They've only been married for five months and I caught him last weekend at a party(A mutual friend's wedding party) in another state, dancing provocatively with different skanks girls and spraying serious cash on them.... with his wedding ring off.
And if you see his hot, sexy wife ehn. Petite, nice butt and perky titties, flawless and beautiful fair skin, dresses to kill, very intelligent and charming. Near perfect in all ramifications. All the guys at work are literally drooling over her. She was even my girl crush at a point and I usually said to myself "Her husband is an extremely lucky dude!".
What I don't understand is why he'll run after girls that can't even compare to his wife in any way.
This thing really pained me sha. I don't really know why I'm so upset by this afterall the woman in question is not even my friend. But I'm truly hurt. She really doesn't deserve this shiit.

Not a new thing sis, and it won't end tomorrow.

Interesting story

It's so sad. I do not even understand. It made me wonder if some men cannot even try to exercise some self control. Is cheating a kind of life giving activity to y'all? If the girls were better looking than his wife, It'd be more understandable(But it'd still be wrong anyway). But these are very basic bitchees this man was messing around with. How would anyone settle for trash when they have gold at home?

waywardpikin:
Not a new thing sis, and it won't end tomorrow.

Who told you been beautiful is what keeps a man?

You can be more beautiful then Beyonce, halle berry, and even Aishwarya Ria combined. Have the smallest waist flattest tummy phat azz the roundest breast, tightest pussy and skin more flawless than Rihanna that ain't gonna stop that nigga from cheating if he wanna cheat on you.

If you like suck the skin off his Di:::ck, always cook the nicest meals for him, keep the house clean, keep yourself clean, be the most hardworking and loyal woman on earth. If that nigga wanna cheat he's still gonna cheat.

Let that resonate.


Women shouldn't just marry for love they should pray to God to marry someone who's gonna respect their bond, be loyal understanding, tolerant. Someone who will have empathy for them. A God fearing man.
Be a good husband and a good father to their kids. Love is not everything.

Don't jump into conclusions, I'm not saying what the man did is right, but what if with her banging body she refuses her man sex and he eventually settled for skanks?
We should always hear both sides before anything, it really helps. But I understand you're hurt, so you created this thread.

Rokia2:
Who told you been beautiful is what keep a man?

You can benmore beautiful then Beyonce, halle berry, and even Aishwarya Ria combined. Have the small waist flattest tummy phat azz the roundest breast, tightest pussy and skin more flawless then Rihanna that ain't gonna stop that nigga from cheating if he wanna cheat on you.

Some people are natural born cheaters, both male and female.

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Rokia2:
Who told you been beautiful is what keep a man?

You can benmore beautiful then Beyonce, halle berry, and even Aishwarya Ria combined. Have the small waist flattest tummy phat azz the roundest breast, tightest pussy and skin more flawless then Rihanna that ain't gonna stop that nigga from cheating if he wanna cheat on you.

So you are insinuating that all men are cheats.

lefulefu:
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Guy you ehn !

I do not want to jump into conclusions, afterall I didn't see him bleeping anyone. But from the whole scenario, I know shiit must have gone down.Even if she refuses him sex(which I highly doubt), does it give him the permission to go mess around? I think it all boils down to greed and self control.

makydebbie:
Don't jump into conclusions, I'm not saying what the man did is right, but what if with her banging body she refuses her man sex and he eventually settled for skanks ?
We should always hear both sides before anything, it really helps. But I understand you're hurt, so you created this thread.

PurpleDrankk:
They've only been married for five months and I caught him last weekend at a party(A mutual friend's wedding party) in another state, dancing provocatively with different skanks girls and spraying serious cash on them.... with his wedding ring off.
And if you see his hot, sexy wife ehn. Petite, nice butt and perky titties, flawless and beautiful fair skin, dresses to kill, very intelligent and charming. Near perfect in all ramifications. All the guys at work are literally drooling after her. She was even my girl crush at a point and I usually said to myself "Her husband is an extremely lucky dude!".
What I don't understand is why he'll run after girls that don't can't even compare to his wife in anyway.
This thing really pained me sha. I don't really know why I'm so upset by this afterall the woman in question is not even my friend. But I'm truly hurt. She really doesn't deserve this shiit.

He already has her and there's nothing to crave in her anymore technically !

The strength of cheating is craving !

Thus craving and insatiety are close fellas who work hand in hand ! It has nothing to do how good looking a woman is, how intelligent, what she brings to the table, it's an internal problem whose result is externalized at maturity. So, don't blame the lady, it's predator's instincts. May God help we men !


As for me, the fear of spirit wives helps in my own control

Point of correction.
Next time don't generalize, better still, use "Some".
His act may be wrong, that doesn't mean all Men/Women does same.

