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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:54pm On Nov 22, 2017
Daeylar:



Don't play victim, you tried to be slick with your sane female and misguided comments, if you can dish it out, you can take it.
And keep the emotional blackmail to yourself. Its pathetic.



"my dear, you will be raped and nothing shall happen"

Wasn't the above your statement? Where you supported rape and said there is nothing the woman can do? You remain disgusting.

I say it again,
I will say it a 1001 times, even If a woman is nàked it does not give any fuçking body the right to rape her.

Doesn't mean the woman should go nude in front of a man.

Learn from sagamite. And stop encouraging rape with these excuses.




cool It does not matter what she was wearing or what she was doing,"no" does not mean "yes"-Mirabel center.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 6:55pm On Nov 22, 2017
Oyindidi:
Thanks for this post. 2 years old kids are raped in this wicked world we live. Did they seduce the imbeciles that raped them? I wonder why people post trash for likes

smiley smiley

That "seduced" excuse needs to end, I'm tired of it.

Like sagmite said, just ask, if she says no or acts somehow,
Just bounce.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:55pm On Nov 22, 2017
Oyindidi:
I saw your previous post. Nothing can justify rape, even if the girl is walking unclad on the street.
You know what I have got to say? SMH. sad

Nothing can justify rape, okay. But don't go about with an attitude that screams "I want to be raped". smiley

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by WrathOfHadez(m): 6:56pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
I don't want to imagine how it feels to be a mancheesy

Some people are so blinded by misandry that they won't see this point though. To be fair, men face far more problems than women do when it comes to sex and its likes.
grin we’re in the era of nudity; the worst time to be a healthy man.

I personally call it, the era of testosterone stretch

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:58pm On Nov 22, 2017
MhisTahrah:
That post is disturbing.
No, it is not. Perhaps,I was too blunt with my last statement but the truth is what it is.

IMO, it is rape only if she tells you to stop repeatedly with violence and you don't stop. Don't be moaning no and be expecting a nigga to stop. The moan is turning him on the more,you know? smiley
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by shaybebaby(f): 7:01pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
You still aren't getting my point. smiley

My point is women have more control over sexual instincts than men do. If you see a fine-butt man that you like,it is normal that you feel like jumping him but do you actually make the move to jump on him? No. You just admire the butt and move on. However, it is not the same for the opposite sex.
If a man sees a big-butted woman he likes, he is not just going to admire it, he is going to want to do things to it. That's how the psyche of a man works.

Please tell me, do you think about having sex with every fine-butted male that you see? grin
Nope, I admire and move on. Because I know it's not everything one sees one must have. Nothing about gender here, just life.

But in my sphere, it's the same for the males. They do not jump females they find titillating. Even when they have pvssies being thrown at them, if they do not want it, they do not.

So this makes me think, it's not a gender thing, it's an individual thing. Afterall, they are men, just like the ones you speak of.

So, are you trying to equate thought to action? This isn't minority report hun, he /or she is allowed to think whatever they like. It's not a crime.

However it becomes a crime if they act on it without consent regardless of they were "visually" provoked.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Ikillfools: 7:02pm On Nov 22, 2017
WrathOfHadez:
grin we’re in the era of nudity; the worst time to be a healthy man.

I personally call it, the era of testosterone stretch
sentiment flying left, right and centre. I wonder why some women can't seem to get it into their thick skull that the more you dress nude, the likely for you to get raped. like why plunge yourself into the lion's den? perhaps they forget there's only one Daniel.

let's ask ourselves how many times we hear about moslem girls and reverend sisters being raped.

nothing can justify rape, bro. but any girl who dresses almost nude and gets raped should have a rethink.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 7:03pm On Nov 22, 2017
Sagamite:


Joyful.

The forum has turned into United Retardom! Now full of morons!

No fun or joy in being on it anymore.
Does this mean you will be going back soon? grin
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Oyindidi(f): 7:03pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
You know what I have got to say? SMH. sad

Nothing can justify rape, okay. But don't go about with an attitude that screams "I want to be raped". smiley
Don't shake your head dear. Most times victim of rape don't have the rape me attitude. I'll advice you to rather be a voice against rape. Like I said earlier, nothing can justify rape.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Oyindidi(f): 7:05pm On Nov 22, 2017
Daeylar:


smiley smiley

That "seduced" excuse needs to end, I'm tired of it.

Like sagmite said, just ask, if she says no or acts somehow,
Just bounce.
There are people selling sex, go to them than rape someone that is unwilling. That seduce is a lame excuse they give.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by obowunmi(m): 7:06pm On Nov 22, 2017
Sagamite:


You are reetarded!

They lie to you to date them. I am sure you don't call that "rape".


You are a RAPIST.

Next time, just ask and tell the women you want to knack.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by tjmc: 7:06pm On Nov 22, 2017
No mind them. If after u tidy them they ask u for something u no drop, them go take am say na rape u rape them
Na the age wey we dey now. Media judgment on unjustified cases and feminism
Jupxter:



I wonder why they carry the matter with such heat. But these same ladies give it freely day in, day out

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 7:08pm On Nov 22, 2017
shaybebaby:

Nope, I admire and move on. Because I know it's not everything one sees one must have. Nothing about gender here, just life.

But in my sphere, it's the same for the males. They do not jump females they find titillating. Even when they have pvssies being thrown at them, if they do not want it, they do not.

So this makes me think, it's not a gender thing, it's an individual thing. Afterall, they are men, just like the ones you speak of.

So, are you trying to equate thought to action? This isn't minority report hun, he /or she is allowed to think whatever they like. It's not a crime.

