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marriage sha! So so different from dating.
I think you should tell her you dnt like it, show her you dont like it too.
Be Careful so you dont get stabbed

bitcoinmilliona:
My wife always tells her family all the details that happen in my home even the very messy quarrels. She spills our deepest secrets to the public when there is an issue. One of the times my father said he was very disappointed at me. This makes her family build resentment towards me. This in return make me feel uncomfortable with my inlaws and also dislike my wife. Now we have anoder family meeting i knw messy details wont be spared. What should i do?

Dude....sit her down and talk senses into her... be the man of ur house... you've got to steer ur family to the right direction... be smart, matured and reasonable...

Again, try to curtail the fighting habit...always be the first to hold ur words down if she's the ranting type... initiate a temper control technique...

Just try ur best to make ur home a real home and not a wrestle grown!

Someone said you should be careful not to get stabbed.... don't take his words for granted!!!

Have u tried confronting ur wife about ur displeasure in her attitude?

is it a must u go? avoid seeing them na since ur nt free around dem

bitcoinmilliona:
My wife always tells her family all the details that happen in my home even the very messy quarrels. She spills our deepest secrets to the public when there is an issue. One of the times my father said he was very disappointed at me when i cheated once. This makes her family build resentment towards me and my father filled with worry. When I visit they all are never free and im isolated. This in return make me feel uncomfortable with my inlaws and also dislike my wife. Now we have anoder family meeting i knw messy details wont be spared. What should i do? I feel like running away i swear. Marriage is so much stress

Marriage is not so hard the problem is people marry people who are not in agreement with them.

Please don't run away. No one is allowed to beat you ojare. Whew! When psychological children get married, orisirisi occurs. Which kind periodic family meetings Una dey get on top your marriage matter?

Anyways, tell your wife nicely to learn to wash your linens indoor. Whatever she bares out stays longer in the memories of people who don't love you like she does...when she forgets and forgive, the others are burden with the memory much longer. It is well o

Hmm

Stop cheating and leave no room for suspicions again. Its very hard to build trust when its broken.
Maybe when your wife sees you're trying to be a better you, she may also try and be a better her.

Have u considered stopping cheating? When you stop doing sordid and messy things perhaps there ll be nothing for your wofe to report
Oga your marriage is barely a year old and you are already cheating?
You lost your job almost immediately after marriage and your wife supported you yet you cheat?
How do you expect any respecr from your inlaws when you have repeatedly behaved poorly to their daughter?
You can't be a cheating broke husband and expect a red carpet treatment

Your sins are catching up with you and you are blaming your wife.
Dude, you are the annoying one here.

You cheated once. see ya mouth. Cheating is the height of irresponsibility, be it in business, exams, marriage. A cheater can't be trusted because nobody knows what you are upto next or maybe you are still doing it....no wonder dem dey look you with one kain eye. Nobody isolated you, you isolated yaself.
You don mess and now wan runaway from family meeting. ? , the sins men commit now lives with them and no longer after them. Mend ya ways and shut ya wife's leaking mouth.

I'm not married, so I don't know bro.. But what sort of meeting are u guys doing?

It seems u are really deep into the extended family stuffs...

I am not a fan of weddings but the few I have attended, I heard a quote like this... for this a man would leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife....bla bla bla..

why can't u leave you father and mother and sort your family problems without involving them

Maybe u are not a friendly person or someone ur wife trust yet, i have a feeling things were not like this from the onset but just degenerated badly due to lack of communication, which is the key.
Sit her down and explain why what she is doing is unhealthy and pls dont create a big deal out of it so it wont create anoda rift,if not she will hide and do it.
Overall, stop cheating, the truth is women can forgive cheating , but they never forget.

Marriage is a lot easier when we respect and ready for it.

Marriage on its own has its own challenges, which can be managed.

Don't add to it through avoidable deficiencies.

cant you guys have issues without calling your extended family for a meeting?you goofed seriously by cheating on her,your wife is goodoo cos she only gossipped you,me i will buy a new knife,sharpen it and chop off your balls(Eunuch in the making) so when next you see a woman you'll advise your penis...

LadySarah:
cant you guys have issues without calling your extended family for a meeting?you goofed seriously by cheating on her,your wife is goodoo cos she only gossipped you,me i will buy a new knife,sharpen it and chop off your balls(Eunuch in the making) so when next you see a woman you'll advise your penis...

