PureWaterNylon:
Dude its Obvious You Were Hurt... All Of Them Are Not Same Though... If You Say I Shouldnt Be In A Relationship With them, then Who Would I Be In A Relationship With? A Guy? Hell No!

Abeg Just Stop abeg... All These Thing You Guys Write Here Will Only Make these Girls Feel High-Spirited and See You As Weak. They Will Laugh And Mock You... All These Your Hate Speech is Not Worth It... Men Dont Nag Leave That For The Ladies... Just Dont Be The World's Nicest Guy To Them... Be The Mystery

Which one is mystery again..?
All this una James Bond talk sef

Dating and Attraction ,like no one else on the planet will tell you, is a game of Probability (Except for the nice guys who don't stand a chance with 21st Century women )

Girls have different likes. For every one of those alpha male wannabes who claim that they treat babes with less care and get laid, there is one who will lie to you although he hasn't gotten laid in a year.

So it's a game of chance to find : True love, Women who want to Bleep your brains out, women who think you're hot, women who will see you as a brother and women who'll never be attracted to you.

Love is luck nothing more

What I'll advise guys to do is to enjoy their lives with friends and make more money and go on a vacation in Ibiza. You're supposed to find love on the way to the top ( Everyone should come across love and never find it, talk less of being desperate)

If you're Hot go and watch Chelsea's match or Buy a Ps4 or go drinking with your guys. The more you do these things the less desperate you become and end up not giving a ratsass about women, until you "come across" that outstanding Lady who's challenging.

My slice of the pie, Gentlemen

Cutehector:
So you saying your mum didn't commit to your dad? Huh?

All these childish adults every where

PureWaterNylon:
ok So You Wanna Hook up With As Many Girls As Possible... Would You Like Your Girlfriend To Hook Up With As many Guys As Possible Oh! I Forgot... You Are The Owner Of The Write-Up Up There... Enjoy Yourself

I know ur type.

When dat ur trusted girl show u pepe u go come dey search dis thread for Google upandan to read it carefully

Mariinee:
But the OP is right... Right, Harddon?

u get sense

Hmmm

XML33:


Vain thing. It seems all you care about is the wedding photos. What happens later on? I'll tell you. They both become bored. Often it's the wife first. But they keep on trying to make things work and try to look for ways to "spice up" their relationship. A year or two in, their bedroom becomes a graveyard. Quarrels and arguments follow. They keep up appearances in public so people do not talk. Luckily for them the baby arrives and they now have something to force them to remain in the marriage. But the marriage is nothing but a pain. They start cheating on each other. The partner with the lower moral threshold is usually the first to cheat. They both try to hide it until one of them is caught. Then they either file for a divorce or they remain in the marriage for the sake of their children or to protect their image.

God bless you for this post....
I for sees this in my woman..
and thank God d wedding didn't works out...
the marriage would definitely not last.

XML33:
Discard all the conventional crap society has fed you about women. Ignore the relationship garbage you see on mainstream TV. And most importantly, disregard anything women say themselves. In fact, never you listen to what a woman says when she describes the kind of man she wants and how she wants to be treated. It's all hogwash..

This thread is amoral so anyone who has problems with posts that don't fit into the whole religious & moral nonsense should please exit the thread.

Guys stop wasting your time being in relationships with women. It's a complete waste of time. Let's be honest. What do you derive from the relationship that you can't get if you weren't committed to her? Nothing. Being in a committed relationship puts you in a precarious position and it kills her attraction towards you. There are two kinds of men women crave. The provider and the guy she would willingly give her body to fucckk. Women feel attraction towards the later and would do anything to please him, but just use the former as a source of financial or emotional security. You can be the later without being in a relationship. In fact you can be this guy to lots of women. Women are liars and what they say is usually not true. You can doubt this statement at your own peril. Women are instinctual creatures and they are controlled by their primal feminine instincts. A woman can articulate her needs perfectly, but her behavior and actions would vary.

If you are in a relationship with a girl who claims she loves you because you care about her and take care of her needs, my guy you are being lied to. This same girl probably has other guys who she secretly texts and craves to be with. You stop being attractive to a woman once you assume the role of a provider. Even if a woman really loves you and commits to you, she is eventually going to stop being attracted to you because she would get bored of you faster than you'll get bored of her. That's just the way women are.

Instead of being in a long term relationship with one girl and wasting your life, meet various random women and do what you'd have done with your girlfriend with them. Whether it's sex or having a good time with no commitment at all. There are over 3 billion women in the world. It's stupidity to blindly commit to just one girl who would lose interest in you once you begin displaying commitment and showering her with attention.

