I've been in a relationship for 4 years now. I cook for him whenever I go to visit him at his place. When I serve him food, he will eat, drink water and go watch TV. But he never says if the food is good or bad. He just eats, eats and eat.

The thing has been making me feel somehow but I'm afraid he'll break up with me if I talk to him about it. He just keeps quiet and stares at me like I've grown 2 heads when I tell him about "small stuff" like this.

What should I do? How do I tell him how I feel without getting him angry?

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Ladies where their mentality You mean you want to break up over mere compliments?

I really don't get why Nigeria girls cook for their boyfriends when they visit? I mean, it is his house and you're his guest so he should be the one cooking and serving, after all there's no guarantee that you have a future with him.

Men sha. Don't y'all know we need the words?

Kondomatic:
I really don't get why Nigeria girls cook for their boyfriends when they visit? I mean, it is his house and you're his guest so he should be the one cooking and serving, after all there's no guarantee that you have a future with him.

LOL. They don't see it like that. Some women just like taking care of their men.

madridguy:

So you're one of them abi? LOL

You're in a 4yrs relationship. Cooking for him whenever you visit. I'm 100% certain you do these too...washing his clothes, cleaning his house and at night; you'd give him your pussy. How will he take you seriously when you've decided to be his wife for a free offer?.

Very simple, add more salt and excess pepper when next you cook for him and thank me later.

Proudly

Omachi006:


So you're one of them abi? LOL

Ur boyfriend is just not romantic my dear, women Sha, we complain too much....Try to get use to it. Or u walk out Before you use ur hands spoil things more

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Omachi006:



LOL. They don't see it like that. Some women just like taking care of their men.

How is her boyfriend her man? Any prove??

Benita27:
You're in a 4yrs relationship. Cooking for him whenever you visit. I'm 100% certain you do these too...washing his clothes, cleaning his house and at night; you'd give him your pussy. How will he take you seriously when you've decided to be his wife for a free offer?.

Baby, baby take it easy na, d bae don provoke u ni D

izaray:
Baby, baby take it easy na, d bae don provoke u ni D

she is single, no sex for decades

Kondomatic:
I really don't get why Nigeria girls cook for their boyfriends when they visit? I mean, it is his house and you're his guest so he should be the one cooking and serving, after all there's no guarantee that you have a future with him.

Tell them o,when I used to visit mine,he does the cooking cos I believe am his guest.His friends started telling him that he is becoming a fool for love

So "your food is sweet" is just your problem abi?


Oya come and cook for me in my house. I will even produce album for you sef

You did that to yourself. Why cook for a boyfriend?

If you cook for a bf give him sex or move in with him then you are giving him husband privilege.

izaray:
Baby, baby take it easy na, d bae don provoke u ni D

Some girls and desperation for marriage are like 5&6, and these ones would do and take lot of silly things just to be in that relationship. I'm sure she does more than cooking and as the Nigga isn't appreciative of what she does, she's mad.

iamJ:
she is single, no sex for decades

I'd rather not have sex for decades than self-service on whatsapp with someone you may never have the privilege to fùck. BTW, are you married?.

Benita27:
You're in a 4yrs relationship. Cooking for him whenever you visit. I'm 100% certain you do these too...washing his clothes, cleaning his house and at night; you'd give him your pussy. How will he take you seriously when you've decided to be his wife for a free offer?.

op is just a blogger jor

I thought u ladies like honesty? U want d guy 2 compliment ur cooking when he probably isnt enjoying d meal. Improve ur culinary skill n u'll get d compliment u so dearly crave.

Lol...ladies and Minute things, he hasn't complained, has he

Benita27:
I'd rather not have sex for decades than self-service on whatsapp with someone you may never have the privilege to fùck. BTW, are you married?.

Lmao

Its simple , you dont have self esteem anymore. because he doesn't respect you. he sees you as a maid and you are scared he his going to break up. Are you a puppet? you need to place some worth on yourself if you still want to continue in this relationship. what i mean is let him miss you a little yearn for you. okay.

Buy him the five love languages by Gary Chapman.

He will learn to understand that you love compliments and he would not fail to always compliment you.

The reason for dating or marrying him may add to ur problem

Try twerking while cooking,maybe he would c a reason to compliment u...

All this things am reading that a girlfriend shouldn't cook for a boyfriend is all bullshit.most of you that are taking this matter too serious are even living with their boyfriends abeg you people should stop the drama and advice the babe joor.

Kondomatic:
I really don't get why Nigeria girls cook for their boyfriends when they visit? I mean, it is his house and you're his guest so he should be the one cooking and serving, after all there's no guarantee that you have a future with him.

Is it really a big deal? It's just cooking na!

Rokia2:
You did that to yourself. Why cook for a boyfriend?

If you cook for a bf give him sex or move in with him then you are giving him husband privilege.

Hian, Just tell us you don't know how to cook. I mean its not a big deal if you can't fry egg to save your life LOL

cruchenutii:


Hian, Just tell us you don't know how to cook. I mean its not a big deal if you can't fry egg to save your life LOL

And if I don't how does that affect your life?