OP is just immature.

Not because he didn't penetrate her but I can pick traces of inexperience in his dealings with the girl.

Diffident:
same thing happened to a friend of mine (a guy) few weeks ago. it was God that saved him o cos the lady later confessed that she's from marine world .so I beg you in the name of whatever you believe in,please do not sleep with her.. Awoof dey run belle o

awoof dey purge belle true true... I'm always VERY careful when it comes to sex... ''wetin dey sweet for goat mouth, dey kill goat''

jokolo282:
hello guys i want to share to you guys about my experience with this facebook girl that i met on facebook. it all started in early September , this strange girl added me on facebook she's beautiful tho. she started commenting in almost all my pictures that i uploaded, as a handsome and sensible guy that i am i had already sensed something so i waved it off without giving it a second thought. few days later this girl send messages (greetings) via DM and i replied gently, from there she insisted that we should start introduction which we did. fortunately enough this girl is in my home-town, which is Kogi state and actually the way she described her place for me it's not that far from where i live in kogi state. NOTE: i was Presently at Abuja then.
she seems happy and cheerful we Exchange numbers.
I'm the kind of guys that don't take girls matter serious, so she was expecting me to call but i didn't. she later call me and i picked we discussed normal, she started teasing me asking me to greet my gf, which i told her that i am single oo. she didn't believe me, she said a cute guy like me without gf that she wouldn't believe that.
actually i told her i broke up with my gf 2yrs ago ever since then i decided to stay single. it's a choice not lack of opportunities.
we keep on discussing all days through chats on facebook and sometimes she would call me and finally she open up that she really wanted us to meet whenever i return. which i accepted her request and i promised her that i would be home shortly Which i even fixed a date towards ending of the month , she was so happy, ever since then she kept disturbing me to come home before even the actual date i earlier fixed, i told her to be calm that she should not be too eager and anxious that i would definitely come home soon.
we keep on chatting via Fb and she told me all about herself and her , i asked her about her boyfriend and she told me they broke up long time ago ever since then she remained single also. i laughed � and she claimed that the guy was the only that ever touched her ever since then No one else.
behold September ending 28th i call her that i was on my way home, she was so happy and excited and she even told me even if we can meet that same day which i rejected because it would be too early for that atleast let me use that day for greeting my village people's � she laughed and i hang the Phone.
behold finally i had landed hale and hearty and i called my friend to come and pick my luggages at bustop he quickly rushed and met me there boarded a motorcycle and headed to my main home straight.
1weeks later after i was done with greetings and visiting friends and loved one's and relatives i finally decided to invite this girl over to my place NOTE: within that one week she diturbed me that she wanted to come over, but i told her to wait for some days.
back to business, i called her unexepectedly around 10:50am in which she picked and i told her she can come over now, she was silent for 5seconds and she later open that she's sorry that she can't leave the house now that her mom travelled this morning and she's looking after the Kids. As a smart and uncaring guy that i am i quickly replied her OK and ended the Call. 5mins later my phone rang and Behold it was her, i was amazed why was she calling again after the excuse, nevertheless i reluctantly picked the call and she quickly told me to give her my address which i gave her, and she promised she would be there in next 30mins, i waited patiently for her and she later turned up, i stood at the door entrance and waved her to come in as she dropped from the bike, she came in and kept staring at me, i directed her to sit on the couch, we chatted for a few minutes which i noticed she had started Becoming uncomfortable because of my friends trooping in and out of my sitting Room, and one stubborn one that would refused to Go �, after chit chatting i told my friend to excused us, in which he did, so i entered my room and told her to come inside, and she follows. i sat on my bed, resting my back on the wall, was surprised also when she sat on my bed turning her back at me, whereas there are chairs in the room which she can sits on. As a smart guy i know what her thoughts was, but unfortunately she didn't know i am different . i told her to face me but she refused, let the truth be told this girl is definitely an angel she's beautiful and glowing. i compliment her beauty, and she also compliments that I'm handsome also.
