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Need An Advice Please by funarosho(m): 1:36pm On Nov 23, 2017
A lady came for two months program in my school where I work. Two of my boss fought over this girl on who is going to date her. She insisted that she can't date any of them cos dy r both married. One of my oga now begged me to help him talk to d lady, which I did but she asked me a question dat why didn't I talk to her about myself instead of helping my oga out dat she just can't date him. Along the way we got close dat my boss got angry dat he gave me a job to do I'm doing it for myself of which at dt particular time, I've not started anything with her. Now one thing led to the Oda we are now dating without my ogas knowledge. Now my question is ds. How should I go about telling him cos we are planning something serious together. Secondly, should I let her go first before revealing it to my boss or I should tell him bf she finished her program.
Re: Need An Advice Please by IAMSASHY(f): 1:38pm On Nov 23, 2017
undecided u ar joking wt ur job, anytime ur boss finds out, even if d lady has finished d program and gone, he wl stl fire u provided he has d rite to do so. If ur boss cn fight bc of Dat lady den firing u is a sure thing, choose between her and ur job

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Re: Need An Advice Please by Mulahub: 1:41pm On Nov 23, 2017
Power play. Every man wants to be respected. If he finds out he will feel betrayed or disrespected. Let her honor their invite and tell them she cannot date them. Then you can build ur relationship u must not tell him is he ur father if he notices and asks fine. If not keep ur cool.

Let her go to were... Be wise

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Re: Need An Advice Please by Mulahub: 1:41pm On Nov 23, 2017
IAMSASHY:
undecided

War apun
Re: Need An Advice Please by GraveMan(m): 1:45pm On Nov 23, 2017
Dnt Tell Your Boss Yet, Mk The Rltnshp An Under G So Your Boss Wont Know. Then Shook Him With Yur Wedding Invitation Afterwards

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Re: Need An Advice Please by RichiB(m): 1:50pm On Nov 23, 2017
GraveMan:
Dnt Tell Your Boss Yet, Mk The Rltnshp An Under G So Your Boss Wont Know.
Then Shook Him With Yur Wedding Invitation Afterwards
Dem go still sack ahm grin
Re: Need An Advice Please by funarosho(m): 1:52pm On Nov 23, 2017
IAMSASHY:
undecided u ar joking wt ur job, anytime ur boss finds out, even if d lady has finished d program and gone, he wl stl fire u provided he has d rite to do so. If ur boss cn fight bc of Dat lady den firing u is a sure thing, choose between her and ur job
actually he can't sack me but just thinking dt he might feel betrayed dt all ds while I was doing my own thing of which I tried for him but d lady just choose me over him
Re: Need An Advice Please by funarosho(m): 1:53pm On Nov 23, 2017
RichiB:
Dem go still sack ahm grin
nawa ooo u harsh oo
Re: Need An Advice Please by IAMSASHY(f): 1:54pm On Nov 23, 2017
undecided dnt 4get dat he has colleagues at d office dat wl surely no xup and leak d info 2 d boss, nt as easy as u tink
GraveMan:
Dnt Tell Your Boss Yet, Mk The Rltnshp An Under G So Your Boss Wont Know.
Then Shook Him With Yur Wedding Invitation Afterwards
Re: Need An Advice Please by newyorks(m): 1:57pm On Nov 23, 2017
somethings are inevitable and some are consider if is worth causing u ur job should ur boss finds out. some men dnt have consience.

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Re: Need An Advice Please by funarosho(m): 1:59pm On Nov 23, 2017
IAMSASHY:
undecided dnt 4get dat he has colleagues at d office dat wl surely no xup and leak d info 2 d boss, nt as easy as u tink
wat do you think I should do
Re: Need An Advice Please by IAMSASHY(f): 2:12pm On Nov 23, 2017
undecided now, dnt 4get dat u hv only known dis lady mayb jst close to 2 months, ask ursef, is she worth it? Ur boss may nt sack u bt he wl surely feel betrayed and he may even implicate u, if dis problem finally leads 2 ur sack, wl she still stand by u? Women I no wl say one tin 2day and surprise u wt anoda tin 2mao,if u tink dis lady wl stand by u come what may, den dnt boda telling hm, he wl find out himself and wen he does and asks u tell hm evrytin dat happened and d lady shud also call hm and Tel hm she personally chose u
funarosho:
wat do you think I should do

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Re: Need An Advice Please by tosyne2much(m): 2:30pm On Nov 23, 2017
Apart from the fact that your boss is married yet a chronic womanizer, what you did is "betrayal" l no matter how you try to justify your action.

Since you've advertised yourself to her and a relationship has kick started, I will advise you make it a hide and seek relationship. Avoiding any form of familiarity with her at the place of work
Re: Need An Advice Please by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:20pm On Nov 23, 2017
another fool thinking with his dikc instead of using his brain.... your boss sent you to talk with this babe, and in return you went to double cross him and date the babe?!?!?! if i was your boss, you would be fired YESTERDAY!

as much as yourbosses are deluded, doesnt change the fact that you should stand by them OR refuse to do what they send you to do...but you certainly cant accept to talk to the babe and then backstab them.
Re: Need An Advice Please by makydebbie(f): 5:23pm On Nov 23, 2017
Chai! This dude is trading his job for this lady. It is finished.

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