OK straight up,my girl friend is faithful....
but she was in d market recently to get sumtings near a barrack,den a soldier approached her and started telling her love tales about falling in love wit her
he opted to get a wrist watch for her,she accepted and collect it in d market,now she got home and told me and showed me d watch,she told me wot happened,I got angry but didnt show it because she collected d watch
my main prob is she kept wearing it to my place wen she comes visiting and really dont like it,I feel she knows it isnt rite

Tell her not to wear the watch to your place again. Also not to tell the soldier you instructed her not to wear it else .. Better still, buy a nice watch for her but if she still insists on wearing the other watch, hmmmm na simi go sing "Mr Soldier" for you my brother.

If u dnt like that, why dnt u let her knw. I dnt dig d idea of a girl receiving gifts 4rm male admirers. Xo if it where me, I'ld give her a piece of my mind immediately. Bro d key 2 a good relationship is good. communication.

wat shud b bordering u shud b d fact dat she may probably b having sumtin already wt d soldier nt d watch. Collecting a gift from hm already is a "yes" 2 his request, and u no Wat wl happen if d soldier finds u wt her. Collecting gifts from admirers is extremely bad,once u wish to reject dia requests, reject dia gifts too

The soldier opted to buy a a wrist watch and she ACCEPTED.

Bro read again what you wrote up there, but this time, SLOWLY.

The answer is waiting there...

That happened and you been looking since then?

what do I know sef.

Which kain wahala be this, ehn?

You've no genuine reason to be too hard on yourself, so don't make yourself a fool. The last time I checked, it's not a crime for someone to accept a gift. The fact that the soldier admired her and bought her the gift doesn't automatically mean that he can force her to be his girlfriend - assuming that he didn't gift her the gift altruistically. Liberty is a right from the above not a privilege mortals give to each other.

kingxsamz:
or better still, go and talk sense into the head of that soldier and warn him seriously....

Lmao! Kuku kill him na

Be the man of your relationship. Tell her you are no longer comfortable seeing d watch on her, instruct her to stop puting it on whenever she is coming over to ur house...Communication good key to every successful relationship.

kingxsamz:
or better still, go and talk sense into the head of that soldier and warn him seriously....

Wish him goodluck pls

hkidola00:
OK straight up,my girl friend is faithful....
but she was in d market recently to get sumtings near a barrack,den a soldier approached her and started telling her love tales about falling in love wit her
he opted to get a wrist watch for her,she accepted and collect it in d market,now she got home and told me and showed me d watch,she told me wot happened,I got angry but didnt show it because she collected d watch
my main prob is she kept wearing it to my place wen she comes visiting and really dont like it,I feel she knows it isnt rite

tell her to take you to the soldier place maybe he enchant her

yes!!!!

A big one, and she told u abt it and u still acting like some kid

izaray:
Be the man of your relationship. Tell her you are no longer comfortable seeing d watch on her, instruct her to stop puting it on whenever she is coming over to ur house...Communication good key to every successful relationship.

thanks for dis piece,dat wot I intend to tell her 2nite....but look at it againv,d girl is dere always telling me d truth most of d tym,if it turns to quarel,she might start lying and stop being honest...she cud have told me she got d watch herself and i wud blive

LordKO:
You've no genuine reason to be too hard on yourself, so don't make yourself a fool. The last time I checked, it's not a crime for someone to accept a gift. The fact that the soldier admired her and bought her the gift doesn't automatically mean that he can force her to be his girlfriend - assuming that he didn't gift her the gift altruistically. Liberty is a right from the above not a privilege mortals gives to each other.

nice nice..so wot do u intend I should do

hkidola00:
nice nice..so wot do u intend I should do

According to you, your girlfriend has been faithful to you all the while - which means that she's a conscientious person (so long as she's no opportunistic trait) - so just expunge yourself of any negative thought and allow her to enjoy her liberty to the maximum. The importance of being conscientious and having a partner alike can never be overemphasized. A conscientious person always live life on principle rather than expediency, so a situation like this won't cause her to misbehave or betray you.

LordKO:


According to you, your girlfriend has been faithful to you all the while - which means that she's a conscientious person (so long as she's no opportunistic trait) - so just expunge yourself of any negative thought and allow her to enjoy her liberty to the maximum. The importance of being conscientious and having a partner alike can never be overemphasized. A conscientious person always lives life on principle rather than expediency, so a situation like this won't cause her to misbehave or betray you.

keen nice but pls,i hope it still OK I tell her she shouldn't wear it to my place