i asked her about her educational stuff, she told me she's in ss3 and she's 19yrs, hmm so this girl is not yet through with secondary school i "murmured" later on she started telling me about her life her goals this and that bla bla, bla, which i wasn't really interested to know, because none of my business.
Remember: i once told this girl lies on facebook chat jokingly that i am a good Fucker, in which she praises me, but the truth is that I'm still a VIRGIN o, i haven't had sex before even with my ex, reasons best known to me, but i involved in all this Romance stuff, kissing and smooching, several girls that i had once met is either smooching nor kissing that's all some left me because I'm not giving them sex, which i don't care, because alot keeps trooping in all days. but to Knack i forbid it. i am in my early 20s back to BUSINESS:
this girl was waiting for me to make the first move, but i didn't, when she knows that i was not making a move she readjust and came closer and started smooching my leg, anyway i don't want to dull this moment atleast let me Make my own move too, but still surprised because this was her first visit and she wasn't shy atall.
i grabbed her and pecked her slightly on her cheek she giggled and i started kissing her, quickly she hold me back that this is not right, that this is our first date and she's afraid that i might got aroused and have sex with her which she didn't like, i laughed and told her that i can control myself i Have been in this game for long, that nothing will ever make me has sex with her, if that's truly what she's afraid of.
she agreed and i started, we spent almost 20minutes on each other arms smooching, then i told her to go naked for me in which she refused at first, that I'm not her boyfriend that she can't, but i told her there's nothing wrong after that she agreed and started loosening her cloths she was only wearing pants on. i compliment her body, but she kept covering her firm boob's out of shyness which i forcefully removed her hands from it and smooched and play with , we kissed for long and she started whispering that i should bleeped her, i was surprised, but she mean it, but i told her No, that i wouldn't telling her that she was the one that said no sex only romance, before we started, but she now told me that she had changed her mind that i should Bleep her that she wants me now, but i refused and turned down her request, she got angry that if i don't want to Bleep her then i should stop the romance because it's arousing her.
so we stopped for a while and rested our back back on the bed still naked.
i started thinking what causes this change in her that she was asking me to Bleep her so eagerly, i didn't seems to understand her, where'as no condom she wanted me to Bleep her skin to skin.
was still meditating before i know what's happening this girl has climbed ontop of me and started kissing me roughly on my neck face everywhere, and she was using one hand to shift her pants on one side of the entry of her virgina, as a sensitive guy, i already know what she was doing, she gave me little Mouth Action for 10seconds and i was at alert also. few seconds later, this girl grabbed my hard erected joystick and wanted to troop it inside her virgina as she grabbed it and wanted to fix it in i immediately pushed her off me and i told what the Hell was she doing, then she replied that she's feeling Hot that she wants sex, and then i told Her : is that you're not afraid of being pregnant and again I'm not putting on condom she said she does not care that her Ex didn't use to used condom on her, that he knows when he's about to cum and he would quickly removed and released out.
i laughed, few minutes later i started cumming due to the sensational Mouth Action she gave Me. she laughed and told me that she was surprised that I was cumming that she thought that i would never cum, because of almost 2hours of smooching and kissing yet no sign of cumming. i laughed and i told her i trained myself to be that way.
i started putting on my shirt and i told her to do the same, which she frowned at me and started putting her on her clothes. and she told me that she can't believe of what just happened between us that she's ashamed because our first day of meeting and we endulged in all this stupid stuff. she also said i was the only guy she ever get to do this with in her first visit ever she was born.
i laughed it off she got dressed and i helped her zip up Her back cloth and i accompanied her out to get her a bike, i gave her 200naira to use for transport, ever since then i keep running away from this this girl , she keeps on calling me that she wanted to come but is either i would told Her that i was at work or i wasn't at home. i just wanted to cut all ties with her, i stopped chatting with her and even started avoiding her calls and i literally later travelled back to where i came from. she kept calling even now as i type this, her missed calls was the thing that even made me to type all this self.

