pocohantas:


Is it really a big deal? It's just cooking na!

Lol I was thinking the same thing

Benita27:
You're in a 4yrs relationship. Cooking for him whenever you visit. I'm 100% certain you do these too...washing his clothes, cleaning his house and at night; you'd give him your pussy. How will he take you seriously when you've decided to be his wife for a free offer?.

It's called sexual liberality and expression. Having a "sex life"

ibkayee:

Lol I was thinking the same thing

we're all wired differently obviously. I see no big deal in cooking sha, maybe because it's something I love doing.

pocohantas:


we're all wired differently obviously. I see no big deal in cooking sha, making because it's something I love doing.

True, lol I don't even love cooking but I don't think doing it for a boyfriend is a big deal. Unless it's one of those he thinks I'm compelled arrangements or something lol

Omachi006:
I've been in a relationship for 4 years now. I cook for him whenever I go to visit him at his place. When I serve him food, he will eat, drink water and go watch TV. But he never says if the food is good or bad. He just eats, eats and eat.

The thing has been making me feel somehow but I'm afraid he'll break up with me if I talk to him about it. He just keeps quiet and stares at me like I've grown 2 heads when I tell him about "small stuff" like this.

What should I do? How do I tell him how I feel without getting him angry?

More questions needing answers here: http://www.helloaf.com/

May I have his number?

The only comment he might make when it's time is "The man that will marry you, will be so lucky"

Rokia2:


And if I don't how does that affect your life?

It doesn't. But don't come & tell other women why they should OR shouldn't cook for their boyfriends. Just keep your opinion to yourself.

Understood? I expect a yes.

Divay22:
The only comment he might make when it's time is "The man that will marry you, will be so lucky"

Is that what you were told when you pounded yam for your BF ?

Benita27:
You're in a 4yrs relationship. Cooking for him whenever you visit. I'm 100% certain you do these too...washing his clothes, cleaning his house and at night; you'd give him your pussy. How will he take you seriously when you've decided to be his wife for a free offer?.

Can we both agree that even though you give good relationship advice. It seems quite that you are in none yourself. Because If you were, you'd know cooking for your BF isn't a biggie. Even men now cook for their girlfriends(Including me) when they visit. It's nothing really.

cruchenutii:


Is that what you were told when you pounded yam for your BF ?

Rokia2:
You did that to yourself. Why cook for a boyfriend?

If you cook for a bf give him sex or move in with him then you are giving him husband privilege.

Just cos someone else doesn't appreciate the effort isn't a justification for been less caring...

Some of us actually value the effort and is a criteria for how committed we would be in a relationship..

If she doesn't want to treat me right cos I'm not yet her husband, she shouldn't expect me to be fully committed to her (or treat her) as a husband would...

pocohantas:


we're all wired differently obviously. I see no big deal in cooking sha, maybe because it's something I love doing.

Biko... Come and be cooking vegetable soup for me... Potty wan finish me oo

pocohantas:


Is it really a big deal? It's just cooking na!

It is not the right thing to do in your boyfriend's house.

cruchenutii:


Can we both agree that even though you give good relationship advice. It seems quite that you are in none yourself. Because If you were, you'd know cooking for your BF isn't a biggie. Even men now cook for their girlfriends(Including me) when they visit. It's nothing really.

There's nothing wrong in cooking occasionally for your spouse but when cooking and other house chores becomes daily/weekly routine then you're invariably performing the duties of a wife which would make your supposed boyfriend too comfortable to even think of doing what is expected of him. Especially for those who're desperate for marriage. They don't have to become their wives before they're actually made wives. That being said, I'm single but in a relationship, you made a wrong guess.

Benita27:
You're in a 4yrs relationship. Cooking for him whenever you visit. I'm 100% certain you do these too...washing his clothes, cleaning his house and at night; you'd give him your pussy. How will he take you seriously when you've decided to be his wife for a free offer?.

No chill

Kondomatic:
I really don't get why Nigeria girls cook for their boyfriends when they visit? I mean, it is his house and you're his guest so he should be the one cooking and serving, after all there's no guarantee that you have a future with him.

see bad advise! So its only sex that you will offer ur bf but you can't cook because if you cook you go die shebi? So how do you want a guy to even appreciate other qualities of a good gf which could become a future wife?

Did I just read '4yr relationship'
Wtf
Prepare to be stunned, girl

Kondomatic:
I really don't get why Nigeria girls cook for their boyfriends when they visit? I mean, it is his house and you're his guest so he should be the one cooking and serving, after all there's no guarantee that you have a future with him.

Cooking is fun for some people

iamJ:
she is single, no sex for decades

worworgirl:
Cooking is fun for some people

No be everywhere you dey have fun madam

Desperation.
Doing anything for the ring.

.

boiz2men:


Biko... Come and be cooking vegetable soup for me... Potty wan finish me oo

It wouldn't be a big deal if you were in my hood...but you aren't

pocohantas:


It wouldn't be a big deal if you were in my hood...but you aren't

God is Good motors nor dey ya hood ni

Op you try!

Four years? Still cooking , fucvking, washing and sucking.

U over try and u wonder why he looks at u with a stony stare?

Some women sha.

Anyways, I can't be dating more than one year.

boiz2men:



God is Good motors nor dey ya hood ni

GIG just to come cook vegetable soup?
You never tell me wetin you dey find

cruchenutii:


Can we both agree that even though you give good relationship advice. It seems quite that you are in none yourself. Because If you were, you'd know cooking for your BF isn't a biggie. Even men now cook for their girlfriends(Including me) when they visit. It's nothing really.

u dey mind the shediot

pocohantas:


GIG just to come cook vegetable soup?
You never tell me wetin you dey find

no na... u will cook it in your house and courier it via GIG na... is u not understanding

pocohantas:

Is it really a big deal? It's just cooking na!

Boyfriend cook spotted

Benita27:
You're in a 4yrs relationship. Cooking for him whenever you visit. I'm 100% certain you do these too...washing his clothes, cleaning his house and at night; you'd give him your pussy. How will he take you seriously when you've decided to be his wife for a free offer?.

she is preparing for the final show down. Just consider it as world cup qualifiers

boiz2men:



no na... u will cook it in your house and courier it via GIG na... is u not understanding

Is that possible?

And do you really have beards? Are you tall?

alexialin:
Op you try!

Four years? Still cooking , fucvking, washing and sucking.

U over try and u wonder why he looks at u with a stony stare?

Some women sha.

Anyways, I can't be dating more than one year.

what is wrong in trying to qualify for the final show down