thesicilian:
It's too late to cry when the head is off. The nice guys are now going for good girls also.

pocohantas:
It's on NL, I see threads trying to make nice guys come off as fools. I keep asking, who is a nice guy? Who is a bad guy?

Let 'nice guys' be.
So many ladies still find them attractive.
All around me, I see nice responsible guys getting married every weekend. They're very much in demand.

Don't try to subtly coerce them into changing. There's a woman for every man.

Blackfyre:
Someone is making this issue about men, asking who is a nice guy who is a bad guy..... That one no concern any of us here....men know who they are...She should first answer us who is a nice girl and who a bad girl is!....

Blackfyre:

You have the wrong idea of a bad guy to a nice guy...no vex, how old are you?

Blackfyre:


No need for euphemisms, call him for what he is, he is a sissy not a nice guy... Now do you care to share the things you did to him that he tolerated and he shouldn't have?

Blackfyre:


You have the wrong idea of a bad guy to a nice guy...no vex, how old are you?

Evablizin:



So nah nice guyz weh deserve leftover abi? When nice guyz were begging and pleading,you snubbed them,well nice guyz over to you guyz.

TSOM:

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There's no one fits-it-all definition of a 'bad boy'...or a 'nice guy'; but a 'nice guy' in the context used by the thread creator, is one who's, not only chilvarous, but ditches his pride and dignity and belittles himself for a female he admires.



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That's the OP's definition of a "nice guy". But in the real sense, that type of " nice guy" is a servile dimwit with no pride or self-worth. The Heavens forbid I play blind while any guy within my circle of close acquaintances act like that.

LaEvilIMiss:
hahahaha ahaahaha it always comes down to old-age and maturity and as the world would have it.. it only comes from Experiencing (since mumu's never want to learn from Elders) it yourself. Sadly 50% of it is by Choice and the other 50% by Circumstance.

Choice because every decision we make comes as a matter of choice. if it is a hard-choice then make a sacrifice to make the right choice and not just give in to circumstances.

Circumstances because we do not choose the circumstances under which we are conceived. could be in a Club trying to be babymamas to 2face and wizkid or davido or worse some broke-ass fcukboy forming swagger with codeine and SK.. viola! you came about or could be your parents were not privileged and had to make do with what they could spare making you hustle the rest in the midst of sexual vultures in Lagos. Your parents could still be well-to-do but you just love badt guyz.. welcome to Karma biiitch!

Nice Guys.. stay focused and hustle smart and hard.. there is a priceless virtue in being nice.. it kills the ignorant stereotype the girls love Alpha-males. It is not a virtue but a trait needed to survive in the age of dinosaurs.. not today

UBGG:


Well, I know I was with one who took all the crap from me no sane, self- respecting man should take from anyone. Even so, It was I who left.

He was a very 'nice guy' which by the way I think is a euphemism for a sissy.

yemmie:


But don’t give me high blood pressure trying to prove your feminism

Adakintroy:



Bros free her na..she Don learn.

Welcome home dear!

You will get your heart desire.

Evablizin:



So nah nice guyz weh deserve leftover abi? When nice guyz were begging and pleading,you snubbed them,well nice guyz over to you guyz.

Tapout:


Bro help me out with the coded message na pls... I no get strength to read between any line

johnime:
am a pretty girl with welcoming attributes, a 19 years old 300 level student. But I think something is wrong with me, at times I think and end up tearing so bad.
Ever since my last relationship by last year November, it's been difficult getting another date, at first I didn't consider it an issue cos I know am pretty and young too but right now I can't help but panic.. Have been single for a whole year, no sex, no fling, no boyfriend. Is something wrong with meOr did my ex bf curse me?? I don't know.

Apart from my parents, I don't have any guy at all that could dash me even 5k, not even subscription. Nlers please is something wrong with me?? The funny and annoying thing is that most people don't even believe I don't have a boyfriend, they are always like "fine girl like you?? Na lie jor".

Am just confused and worried. Isn't this something I should be worried about Am not disabled ooo, am not ugly at all, I don't have bad personality. Am even a seamstress ooo plus my academic excellence. So please what's the problem I know a lot of bad girls with bf that would die for them, ugly girls too. And I wonder if I have an issue I can't see. Have always wished to marry immediately after my N.Y.S.C, but is this how I will marry when I can't even get myself a boyfriend??
P.S. that my ex is the only guy have dated and it took me months to get over him. Now I believe am fully over him but I can't get another date..
nlers followers something is wrong with me right Please my identity should be hidden

TSOM:
Chivalry is a means to an end.
Be vague, be smooth ( super smooth), be curt when you should be but never let any woman take you for granted.

Talk that talk, walk that walk but never be predictable or do what every other guy does.

Once you master words and its power, you could become a nice guy with a 'bad boy' persona.

[b]Women never take Misters Nice Guy seriously, ever. [/b]

UBGG:
I'd still take the 'bad guy' over them 'nice guy'.

Who would want to be with a pathetic yes-man forever? I know not me.

Be strong. Dominate me. Know who you are. Support me when it's right. Put me in my position when it's wrong. Be Alpha male.

