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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
No no no I saw some comments here and I'm like wtf. Why the hell can't she stand up for you., she may not necessarily need to fight back but she could have helped calm down the situation(like sister it's OK o). She was just looking like a fool? Please OP drop such a girl Abeg. Theres no use for a woman who can't back up her man. I have brothers that have girlfriends (not even married) but what affects one affects the other. You dare not talk about one, the other comes for your head. Girlfriend or married? And it's not only about boyfriend or girlfriend. Anybody should be able to stand up for their loved ones: friends, family and the likes. What kind of lady is that? 32 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by ifex370(m): 8:02pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
RichlyOBS: The bolded got me like
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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
RichlyOBS:ok 1 Like
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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by YoungDaNaval(m): 8:08pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Lalas247:I believe you die, by the time you pounce on her with your massive ukwu she will turn to newspaper 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:09pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
if a woman is rude to you then YOU (as a man) should handle your business, and put her in her place... only if she had the audacity to lay her hands on you, then your partner can step in and deal with her. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by YoungDaNaval(m): 8:10pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
ChiefPiiko:Shut up! You don't need to insult him 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
YoungDaNaval: 1 Like
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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Slayer2: 8:21pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Odidi ja mo be e. Girl nor fit even open mouth talk to me to anyhow to begin with. Fear nor go let you hold snake. Them nor born you well be that. Only few will understand this. I can see my babe alexialin in the house. twuale for you big sis jawe.. 1 Like
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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by RichlyOBS(m): 8:31pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
shimmer1:thanks 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
RichlyOBS, do you expect your gf to start fighting the lady? Then throw punches at eachother? Cos ayam not understanding That's how our security wife got into a fist fight with one crazy lady like that in our office building, because the lady insulted her husband and at the end of the scufffle and fight, the security guard wife's head was broken with a bottle and her arm torn with the same broken bottle by that crazy lady. Lol Honestly you will pity the wife, if u had seen her when it happened. Everyone was like, why did she even butt into her husband's quarrel with the lady. She explained with heavy breathes that she couldn't stand her husband bn insulted like that. Lol Anyways we all blamed her for butting in, instead of allowing her husband handled the mess, he placed himself on , all by himself. She wouldn't have had her head broken and arm thorn by bottle. Morale of this short story: don't go looking for trouble, cos no sensible woman will risk her life, fighting your battles for u. Shikena. Since I was born til date, have never exchanged words bitterly or quarrelled or even fought any one, cos I respect myself alot, and I ignore bickering and quarrelling when I see it coming. I don't face it head on. I would rather walk away than exchange words with a total stranger I met in a bus. And perchance, am now dating a trouble maker then sorry Oyo Lo WA! I ain't lifting a finger or voice to fight a God knows what human being or animal in human form. I can't come and kee myself because of boyfriend or even husband. Life ain't that complicated yet, abeg. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Slayer2: @ d bolded. Hmmmmmmmmmm 1 Like
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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by RichlyOBS(m): 8:44pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
alexialin:how which my girl was not there, okay.... but she was there, she saw everything the lady was wrong and I still tried my best to calm her down but she didn't calm down because ladies have the upper hand here in Europe.... as in, my babe should have stop her if she wanted to but she just kept quiet because we're not married yet.... if she can't stand for me now, when?? not that I can't face my problem. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nickymezor(f): 8:53pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
tosyne2much: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 9:01pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
