Long story short.....I have a friend who lives with his 13 yrs old daughter...... Recently a female friend who is a neighbor called me and told me the little girl confided in her that the father is harassing her sexually.

I was shocked but sometimes I stay in there home I used to notice some funny moves but I couldn't place my finger on it cos it all seems to me like Father and daughter love.

I couldn't ask the little girl cos I wanted to have a proof. Recently I came visiting and he started that rough play as usual but because I was already tipped as a result I was at Alert. I quickly told him I was going to the shop.....But I didn't go anywhere I came back immediately and went straight to the window. I saw him bouncing untop of her. The expression on her face broke my heart she is not happy.

I called that female neighbor and told her what I saw.....we told a friend we all questioned the little girl she confirmed it to be true.


Now what do we do? We planned to confront the father is this the best step to take?


I just want him to stop.

WTF!! Is ur friend still single or what?

Is he the real dad?

Nbote:
WTF!! Is ur friend still single or what?

Bros he is single. The mother of the girl lives in another city. They had the baby out of wedlock.

khome:
Is he the real dad?

To the best of my knowledge he is.

And what have you done about it

You people should confront him as soon as possible.

Gulderbottle85:



Bros he is single. The mother of the girl lives in another city. They had the baby out of wedlock.

Now dat is soooo wrong... If he's ur friend U'ld find a way to bring it up. Its now ur duty to stop it. D female neighbour confided in u becos she feels U're in a beta position to help d poor gal

kai. this one is too bad.

Report the case to those child protection agencies around you. Tomorrow when that child begins to be promiscuous, Nigerians would say she is evil and an agent of the devil. More than half of Naija females have been sexually abused by males in their homes, religious institutions or school yet men turn around to play saint and require perfection from the girls they have damaged right from the cradle.

biacan:
And what have you done about it

What do you advice

Abeg report to police, soldiers, EFCC, LASTMA, VIO. In fact all law enforcement agencies.

This is extreme wickedness and the fact that you're even asking what to do amazes me.

delishpot:
Report the case to those child protection agencies around you. Tomorrow when that child begins to be promiscuous, Nigerians would say she is evil and an agent of the devil. More than half of Naija females have been sexually abused by males in their homes, religious institutions or school yet men turn around to play saint and require perfection from the girls they have damaged right from the cradle.

What about the stigma if people around finds out?

Kai!!! This one tire me like weeeeeettttttiiinnn!!! Haba!!!

Baba; me I'm short of words, I no know Wetin to talk again!!!
Haba=!! No naaa!!!! Noooooooooooo!!!! Kai?!!!!

Oh.... Oboi, u for no make me see this thing na!!! Now I just can't sleep or rest!!! U just spoilt my day bro... Kai!!!


Ohhhhh. God!!!!

Op; Oboi, u no try for spoiling my mood like this..

Can your friend be assassinated? Wouldn't mind paying people to do so.
C. C Golderbottles85

Nbote:


Now dat is soooo wrong... If he's ur friend U'ld find a way to bring it up. Its now ur duty to stop it

We will confront him today

Kai!!! This one tire me like weeeeeettttttiiinnn!!! Haba!!!

Baba; me I'm short of words, I no know Wetin to talk again!!!
Haba=!! No naaa!!!! Noooooooooooo!!!! Kai?!!!!

Oh.... Oboi, u for no make me see this thing na!!! Now I just can't sleep or rest!!! U just spoilt my day bro... Kai!!!


Ohhhhh. God!!!!

Op; Oboi, u no try for spoiling my mood like this..

Can your friend be assassinated? Wouldn't mind paying people to do so.
C. C Golderbottle85

Gulderbottle85:



What do you advice

Search for child protection or sexual abuse services in lagos. Or look for Mirabel centre they can tell you what to do. Do not let the dad know, so hat he won't move.
They get her out of there

Get pics evidences then be ready for the likely outcome

1. The guy would be prosecuted
2. The girl will need someone to take care of her and put her through school
If she is put into a govt facility, then the likelihood of her growing more sexually or being abused by another just increased

Gulderbottle85:



What about the stigma if people around finds out?

It is due to sentiments like this, that things get brushed under the carpet. As a society we need to change our mindset. I think it is best you inform the mother of the child and social services. The child will need proper counselling. So what if people talk, show me a family that does not have a sad story to tell. In fact, your friend has to go to prison for sexually assaulting his daughter. That is not normal behaviour and he should not be free to assault other young females. If he is sexually starved why doesn't he start a relationship with a mature lady and not his blood? How does he even sleep at night knowing what he does to his daughter is an abomination. If I knew the identity of your friend I would be on the phone right now reporting him.

Gulderbottle85:




We will confront him today

How will this help? So you think by confronting him this will stop his disgusting behaviour? What if he moves out of the area or threatens the daughter? Report the situation to the child's mom and social services.

Blood of AMADIOHA!!! Chai i really feel for the poor girl

Nancy2016:


It is due to sentiments like this, that things get brushed under the carpet. As a society we need to change our mindset. I think it is best you inform the mother of the child and social services. The child will need proper counselling. So what if people talk, show me a family that does not have a sad story to tell. In fact, your friend has to go to prison for sexually assaulting his daughter. That is not normal behaviour and he should not be free to assault other young females. If he is sexually starved why doesn't he start a relationship with a mature lady and not his blood? How does he even sleep at night knowing what he does to his daughter is an abomination. If I knew the identity of your friend I would be on the phone right now reporting him.

I don't know why I got involved it's too hard on me. I just wish all these would just be a dream. It's sad.

Gulderbottle85:




I don't know why I got involved it's too hard on me. I just wish all these would just be a dream. It's sad.

You need to help that child. I understand it is a difficult situation but you need to do what's right for that poor innocent child. Remember that she has already been let down by one of the people she should trust. She has confided in another adult, so please don't let her be disappointed by another adult. Think about the lasting effect this would have on her if she continues being sexually assaulted by her dad.

I will do my best for her...... I will give update as we proceed

Gulderbottle85:


To the best of my knowledge he is.

This one weak me

What will make a father have sex with his biological daughter? I can't seem to fathom it. Some men are just dogs in human form. Simple.

Putting him behind bars will have effects on the child. Who will take care of her?

Gulderbottle85:
Putting him behind bars will have effects on the child. Who will take care of her?

Where is the child's mother? What about the extended family, grandparents, aunts and uncles?

This is a tough one. Truth is if you don't report him he's likely never going to stop. This is despicable.

Gulderbottle85:



What about the stigma if people around finds out?

Whose stigma? If it's the girl she needs counseling and she would be rewarded with her dad being punished for his crime. The dad needs to be disgraced nationally TBH. If you don't want it known by the yard people, express your concern to those whom you report the case to, I believe they will know how to help protect her Identity