Thats a red flag hommie...Nothing like testing you....she's prolly a klepto...cos its just 2 weeks and she couldn't resist the urge.

To ppl saying that you should forgive her...Does your forgiveness cleanse her of her disease..

Go on with the relationship, and watch her steal besides you, embarrassing you both..

I would fucck her punnani and jet!

Disvolkswagen her first...then ran!

vchykp:
YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED as am going crazy now, i met this very pretty girl 2 weeks ago and the relationship is growing very fast, she really loves me and i do too, within the space of this 2 weeks, she has visited me 3 times, no sex yet as she is a virgin, she promised to let go off her virginity today which was why she came around, aftrt much fore play, she was still scared so i had to leave her in the room while i went to prepare noodles for us.

To my suprice when i came back, she was the one telling me to come and have her just to make me happy, as a guy i actually wanted to jump straight to proceed, my instinct told me to check the money i kept close to the wardrobe draw, i scatter money a lot actually, but no matter how scattered i keep my money, i know howmuch i keep everywhere in the house, the money was supposed to be 32k, on getting thier i discovered 5k was missing.

I could no believe it, she was too beautiful to do this, i had to confront her.. after long questions, she agreed she took it to test me, to test if i will notice, that she never meant to take it.

Am so confused at this point, should i continue with the relationship or should i just let her go, she is still here , crying and telling me she can never steal from me, please guy i need matured advice

dm her number.

vchykp:
she is really a virgin.. thanks tho, this was exactly what i had in mind, and thats what i will do.

don't do it... free yourself from that girl.....U v sisters n I guess U r planning to get married someday. remember karma is bitch

vchykp:
YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED as am going crazy now, i met this very pretty girl 2 weeks ago and the relationship is growing very fast, she really loves me and i do too, within the space of this 2 weeks, she has visited me 3 times, no sex yet as she is a virgin, she promised to let go off her virginity today which was why she came around, aftrt much fore play, she was still scared so i had to leave her in the room while i went to prepare noodles for us.

To my suprice when i came back, she was the one telling me to come and have her just to make me happy, as a guy i actually wanted to jump straight to proceed, my instinct told me to check the money i kept close to the wardrobe draw, i scatter money a lot actually, but no matter how scattered i keep my money, i know howmuch i keep everywhere in the house, the money was supposed to be 32k, on getting thier i discovered 5k was missing.

I could no believe it, she was too beautiful to do this, i had to confront her.. after long questions, she agreed she took it to test me, to test if i will notice, that she never meant to take it.

Am so confused at this point, should i continue with the relationship or should i just let her go, she is still here , crying and telling me she can never steal from me, please guy i need matured advice

UNFUCCINGBELIEVABLE!



I don't know how many times I'm going to be schooling niggas regarding the pure nature of women, be they 15 or 50, virgin or hoes.

Alas, I believe God put obscurity in the hearts of men regarding women and their ways, so that marriage would happen for children to be born into the world to multiply in it. That's it.

IF MEN KNEW THE HEARTS OF WOMEN, THEY WOULD NEVER MARRY.

let's look at your situation brah. You are about to get the MOST mature advice on this thread.

First, you said...
...she really loves me and i do too

That biitch doesn't love you. Get that into your head. she loves something else, and from your write up, I think you already know what that thing is. Biitches CANNOT love. Period. They were never designed like that. Get an education on this.

she is a virgin, she promised to let go off her virginity today which was why she came around, aftrt much fore play, she was still scared so i had to leave her in the room while i went to prepare noodles for us. To my suprice when i came back, she was the one telling me to come and have her just to make me happy, as a guy i actually wanted to jump straight to proceed,

This Biitch is a smart one. LOL. She PROMISED to let go of her virginity LOL. She understand you NIGGA. She knows what flips your switch and she's using it to her advantage to get what she wants from you. See how she surprised you lol. She wanted to make you happy LOL. And as a (stupid) guy you wanted to jump straight to...sell you bleeping soul. Tell me, which girl in these disunited states of Nigeria will simply let her virginity go just like that Do you not know that the biitch knows, dumb monkey ass niggas like you worship and pedestalize virgin pusssay above anything else??