RichlyOBS: It's a pity, u are not seeing the big picture in this whole scenario, that happened to you today. Your ego is bruised and you are trying to lick your wounds and also looking for whom to shift the blame to. And viola! Your gf is the perfect candidate. My dear in life, if a random lady from nowhere tries to take advantage of u in public followed by either shouting down at you or hurling an insult. Cos it takes one insult from such lady and your response immediately to open doors for more insults to fly free from her mouth without filter. It's always one insult and the counter reply that brings out a whole army of words. So the best u can do at that time., is walk away. Yes, Just walk away and trust me the lady will be surprised and mumble some rubbish to herself, cos Thats the least counter behavior she expects from you. Trying to calm such lady down, is a fatal mistake from your end. I repeat, Don't calm such lady down You don't need to at all. Cos she will see it as a sign of weakness and drown you with sharp piercing insults. Women are very good when it comes to insulting one with their tongue. It's an inbuilt radio without battery and some women are Pro with such scenarios. So do yourself and your gf a huge favour. Just, Walk away. It's that Simple. Your gf did nothing wrong by not butting in. Maybe your gf should have pulled u away and say honey it's OK, then both of u walk away. Thereby the other lady hurling insults will automatically look like a crazy woman in public eyes. And you? The Perfect gentleman with your ego intact and safe. Trust me, handle situations this way and u won't regret it. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by chic2pimp(m): 9:31pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
RichlyOBS: Tbh I would have done the exact same thing. If my GF decides to pick a quarel with any random Man on the street, She is on Her own. I'd only step in If it gets physical. As long as it remains verbal, She better Woman Up and fight Her battle. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by RedDistrict: 10:02pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
hahahahaha baba, no vess for your babe maybe she isnt the 'wahala' kind of person especially public wahala But baba, u funny aswear 5 Likes
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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Slayer2: 10:12pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
alexialin: Lol weiten? Na just normal hailing na no fear |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by RichlyOBS(m): 10:53pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
alexialin:blessed... we learn everyday 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 11:02pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Slayer2: Sighs am not used to been Hailed. A guy at my office, likes to salute me like am a soldier or something, standing straight and firm then raising his hands in front of the main gate whenever he sees me about to walk out of the parking lot to the building and am like oh God! Please don't. And I will just be laughing with embarrassment while people walk past looking at us. Am like you are embarrassing me please. Just stop, Pls and he will be like but ma, you be madam Nah.. I just shake my head and walk away. Seriously, It's unnecessary. I don't like bringing attention to myself in public , it transmits the wrong signals to passerby. Makes me uncomfortable. Very uncomfortable. I like to quietly move around and talk unnoticed. Works perfectly well for me. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Are you not an adult? Can't you talk? You should be able to handle your problem yourself - forget that you _shit about women having upper hand in Europe or not. If my babe should get into any confrontation with some guy in public and I'm there with her, I will let her handle her _shit - regardless of her being at fault or not. She is an adult and she should be able to handle the confrontation. If peradventure the confrontation begins to turn physical is when I'll come in, put on my superman cape and beat the _shit out of the nigga who has the effontery to touch my woman. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Elnino4ladies: 1:44am On Nov 16, 2017 |
Now this funny lol |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by rex444(m): 2:54am On Nov 16, 2017 |
Very funny but she is right, even as couples. We all have our own fight to fight oooo... wait for her one day a guy will return d favor and just simply look to the otherside...or other room..yolo 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Slayer2: 4:06am On Nov 16, 2017 |
alexialin: That Guy for your office na Bleep boy. When someone like slayer do shout out to you, suppose to they jump, you know say I be international. |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by pol23: 8:58am On Nov 16, 2017 |
ScotFree:Well said. Tea or beer? Bills on me. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by wildcatter23(m): 9:01am On Nov 16, 2017 |
Uniqueness01: Girly, with that sleek future behind you, I wouldn't mind being that bf. Together we would cum on her ass
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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by prettyboi1(m): 9:03am On Nov 16, 2017 |
If not for anything else, for saying " can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to", she's stvpid. Break up with her! |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Ramseygodwin(m): 9:03am On Nov 16, 2017 |
Run for ur life 1 Share
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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by SmartMugu: 9:03am On Nov 16, 2017 |
SmellingAnus:Both him and his girlfriend end up doing frog jump inside mud instead of him alone. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by maidaddy: 9:03am On Nov 16, 2017 |
RichlyOBS: erm first of all she is not your girlfriend. secondly dude please stand for/with whoever you are with, married or just relationship. I am sorry for the unfortunate remark your "girl enemy" made. fvck her. bless. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Caulay(m): 9:05am On Nov 16, 2017 |
I'd never exchange words with a woman anywhere. If a woman decides to be unnecessarily rude to me , I'd ignore her. My woman getting involved won't solve anything. So, I'd rather she ignores her too. |
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by AerialMapper: 9:08am On Nov 16, 2017 |
Buy a car so that you won't receive such insult. Your gf must have been thinking " If this my bf had car now, he wouldn't have chop this kind of insult" 1 Like |
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