media brings disgrace to menfolk.

KreativGenius:


That's hypocritical. You quoted my comments several times, and i wasn't discussing with you. Last time i checked it's an open forum, and no one should e dissuaded from quoting anyone, anyone that doesn't want to be quoted shouldn't post comments. Simple

pidgintutor:



its even worse on facebook... a guy sends a friend request... the girl accepts.. next thing u see is

"THANKS FOR YOUR ACCEPTANCE"

"THANK YOU FOR THE FRIENDSHIP ACCEPTANCE" and all what not... you look at the guys profile and you would be shocked to see its a full grown man.....


meanwhile,


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kowalsky:


dude what the eff is wrong with you. leave that bish alone. you read the topic. you got the message. now move on and stop trying to engage her in a conversation...

this is exactly what the op is talking about. you're giving her the prerogative to feel important. like her ilk, she's not worth the stress... the more you commit the more you lose respect.

your conversation with her is a clear testament that all the op said on this thread are truths set in stone.

so grow some fvking balls and let the bish slide.

KreativGenius:



I don't repress women in anyway, we were both having fun, it was you who took things serious

My opinion on relationships has always been a single thing, everyone with what works for them, simple. The rest is a joke. Some want frequent calls, some don't, some want babes that pay attention, some needs space, it's about individual needs and wants. So coming for my head is what i don't understand. It ain't a gender issue, it's a personal thing. Stop coming for me like we have an issue btw us

I told you i was single, so don't spoil my market abeg you

pidgintutor:



sorry to bother you action lady... but what does MYFB mean?

Blackhawk01:


I'm actually done dragging this with you. In case, you still don't get why I quoted you in the first place, go through my earlier mentions.

"Us"? Lol.



Pidgintutor, MYFB mean say "Mind Your Fvckin Business"

KreativGenius:



100% on point @ a man that knows that he should hurt my feelings, one told me i'm too nice way too nice. It's the one that wounds them, bruise them, so they can feel pain, they like. I think the ecstasy they feel after the pain make them feel happier than been treated nicely, treating women nicely scratches the surface, it doesn't deep deep into their emotional reservoir, hence they will love a nice guy less. I learnt this the hard way. Also, guys shouldn't call all the time, or be in regular touch, they need some withdrawal and absence so they can wound internally to develop more love.


100% AGAIN @ no woman wants your love I repeat no woman wants your love... they're the ones to love ours is to make them love

They don't want men that fall for them, but they want men they can fall for. This is how it works bro, you're on point. I learnt this too in the hard way.


Na so @ when a lady says "I want a man that loves me "... what she means is "I want a man that tells me what I want to hear"

XML33:
Discard all the conventional crap society has fed you about women. Ignore the relationship garbage you see on mainstream TV. And most importantly, disregard anything women say themselves. In fact, never you listen to what a woman says when she describes the kind of man she wants and how she wants to be treated. It's all hogwash..

This thread is amoral so anyone who has problems with posts that don't fit into the whole religious & moral nonsense should please exit the thread.

Guys stop wasting your time being in relationships with women. It's a complete waste of time. Let's be honest. What do you derive from the relationship that you can't get if you weren't committed to her? Nothing. Being in a committed relationship puts you in a precarious position and it kills her attraction towards you. There are two kinds of men women crave. The provider and the guy she would willingly give her body to fucckk. Women feel attraction towards the later and would do anything to please him, but just use the former as a source of financial or emotional security. You can be the later without being in a relationship. In fact you can be this guy to lots of women. Women are liars and what they say is usually not true. You can doubt this statement at your own peril. Women are instinctual creatures and they are controlled by their primal feminine instincts. A woman can articulate her needs perfectly, but her behavior and actions would vary.

If you are in a relationship with a girl who claims she loves you because you care about her and take care of her needs, my guy you are being lied to. This same girl probably has other guys who she secretly texts and craves to be with. You stop being attractive to a woman once you assume the role of a provider. Even if a woman really loves you and commits to you, she is eventually going to stop being attracted to you because she would get bored of you faster than you'll get bored of her. That's just the way women are.