Too harsh na

That is how my ex was one thing to me, and another to my family. Anytime we have issues I'll be dying quietly because I didn't want them to dislike him.One day I told him to go ahead and treat me as usual before my mom, he said he can't. I said okay. As water pass garri I told her who 'her son' really was. I'm glad I did.
If she cheated on op I'm very sure he will not only take the matter to family meeting, you will call township meeting.

Op seems you don't Av busy schedules at work.

U get time going every moment they summon you to their presence.

It's seems they are the one marrying u at home.

LadySarah:
cant you guys have issues without calling your extended family for a meeting?you goofed seriously by cheating on her,your wife is goodoo cos she only gossipped you,me i will buy a new knife,sharpen it and chop off your balls(Eunuch in the making) so when next you see a woman you'll advise your penis...

Please continue in this kind of lifestyle. Your space in Kirikiri is being swept & prepared right now.

alexialin:
Op seems you don't Av busy schedules at work.

U get time going every moment they summon you to their presence.

It's seems they are the one marrying u at home.

No she left the house.

yanabasee:


Dude....sit her down and talk senses into her... be the man of ur house... you've got to steer ur family to the right direction... be smart, matured and reasonable...

Again, try to curtail the fighting habit...always be the first to hold ur words down if she's the ranting type... initiate a temper control technique...

Just try ur best to make ur home a real home and not a wrestle grown!

Someone said you should be careful not to get stabbed.... don't take his words for granted!!!

what about if she is the type that flare up even when "temper control technics are initiated?

mysticwarrior:
what about if she is the type that flare up even when "temper control technics are initiated?

It means your techniques wasn't the right one.... Ask her what you should do whenever a quarrel is about to start... What do you do that flares her temper up? That you must stop doing!!!....

bitcoinmilliona:


No she left the house.

So anytime she leaves, u get summoned..

Honestly u have time


When she's tired staying in her parents house, only she will use her leg Waka come back home.

And with that been said. Such summons will end.

Just ignore them and go about your business.

alexialin:




So anytime she leaves, u get summoned..

Honestly u have time


When she's tired staying in her parents house, only she will use her leg Waka come back home.

And with that been said. Such summons will end.

Just ignore them and go about your business.

As in bro. I'm so tired. I knw i bleeped up but summoning us is so embarassing to me. Next time i wont go

LadySarah:
cant you guys have issues without calling your extended family for a meeting?you goofed seriously by cheating on her,your wife is goodoo cos she only gossipped you,me i will buy a new knife,sharpen it and chop off your balls(Eunuch in the making) so when next you see a woman you'll advise your penis...

Next thing na to take the knife cut your breast komot na.

Mumu

bitcoinmilliona:


As in bro. I'm so tired. I knw i bleeped up but summoning us is so embarassing to me. Next time i wont go

Good.. Don't go!

bitcoinmilliona:
My wife always tells her family all the details that happen in my home even the very messy quarrels. She spills our deepest secrets to the public when there is an issue. One of the times my father said he was very disappointed at me when i cheated once. This makes her family build resentment towards me and my father filled with worry. When I visit they all are never free and im isolated. This in return make me feel uncomfortable with my inlaws and also dislike my wife. Now we have anoder family meeting i knw messy details wont be spared. What should i do? I feel like running away i swear. Marriage is so much stress

So why'd you cheat though?
You seem to be more angry that you were caught than sorry that you cheated.

Naija guys in naija take a lot of things for granted.
Do you know that in this part of the world, that shit could make her divorce you, kick you out of your house and take all your shit?
You'd then probably be stuck paying her alimony for the rest of your life. Women are evil out here dude. Better thank God you are in naija.

2buffagain:


So why'd you cheat though?
You seem to be more angry that you were caught than sorry that you cheated.

Naija guys in naija take a lot of things for granted.
Do you know that in this part of the world, that shit could make her divorce you, kick you out of your house and take all your shit?
You'd then probably be stuck paying her alimony for the rest of your life. Women are evil out here dude. Better thank God you are in naija.

Did you just say women are evil,please don't say that again...

Well we all have annoying habits, unfortunately characters that are part n parcel of us don't just leave. D only tin u can do is to pray n beg her 2 keep issues in d home private. Pls do nt get tired of praying n counselling her. Over time she wil adjust.

Marriage is sacred to those who only has never been married.

Shit mehn

delishpot:


Marriage is not so hard the problem is people marry people who are not in agreement with them.

deep