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Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by omoharry(f): 11:40am On Nov 17, 2017 |
justwant2bhappy:nobody can give you happiness and joy except yourself, it has to come from within. Since you are not getting the love and attention from your husband and the needed happiness and joy that you deserve, i believe its time for you to channel your energy into activities that you love doing..deposition your mind into other outdoor activities ..think about things that you have always wanted to do..like writing a book, engaging in volunteering activities, join book clubs and reviewing books if you are the type or other things that will give you fulfillment after doing it..you will discover that somehow you will be busy and working for a course which will to some extent deposition your mind from you husband insensitivity towards you...when he see that you are distracted he might just come around.But at least you have something to look forward to every time you wake up. 2 Likes |
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Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by mrphysics(m): 11:53am On Nov 21, 2017 |
Just remember there is tomorrow and you can make it to tomorrow. Don't give up today when you can still live tomorrow. The world is becoming so busy, people move and careless of others. I was confronted to see what is happening in the US, I had to make a research and come up with a book on aging in the states. Truth is, old age in US is like living a life of misery. It is the same with frustration in Nigeria. There is tomorrow, there is tomorrow, don't end it today because of what you are currently passing through. Life is the opposite of entropy: it look scattered today but with time things become ordered and everything takes it place. Do not end your life today because of how scattered life seems to be. Remember it will be organized and better tomorrow. Hold on to the fact that there is tomorrow, there is help tomorrow, there is joy tomorrow, there is life tomorrow. We keep moving, we are not the ones to give up in life, life gives up in us 5 Likes |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
Am happy to haqe found this thread. God bless you Dr. Vivian and other contributors to the thread. Hmmmmm.....someone said there is tomorrow, and it will be better, thank you. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by excel123: 3:56am On Nov 25, 2017 |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 4:50pm On Nov 25, 2017 |
omoharry:u nailed it |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by lizakon001(f): 9:05am On Nov 27, 2017 |
Please someone should advice me here before I die of depression. I have a very bad mouthed and negativity father, his words are harsh and all that comes out from his mouth concerning his children are negative. Any small mistake we make the whole neighbourhood will hear and what we did. Even when we do good, he ridicules our goodness. Seriously I am tired of this man, he makes me depressed when I am at home during holiday and when I go to school I don't just want to return back home because it is hell no happiness at all. His attitude drains my happiness please what can I do. Feeling so depressed 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by mrphysics(m): 10:45am On Nov 27, 2017 |
lizakon001:Parents most times are very expectant, and when their expectations are not forth coming, they become frustrated. What I do in life is taking that hard and harsh decision. Your life is very important both to you and to him, you can't deny the fact that you are a blessing to this world and your family. I strongly recommend that you give him some gap. Learn not to take everything he says very serious and if you have somewhere else you can stay for now, kindly do so. I have a friend during my undergraduate year, he was the only issue the mother had. The father is long dead but the mum's expectation is very high. He lives far away from the mother in the same community. This is because, each time the mum sees him, she starts saying all sorts of things even against his future. I remember being with him when he was having issues with his undergraduate result and the mum started saying irrelevant things. You might as well do the same. Take some time away from him and learn to be silent when he starts talking. It is well bro, things we be better. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by lizakon001(f): 10:51am On Nov 27, 2017 |
mrphysics:thank you so much but I am a girl not bro 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by mrphysics(m): 11:02am On Nov 27, 2017 |
lizakon001:All right, sorry for addressing you as a guy. Same recommendation still apply. The most difficult step to take is the first step. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by lizakon001(f): 11:09am On Nov 27, 2017 |
mrphysics:But I have no one to stay with. I don't have a friend, is just me and myself neither do I have money to get accommodation outside |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by mrphysics(m): 11:19am On Nov 27, 2017 |
lizakon001:Then you need to feel relaxed in your fathers house. I have not had such experience but I know how it feels, trust me. When he starts talking, ignore him and keep living your life. He will soon get tired of talking |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by lizakon001(f): 11:21am On Nov 27, 2017 |