Instead of being in a long term relationship with one girl and wasting your life, meet various random women and do what you'd have done with your girlfriend with them. Whether it's sex or having a good time with no commitment at all. There are over 3 billion women in the world. It's stupidity to blindly commit to just one girl who would lose interest in you once you begin displaying commitment and showering her with attention.

Never take a woman seriously. She isn't worth it. No matter how attractive you think she looks. Treat women as if they are nothing and they'll crave you more. This is a fact. The less attention you pay to women the more they respect and desire you. The more care you show to them the more they disrespect you and lose attraction towards you. Just hook up, have sex and move on to the next. This is how to be a man. Don't commit to a single woman. You'll regret it.

You’re 100% correct. On God!

But püssy Niggas who don’t know shït and think àss licking a woman is life would call you frustrated. But they would still be the one to open threads crying out that their girlfriend is cheating on or disrespecting them, asking for advise from OG’s like us to help soothe their deflated egos.

But i still can’t blame the women tho. Even they don’t understand the way they’re wired.

KreativGenius:



T/D ?

ReinaFarine:


Please Genius, what is love?

Please continue your love them leave them kind of life until you meet a real woman...

When you truly love and you're not just infatuated, everytime you call, it is because you want to be a part of her day as much as you want her to be a part of yours....
You're soulmates... You don't just call to say have you eaten?
Did you go to work?
How is the weather over there?

And other stupid pointless questions...
There are things you have to tell her... Like, What you're feeling... Your reaction to something that occurred... The steps you took that day with respect to your life plan... These are some of the things I discuss with my man...
After that, we can talk about the weather, the roasted corn I bought that was burnt, the hair I'll make next week... Hell even the trimming of his nails....

But when you're an NFA nigga whose only thought is circled on food, clothing, party and weather, and you're hooking up with an awaiting admission slay Queen... the conversation becomes redundant.... Like she can guess what you will ask before you ask it...

Please.. Continue bleeping around until you're ready... Beautiful ones are not yet born right?

When you fall in love with the right woman or man for you... There is no game, no trial and error.. No rule book.... You're sharing your life together... So anything that makes an impact in you that day is what you discuss.... And vice versa...

And there are times you're bored, you're stressed, you're tired, you're down, if she is truly your woman, she'll bring you around... Andi she can't, she'll sit there with you until you're ready to get up again...

I love my man 100%

And I'm goddamn lucky he loves me just as much....

KreativGenius:


Better don't let your sisters come for you

Blackhawk01:


We don't wanna derail this thread, do we?

Truth, though.

Blackhawk01:


I'm actually done dragging this with you. In case, you still don't get why I quoted you in the first place, go through my earlier mentions.

"Us"? Lol.



Pidgintutor, MYFB mean say "Mind Your Fvckin Business"

KreativGenius:



T/D ?

Mariinee:
My sisters? I only have one sister and she's sleeping besides me right now.

The OP is absolutely right though. The only part I do not agree with is not being in a relationship because of that. Surely, OP must have suffered enough hurt to reason like this.

Women crave attention and when you deny them that attention, they chase after you in thirst.

KreativGenius:




You're spot on.


I agree 100%, when we fall in love with someone, we can't spend a moment apart,which is why i said it's a game, a play thing. Of course, when we're in love, it's crazy, time is wasted, we want to be with out loved ones almost round the clock.


People are in process and will get to that point, social media comments aint real my lady. That's why we shouldn't stress ourselves to litigate over what's the right or wrong way. As for me, it's round the clock communication

So it aint trivializing the discuss nope, enjoying the thread, can't be too serious about life.

Mariinee:
Love wears out...Loyalty is what will sustain whatever relationship, no matter how hard you both love each other.

She's right too though.

KreativGenius:



Mogbe @ Women crave attention and when you deny them that attention, they chase after you in thirst.I made a mistake with this point with one lady years ago, i won't anymore

KreativGenius:


Yes, if companionship is in any relationship, even when the flame reduces, it can help rebound the relationship