PurpleDrankk:
It's so sad. I do not even understand. It made me wonder if some men cannot even try to exercise some self control. Is cheating a kind of life giving activity to y'all? If the girls were better looking than his wife, It'd be more understandable(But it'd still be wrong anyway). But these are very basic bitchees this man was messing around with. How would anyone settle for trash when they have gold at home?

If he has gold at home, I think he's still a winner. Some throw away diamonds while picking up rocks but he wifed his gold and kept her jejely and safely at home. I'm very sure that he treats her like an angel and fulfills all his obligations to her. Or are you planning on telling the wife about her hubby's sexploits? If you scatter their marriage will you help her to get another one? Anyway I find that you are befuddled how a man can cheat on someone so beautiful yeah? Anyone can be cheated on, if you like fine like person wey no dey sh!t.

Rokia2:
Who told you been beautiful is what keeps a man?

You can be more beautiful then Beyonce, halle berry, and even Aishwarya Ria combined. Have the smallest waist flattest tummy phat azz the roundest breast, tightest pussy and skin more flawless than Rihanna that ain't gonna stop that nigga from cheating if he wanna cheat on you.

If you like suck the skin off his Di:::ck, always cook the nicest meals for him, keep the house clean, keep yourself clean, be the most hardworking and loyal woman on earth. If that nigga wanna cheat he's still gonna cheat.
I
Let that resonate.


Women shouldn't just marry for love they should pray to God to marry someone who's gonna respect their bond, be loyal understanding, tolerant. Someone who will have empathy for them. A God fearing man.
Be a good husband and a good father to their kids. Love is not everything.

As usual Rokia, spot on !


Women shouldn't just marry for love they should pray to God to marry someone who's gonna respect their bond, be loyal understanding, tolerant. Someone who will have empathy for them. A God fearing man.
Be a good husband and a good father to their kids. Love is not everything.

Variety they say, is d spice of life. We men want it all, apple, pear, hourglass n even rectangle shaped ladies. Dnt get me wrong, I dnt condone what d guy did, but I understand him. All d more reason 2 stay single as long as possible.

You couldn't have said it better.

Rokia2:
Who told you been beautiful is what keeps a man?

You can be more beautiful then Beyonce, halle berry, and even Aishwarya Ria combined. Have the smallest waist flattest tummy phat azz the roundest breast, tightest pussy and skin more flawless than Rihanna that ain't gonna stop that nigga from cheating if he wanna cheat on you.

If you like suck the skin off his Di:::ck, always cook the nicest meals for him, keep the house clean, keep yourself clean, be the most hardworking and loyal woman on earth. If that nigga wanna cheat he's still gonna cheat.
I
Let that resonate.


Women shouldn't just marry for love they should pray to God to marry someone who's gonna respect their bond, be loyal understanding, tolerant. Someone who will have empathy for them. A God fearing man.
Be a good husband and a good father to their kids. Love is not everything.

In other words, lack of self control? This "craving" you speak of, it only strikes me as one who wants to have everything in skirt and cannot control his appetite. Even when he has a treasure, he still wants to pick up the rocks. So fuckin sad.

KreativGenius:



He already has her and there's nothing to crave in her anymore technically !

The strength of cheating is craving !

Thus craving and insatiety are close fellas who work hand in hand ! It has nothing to do how good looking a woman is, how intelligent, what she brings to the table, it's an internal problem whose result is externalized at maturity. So, don't blame the lady, it's predator's instincts. May God help we men !


As for me, the fear of spirit wives helps in my own control

PurpleDrankk:
In other words, lack of self control? This "craving" you speak of, it only strikes me as one who wants to have everything in skirt and cannot control his appetite. Even when he has a treasure, he still wants to pick up the rocks. So fuckin sad.

I can't join in the dissing, sorry, who's better !


I've seen problems associated with philandering, and it's what helps in my own control Plus, i like to run away alot !


So, i can relate, don't think he doesn't love her though ! It's our way ! May God help us !

Alwaysking:
So you are insinuating that all men are cheats.

Not not really what am trying to say is that a man cheating has nothing to do with who's he's with but everything to do with himself.

It's always the pretty and very good women that always get cheated on. I have seen it times without number in reality.

When I was naive and into bad boys and hot guys, I used to pray to marry who I wanted the man I love blah blah but as I became more mature and realise looks ain't everything and a marriage can not work on love alone, I began to pray to God for the man I need not the one I wanted. Cause most times what we want ain't good for us. But in the moment of infatuation and especially when the love is new, you are blinded by a lot of things. After the marriage comes reality. That is when you realise you should have been praying to God to give you the man he knows was best for you not what you wanted.