Never take a woman seriously. She isn't worth it. No matter how attractive you think she looks. Treat women as if they are nothing and they'll crave you more. This is a fact. The less attention you pay to women the more they respect and desire you. The more care you show to them the more they disrespect you and lose attraction towards you. Just hook up, have sex and move on to the next. This is how to be a man. Don't commit to a single woman. You'll regret it.

This is the realist thing i have read in years and i want to thank you for being the provider.

It is impossible to have a good relationship with a girl nowadays. They are never contented with what they have, they want a guy to be superman overnight and provide them with everything while what most of them offer is p**sy that can be gotten anywhere for free.

Seriously i see guys loving some girls blindly as weaklings because most of the girls they are loving are toying machines for other guys.

The real truth is naturally women do not know what they want from guys, they are just too complicated. Especially in this country where the only language they hear is marriage.

There are still the good and reasonable ones but they are close to impossible to find, which means it might be one in one thousand of them.

For me i want to live long and be successful, so i avoid them like plagues and only get the only thing i want from them when i want it which is p**sy. As for there love and care, let them keep it. The love and care i give to myself couple with God's love and family love is even too much for me to handle.

As for marriage, If i would ever be in one it would be for kids. And if there is much bullshit i will definitely end it.

XML33:


Get the fuccck out of my mention.

Guys don't listen to anything this girl says. Her behavior will be a direct opposite of the nonsense she is talking about. In a real life situation, she'll behave exactly how I've described women in my first post.

Always ignore what a woman says and pay attention to her behavior. The behavior is all that matters. The area of a woman's brain that controls rationality from which articulated opinions are dished from isn't the area that controls her behavior.

Yes I agree with you on most of your opinion bro especially the part where how the act I'd different from what they say, met a beautiful chick that was claiming feminist and I was happy to meet her and also run a feministic test. We both went for shopping and I bought things for my self and she also paid for hers though she thought or was expecting me to foot her bills, WTF?! are you not a feminist again? she suggested that we should go to a new restaurant, we went there and had dinner then I said thanks for taking me to a dinner and she started laughing and I pretended to be serious about not having ATM or cash to pay and the restaurant is very far about an hour drive from my house. The look on her fave was priceless :-) she managed to blurt out but you ate the guy now, you are to pay for dinner and take care of me your lady. The spirit of feminism disappeared, i disagreed and told her that one of the things that have made me happy be us is that we are both feminists and for that we will have to split the bills and I called on the waiter to come over and she started sweating a little I asked the waiter. She was surprised and speechless, I discharges the waiter after asking a little question and back to her again. This lady told me that I'm not acting like a "gentleman" (gentleman= Guy that pays their bills and do whatever they want) I now asked her are you a feminist and she was just looking at me, and I went on I'm invoking the right to equal treatment and no preferential treatment to any opposite sex. While sipping the fruit juice I ordered, paid after a while and we went home.
Don't believe 99% of what comes out of female's mouth except she's one of the very few that knows her salt.

DONADAMS:
I think it's all about how you study her,,my lady likes too much attention/care..... infact..I wonder the kinda person she is....I tried your approach of not giving her much attention... and Fvck!! she cheated on me...then I understood there's no manual in handling a relationship... just let the river flow to wherever it's going...

Grow a pair goddamnit, she cheated on you and blamed on you for not giving her attention and you accepted that bullshii?!? you better not take her serious and only stay with her for working on your D and nothing else. So if you're married tomorrow and you're seriously engaged on a project for a while she will GI ahead and cheated while you making bread? Weak balls everywhere, *in T.K Kirkland's voice: Who raised you?

alexis007:
Which kind game? PS 5 abi PS 10?

Of course men need women and vice versa. But the way people do gender wars and blames these days...just imagine you're just flew into earth back from Mars some days only to be faced with threads themed "Men are scum" and "Women are bloody cheats". You'd think some gender Armageddon is going to happen very soon.

This is what I mean: The cure to Aids has not been found. Our country's resources are being looted by old men who should be in their graves. North Korea of yesterday is almost a nuclear state, meanwhile we have done little in science and technology. None of these gets mentioned. Every time na kitten and d!ck matter dey take center stage.

