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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by delishpot: 9:57am On Nov 16, 2017
RichlyOBS:
how which my girl was not there, okay.... but she was there, she saw everything the lady was wrong and I still tried my best to calm her down but she didn't calm down because ladies have the upper hand here in Europe.... as in, my babe should have stop her if she wanted to but she just kept quiet because we're not married yet.... If she can't stand for me now, when?? not that I can't face my problem.

She clearly said ....... When she officialy becomes your wife!

She can not come and go and wound for a guy who would say "it was nice dating you" after she blind for one eye as a result of fight grin world people go say who send her? She no want expose herself to police Jor.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by donb06: 9:59am On Nov 16, 2017
the guy handling it by himself is the best thing to do...... because a girl that has the mind to insult U in the public then imagine wat she will do to ur gf. u might end up separating a fight u neva wanted and trust ladies the day u and ur gf wil ve issues she wil us the scenario to taunt U.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 10:00am On Nov 16, 2017
RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to.....

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....
She actually did the best thing.... If she had intervene and the lady has given her "her doze" of the insult... You will be more embarrassed. This kind of girls has self respect and a good self esteem! I love that line at bold! You won't find another like her... It might really pain you but they are rare!

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by QueenBeeQBQ: 10:02am On Nov 16, 2017
iamnlia:

You be Buttercup oo, I initially thought not joining in on the palava was good but then I realized you wanted to clap back but wanted another person to do it for you, while excusing it as a girl to girl confrontation.

As far as I'm concerned, there were three girls in that scenario

Ouch!!!
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by SmellingAnus(m): 10:03am On Nov 16, 2017
SmartMugu:

Both him and his girlfriend end up doing frog jump inside mud instead of him alone.
hahahhahhaa she go just break up with am after the frog jump
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 10:08am On Nov 16, 2017
Hahaha, as I read this issue I just dey laff because I remember a lady known to me, in fact she go trash the lady and any other person wey put mouth for the matter, na me sef go dey beg am say e don do na.. Lolzzz

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Kollins12: 10:10am On Nov 16, 2017
Gbege!
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Only1mi(f): 10:14am On Nov 16, 2017
RichlyOBS:
oga shut up jare.... what are you saying? what do you want me to do? beat the girl? this is Italy bro... and the lady was wrong believe me am not that kind of person that look for trouble.... I couldn't do anything bro... my babe should have say something but no fighting and I wouldn't have allowed them to fight....

If you didn't do anything then the lady insulting you was mad, why respond to that at all?

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by babra19: 10:19am On Nov 16, 2017
RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to.....

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....
If Na my sweet darling husband I will caution the woman.
If Na boyfriend I go keep mute or change another seat and put on my ear piece.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by QueenBeeQBQ: 10:19am On Nov 16, 2017
prettyboi1:
If not for anything else, for saying " can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to", she's stvpid. Break up with her!

I don't think this was the first thing she said concerning the issue, when they got home. She probably said this after the guy kept hounding her over the matter, thinking it would shut him up on the issue. Not knowing that it's the only thing he'll pick up, and make into this "biiiiiiigggggg thing"...

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by luckyogor(m): 10:20am On Nov 16, 2017
RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to.....

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....

The last quote says it all,walk away from her cos she dont give a shit about your well being.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by tivta(m): 10:21am On Nov 16, 2017
RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to.....

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....


Lol. Most Nigerian girls of today are really selfish. Pele

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Tonez007(m): 10:21am On Nov 16, 2017
maybe she dey listen to Hola Hola in sugar boy's voice"i cannot kill myself for nothing"
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by tivta(m): 10:33am On Nov 16, 2017
The annoying thing is if it was the other way around, this useless girls on nairaland who claim to be feminists won't be happy if the guy doesn't fight for them.
Girls of this generation are really spoilt.

My guy dump her sorry ass since she can't stand up for you since you are just dating. She is only there cause she hasn't gotten a better offer. I just hope you haven't spent more than you can afford to lose on her. Women of today are just not worth the stress.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Phaysal: 10:47am On Nov 16, 2017
Hope say no be that girl u wan marry ?

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Coldfeets: 10:48am On Nov 16, 2017
If a girl I'm with ever makes such a statement to my hearing, that very day will be the beginning of the end of our relationship.

People should be sensible most especially in what and how they say what they say.

It is utter foolishness on your part as a girl to tell a guy you're dating that you can only fight for him if and only if he's your husband.

How else do you think you'll even qualify as a wife if you can't even show the guy you've got his back?