However it becomes a crime if they act on it without consent regardless of they were "visually" provoked.
Well...I have not encountered much of the western men so I don't know what they reason like. Come down here to Nigeria and you will see that it is a totally different ball game. grin

I think it is not an individual thing though, perhaps it has more to do with the society. Perhaps the western man is just like the African man but he can control his urges because the society has taught him control. Perhaps, all the blames should be put on the society. smiley

I am in agreement with your last statement though.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 7:10pm On Nov 22, 2017
Oyindidi:
Don't shake your head dear. Most times victim of rape don't have the rape me attitude. I'll advice you to rather be a voice against rape. Like I said earlier, nothing can justify rape.
Well...if you followed the argument well, you would see that we were debating about those with the "rape me" attitude.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by WrathOfHadez(m): 7:11pm On Nov 22, 2017
Ikillfools:
sentiment flying left, right and centre. I wonder why some women can't seem to get it into their thick skull that the more you dress nude, the likely for you to get raped. like why plunge yourself into the lion's den? perhaps they forget there's only one Daniel.

let's ask ourselves how many times we hear about moslem girls and reverend sisters being raped.

nothing can justify rape, bro. but any girl who dresses almost nude and gets raped should have a rethink.
Simple logic. Even western laws frown at indecent exposure and nudity.

These girls don’t just know what the sight of a nakèd firm female flesh does to a healthy male.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Oyindidi(f): 7:15pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
Well...if you followed the argument well, you would see that we were debating about those with the "rape me" attitude.
Okay dear
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by VERDA: 7:15pm On Nov 22, 2017
raumdeuter:


Do you also have a list of what you wear, Do you also apply this common sense and not wear body hugs, shorts or even go bare chested for fear of getting raped

I give up man,whatever rocks your boat.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by shaybebaby(f): 7:16pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
No, it is not. Perhaps,I was too blunt with my last statement but the truth is what it is.

IMO, it is rape only if she tells you to stop repeatedly with violence and you don't stop. Don't be moaning no and be expecting a nigga to stop. The moan is turning him on the more,you know? smiley

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjPMsjphCUU

Just in case you missed the first time I posted it. You need a re-education.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 7:16pm On Nov 22, 2017
Oyindidi:
Okay dear
Yes ma'am. smiley
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 7:18pm On Nov 22, 2017
shaybebaby:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjPMsjphCUU

Just in case you missed the first time I posted it. You need a re-education.
I am not interested in what the UK thinks and neither do I need a re-education. smiley
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by tjmc: 7:21pm On Nov 22, 2017
grin grin sad
Oyindidi:
Potential rapist, get off my mention!
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by shaybebaby(f): 7:22pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
Well...I have not encountered much of the western men so I don't know what they reason like. Come down here to Nigeria and you will see that it is a totally different ball game. grin

I think it is not an individual thing though, perhaps it has more to do with the society. Perhaps the western man is just like the African man but he can control his urges because the society has taught him control. Perhaps, all the blames should be put on the society. smiley

I am in agreement with your last statement though.
Well, a lot of things happen in Nigeria that do not have place in a civilised society. But this will digress from the topic even though it explains part of the mentality prevalent in the society.
Things like civic duty, social responsibility etc.. All alien concepts in a nation where rule of law has broken down. Also to borrow my arch enemy's words, "failed education system".
The mindset you speak of is but one of the many symptoms.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Oyindidi(f): 7:23pm On Nov 22, 2017
tjmc:
grin grin sad
Some post dey provoke person. I'm sorry for saying thatgrin tongue
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by shaybebaby(f): 7:24pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
I am not interested in what the UK thinks and neither do I need a re-education. smiley
Suit yourself, I made my diagnosis. None as blind as those who refuse to see. wink
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Ikillfools: 7:27pm On Nov 22, 2017
WrathOfHadez:
Simple logic. Even western laws frown at indecent exposure and nudity.

These girls don’t just know what the sight of a nakèd firm female flesh does to a healthy male.
How can they? when all they see is their narrow mindedness.

i'm no longer surprise why many of this set of women are celebrated spinsters. imagine the number of sex stores growing in Nigeria.

why tempt a sleeping hyena?

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by VERDA: 7:28pm On Nov 22, 2017
WrathOfHadez:
Simple logic. Even western laws frown at indecent exposure and nudity.

These girls don’t just know what the sight of a nakèd firm female flesh does to a healthy male.

The same point I have been trying to make some dude here understand but he is more interested in winning an argument than see reason.You don't go walking about half naked in the name of freedom to wear what I wish.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Ikillfools: 7:29pm On Nov 22, 2017
shaybebaby:

Suit yourself, I made my diagnosis. None as blind as those who refuse to see. wink
people can't always see what you see. I mean, who else can see with your own eyes, eh?

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 7:30pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
No, it is not. Perhaps,I was too blunt with my last statement but the truth is what it is.

IMO, it is rape only if she tells you to stop repeatedly with violence and you don't stop. Don't be moaning no and be expecting a nigga to stop. The moan is turning him on the more,you know? smiley
I beg to differ with the emboldened.People react differently to certain situations.While victim A may have been more vocal and expressive,victim B may be too stunned to even act. Once she/he says no and she/he does not respect her/his decision,it is rape.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by hanassholesolo: 7:32pm On Nov 22, 2017
Why was this post deleted? i can bet is one of them feminazi mods that deleted it. Literally nothing abusive about it.

Are moderators allowed to delete post that hurt their feelings? even if no rule was broken

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by shaybebaby(f): 7:32pm On Nov 22, 2017
Ikillfools:
people can't always see what you see. I mean, who else can see with your own eyes, eh?
True, but someone with eyes shut willfully sees nothing at all.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Ikillfools: 7:36pm On Nov 22, 2017
shaybebaby:

True, but someone with eyes shut willfully sees nothing at all.
Sometimes the only way to see is to be blind. hope you know some blind people see more than those who ain't blind?

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