I for one person, have had a situation where a lady I loved started to act funny. Guess what? I thanked God and dumped her confused soul. My thanking God was because I'm now going to give 100% attention to those dreams I used to nurse before I met her. Not long after, she began to call, begging for a reconciliation. She even asked my friends to assist in her cause. But by then the boy is neck deep chasing his dreams and therefore can't hear her.

...And I will not stop till all of them see the light of the day.

I like your post but you got me smh when you typed about letting the girl make you put your dreams on hold cos of a pusi bro. Well hope you always remember that most times chilling with a lady is what we do with the time mapped out for pleasure and relaxation but immediately money calls you move only very few situations can change moving.

Cutehector:
So you saying your mum didn't commit to your dad? Huh?

Don't mind OP, I think he has osteoporosis of the brain, he used in thinking and poliomyelitis of the hand he used to type

lifedynamics:



Which one is mystery again..?
All this una James Bond talk sef

Dating and Attraction ,like no one else on the planet will tell you, is a game of Probability (Except for the nice guys who don't stand a chance with 21st Century women )

Girls have different likes. For every one of those alpha male wannabes who claim that they treat babes with less care and get laid, there is one who will lie to you although he hasn't gotten laid in a year.

So it's a game of chance to find : True love, Women who want to Bleep your brains out, women who think you're hot, women who will see you as a brother and women who'll never be attracted to you.

Love is luck nothing more

What I'll advise guys to do is to enjoy their lives with friends and make more money and go on a vacation in Ibiza. You're supposed to find love on the way to the top ( Everyone should come across love and never find it, talk less of being desperate)

If you're Hot go and watch Chelsea's match or Buy a Ps4 or go drinking with your guys. The more you do these things the less desperate you become and end up not giving a ratsass about women, until you "come across" that outstanding Lady who's challenging.

My slice of the pie, Gentlemen

respect

lifedynamics:



Which one is mystery again..?
All this una James Bond talk sef

Dating and Attraction ,like no one else on the planet will tell you, is a game of Probability (Except for the nice guys who don't stand a chance with 21st Century women )

Girls have different likes. For every one of those alpha male wannabes who claim that they treat babes with less care and get laid, there is one who will lie to you although he hasn't gotten laid in a year.

So it's a game of chance to find : True love, Women who want to Bleep your brains out, women who think you're hot, women who will see you as a brother and women who'll never be attracted to you.

Love is luck nothing more

What I'll advise guys to do is to enjoy their lives with friends and make more money and go on a vacation in Ibiza. You're supposed to find love on the way to the top ( Everyone should come across love and never find it, talk less of being desperate)

If you're Hot go and watch Chelsea's match or Buy a Ps4 or go drinking with your guys. The more you do these things the less desperate you become and end up not giving a ratsass about women, until you "come across" that outstanding Lady who's challenging.

My slice of the pie, Gentlemen

Respect


Indeed @ It's a game of luck, i agree

Sure @ Nice guys carry last,like me

Cannonleo:
respect

It's the fact mahn

lordbish:
This is the realist thing i have read in years and i want to thank you for being the provider.

It is impossible to have a good relationship with a girl nowadays. They are never contented with what they have, they want a guy to be superman overnight and provide them with everything while what most of them offer is p**sy that can be gotten anywhere for free.

Seriously i see guys loving some girls blindly as weaklings because most of the girls they are loving are toying machines for other guys.

The real truth is naturally women do not know what they want from guys, they are just too complicated. Especially in this country where the only language they hear is marriage.

There are still the good and reasonable ones but they are close to impossible to find, which means it might be one in one thousand of them.

For me i want to live long and be successful, so i avoid them like plagues and only get the only thing i want from them when i want it which is p**sy. As for there love and care, let them keep it. The love and care i give to myself couple with God's love and family love is even too much for me to handle.

As for marriage, If i would ever be in one it would be for kids. And if there is much bullshit i will definitely end it.

I disagree, i've met a working class girl that puts her hustle on, pretty and intelligent, she doesn't even give two hoots about a guy's money self. You should find these kinds

Op I endorse your views 100%, there was a time I was crazy about ladies, I would do anything for them, I was the complete good guy, I looked around and wanted to be different,the guy with the gentleman attitude ,the dude at the beak nd call. I got rubbish ,hit hard and basically washed vehicles for other dudes to ride.


Now I don't give a Bleep about any lady, I approach you and tell you my mind, if you mumble or stumble or play hard to get beyond a level , I dust my feet and move. Ladies complain am cold ,they don't realize I am a fire with a regulator.

Thank you harddon, I may be single and searching now but I do it with dignity.