Wake the Bleep up

I'm happy your male instincts kicked in. There's still hope for you bro. That right there is that shiit, God put in you to escape these biitches. You were too late though. She already played you like Nintendo.

Now for all you other NIggas out there, this is the best part...

I could no believe it, she was too beautiful to do this, i had to confront her.. after long questions, she agreed she took it to test me, to test if i will notice, that she never meant to take it.

First, JACKASS should be tatted on your forehead for believing a beautiful woman can do no wrong. She clearly understood that your awe of her beauty made you treat her with difference and she used at to rob you. After you grilled her, she still found a way to escape what many niggas will get tires, fuel and and a lit match stick for the same crime...with a slap on the wrist. Check how she cleverly said she did that to test you, confirming (to you in your mind) that a nice, beautiful angel of a lady like her is simply calculative and sentient, and not a low down thief. The worst bitches are the FINE ONES. Enough said.

Let me ask you at this point: what on earth is she testing you for Why is she testing you by taking your money?? The lying, thieving biitch SEARCHED for that cash and stole it, thinking a MUMU like you would never find out. She clearly understands the saying that goes..."A fool and his money will soon part ways". To make it worse, she said she never meant to take it

Really biitch??!!

Let's get one thing clear here;

She who draws well is an artist, not one who SAYS they can draw.
She who sings is a singer, not one who SAYS they can sing.
She who DOES kindness is kind, not one who SAYS they are kind.
She who tells lies is a liar.
She who steals is a thief.

PEOPLE ARE WHAT THEY DO, NOT WHAT THEY SAY THEY DO. Write this on your bathroom mirror and memorize it.

What is pissing me off write now, is that some dumbass niggas on this thread are asking you to let her go and forgive bla bla fuccking bla. The blind leading blind is counterproductive. They will both fall in a ditch. True story. Even worse are the niggas advising you to fucck the shiit out of her and dump her ass. I can't begin to tell you the amount of evil that can come out of that, but I spare you.

Finally,

you said...

Am so confused at this point, should i continue with the relationship or should i just let her go, she is still here , crying and telling me she can never steal from me, please guy i need matured advice

This would be counterintuitive for you, hence you coming her seeking for advise, but I think you already know what to do. LET HER GO.

She's simply shedding crocodile tears and lying to you. Let me reveal whats going on here. THIS IS HER ACTUAL TEST. She's checking to see if you are monumental mumu or a real man. If you continue with this this lying, thieving so called virgin, you will be signaling to her difference regarding her misbehavior and therefore, you will be implicitly acquiescing to a repeat of this behavior from her. You now will be a bonafide IDIOT in her mind. She will NEVER respect you and your boundaries. She will even scorn you for accepting her back. DON'T BE A FOOL.

On the flip side.

If you lay down the law like a man and refuse to tolerate her misbehavior, not only will she respect you for dumping her deviant ass, she will begin to genuinely get wet for you. No woman who is actually attracted to a man, would so much as disrespect him, let alone, rob him blind. In your case, she never actually liked you. YOU HAVE ONLY UTILITY VALUE TO HER. This is why she was toying with your delusions of tight, virgin pussy in the first place.

Get this right: A WOMAN WHO WANTS YOU WILL LEAVE NOT DOUBTS IN YOUR MIND THAT SHE DOES AND WOULD NEVER PLAY WITH YOU.

No one needs to tell you what to do at this point.


DO THE RIGHT THING AND DUMP HER. MAKE SURE YOU LET HER KNOW THAT YOU ARE AWARE OF HER TRICKS. ALSO, TELL HER THAT SHE MIGHT GET LYNCHED SOMEWHERE ELSE FOR DOING WHAT SHE DID.



out.

You should be happy she only took out of the money
And she is even crying begging you to forgive her. Hmmmm you never jam real thief.

Two of you are morons.

She is for stealing your money.

You are for having a beautiful and willing lady and still got time to be counting money.

Two of you deserve each other.

Just saying....

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Organs:


Don't say what you don't know period. Abi you get proof? so, keep kwayet.

She's loose ! She Kant keep her virginity for that long!

She's the type that will do anything for for money.

A loose babe can't be a virgin, they don't get attracted to material issh esp when they are compelled to trade their integrity for money. It's stupid to be a virgin and still be fixated on materials possessions.