PurpleDrankk:
I do not want to jump into conclusions, afterall I didn't see him bleeping anyone. But from the whole scenario, I know shiit must have gone down.Even if she refuses him sex(which I highly doubt), does it give him the permission to go mess around? I think it all boils down to greed and self control.

Sweetheart, you already jumped into conclusions. You said men ain't shiit including my man.
Jokes aside, what if they (Mrs sexy and cheating husband) had an argument and he decided to have a few drinks and got himself into that compromising situation?
It all boils down to self control and discipline sha. Big boobs and azz cannot keep a man that's what most ladies fail to see. With Beyoncé's body, Jay-Z still cheated so what are we talking about?
But we shouldn't just jump into conclusions, for all we know, maybe they didn't even have sex.

Lol yeah that's part of it. The main reason why I'm shocked is that the woman is literally perfect and he has no reason(from what I can see sha)
to even think of messing around. And for people saying that it's because she doesn't give him sex, that's BS! This is still a young marriage. And nigga is definitely not sex starved. Just greedy. If he was, still doesn't justify anything.

waywardpikin:


If he has gold at home, I think he's still a winner. Some throw away diamonds while picking up rocks but he wifed his gold and kept her jejely and safely at home. I'm very sure that he treats her like an angel and fulfills all his obligations to her. Or are you planning on telling the wife about her hubby's sexploits? If you scatter their marriage will you help her to get another one? Anyway I find that you are befuddled how a man can cheat on someone so beautiful yeah? Anyone can be cheated on, if you like fine like person wey no dey sh!t.

Rokia2:


Not not really what am trying to say is that a man cheating has nothing to do with who's he's with but everything to do with himself.

It's always the pretty and very good women that always get cheated on. I have seen it times without number in reality.

When I was naive and into bad boys and hot guys, I used to pray to marry who I wanted the man I love blah blah but as I became more mature and realise looks ain't everything and a marriage can not work on love alone, I began to pray to God for the man I need not the one I wanted. Cause most times what we want ain't good for us. But in the moment of infatuation and especially when the love is new, you are blinded by a lot of things. After the marriage comes reality. That is when you realise you should have been praying to God to give you the man he knows was best for you not what you wanted.

OK now i understand your point, but the truth is that if a man love you darely the chance of cheating on you is slim.

this kinda story makes me wanna stay single for life

Alwaysking:
OK now i understand your point, but the truth is that if a man love you darely the chance of cheating on you is slim.

Not only love, he should also respect her. That respect is as important as love.

KreativGenius:



Guy you ehn !

make i give op small popcorn to cool down her broken heart

lefulefu:
make i give op small popcorn to cool down her broken heart

Argh brother.. Erm..You think i'm not upset ? Don't trivalise such a sensitive issue o

QueenSekxy:
this kinda story makes me wanna stay single for life

if a man really love u it will be difficult for him to cheat on u.note dat not all men wey marry a woman love that woman.some just marry d woman just because of the pressure of the parents or just to fulfill all righteousness.after dat dem start chasing d babe dat thrill dem.there are married men during valentine day dey will take out their sidechick and have fun while their own wives are at home.some Will buy the nice tinzs for their sidechicks but nothing for their wife..if d love no dey dere den the love no just dey dere.

lefulefu:
if a man really love u it will be difficult for him to cheat on u.note dat not all men wey marry a woman love that woman.some just marry d woman just because of the pressure of the parents or just to fulfill all righteousness.after dat dem start chasing d babe dat thrill dem.there are married men during valentine day dey will take out their sidechick and have fun while their own wives are at home.some Will buy the nice tinzs for their sidechicks but nothing for their wife..if d love no dey dere den the love no just dey dere.

Is there a man that doesn't cheat ?

makydebbie:
Not only love, he should also respect her. That respect is as important as love.

ofcourse if he loves you, he also respect you. if a man don't love and respect his woman then he's likely to cheat with other women.

PurpleDrankk:
They've only been married for five months and I caught him last weekend at a party(A mutual friend's wedding party) in another state, dancing provocatively with different skanks girls and spraying serious cash on them.... with his wedding ring off.
And if you see his hot, sexy wife ehn. Petite, nice butt and perky titties, flawless and beautiful fair skin, dresses to kill, very intelligent and charming. Near perfect in all ramifications. All the guys at work are literally drooling after her. She was even my girl crush at a point and I usually said to myself "Her husband is an extremely lucky dude!".
What I don't understand is why he'll run after girls that don't can't even compare to his wife in anyway.
This thing really pained me sha. I don't really know why I'm so upset by this afterall the woman in question is not even my friend. But I'm truly hurt. She really doesn't deserve this shiit.

he doesn't love his wife.its not by having sexy butt or flawless skin.a man who loves and respect his wife will not involve himself with skanks.i am sure he just married her cos he felt his time is ripe for marriage or maybe his parents pressurized him.