mrphysics:thank you |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by ItsAnderson: 2:05pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Good day Tehn, My Warm Nairalanders A sister of ours needs our help please . Ebunoluwa Esther Gbolade is her name. Please read. photos are in the comment section "It started exactly September ending I had a symptoms of malaria I took some drugs to help and I was OK but first week in October I had pains all over my body I thought it was the usual crisis I had I went to Tue hospital as usual and I was treated intact I told the doctor after four days of my stay in the hospital that I was OK but that same night I was discharge I began to feel unusual again but this time around it was some thing different my urine and colour of my eyes was changed totally and my stomach was swollen so I was rushed back to another hospital for check up and that was where I was told I had infections in the blood (sepsis) I was treated again I had to spend some of saved alawee and even my parents spent to the extent of asking for help from my extended family because the bill was high but before leaving the hospital. I discovered I had pains on my lower back I complained to the doctor and I was told that it was because I had being on bed for a long period of time because I spent close to three weeks. On bed without changing position except when I want to eat or urinate but I was discharge thinking when I get home everything will change but it grew worse and I discovered I could not even stand up on my own or even walk well to the extent of not being able to bend down being at home praying and having faith that all will be well which I still believe when the pain was too much to bear I went back to the first hospital again then I discovered I had appendicitis mass and ovariances the doctor said he has to refer me to a specialized hospital in order to carry out the operations as I am speaking the operation was success but the problem I am still facing right now is that I can't still walk well or bend down after being operated, now I have to see the orthopedics and physiotherapist for another appointment I have spent all my resources and they still demanding for another amount of money which is about 200k again alli need is your support and prayers" 3061600297 Gbolade Ebunoluwa Esther First bank Please help with any amount. 1 Share
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Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Twizzy30(m): 7:35pm On Dec 02, 2017 |
Please tehn i need your help, I've just been admitted into one of the federal university in Southwest and i need to pay my school fees now or before December runs out. i don't have anywhere to run to and i don't want to lose this golden opportunity. I have all documents incase anyone wants to verify my claim, from my jamb result, post utme result, waec result, admission letter to anything you may want to request for to investigate my claim. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Squirrel01: 7:04pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
lizakon001: smiles, I understand how you feel, but always know that family is all you have... a father always a father, if he shout, don't be angry or upset, just brush it off and leggo, life is too short to waste it on sorrows and in tragedies. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Bulldogpuppy5: 2:00am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Am getting really depressed and frustrated finished secondary school in 2011 tried to get admission into the University but was not successful even tried pre-degree until I got admitted into polytechnic in 2015 despotech in oghara otefe delta state being in that school is hell if u don't buy text books a lecturer will fail you I tried everything possible to meet up but still I still got an extention becos wen you a carry over in ND2 it is automatic extention am 22years now everyday I keep crying and getting depressed with in me most of my Imates have already graduated and served some are even serving sometimes I even avoid them cos I feel like a failure I don't know why my life is so slow don't knw if I shud go for h.n.d or B. S.c I feel so alone nobody to talk I take drugs just to forget all my pains |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by karli4nia(m): 11:30pm On Dec 19, 2017 |
Bulldogpuppy5: Bro! Listen! This is certainly not the end of your life. Focus less on how far your so called mates are gone. You would get through in a matter of time. Just don't give up on what ever goal..or dream u hold dear. Look for areas to channel your energy of though and emotions so as to stop being drained emotionally. Like try reading a good motivational book, listening to radio shows, music etc Everyone goes through adversities and challenges and many times when its a kind of a waiting period when nothing is happening.. Its as though we pray in vain..and thus We all tend to feel stuck..But that isn't always the case. We only need to be patient and a way would open up for us to advance in due time. And u don't have to take them drug just to get over your worries. Don't put your health on the line. Good luck. N.B- No matter how u sad and blue..there's always someone who's gat it worse than you. So worry less. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by karli4nia(m): 11:37pm On Dec 19, 2017 |
Our hearrfelt prayers for bolade Ebun Esther. That God in his infinite mercies would have mercy on her. Grant her the needed financial assistance for her successful treatment and for her to have a quick recovery after treatment. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by ladygudhead(f): 8:47am On Dec 20, 2017 |
iLifeplus:Would it be too late to seek you? i just came accross this thread...i really need some1 2 talk 2. 09024813269 |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Soliciting: 2:02pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by gidjah(m): 9:13am On Dec 25, 2017 |
This is a great excerpt@Austine.could you please send me the link or just get it me any how on my email? (gidjah90@gmail.com)thanks bro. austine4real: |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by gidjah(m): 9:31am On Dec 25, 2017 |
To all depressed souls on this amiable forum, may The Joy that this glorious season brings, reflect upon you as from Today, may the Mercy and Blessings this great season comes with, be made manifest in your lives and May the Heavens over you be eternally Open. Jesus is the reason for the Season. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
I feel so bad.