I know some Virgins and I swear they are mostly decent folks. Like to helll with your money, well except she gets a mad offer in exchange for her virginity say 1milla. Lol


My point is if you can keep your virginity till the age of 25, then you must be very disciplined, hence it is obvious that she could have sold her virginity for 5k or even less. According to OP he said she gladly told him to come and have it, after she had retrieved part of his money.

Do you get ? However, I may not be entirely sure of the status of virginity. But sometimes just read inbtw the lines and make your decision.

She screwed up! OP If you get into this relationship just be rest assured that your woman can be easily lured with money.

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Madam, i'm going into my late 30s, i've done quite a few myself


If a girl of that age, in ds age, can keep it that long, then give it away within two weeks of meeting a fast guy!


Well, I never had any, above that age, easy!


U keep something for 20yrs, then give it away, within two weeks

makydebbie:
Oh God. This thread is very funny!


Bro, no fall my hand. How can you say this? Abi Na only ugly girls dey steal?

In this recession, they don't test people with money biko. Are you seriously going to buy this?


Here comes the emotional blackmail and rhetorical question. Lol, bro do wetin dey your mind. That's all I can say, you met someone two weeks ago and you trust that she's too beautiful to steal and she cannot lie. Kuku marry her.

To be honest. I was attracted to the 99 likes on your post. I just liked it too to make it 100. It was kinda satisfying!

Lol. Nl and stupìd threads these days be like 5 and6

sorry ko

... what a story?

Votukpa:


UNFUCCINGBELIEVABLE!



I don't know how many times I'm going to be schooling niggas regarding the pure nature of women, be they 15 or 50, virgin or hoes.

Alas, I believe God put obscurity in the hearts of men regarding women and their ways, so that marriage would happen for children to be born into the world to multiply in it. That's it.

IF MEN KNEW THE HEARTS OF WOMEN, THEY WOULD NEVER MARRY.

let's look at your situation brah. You are about to get the MOST mature advice on this thread.

First, you said...
...she really loves me and i do too

That biitch doesn't love you. Get that into your head. she loves something else, and from your write up, I think you already know what that thing is. Biitches CANNOT love. Period. They were never designed like that. Get an education on this.

she is a virgin, she promised to let go off her virginity today which was why she came around, aftrt much fore play, she was still scared so i had to leave her in the room while i went to prepare noodles for us. To my suprice when i came back, she was the one telling me to come and have her just to make me happy, as a guy i actually wanted to jump straight to proceed,

This Biitch is a smart one. LOL. She PROMISED to let go of her virginity LOL. She understand you NIGGA. She knows what flips your switch and she's using it to her advantage to get what she wants from you. See how she surprised you lol. She wanted to make you happy LOL. And as a (stupid) guy you wanted to jump straight to...sell you bleeping soul. Tell me, which girl in these disunited states of Nigeria will simply let her virginity go just like that Do you not know that the biitch knows, dumb monkey ass niggas like you worship and pedestalize virgin pusssay above anything else??

Wake the Bleep up

I'm happy your male instincts kicked in. There's still hope for you bro. That right there is that shiit, God put in you to escape these biitches. You were too late though. She already played you like Nintendo.

Now for all you other NIggas out there, this is the best part...

I could no believe it, she was too beautiful to do this, i had to confront her.. after long questions, she agreed she took it to test me, to test if i will notice, that she never meant to take it.

First, JACKASS should be tatted on your forehead for believing a beautiful woman can do no wrong. She clearly understood that your awe of her beauty made you treat her with difference and she used at to rob you. After you grilled her, she still found a way to escape what many niggas will get tires, fuel and and a lit match stick for the same crime...with a slap on the wrist. Check how she cleverly said she did that to test you, confirming (to you in your mind) that a nice, beautiful angel of a lady like her is simply calculative and sentient, and not a low down thief. The worst bitches are the FINE ONES. Enough said.

Let me ask you at this point: what on earth is she testing you for Why is she testing you by taking your money?? The lying, thieving biitch SEARCHED for that cash and stole it, thinking a MUMU like you would never find out. She clearly understands the saying that goes..."A fool and his money will soon part ways". To make it worse, she said she never meant to take it

Really biitch??!!