NOTE: THE REASON WHY I KEPT AVOIDING HER:

MAYBE SHE HAS A DISEASE
SHE'S TOO CHEAP
HER STRANGE CHARACTER
etc. pls what do you guys think

the girl like you just marry her now she like you dat why she allow to romance her on her first day with you ....just give it a second thought ok.. but first of all pick her called

its a normal tin na,jst get a condom and Bleep her

You are not man enough.

Galaxydon1:
You are not man enough.

Gerrout e, na pussy pesin take be man?
Hediot

Na all this mumu mumu OT una take dey deceive the younger generation.

jokolo282:

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thanks for your contribution bro. wow actually i like your own ways sha, i have being always careful when it come in dealing with girls sha. I'm not surprised one thing i know for sure is that, the sex that i refused to gave her , she had call multiple times and text me that i should even pay a visit to Her. but i still refused, i don't know why she was so desperate about me having sex with her ooo, that's was why i totally cut all ties with her, cuz i am not dealing with sex with any ladies
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thanks for your contribution bro. wow actually i like your own ways sha, i have being always careful when it come in dealing with girls sha. I'm not surprised one thing i know for sure is that, the sex that i refused to gave her , she had call multiple times and text me that i should even pay a visit to Her. but i still refused, i don't know why she was so desperate about me having sex with her ooo, that's was why i totally cut all ties with her, cuz i am not dealing with sex with any ladies

That is the thing bro. Many girls today lack a lot, from mental depth to emotional and financial stability. Imagine you're a man of class and you mingle with them: you go just fall from grace to grass. They can take everything from you while giving you nothing, not really because they are stingy, but because they don't have much to offer.

As for myself...I roll with girls with class, not just class in the sense of swag, but in mental depth and emotional stability as well. The rest are just for f##k...and even at that, I'm still very selective of what I bed. I've very little patience for !d!ots.

gypsey:
yes! I want the Address of the marine world girl too, infact i would like to take her for a drink and after we fuvk, i want to see the colour of the marine girl vagina. i hope she have big bottom too.

Hahahahahah na wa oooo
Nigerian's and their believes

Diffident:
he he he... wetin you wan take the address do?

I wanna locate her,let the awufe kill me

jokolo282:

i won't waste my precious time exchanging words with you. cuz you don't deserve it. "attention seeker"

lol.... Go back to your worthless life outside nairaland

theGigolo:

Gerrout e, na pussy pesin take be man?
Hediot

Na all this mumu mumu OT una take dey deceive the younger generation.

die slow

Martin0:


Hahahahahah na wa oooo
Nigerian's and their believes

Ignorant folks!

Juveniles coming here and telling fairytales, OP all this crap is in your imaginations, if you get attention from a female you complain, if you don't get attention you complain, maybe you need some bloody growing up to do! take it from a guy who have been married twice and still messing around.

Martin0:

I wanna locate her,let the awufe kill me

lol

gypsey:
Ignorant folks!

Diffident:
lol

Yes ooo

Dudeweedlmao:
Op only gets off (orgasm) by knowing that he's actions made a girl Hot. Your type doesnt like Vagina thats why you kept saying (for reason best known to me)

You have a weird fetish, might even be approaching homo sexuality

actually you're wrong, i want to reach some certain age before i start fucking , even though i will not Bleep cheap girls and one day stranger, hope you're now satisfied? now that i have open up my intention to you

Enoma222:










the girl like you just marry her now she like you dat why she allow to romance her on her first day with you ....just give it a second thought ok.. but first of all pick her called

really? i will think about it. and thanks for the advice

this op is still a teenager and i can imagine the girl he is talking about should look like. children of nowadays.

the op has no balls and afraid to sex. anxiety set in that he might failed. and to the point he cum while romancing. nairaland is truly giving children voice and guts.

well i like him for the fact he is a good writer.

Galaxydon1:
die slow

Boy you ain't got nothing to say, be humble - fucking sit down.

It's obvious the OP is still a kid. U said ur in ur early 20s
I suspect u just turned 20.

No reasonable matured guy would go through all this sexual tension with the intent to not Bleep.

That's just torture. It's better to have left it at that.

Oga boss OP. Twale! The thunder that will fire you is preparing for Shiloh.

You no wan lash the geh but you smooch am for 2 HOURS . Then you still cum on top! But you left the geh 'wet and Hot' yh? And na the girl dey strange Abi?

You no just get conscience sha. I pray make girl do am to you too. If you were really sure that you no wan lash then you shoulda stopped after the first 30 mins of smooching..but no. 2 hours romancing. And people here are calling you man, mtchewww. Rubbish. You only rejected her to boost your ego and feel you can say no to sex. Continue oh, small time na rape den go rape you.

