Good day peeps, trust you guys are balling.
I need some advice over this issue. There is this girl, we are very close, bf and gf things kind of, though we are not yet official, well, we dont keep or hide things from ourselves (or so i thought).We just graduated from the university and while waiting on nysc call up and all, we have always discussed our dreams and plans and all, always prayed together and every other thing, well, of recent have noticed she keeps things to herself and takes decision without updating me, but i just didnt get bothered or even question her, just flowed with all, but she said something oneday, she said if she wants to plan on anything she wont carry her mum along again, i was perplexed because her mum has been there for her, been everything to her, support, care, prayer and all, i tried to make her see reasons but she was adamant so i just let it slide. Well whats really making me bothered now is this:yesterday night, we had a long chat into the night, discussed about a whole lot of things, said our goodnights and all, next thing this morning i messaged her, normal goodmorning and all, asked her how her day was going to be and next thing she said was she was already at a venue for an interview, i was shocked, she knows am also job hunting but she didnt even tell me about it all through our phone chat and phone call all through yesterday night. I actually care about her and all and even planning on probably getting settled with her maritally when its time, but with all this attitude of hers, am really thinking of bailing and facing my life squarely, not involving her in anything concerning me, but am just perplexed and confused about the whole thing. Pls i need some advice.

Calm down, its possible she got the msg late, or she just decided to keep it to herself, till when she is back from the interview....Include her in ur prayer, your own changes will surely come too.

Just keep on watching her closely and see the outcome

izaray:
Calm down, its possible she got the msg late, or she just decided to keep it to herself, till when she is back from the interview....Include her in ur prayer, your own changes will surely come too.

Well, its actually possible, i thought along that line, but then on other occassions she would have messaged me, but anyways, thanks for the advice, will keep her in my prayers and good thoughts, i really care about her though.

rebirthforgoody:
Just keep on watching her closely and see the outcome

�,thanks.

shizzy07:


�,thanks.

Uwc

shizzy07:


Well, its actually possible, i thought along that line, but then on other occassions she would have messaged me, but anyways, thanks for the advice, will keep her in my prayers and good thoughts, i really care about her though.

Two love birds wish you guys all the best.

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Reduce the way you say and all
Maybe she will start putting u into consideration when next she's planning her schedules

Life is per head!!!
Never forget that fact...

try fucking her a little make sure she reaches orgasm... na she go dey find you come your house for cool update...she will even start doing they job hunting for you...

greencard:
And all
And all
And all

Reduce the way you say and all
Maybe she will start putting u into consideration when next she's planning her schedules

lol,

mayorkyzo:
Life is per head!!!
Never forget that fact...

hmmmm, true though, but then one cant stand "alone" for life..... thanks for the advice ....