Let's get one thing clear here;

She who draws well is an artist, not one who SAYS they can draw.
She who sings is a singer, not one who SAYS they can sing.
She who DOES kindness is kind, not one who SAYS they are kind.
She who tells lies is a liar.
She who steals is a thief.

PEOPLE ARE WHAT THEY DO, NOT WHAT THEY SAY THEY DO. Write this on your bathroom mirror and memorize it.

What is pissing me off write now, is that some dumbass niggas on this thread are asking you to let her go and forgive bla bla fuccking bla. The blind leading blind is counterproductive. They will both fall in a ditch. True story. Even worse are the niggas advising you to fucck the shiit out of her and dump her ass. I can't begin to tell you the amount of evil that can come out of that, but I spare you.

Finally,

you said...

Am so confused at this point, should i continue with the relationship or should i just let her go, she is still here , crying and telling me she can never steal from me, please guy i need matured advice

This would be counterintuitive for you, hence you coming her seeking for advise, but I think you already know what to do. LET HER GO.

She's simply shedding crocodile tears and lying to you. Let me reveal whats going on here. THIS IS HER ACTUAL TEST. She's checking to see if you are monumental mumu or a real man. If you continue with this this lying, thieving so called virgin, you will be signaling to her difference regarding her misbehavior and therefore, you will be implicitly acquiescing to a repeat of this behavior from her. You now will be a bonafide IDIOT in her mind. She will NEVER respect you and your boundaries. She will even scorn you for accepting her back. DON'T BE A FOOL.

On the flip side.

If you lay down the law like a man and refuse to tolerate her misbehavior, not only will she respect you for dumping her deviant ass, she will begin to genuinely get wet for you. No woman who is actually attracted to a man, would so much as disrespect him, let alone, rob him blind. In your case, she never actually liked you. YOU HAVE ONLY UTILITY VALUE TO HER. This is why she was toying with your delusions of tight, virgin pussy in the first place.

Get this right: A WOMAN WHO WANTS YOU WILL LEAVE NOT DOUBTS IN YOUR MIND THAT SHE DOES AND WOULD NEVER PLAY WITH YOU.

No one needs to tell you what to do at this point.


DO THE RIGHT THING AND DUMP HER. MAKE SURE YOU LET HER KNOW THAT YOU ARE AWARE OF HER TRICKS. ALSO, TELL HER THAT SHE MIGHT GET LYNCHED SOMEWHERE ELSE FOR DOING WHAT SHE DID.



out.

Chairman, you have deep rooted issues. You also have psychological issues. How do i know, because you talked with absolute confidence as if all you wrote is correct or right, that is the delusional part of your brain. You are concluding and judging based on your warped experiences. It is not necessarily true. For me, i will not even notice the missing money, maybe i have a deeper pocket, also, ol boy is lamenting that she takes unopened yogurt home. You guys are just some poor ass noise makers. All this epistle on top 5K. My advice, date a "babe" if you have the guts and maturity to handle one not all these N500 babes that are also trying to make ends meet that you should just dash 5k make she carry her wahala dey go jeje.

baba4thegehs:


She's loose ! She Kant keep her virginity for that long!

She's the type that will do anything for for money.

A loose babe can't be a virgin, they don't get attracted to material issh esp when they are compelled to trade their integrity for money. It's stupid to be a virgin and still be fixated on materials possessions.

I know some Virgins and I swear they are mostly decent folks. Like to helll with your money, well except she gets a mad offer in exchange for her virginity say 1milla. Lol


My point is if you can keep your virginity till the age of 25, then you must be very disciplined, hence it is obvious that she could have sold her virginity for 5k or even less. According to OP he said she gladly told him to come and have it, after she had retrieved part of his money.

Do you get ? However, I may not be entirely sure of the status of virginity. But sometimes just read inbtw the lines and make your decision.

She screwed up! OP If you get into this relationship just be rest assured that your woman can be easily lured with money.

That is my point. If you say something is not true, then have proof period. I dont know, you dont know, all what you wrote might be reasons but she might be a virgin who knows? But, i will not say she is not unless i know for sure.

50/50
U av paid 4 wat u did

vchykp:
i want to fuckkkk nd dump her

Been trying to read the comments in this thread but these your comments of "fuckkking and dumping her" is unsettling! You have NO LOVE IN YOUR HEART!