So Op regardless of the attempted bashing accorded to you, you've made a valid point. deny women worship they think they deserve and watch then crumble

KreativGenius:



Respect


Indeed @ It's a game of luck, i agree

Sure @ Nice guys carry last,like me

Lol... You should be a bad guy na
It's not about being a douche or nice guy to women.
Just remove emotions and talk to them, then go your own way planning never to see them again, Lol they won't need a reminder to ask for your number

But remember it's a game if chance... Some will be happy you left.

Just don't send women and that's the true definition of Alpha male.

Lol if y'all are having some doubts check out Morgan Freeman's interview on CNN on how he makes chicks fall for him.


Women and Pussy are overrated. There's so much more to life e.g. No pussy or ass can give me the joy I felt when Morata scored Man Utd that header

lifedynamics:



Lol... You should be a bad guy na
It's not about being a douche or nice guy to women.
Just remove emotions and talk to them, then go your own way planning never to see them again, Lol they won't need a reminder to ask for your number

But remember it's a game if chance... Some will be happy you left.

Just don't send women and that's the true definition of Alpha male.

Lol if y'all are having some doubts check out Morgan Freeman's interview on CNN on how he makes chicks fall for him.


Women and Pussy are overrated. There's so much more to life e.g. No pussy or ass can give me the joy I felt when Morata scored Man Utd that header

I used to do all these before and had them fall, but with age, i've waxed cold jare

I feel it's too much work and don't see the need to stress myself. I regretted not doing it with one chick sha. I failed here : Just don't send women and that's the true definition of Alpha male.

KreativGenius:




I used to do all these before and had them fall, but with age, i've waxed cold jare

I feel it's too much work and don't see the need to stress myself. I regretted not doing it with one chick sha. I failed here : Just don't send women and that's the true definition of Alpha male.

Ahh effup and maybe she was the special one I was talking about.
No fear my guy, you'll find again or won't have to to be happy

lifedynamics:



Ahh effup and maybe she was the special one I was talking about.
No fear my guy, you'll find again or won't have to to be happy

Yup, the real definition of special, found out after the whole buhahaha

What do you mean by won't have to to be happy ?

KreativGenius:


Yup, the real definition of special, found out after the whole buhahaha

What do you mean by won't have to to be happy ?

Like you'll find your joy elsewhere... Instead of a woman

Everyone in life needs a partner not a woman.

The partner could be male, female, friends or family or even your career. There are many things to find satisfaction in, A wife/Girlfriend being just one if them.

lifedynamics:


Like you'll find your joy elsewhere... Instead of a woman

Everyone in life needs a partner not a woman.

The partner could be male, female, friends or family or even your career. There are many things to find satisfaction in, A wife/Girlfriend being just one if them.

I agree, i took work as a partner since 19, hustled very very hard, well, it kinda feels empty. Now, i know why Adam was lonely. It's good to take it hand in hand bro, companionship and hustle

Nice talk. That y I just love to Bleep them ladies single or married.As I wear my cloths I think of next lady to bleep. Ladies lie slot. Even went u are about to duck them they will receive call and lie on phone dry are at home. Is it such ladies u want to trust....

I have Bleep a lady coming from evening service on her way home married lady. Is it such lady u can trust....
I have Bleep a married deaconess in one of the big churches with her first son 17yrs.

80% of ladies loose interest in the marriage after the 3rd year. They are just in marriage for religious and cultural status . dere mind and body is else were but pretend to be enjoying marriage...

Trust a lady at your own peril. Just enjoy Bleep with them. No truth in dere mouth and dry are masters of pretenders.

OP is very true and I continue to c this happens every time..

Come c how married ladies day follow guys enter room charlet for drinking coded joint. U go know say ladies no be an...

hooklover:
Nice talk. That y I just love to Bleep them ladies single or married.As I wear my cloths I think of next lady to bleep. Ladies lie slot. Even went u are about to duck them they will receive call and lie on phone dry are at home. Is it such ladies u want to trust....

I have Bleep a lady coming from evening service on her way home married lady. Is it such lady u can trust....
I have Bleep a married deaconess in one of the big churches with her first son 17yrs.

80% of ladies loose interest in the marriage after the 3rd year. They are just in marriage for religious and cultural status . dere mind and body is else were but pretend to be enjoying marriage...

Trust a lady at your own peril. Just enjoy Bleep with them. No truth in dere mouth and dry are masters of pretenders.

OP is very true and I continue to c this happens every time..