Next time, go outside and buy condoms or do not bother smooching, you hia?? Child of the world.

jokolo282:

actually you're wrong, i want to reach some certain age before i start fucking , even though i will not Bleep cheap girls and one day stranger, hope you're now satisfied? now that i have open up my intention to you

Why did you go through all that but didnt bleep? You even came in the process thats to show how Hot you became, why toture yourself? doesnt make sense, you're the strange guy in this case, that girl is normal, except you think it's strange for a girl to like sex.

alexis007:
You're the lowest of the human specie....it is your type that sees f##king as some sort of achievement.

On the other hand, well done op. I truly understand this situation perfectly because I've been through it a couple of times. At one time, my nigger brought a dam from God-knows-where to my house with the intention of 'slaying' her there. Normal stuff is to excuse them while they do their thing, but I was cooking some meal and therefore can't leave for them. My mind was that the match would take place when I'm done. But then, the unexpected happened. My nigger striped this lady in my presence, and she was hardly worried about me in her nude state. He got nude too, fixed a condom on his shaft and bleeped her right before my eyes. It's more than disgusting to see two humans in perfect nudity shag before your very eyes. I walked away from them and paid undivided attention to what I was cooking.

Guess what...same b!tch asked my nigger to allow her try me. Of course he freed her. This b!tch was still in her nude...and she then began her antics to make me shag with her too. She offered me BJ, which was something I allowed because I wanted to see the extent to which she was ready to f##k me. But when an erection matured, she threw me on the bed with the intention of sliding my c0ck into her coochie. I pushed her off and told her I wasn't interested. What followed was incredible: she literarily begged me to f##k her, and of course I refused bluntly. I even told her that I might throw her out in her nude state if she doesn't accept my refusal in good faith. When she was about leaving with my nigger, she told me that I'm a very special person- that other boys would have jumped at the offer. She even asked me to show her pictures of my gf...something a girl would do when she's feeling inadequate.


Again, I had something similar with my immediate ex....the girl would cook for me, do house chores for me as well as pass the night in my house on several occasions. The third night she slept over, her demons arose- she disturbed me for s€x. I refused as usual....it kinda feeds my ego turning girls down. After some minutes, the pestering continued, lasting into almost an hour. Finally I thought about sh@gging her as a way of paying her for doing domestic duties for me, and we f##ked that night. That one night of $€× gave birth to a two-year long distance relationship that she really worked hard to maintain, as she made trip to my place at least one in a month, while staying not less than a week whenever she comes. I'm glad we even broke up- those trips affected her academics drastically, and she might even have to do an extra year in school. However, whenever I looked back, I remember her as one of those rare girls who successfully pressured me into f##king them.

Congrats once again, op. If we had plenty of your kind, ladies would never have the opportunity to emasculate guys because of some minutes of fun.

and you get sense...collect bj..wat were u tryn to prove...ma problem with d op z smooching and den refusing..if u Neva wanted no nid for d pre-intimacy..

OK. OP, I've read your opening post and just glanced through it again. I've also read all the comments about it and here's my take based on what you wrote.
Kudos for the self control but in my opinion, you both have issues. You for:
1. Passing off yourself as someone you're not. You're told her you're not a virgin but a good lover which you're not.
2. She was really into you from the beginning you we're not, but you goaded her nonetheless.
3. You asked her to strip and do other pre intimacy stuff when you never intended to have sex with her.
On her own part, for throwing herself at you in a desperate manner. It's one thing to like someone but another thing to go after the person desperately when there are signs that this person is not into you as much as you are. Things are bound to go wrong. If you had wanted her desperately as she you, you both would have probably ended in regrets.

francis247:
OK. OP, I've read your opening post and just glanced through it again. I've also read all the comments about it and here's my take based on what you wrote.
Kudos for the self control but in my opinion, you both have issues. You for:
1. Passing off yourself as someone you're not. You're told her you're not a virgin but a good lover which you're not.
2. She was really into you from the beginning you we're not, but you goaded her nonetheless.
3. You asked her to strip and do other pre intimacy stuff when you never intended to have sex with her.
On her own part, for throwing herself at you in a desperate manner. It's one thing to like someone but another thing to go after the person desperately when there are signs that this person is not into you as much as you are. Things are bound to go wrong. If you had wanted her desperately as she you, you both would have probably ended in regrets.

Why would they have ended in regrets?

Pls no pun intended, am going through a friendship where she's so into me but I am not that into her.