I can't seem to forgive myself. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by austine4real(m): 3:29pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
gidjah: No need to contact u just copy and paste it on ur whtsap or facebook |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by gidjah(m): 3:31pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
austine4real:k, thanks |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Mznaett: 9:49pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
pane22: Easy bro! easy! Care to share what you're going through? Someone could be of help. Just take it easy... |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by Africanlegacy(f): 1:47am On Dec 30, 2017 |
TeHN: Help Sincerely Needed. Dear Nairalanders. Compliments of the season. Please, permit me to introduce myself. I'm a mother of two and have a godly husband whose fortune just took a bad turn when he lost his job. Against all odds I returned to school in my mid thirties and just graduating with a second class upper this month from the Kaduna State University. I'm appealing for help. I have goitre and cannot even afford the recommended thyroid function test. I'm just stuck and my health is deteriorating. Thank you for reading this. JAO Kaduna abijojo1@gmail.com |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by oluebubeneo(f): 1:53pm On Jan 01, 2018 |
Happy New Year People. I have very disturbing thoughts that cause me so much anxiety and fear. I've been suffering for about two months now and I have not really talked to anyone about it because I don't really feel comfortable talking about it yet. I know I should undergo therapy but as it is now, I don't have the means so I'm trying on my own. This is terrible. I've been depressed and suicidal. I read something on OCD(Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) and I could relate with most of the symptoms. Here's a scenario of my experience. Ada has thoughts which say that she made a vow to God, a spirit or a deity to stop watching TV else her husband will die. (When she gets married). Ada knows fully well that she'll continue watching TV. She won't stop. She doesn't want to be under any vow. Remember, those thoughts are just in her head but they cause her so much anxiety and fear and depression and sometimes guilt. She tries to fight those thoughts but if you've had this experience, you'll know fighting these thoughts is just so difficult. These thoughts keep coming and try to control her. Ada tells herself, these thoughts have no effect on real life events but her mind sometimes makes her think those thoughts have effects on real life events (which is not true). Ada is afraid of her own thoughts. Sometimes she thinks them intentionally. Other times, she tries to fight them. Although I didn't go into full details and I altered some of the information, the above scenario pretty much explains my predicament. |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by mrphysics(m): 5:05am On Jan 04, 2018 |
oluebubeneo:This is very simple. 1. Avoid staying alone. If you always have quiet time, do avoid them until you've overcome this thoughts. 2. I wouldn't know the church you attend currently, why not consider changing it to a church that does not believe in those dreams and negative thoughts. 3. Always engage in regular exercise with people. Think about this, those thoughts that cause you fear are things people do and are happy. So why should yours be the opposite? You don't deserve that, you need to be happy and fulfilled. 4. Go against your beliefs. Trust me, they was a time I believed all those things and they were working for me. Sleeping at night was hell. I read Psalms regularly and sang hyms and nothing changed until I saw I was just killing myself silently while the rest of the world is just happy and living a normal life. 5. In your spare time, listen to jokes and funny conversations. I trust that with the above, you will be fine |
Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by oluebubeneo(f): 6:03am On Jan 04, 2018 |
mrphysics: Thank you so much |
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