Anyway sha, I'm not surprised as most girls nowadays are just fools. Common commonsense dem no getangry

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by kay29000(m): 10:50am On Nov 16, 2017
Men! I remember a female friend I had back in the day. We weren't even dating o, but this girl will slap anyone that tried to disrespect me. She had a sexy shape, but she could get tough if she wanted to. I used to always caution her when she went too far sometimes... Wanting to beat boys up for me. There was a time I was seeing someone and she got angry that the girl was coming to my house everyday for sex and wanted to beat her up. Lol! Funny times.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 10:56am On Nov 16, 2017
I stood in front of my boo when he was arguing heatedly with men he warned me seriously after but I just can’t stay silent I will always say something I won’t fight her but I will caution her

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by KAYD007(m): 11:03am On Nov 16, 2017
shimmer1:
No no no I saw some comments here and I'm like wtf. Why the hell can't she stand up for you., she may not necessarily need to fight back but she could have helped calm down the situation(like sister it's OK o). She was just looking like a fool? Please OP drop such a girl Abeg. Theres no use for a woman who can't back up her man. I have brothers that have girlfriends (not even married) but what affects one affects the other. You dare not talk about one, the other comes for your head. Girlfriend or married? And it's not only about boyfriend or girlfriend. Anybody should be able to stand up for their loved ones: friends, family and the likes.
What kind of lady is that? undecided

That's the spirit.

if i was the guy, i will re-evaluate my relationship with her and this will be sternly made know to her. Her reply was shocking, gives an obvious insight of the kind of Lady she is. Your boyfriend is being tongue lashed by another lady and you just folded your arms and maintain radio silence ? hmmm undecided

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by pattybf(f): 11:10am On Nov 16, 2017
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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by ojuolu(m): 11:11am On Nov 16, 2017
ScotFree:
I am sure you're not a baby. I wouldn't get myself into exchanging words with a woman. Bur if that happens because the woman is 'rabid' and uncouth. I wouldn't want my girlfriend involved. That will make her nothing better than the other woman
God has blessed you with so much wisdom and He will not take it away from you. you are indeed a good and matured man. If i were to be the man in this situation, sincerely i wont say a word and i will respect my gf for not saying a word. she is so matured and refined.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Peterosky(m): 11:12am On Nov 16, 2017
Op, did you study mumuology in your former generation? all you wanted was for your gf exchange words with a useless idiot on the street and that would have made you feel like a king abi? Hehe, your gf don sofa be that. Please kindly grow up and be reasonable and intelligent.Inshot,you need deliverance.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by OneManLegion(m): 11:17am On Nov 16, 2017
Uniqueness01:
I find this post so funny cheesy cheesy

But on a serious note,I won't watch some girl insult my BF .......but why will a lady just Insult and embarrassed you, what did you do?

Your booty, though...
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by 9jajoseph: 11:17am On Nov 16, 2017
SmellingAnus:
You should be happy she didn't insult the lady... What if as she insults the lady... The lady brings out her id card that she is a Soildier and her husband na Major General ... Lol... You are finished grin
For woman to woman dispute?
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by grandstar(m): 11:19am On Nov 16, 2017
RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to.....

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....

Your girl is naive and being immature.

Was it a life and death issue??

She should have engaged herself by trying to douse the situation.

In the event the lady was completely wrong, she could come in pleading with the woman and trying to calm the situation nevertheless!

She should grow up

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Zinny25(f): 11:23am On Nov 16, 2017
RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to.....

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....
Lol... Very funny... That decision u took is a serious one. I don't have anything to say

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Vajose: 11:28am On Nov 16, 2017
Dude, two wrongs dont make a right , remember? Dont be like her. Dont let evil change ur good nature.

As far as am concerned, a girl that loves and wants to settle down with you, will always have ur back. Ur second fiddle where this chic is. She isnt and wont break a sweat for you.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by emperormossad(m): 11:34am On Nov 16, 2017
OP you sef no try oo.
You dey with your babe come dey look another shawa Bobby for bus.
You come dey expect your shawa to support you.
Are you ok?

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by haryomikun(m): 11:35am On Nov 16, 2017
Uniqueness01:
I find this post so funny cheesy cheesy

But on a serious note,I won't watch some girl insult my BF .......but why will a lady just Insult and embarrassed you, what did you do?
You've really been blessed with a big backside wink
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 11:42am On Nov 16, 2017
pol23:

Well said.
Tea or beer?
Bills on me.

Anyone is just fine. grin cool

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Coolgent(m): 11:48am On Nov 16, 2017
RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to.....

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....
As a Man i hate it when my GF intefere in this kind situation, i prefer to handle it myself.
So to my your GF has done the right thing!
She is mature n gentle Gal
Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Edonojie007(m): 11:50am On Nov 16, 2017
SmellingAnus:
the guy even get mind to quarrel with woman... I will rather quarrel with my fellow man than with a woman except it's kind of unavoidable... I respect women... I also fear women too grin...
Thats Why You Be Smelling Anus.

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