OEPHIUS:
Dear Nice Guy,

I don’t know you yet but I’m so ready to date you. Seriously, I am. For a long time, I dated bad boys. Yes, I was that girl you blame for always coming in last. I guess I dated bad boys because, somehow, I liked their unavailability, sexy sideways glances, and late-night calls. I fed off the chase and mystery they provided me. I saw them as a challenge that I always happily accepted. Let me tell you, I’ve dated so many jerks throughout the years. A lot of times, I ended up being disappointed with how it ended with them, and wondered why I always had such blind optimism about these guys I clearly knew were jerks to begin with. But to be honest, I don’t regret any of it now.

I learned a lot from each and every one of those bad boys. I learned something from every un-answered text, from every “I’m just not looking for a relationship” talk, and from every lame excuse as to why he just couldn’t make to my house party until after 1 am. I guess I never let the jerks get to me. I realized it was never me; it was always them. I was born with an abundance of self-confidence. Maybe that’s why I was never too bothered by each guy who was a jerk to me. Maybe it was because I was smart enough to realize I never actually wanted to end up with a jerk. It was always you I wanted, Nice Guy.

With all that being said, I’m ready to date a Nice Guy. I’ve learned all the lessons I need to learn from bad boys. I now have the ability to distinguish between when to give up on a relationship and when to fight harder. I know all the excuses and lies and can see when it’s right to say a big ‘f*ck you’ or an ‘okay, I’ll let you make it up to me.’ I know what it’s like get all dressed up for a night out only to sit in your room watching Netflix, crying and staring at your phone because the person you had plans with never showed. And that a “got too drunk sorry” text is not a sufficient excuse or apology. I know all these things. My mom always said that the problem with people who end up unhappy is that they don’t know how to walk away from something that has already served it purpose. Well, I can see now that bad boys have served all the purpose they possibly could in my life and that it’s time for me to learn a new lesson. I want to learn from you, Nice Guy.

It’s time for me to learn what its like to have someone to fall back on when I feel weak. It’s time for me to understand what its like to open up to someone without the fear that I’ll be emotionally shamed or that it will scare them away. It’s time for me to understand why people write love songs or tear up at the end of the notebook. I want to know what it’s like to be desired for more than my body, for someone to look at me with passionate eyes, slowly but surely falling in love with my mind, body and soul.

I want to know what it’s like to have someone who will always show up, who will always make time for me and who will always respect me. I want to know what it’s like to be able to count on someone, and know that even though love is never safe, I will be safely hurt by them. Mostly, I know I can learn all these things from you, Nice Guy.

I don’t want anyone thinking I hate bad boys. I don’t hate them; I’m just done with them. I have to thank bad boys for a lot actually. Bad boys have taught me how to depend on myself. How to pick up my broken pieces. They’ve allowed me to secure the perfect break-up remedy. Booze, friends, rebounds, cry, workout, acceptance, find new bad boy, repeat.

I understand myself so much better because of these bad boys. I know what I’m like at my worst. But I’m ready to know what I’m like at my best.

I promise you this, Nice Guy: I don’t know you yet, but I will be a nice girl to you in return. I will show you what you’re like at you’re best. I will treat you with the respect you deserve and will always answer your call when you need me. I will show you what all those bitchy girls couldn’t.

So, I guess all there is left to say is…

I’m ready whenever you are. TC Mark

https://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2014/04/dear-nice-guy-i-wasnt-ready-for-you-before-but-i-am-now/
https://twitter.com/C_NyaKundiH/status/932296171623796736

pocohantas:
It's on NL, I see threads trying to make nice guys come off as fools. I keep asking, who is a nice guy? Who is a bad guy?

Let 'nice guys' be.
So many ladies still find them attractive.
All around me, I see nice responsible guys getting married every weekend. They're very much in demand.

Don't try to subtly coerce them into changing. There's a woman for every man.

markode777:
One more thing: State the number of abortions you have done....5, 6 or 8? lets know, so that you won't put this "mumu" nice guy that will come for you hopes of having kids in jeopardy.

I know a girl who has aborted up to 4 times and she is 21.

TSOM:

You do realize you don't have to smoke, drink, do drugs or be caught up in vices to be a 'bad boy', right?

Being a 'bad boy' doesn't necessarily mean you have to be a serial cheat who's scared of commitments.

There's no one fits-it-all definition of a 'bad boy'...or a 'nice guy'; but a 'nice guy' in the context used by the thread creator, is one who's, not only chilvarous, but ditches his pride and dignity and belittles himself for a female he admires.

The one who'd call four times in a roll until she picks her call by 10.00pm and send her a good morning text eight hours later.

The one who'd accept the "I was too busy to pick your calls or call you back" or "I don't have airtime on my phone to call" excuse when you inquire why she doesn't call even when you call her regularly.

The one who wouldn't mind her chatting with other people on her phone when you both create time to hang out.

That's the OP's definition of a "nice guy". But in the real sense, that type of " nice guy" is a servile dimwit with no pride or self-worth. The Heavens forbid I play blind while any guy within my circle of close acquaintances acts like that.

cstr1000:

That is a shame though, because that is exactly who they need for the long haul .
Human beings are always extreme. You are either too nice or too brash. And being too nice is the better option 10 times out of 10.

I am not a nice guy but I want to learn to be nice.
Time don reach na.

Blackfyre:

Like I cared for your quotes or your opinion, it was just a bait....
Let me return my pistol, the bullet is not meant for you...
I intend to take the kill shot...