Come c how married ladies day follow guys enter room charlet for drinking coded joint. U go know say ladies no be an...

You're such a lucky guy, bleeping a lady that's coming from service. Bleeping a lady that's married. It is well.


Lol @ they can pick calls while been bleeped, every guy should experienced this at least once.

TSOM:
The original poster sure raised valid points but sweeping generalizations which do not hold true in all situations.
Let's localize it to Nairaland:

Have you ever wondered why the Mr. Nice Guys of the Romance and Family Sections are treated only as platonic friendly acquaintances who can be insulted by the female Nairalanders they accost while the supposed egomaniacal, overly-blunt snubs get females crushing on them?


I'd even be more blunt: Have you ever wondered why Lézz, Cöogar or dudes with their e-personas get their way more easily with female Nairalanders while the Mr. Nice Guys like Dîngbang/Cutehectôr who asslick and show way too much attention to these same females are taken for granted?

Two nights ago, a certain Edimolu and Lezz/BadBradley brawled 'cause Lézz the 'bad, blunt Casanova' had Lâla247 mention him as her crush while she ignores Edîmolu (Mr. Nice Guy) who has been stalking and paying her compliments on even thread.


Personally, even in romantic relationships, I never show any female too much attention. You'd never predict when next I would call or how regularly it would be. I'd never abandon my weekend plans just so you'd fulfil yours.

Every time I call, you'd have to call back and if you don't , forget about it.

Whenever we spend time together, you'd drop your phone and turn off your internet connection as I would mine so we concentrate on us and our relationship. Some weak-balled males would let a girl take them for granted by talking to her while she's replying to random men on Messenger or WhatsApp.

There are a thousand things guys like me do which gives us the advantage over Mr. Nice Guys. Keep a woman second-guessing too. When a random girl compliments your looks or strokes your full beard in her presence, don't be scared to revel in the compliment in your girlfriend's presence.


Then again, I don't cheat but girlfriend would keep second-guessing that 'cause, for some reason, women always come closer. She knows there are a thousand women I could start something with if she doesn't stay inline. Advantages of being a wordsmith/smooth talker.

Cheating is a no-no all the same and nothing would replace having your woman draw invincible patterns on your chest, stroking the hair on it while you both discuss and argue about everything and sweet nothings. Nothing beats being in a relationship.

Go only for the rare girls.

I just want to say I am proud to be one of those that like ur comment.

Foodforthought:
Op the part where u said to not give women attention and they will crave u more is so so true. Women don't like men who dote on them. They actually never value nice guys, at least most of them don't. I don't have a girlfriend but I notice women always around me. I don't even have the time. It's waste of time to me chasing and pleasing women.
Abeg no bash me...I'm not feeling fine

If guys really know the value of time and attention, they would give it less but it is just unfortunate that those who are supposed to sit back, relax and be in control are being controlled.

Kondomatic:
If guys really know the value of time and attention, they would give it less but it is just unfortunate that those who are supposed to sit back, relax and be in control are being controlled.

I swear, I still can't believe it's November already and to think I wasted about 2 to 3 months on a girl is absolutely unforgivable. I tried to accomplish my goals but it just seems like time was always against me

If anyone follows the gabage the op just wrote.....then I'm sorry to tell you, u will never get married....smh

Cannonleo:
Op I endorse your views 100%, there was a time I was crazy about ladies, I would do anything for them, I was the complete good guy, I looked around and wanted to be different,the guy with the gentleman attitude ,the dude at the beak nd call. I got rubbish ,hit hard and basically washed vehicles for other dudes to ride.


Now I don't give a Bleep about any lady, I approach you and tell you my mind, if you mumble or stumble or play hard to get beyond a level , I dust my feet and move. Ladies complain am cold ,they don't realize I am a fire with a regulator.

Thank you harddon, I may be single and searching now but I do it with dignity.

So Op regardless of the attempted bashing accorded to you, you've made a valid point. deny women worship they think they deserve and watch then crumble

Humbled! now the next thing i wano hear is that you are single but so confused about which one to make the ROSE out of the tens of flowers flocking around you.

Molding minds.Empowering Lives...... kul logo huh?

oyetgirl:
If anyone follows the gabage the op just wrote.....then I'm sorry to tell you, u will never get married....smh

Who marriage epp

oyetgirl:
If anyone follows the gabage the op just wrote.....then I'm sorry to tell you, u will never get married....smh

with a lil modification, the post will be just perfect! yea, we know, it bruises ladies' ego.