Where is your fear of God?

Where is your love of God?

Where is your love of the 'person'; the love of the individual? Huh!

It's sin, but if you both want it, it takes two to tango.

But these incessant comments of "fu*king and dumping" a person

If you go ahead, she'll see herself as someone to be used and dumped, and that will define her relationships with men (and people) down the line.

Remember, if you both want it, that's better than you going in with the intention of "fu*king and dumping."

Caution her on the stealing, let her know you are mad!

But please don't set this girl on a spiral of heartbreak.

I fear for her soul.

And I fear for yours too.

32 k for this recession and virgin for this immoral world

vchykp:
YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED as am going crazy now, i met this very pretty girl 2 weeks ago and the relationship is growing very fast, she really loves me and i do too, within the space of this 2 weeks, she has visited me 3 times, no sex yet as she is a virgin, she promised to let go off her virginity today which was why she came around, aftrt much fore play, she was still scared so i had to leave her in the room while i went to prepare noodles for us.

To my suprice when i came back, she was the one telling me to come and have her just to make me happy, as a guy i actually wanted to jump straight to proceed, my instinct told me to check the money i kept close to the wardrobe draw, i scatter money a lot actually, but no matter how scattered i keep my money, i know howmuch i keep everywhere in the house, the money was supposed to be 32k, on getting thier i discovered 5k was missing.

I could no believe it, she was too beautiful to do this, i had to confront her.. after long questions, she agreed she took it to test me, to test if i will notice, that she never meant to take it.

Am so confused at this point, should i continue with the relationship or should i just let her go, she is still here , crying and telling me she can never steal from me, please guy i need matured advice

You dating a thief. She will test you with your phone or other gadgets.

Kwantinue.

Different types of phone call durations:
*Boy to Boy* 00:00:59
*Boy to Mom* 00:00:50
*Boy to Dad* 00:00:3-
*Boy to Girl* 01:23:59
*Girl to Girl* 05:29:59
*Girl to Boy* 00:01:20
*Marriedman to Girlfriend* 06:43:59
*Marriedwoman to boyfriend* 00:10:59
*Husband to Wife* 00:00:03
*Wife to Husband* 14 Missed Calls "
*Boy to SugarMummy*00:00:4

Organs:



That is my point. If you say something is not true, then have proof period. I dont know, you dont know, all what you wrote might be reasons but she might be a virgin who knows? But, i will not say she is not unless i know for sure.

YOU WILL MAKE MORE MISTAKES IN LIFE IF YOU WANT EVERYTHING TO BE GLEARING OR BOLDLY WRITTEN ON THE WALL!

There is no such thing as complete information! Use the one you have and let it guide you to make your decision!

Na today girls dey lie about their virginity??!!

Abeg forget that issh... You want her to come and open up and tell you she's no longer a virgin ?! Guy I'm disappointed!!

You better be careful with what you believe and what not!

If she steal ya moni, you sef steal her virginity...odikwa problem?

And she confessed that she took the money? Did u write the number on ur money down? Bro, she might actually be testing u with a wrong joke..
Forgive her, watch her actions in the next few weeks.. If she's a thief, she cant hide it

vchykp:
in my mind i have ended the relationship, but i really feel pity for her, she keeps weeping and swearing she never meant it, thats what am confused about

Perfect blackmail for foolish and weak men. Don't fall for it bro. She cant do it better than Delilah. Remember Samson and be wise!

ve once experience it with a Facebook friend, since then I had stop falling for any online ladies



I presume u met her on s.media even if u guys met in face, the word trust is been used ridiculously in your post. you trust her not because of the longtime u ve spent together but because she's beauty? Op your instinct need urgent attention if u really meant that


wait till she steal your credentials then you will be in police station reporting and not on nairaland asking qst

Nwodosis:
But claim you love her dearly, what's love without forgiveness?

lol

That's how one thief of a girl I trusted stole cash from me when we hooked up. The funny thing is if she probably asked you in a sweet tone you would have given her more just to know she's okay.

Do you really think you can quite? The truth is you can't.

So please just suprise her by proposing and marrying her despite the said 'test' if she has met your requirements in beauty and brain and spirit.