I am dating a man who is over fifty years old. I love him and he loves me. He is married but his wife is abroad with his family. If he asks me to marry him,I wont mind . He treats me well. In fact better than young men of my age whom I have dated. Many will criticize my choice but it didn’t start out like this. I was once in love with a boy my age,he broke my heart and I almost committed suicide. Ever since,I have taken to liking older men whom I find better lovers,more giving and considerate.
My name is Tina and am 23years old. I got into my first relationship at the age of 16, while Mikel was 17years, a year older than me. It all started like play and before I knew it, I was head over heels in love with Mike. Everything about him excited me, from his looks, to his name, family. My life was all revolving around this young boy. If am happy, friends, family knew because he was around me. When am sad they knew he probably not happy with me.
I day dream of myself being his wife. Infact, I see me many times making his food as his wife. I thought nothing could separate us except death and i ready to die for him,I mean it, I was ready to take my life if anybody tried to stop me.when mikel is sick, I become sick. I even steal my parent money to satisfy him when he need something and could not afford it. It was that bad.
But God prevented me from taking my life few weeks after he started misbehaving. That was after he disflowered me. Prior to that time. I read on the internet how a young lady took her life because her boy friend dumped her. One of the many comments stuck and that was my saving grace after hell was let loosed.
To cut long story short he dumped me. After I had given him all I had,my life,my time,my virginity!
I swore never to have anything to do with my age mate. I began to see that younger men are immature, selfish…. As fate would have, all those around me after that incident where adults. I mean it was older uncles, neighbors, family friend, I was always in the midst.the took care of me, and over pampered me. I lacked nothing as before I could open my mouth for anything I got. I saw them as angel sent from above.
Currently, am a university graduate. am dating a 51 years old after I broke up with a 54 years old I just discovered was married but lied to me he was single.
Now my friends are pressuring me, teasing me that am dating men old enough to be my father.
Emma, loves me and treats me like a princess and I sincerely love him.
Please ma, is there anything wrong in dating a much older man? Besides, am ready to settle down as his wife cos no one treats me the way he does.


Tina


Mende, Lagos

Source: www.livelystones.com.ng

There's nothing wrong in dating older men

I prefer older men too

i will be following this thread closely.

op we want real story not ur cooked up story from ur blog

MhizzAJ:
There's nothing wrong in dating older men

I prefer older men too

there is nothing wrong in dating older women.


I prefer older women too

MhizzAJ:
There's nothing wrong in dating older men

I prefer older men too

Thank you sis they are more mature and they spend more and they don't last long

biacan:
Thank you sis they are more mature and they spend more and they don't last long

Loolz. Funny.

MhizzAJ:
There's nothing wrong in dating older men

I prefer older men too

You're not alone. But not Op's kinda old sha oooooo, that one na my papa mate.

Blackhawk01:


You're not alone. But not Op's kinda old sha oooooo, that one na my papa mate.

Not too old like up to 55 or even 50
Those older men are down to earth mehn!

biacan:
Thank you sis they are more mature and they spend more and they don't last long

Who told you they don't last long
Stay there

dingbang:
there is nothing wrong in dating older women.


I prefer older women too

If that's your choice...then it's fine
I find men of my age unattractive

You are a man so you won't understand when a female says she prefers older men

But we know Nigerian men prefer older foreign women

MhizzAJ:


Not too old like up to 55 or even 50
Those older men are down to earth mehn!

You're right, not all of them tho.

MhizzAJ:


Who told you they don't last long
Stay there

sis 90% of them don't last long and they spend much and treat you like a Queen

Blackhawk01:


You're right, not all of them tho.

Yeah
There are those that are immature but can't be compared to a guy within your age bracket

biacan:
sis 90% of them don't last long and they spend much and treat you like a Queen

Not so biacan
We all have our own sexual preferences and i respect that
In my own opinion...I think they know which sensitive body parts to touch...they know more in bed...they are more experienced...You never jam

Of course they gotta spend nah...they are very generous like they aren't stingy...they sure know how to take care of a woman

MhizzAJ:


Not so biacan
We all have our own sexual preferences and i respect that
In my own opinion...I think they know which sensitive body parts to touch...they know more in bed...they are more experienced...You never jam

Of course they gotta spend nah...they are very generous like they aren't stingy...they sure know how to take care of a woman

You know that awkward moment when he gives me money and I be like daddddy you're so sweet and he carries me up..... yes they are not stingy unlike some broke dudes here...... I tell you they a
very mature they don't react to things quick .......most of them are slow to anger

biacan:
You know that awkward moment when he gives me money and I be like daddddy you're so sweet and he carries me up..... yes they are not stingy unlike some broke dudes here...... I tell you they a
very mature they don't react to things quick .......most of them are slow to anger

They are less aggressive
Part of the reasons i like them

MhizzAJ:

They are less aggressive Part of the reasons i like them

Yes because they know more about life

biacan:
sis 90% of them don't last long and they spend much and treat you like a Queen

This one must have slept with all old men in her village. Shame!

biacan:
Thank you sis they are more mature and they spend more and they don't last long

bros when will u acquire sense

NoFavors:
This one must have slept with all old men in her village. Shame!

Nofavors shame on you Bianca said shame on you.......kiss the truth

biacan:
Nofavors shame on you Bianca said shame on you.......kiss the truth

ok olobo town council

MhizzAJ:
There's nothing wrong in dating older men

I prefer older men too

This dude.....Time never reach 2 use ur main

biacan:
Yes because they know more about life

Not like all this small small boys
The only thing they know is how to sag their trousers,club,visit brothels,party hard and have multiple side chics...Don't have that kinda time

MhizzAJ:


Not like all this small small boys
The only thing they know is how to sag their trousers,club,visit brothels,party hard and have multiple side chics...Don't have that kinda time

True talk sis which 90% of nairaland dude's are guilty of

Victornezzar:

This dude.....Time never reach 2 use ur main

Mtschewww
I won't even answer you

Thank God there are people here that have seen me offline

MhizzAJ:


Mtschewww
I won't even answer you

Thank God there are people here that have seen me offline

okay bro
am sorry bro

biacan:
True talk sis which 90% of nairaland dude's are guilty of

Don't mind them
Those ones that can't ever accept the truth

Victornezzar:

okay bro
am sorry bro

This deeper life girl leave me alone
I don't have your time

MhizzAJ:

Don't mind them Those ones that can't ever accept the truth

Broke ass dude's

MhizzAJ:


This deeper life girl leave me alone
I don't have your time

are u kidding me
how did u know my church

MhizzAJ:

This deeper life girl leave me alone I don't have your time