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I'm In Love! by Incrizz(f): 1:11pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
...Or think that I am in love. Dunno. But I know that my heart is melted and feels like butter right now ![]() ![]() 'Don't know how long I can hold it all together. I really do not want to embarrass myself in front of this guy. I have always known that when a guy wants you, he wants you. But I also know that when a guy does not want you, there might not be anything in the world you can do about it to get him. If you scheme and even get him to marry ya, you may be in for one HELLuva ride! This mindset is the reason for the confusion I feel right now. There is this guy... He looks like all I have ever wanted. The first time I noticed him was when he offered me a cup of drink as i walked into the venue really late. He was looking into my eyes...the whole time. He excused himself afterwards and left. This has been the pattern. It's gone on for months. He comes around, exchanges pleasantries, small talks and that's all. ![]() He got to know my name after a while but he keeps forgetting it. One moment he's calling me Favour, the next time Gift, another Joy! I find it funny, and I have corrected him again and again. Everyone around me tells me the names he calls me are nice names too. And this got me thinking. The confusion now is: I have now developed feelings for this guy. I really like this guy but do not know if he likes me too. If he likes me, then why isn't he taking it further? And if he doesn't like me, why does he keep coming around and staring into my eyes like that? ![]() ![]() I don't think I can handle keeping the way I feel about him hidden any longer. But if I share it with someone or show him some green light and then get to know he's in a relationship, I'd just die of embarrassment! If he wants me, why isn't he pursuing? And if he's just being a friend, why that look in see in his eyes? He finds excuses to sit by me and all that... Or is it all just in my head? For him, I wouldn't mind giving up Freedom for Companionship. This guy is killing me softly and if we don't date, I'm going to really feel heartbroken for a while. *(...And no, I haven't seen him "scratch".) The truth is I don't even know what I am saying right now. ![]() ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love! by Nobody: 1:13pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Ask him out baeby ![]() ![]() I told one Ediat I liked him and he thinks I'm playing games...I'm heartbroken. ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Love! by ChopBellefull(m): 1:15pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
OP. The guy likes u too... Buh as african china talk e dey get whitlow for mouth.. Or maybe he z a kinda guy dah doesn't rush tins.. Just keep Showing him green light.. If ur light no too green. Then toast him na. Shuo. Yes toast him.. He ll blush ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love! by Nobody: 1:15pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Easy luv, don't keep your expectations too high to avoid heartbreak. |
Re: I'm In Love! by greencard: 1:18pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Mariinee: ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love! by Incrizz(f): 1:18pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Mariinee: This might be the hardest thing ever. I am of the school of thought that a guy does the chasing. What if he's in a relationship? I'll just die of embarrassment ![]() ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love! by Incrizz(f): 1:20pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
ChopBellefull: The truth is my green light needs polishing and cleaning. I don't even know where the switch is.. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love! by Incrizz(f): 1:21pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
acme6: Hmm...thanks. This really helps. |
Re: I'm In Love! by Nobody: 1:23pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Incrizz:You can stylishly ask him if he's got a girlfriend, no big deal in that. And no, a guy doesn't have to do the chasing. What if he likes you too but he can't bring himself to ask you out? You don't need to ask him out directly. You shouldn't be scared of rejection too. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love! by Nobody: 1:23pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
greencard:Mi Amor. ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love! by mikejj(m): 1:25pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
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Re: I'm In Love! by ChopBellefull(m): 1:28pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Incrizz: Ehen.. But op wait o.. What of that other guy dah is toasting you. Dying for ur matter night nd day.. What happend to him? |
Re: I'm In Love! by yhemster(m): 1:28pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Do whatever you want to do to get him as far as ur life won't be at risk. We have more regrets on what we thought abt doing but failed to do them. **no heartbreak is the same, you'll always get over it. |
Re: I'm In Love! by Incrizz(f): 1:30pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Mariinee: Okay. I tried to do some research. I asked a different guy, he's married, if it's okay for a girl to ask a guy if he's married. He replied with a resounding no ![]() He says I should never do such. @bolded Yes babe, I thought about that. But I concluded it was my mind playing tricks. I agree that a guy should not do all the chasing. But that I know that I'd be forever embarrassed if he's in a relationship numbs me ![]() I asked around. He's not married. |
Re: I'm In Love! by Earthquake1: 1:31pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
If na guy like me, babe you are in for a disgrace.. |
Re: I'm In Love! by Incrizz(f): 1:34pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
mikejj: Lol.. I will ask. Thanks. |
Re: I'm In Love! by Incrizz(f): 1:35pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
ChopBellefull: Are you sure it's me..? ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love! by Incrizz(f): 1:36pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
yhemster: Right...? ![]() ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love! by Incrizz(f): 1:38pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Earthquake1: Do you mind educating? Disgrace in that you don't like a girl chasing? ![]() ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love! by Nobody: 1:42pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Incrizz:Hmmm...Just ask him if he has a GF or tell him outrightly that you like him. |
Re: I'm In Love! by yhemster(m): 1:43pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Incrizz:Not necessarily asking him out, you can always initiate conversation. Afterall, there are lots of relationships that started just by time and chance without anyone asking each other out. Try become his friend and see what happens. When you're leaving the event, go to him and compliment his attire, shoe or anything. Have ur number written on a piece of paper if he hasn't ask yet, and give it to him. Try to avoid taking his, if he tries giving it, tell him ur phone(s) is dead. This will avoid you from call him first. You've given ur number, he needs to reciprocate by calling you first. When the conversation starts, be very careful not to present urself as a side-chick kind of girl. At the best ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love! by sparklezeee: 1:51pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Mariinee: I luv bold babes like you 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love! by greencard: 1:52pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Mariinee:howdy senorita? |
Re: I'm In Love! by Nobody: 1:54pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
greencard:I am very well and you? |
Re: I'm In Love! by Earthquake1: 1:57pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Incrizz: You can try your luck but know that it usually doesn't go well when a girl chases. |
Re: I'm In Love! by Blackhawk01: 1:58pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
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Re: I'm In Love! by greencard: 2:17pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Mariinee:I am good Sometimes I feel ur moniker is too long for me to call, Can I just remove few letters. Like "a,r" and the other duplicates and call u M... mine ? ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love! by ChopBellefull(m): 2:49pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Incrizz: So u wnt to tell me u don't have any admirer... Dah u put in pending list ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love! by Incrizz(f): 6:47pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Earthquake1: The funny thing is I know. I have always known. Thanks. But I find two green light tips interesting. I will compliment him as yhemster suggests when I can genuinely mean it. And then ask why he looks at me like that as mikejj suggests. I just need closure. I feel better now. He can date any other girl for all I care. Thanks peeps... |
Re: I'm In Love! by Incrizz(f): 6:48pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
ChopBellefull: Lol... |
Re: I'm In Love! by Earthquake1: 6:49pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Incrizz: Goodluck ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love! by bitchcrafts: 7:43pm On Nov 26, 2017 |
Woman up and send those freaking green lights... If he still doesn't understand, send him joromi by what's her name again? |
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